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“He started making moves at me..” – Lady recounts awkward moment with male friend after father’s death

A Nigerian lady has shared an uncomfortable experience she allegedly had after visiting her male friend to console him following the death of his father.

According to her, the young man had called her while crying over the loss of his dad, which made her decide to visit him and support him during the difficult moment.

In her words, she said:

“Seeing him in that state really broke me. Before you know, he started coming closer. He held me in a very funny way that I didn’t like.”

The lady explained that while she was comforting him, she suddenly became uncomfortable after noticing his behaviour had changed from grief to something more intimate.

She said she quickly texted her female friend to call her phone as an excuse to leave the house after allegedly noticing he wanted her to spend the night with him.

“As I looked down, he had an erection. So I gave him an excuse, and he replied ‘I thought you were going to stay and pass the night?’ Me that just wanted to pay you a condolence visit,” she added.

Her narration has generated reactions online, with many social media users debating boundaries, male friendships, and emotional vulnerability.

The lady added that experiences like this have made her lose hope in maintaining platonic friendships with men.

Her friend lost his dad, and what he did when she went to comfort him will shock you.

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But na him papa die na but his senior man is very much alive

That thing na one kind mumu something cha . Small nyash wey e go sight,e go just begin fall guyman hand . Can't respect itself in the presence of nyash

Do you know you can have erection when face with danger like you are face to face with death , or worried about a sick female friend you are taking care of, and you start to ask yourself if the Oga below is okay.. I find those episodes strange, especially when you are not thinking in that usual direction. I hope someone would give a medical explanation to the episode.

An unfortunate being. Someone that just lost his father can still have an erection. It means the old man means nothing to him. If you have lost someone so dear to you, even eating becomes difficult for at least 24 hours. The thought of not going to see that person again will destabilize you. But here, someone who lost his father wants to use Toto to console himself. A prodigal son. A father, when you say goodbye to him, you will never say welcome again for the rest of your life, and you can't mourn for a day.

Babangidapikin:
Do you know you can have erection when face with danger like you are face to face with death , or worried about a sick female friend you are taking care of, and you start to ask yourself if the Oga below is okay.. I find those episodes strange, especially when you are not thinking in that usual direction. I hope someone would give a medical explanation to the episode.

Extreme emotions trigger the heart to pump blood more than at rest.The indication is the blood can flow to your extremities including the organ causing an erection.It is more about blood flow than a sexual desire.

All these fake fabricated stories

Una see person way de package her boobs on camera why telling una story, una the take her serious, make una dey play

Be like say the OG no guide

Before dem bury him papa, he won quickly bury him dick inside you 🤣😂🤣😂

Babangidapikin:
Do you know you can have erection when face with danger like you are face to face with death , or worried about a sick female friend you are taking care of, and you start to ask yourself if the Oga below is okay.. I find those episodes strange, especially when you are not thinking in that usual direction. I hope someone would give a medical explanation to the episode.

Grief can be the greatest aphrodisiac

I have nothing to say.

We have more pressing issues abeg
Wtf is this

Which kind banny be diz?...

O ti wa fun condolences, o Fe Kon do e n sin....

Beer parlour discussion

We are not entertained

This is an old story, I first saw it about 2 years ago

Many ladies that act and talk like this, men see them as sxxx object. See her seducing people on camera. Erection, sxx, cumm, prik...dirty talk. No man will take someone like that serious.

See wetin de ur chest...u come de talk....like say if the guy carry 30k dollars for hand de flaunt am , u no go beg am for money ...women and being unrealistic

I have a friend that had his first kid this way. His female friend came on condolence visit after he lost his dad, they ended up having sex for the first time ever, and she got pregnant.

It's something about needing a shoulder to lean on while grieving, which sometimes turn into intimacy.

Stop hoarding pvccy, you should learn to be a cheerful giver

One of the disadvantages of dating a content creator... everything you do will be news the following day.

What's wrong with this one
They'll claim there's nothing they can't do for their friends and no length they can't go to make their friends happy
Common pussy wey you dey give boys for adugbo you can't use to comfort a grieving friend
Check well now she lost her virginity to indomie

All these creatures sef.. she said even if i wanted to do anything with you, not in this 'state'.

The way she dress will determine how he wanted to cure the grief 😁😁 guy need to have erection nothing do us na th lady dress sense to curse that one 😁😁 see her boobs sef for capcut 😁😂

I hope that's not the cleavage exposing dress she wore to the grieving guy's house?

Mtcheewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Connoisseur:
Grief can be the greatest aphrodisiac

Sex had under such condition is usually very fantastic.

I remember the time I fvkkced a widow the day after her husband was buried, till date it's still one of the best sex I have had

Buh u dey bill am steadily abi...



The day wey u suppose come through for him u deny him

raphy:
The way she dress will determine how he wanted to cure the grief 😁😁 guy need to have erection nothing do us na th lady dress sense to curse that one 😁😁 see her boobs sef for capcut 😁😂

Exactly what I was thinking. See all the boobs outside and she went to see a grieving guy like that.. The guy is grieving it doesn't mean his thing will stop reacting to stimulus.

a quickie is a good condolence method, ladies should know this

I hope it is not this clothe she wore to the condolence visit?

His father's death didn't touch him so much... Supposing he feel his father's death why would he get erect..As for me erection works with brain...If your mind it's not there,you can never have erection...The guy na mumu..

See the dressing of a so called "responsible" lady looking for platonic relationship...