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Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so i thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long, i had the feeling that things are getting serious so i asked her if she's single before i waste my time, lo and behold she's not, i then asked her whats the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship, what was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

Guy,you get quarrel with full-stop?

Sonnobax15:
Guy,you get quarrel with full-stop?

yes, i do, any problem? Abi you wan reconcile us

Funny how I was able to understand everything despite your lack of full stops.

You did the right thing. Find someone else. In my experience, she’ll try to reconnect at the end of this year or the end of next year. Very annoying creatures. If you continue searching, you’ll laugh off her effort and enjoy life.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so i thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long, i had the feeling that things are getting serious so i asked her if she's single before i waste my time, lo and behold she's not, i then asked her whats the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship, what was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

You would have told her how you feel , you want her as your girlfriend.

Telling you she's in a relationship and want you as her bestie means she wants to have a serious conversation with you.

Diamond098454:
You would have told her how you feel , you want her as your girlfriend.

Telling you she's in a relationship and want you as her bestie means she wants to have a serious conversation with you.

Tell her what again? She don already place me in besty position which i vehemently refused, no time to waste again, we're not in the 20s, and I'm not one of these guys who'd rather be your friend than loose you entirely, make she dey go, i no want any bestie.

Diamond098454:
You would have told her how you feel , you want her as your girlfriend.

Telling you she's in a relationship and want you as her bestie means she wants to have a serious conversation with you.

When you give birth to a male child pass in this nonsense teaching to him.

So what exactly is Ur problem? Why are u wailing uncomfortably?..

At least she was honest with you, many girl won't even tell you that they are in a relationship?. ... Every friendship must not be sexual relationships na...

And as for billings, no girl will put a gun on Ur head to give her money.... I give when it's convenient for me.

Precious201010:
So what exactly is Ur problem? Why are u wailing uncomfortably?..

At least she was honest with you, many girl won't even tell you that they are in a relationship?. ... Every friendship must not be sexual relationships na...

And as for billings, no girl will put a gun on Ur head to give her money.... I give when it's convenient for me.

This mumu no sabi read, na she dey bawl say i refuse her besty offer, reverse is the case, why become hostile over someone refusing to be your besty, besty you ask favors from, I don't want such parasitism, yes no one forced me, but it shouldn't even happen talkmore of being forced, can i make denands of her in the name of besty?

L1TTLE:
yes, i do, any problem? Abi you wan reconcile us

😂😂😂😂😂

L1TTLE:
This mumu no sabi read, na she dey bawl say i refuse her besty offer, reverse is the case, why become hostile over someone refusing to be your besty, besty you ask favors from, I don't want such parasitism, yes no one forced me, but it shouldn't even happen talkmore of being forced, can i make denands of her in the name of besty?

sure U can make demands... Same way she can make demands... It's left for U to say yes or no, same goes to her..

Can't you express yourself without insult? You don't have to be toxic everytime
Is not good for your health. Enjoy your weekend

ExudeLoveToAll:
When you give birth to a male child pass in this nonsense teaching to him.

Hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can't stop laughing

L1TTLE:
Tell her what again? She don already place me in besty position which i vehemently refused, no time to waste again, we're not in the 20s, and I'm not one of these guys who'd rather be your friend than loose you entirely, make she dey go, i no want any bestie.

Unless you are in your 30s, I will say you did the right thing but if you are an undergraduate or still in your early 20s, I will not forgive you for missing a golden opportunity. Boyfriend has responsibilities but a bestie that is a good strategist understands the fact that he has no single responsibility and still has the master key to the strait of hormuz.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so i thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long, i had the feeling that things are getting serious so i asked her if she's single before i waste my time, lo and behold she's not, i then asked her whats the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship, what was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

You're very Smart,she just wanted to be using you to catch cruise in order words,you will be her cash cow, while feeding her man.God himself will not be happy with you.At the end you will be the looser.My people would say 'Afi ase gbojo,ara re lontan je' meaning individual who is using sieve to fetch water is deceiving him/ herself.

Desusi:
You're very Smart,she just wanted to be using you to catch cruise in order words,you will be her cash cow, while feeding her man.God himself will not be happy with you.At the end you will be the looser.My people would say 'Afi ase gbojo,ara re lontan je' meaning individual who is using sieve to fetch water is deceiving him/ herself.

thanks, i figured out she's looking for who to use from the onset, didn't see why she got upset because i refused her offer.

Ladies needs to learn how to handle rejection. It makes you look childish that you're throwing tantrums that a guy didn't align with your ways,.just like the girl her ex man broke up with and her next move was to come online and disgrace herself.

L1TTLE:
This mumu no sabi read, na she dey bawl say i refuse her besty offer, reverse is the case, why become hostile over someone refusing to be your besty, besty you ask favors from, I don't want such parasitism, yes no one forced me, but it shouldn't even happen talkmore of being forced, can i make denands of her in the name of besty?

Don't you know that if you keep hanging around her one day you will get an opportunity to enter her to-tow

R

L1TTLE:
thanks, i figured out she's looking for who to use from the onset, didn't see why she got upset because i refused her offer.

Why wouldn't her be upset with you,when you have outsmarted her? Gone are the days men are running on errands for women.Real men are wiser now.

Imindmybusiness:
Unless you are in your 30s, I will say you did the right thing but if you are an undergraduate or still in your early 20s, I will not forgive you for missing a golden opportunity. Boyfriend has responsibilities but a bestie that is a good strategist understands the fact that he has no single responsibility and still has the master key to the strait of hormuz.

Dear brother,

You think she'll open the strait of hormuz for free? 🤣🤣🤣 She'll definitely be billing him once in a while.

The billing I fear the most is Iphone,Birthday or Wig Billing.....Other stuffs like Data,Food,Groceries etc I can do it effortlessly but you see those Birthdays,Wigs or New Phones billing are Brazyyyyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂😂

Diamond098454:
You would have told her how you feel , you want her as your girlfriend.

Telling you she's in a relationship and want you as her bestie means she wants to have a serious conversation with you.

No offense but the bold is a daft statement.

Sonnobax15:
Guy,you get quarrel with full-stop?

ignore the punctuations and enjoy the story.

L1TTLE:
Tell her what again? She don already place me in besty position which i vehemently refused, no time to waste again, we're not in the 20s, and I'm not one of these guys who'd rather be your friend than loose you entirely, make she dey go, i no want any bestie.

If you are the bestie, you can still have sex with her na
.so why the annoyance ? Or are women no longer sleeping with their besties?

CocaineLord:
Dear brother,

You think she'll open the strait of hormuz for free? 🤣🤣🤣 She'll definitely be billing him once in a while.

The billing I fear the most is Iphone,Birthday or Wig Billing.....Other stuffs like Data,Food,Groceries etc I can do it effortlessly but you see those Birthdays,Wigs or New Phones billing are Brazyyyyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂😂

Na bestie wey mumu dem dey bill. It's when you try to compete with the boyfriend that the billing will start. As long as you take your place, full access to strait of hormuz is yours.

Friend zoned, you won't hear to stop being overly nice to women they will see you as a weakling. You should have found your way inside the coochie regardless but you dey play safe

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you leave story dey find punctuation

Sonnobax15:
Guy,you get quarrel with full-stop?

CocaineLord:
Dear brother,

You think she'll open the strait of hormuz for free? 🤣🤣🤣 She'll definitely be billing him once in a while.

The billing I fear the most is Iphone,Birthday or Wig Billing.....Other stuffs like Data,Food,Groceries etc I can do it effortlessly but you see those Birthdays,Wigs or New Phones billing are Brazyyyyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂😂

She don bill me once already sef.

TotoSuckker:
Don't you know that if you keep hanging around her one day you will get an opportunity to enter her to-tow

I don't have that patience and towtow no scarce bro, i have access to it anytime i want.

L1TTLE:
This mumu no sabi read, na she dey bawl say i refuse her besty offer, reverse is the case, why become hostile over someone refusing to be your besty, besty you ask favors from, I don't want such parasitism, yes no one forced me, but it shouldn't even happen talkmore of being forced, can i make denands of her in the name of besty?

You’re an arrogant kid. Grow up! You can’t sustain relationships or friendships with such temperament.

ambimo:
You’re an arrogant kid. Grow up! You can’t sustain relationships or friendships with such temperament.

And you're an ignorant adult, act your age and respect the old man you're becoming.

Imindmybusiness:
Na bestie wey mumu dem dey bill. It's when you try to compete with the boyfriend that the billing will start. As long as you take your place, full access to strait of hormuz is yours.

E be like say the girl bill am but no let am near the strait of Hormuz.