₦airaland Forum

stan4b:
You must not get marry before having a baby of your own na.

I still smell something fishy though.

no b everybody wan leave in a dysfunctional way. Tomorrow she go come dey answer jamb question from her pikin like mummy where is my daddy? Mummy what happened btwn u and Daddy? Mummy this mummy that, come b children of these days wey dey ask questions pass lawyer.

Wahala everywhere! Seun tell us how e dey do u?

Where is this boo of the booless


"Chike" food don done oo

Haha

ayoncox:
She even have the audacity to say if you are broke, not if you are figuring things out

ayoncox:
She even have the audacity to say if you are broke, not if you are figuring things out

if u r broke can u even think of marriage

gassbee:
if u r broke can u even think of marriage

She wan buy husband at the same time throwing shakabula

ayoncox:
She wan buy husband at the same time throwing shakabula

but d husband is going to enjoy if both couples are disciplined and well behaved

Husband don scarce sha. If not for poverty and some people's religious beliefs, polygamy would have been the solution to this. My opinion, don't take it personally.

villagerspeople:
If she can take care of me, no problem.
Cos I deserve baby boy treatment.
I want to be pampered
😂

🙄

ayoncox:
But she already has money Na, just tell her to give you like 1 Billion Naira

Any woman’s money comes with terms and conditions that will reset your whole destiny

Isaiah 4:1

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139507222]“I’ll sponsor my wedding” – 41-year-old woman cries out for husband online, says she’s rich

A 41-year-old Nigerian single woman has stirred reactions online after publicly appealing for a husband on social media.

According to her, she is financially stable and does not mind supporting or even sponsoring her wedding if she finds a man willing to marry her.

In her words, she said:

“As a 41-year-old woman, I don’t mind sponsoring my wedding. I don’t mind assisting my future husband. Please, if you’re a man seeing this video, and you have nothing doing, maybe you’re still broke, you don’t have something doing at the moment, you’re not financially stable, don’t worry, I have money.”

The lady explained that she is not searching for a wealthy man because she already considers herself financially comfortable and only desires a committed partner.

She also opened up about her fears concerning age and motherhood, revealing that she hopes to become a mother before it becomes too late for her biologically.

“I don’t even need a wealthy man. I am wealthy already. I am rich. All I seek is a man that is willing to take me in as his wife.”

“Because menopause is at my doorstep. Please help me. I need to have a child of my own. I need to have a baby of my own. I need to embrace motherhood,” she added.

Her emotional appeal has sparked reactions online, with some people praising her honesty while others shared mixed opinions about seeking love publicly on social media.Romance

The video has continued to trend online as social media users debate marriage expectations, age, financial stability, and the pressure women face regarding motherhood.

I need a husband. I am not looking for a wealthy man, I am financially stable. All I seek is a man who is willing to make me his wife.” — Woman in her early 40s speaks out. pic.twitter.com/FXPCTzhtWT

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) May 24, 2026

]

You need a sperm not an Husband.[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139507222]“I’ll sponsor my wedding” – 41-year-old woman cries out for husband online, says she’s rich

A 41-year-old Nigerian single woman has stirred reactions online after publicly appealing for a husband on social media.

According to her, she is financially stable and does not mind supporting or even sponsoring her wedding if she finds a man willing to marry her.

In her words, she said:

“As a 41-year-old woman, I don’t mind sponsoring my wedding. I don’t mind assisting my future husband. Please, if you’re a man seeing this video, and you have nothing doing, maybe you’re still broke, you don’t have something doing at the moment, you’re not financially stable, don’t worry, I have money.”

The lady explained that she is not searching for a wealthy man because she already considers herself financially comfortable and only desires a committed partner.

She also opened up about her fears concerning age and motherhood, revealing that she hopes to become a mother before it becomes too late for her biologically.

“I don’t even need a wealthy man. I am wealthy already. I am rich. All I seek is a man that is willing to take me in as his wife.”

“Because menopause is at my doorstep. Please help me. I need to have a child of my own. I need to have a baby of my own. I need to embrace motherhood,” she added.

Her emotional appeal has sparked reactions online, with some people praising her honesty while others shared mixed opinions about seeking love publicly on social media.Romance

The video has continued to trend online as social media users debate marriage expectations, age, financial stability, and the pressure women face regarding motherhood.

I need a husband. I am not looking for a wealthy man, I am financially stable. All I seek is a man who is willing to make me his wife.” — Woman in her early 40s speaks out. pic.twitter.com/FXPCTzhtWT

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) May 24, 2026

]

Whilst this one's claim at needing a husband at the advancing, evening -newspaper age of 41 sounds fair and legit to the ears, on surface take, I would however advice any young man who care to listen to take heed and beware of her.

From the persistent and repetitive hammering on "I need to experience motherhood, I want to be a mother, my biological clock, menopause, I need to have a baby " should tell any sensible man who loves his dignity and worth that this one is only luring you over to serve as a baby making co-machine. It's all for her own interest. It's not about building love, understanding and commitment (oh, you dare not expect commitment from this type of desperado). She wants to have children and be in the league of mothers. It's not about you, Sir. It's not about her seeking to love you and respect you.
Even the line, " even if you are broke " is already her catching cruise with men and mocking those of you who fall into that category. If she can do this, she will aswell not show you respect that a husband deserves. You will forever be known as ' that man who was used to get kids by a certain 41 year old woman who came publicly in a certain year (they may or may not recall the year even ) to beg for a husband. You don't want that type of tag, now, do you? 🤣

Nothing beats getting to know a lady by yourself. I mean, you sighting her first and desiring her, followed by you making moves to woo her by yourself, conquering that phase, and then she also growing to love you (better if she loves you first as a guy and not you loving her first ooh. For your own good).

Besides, I don't see the wealth or riches she's talking about that she has reflecting on her. I'm not saying because she isn't dolled up, or, dressed like those slay baddies and packaged socialites. I'm saying that she doesn't look rich. The partial visible background of what seems to be her tailoring store is already giving regular average person vibe. The curtain et all being considered. I'm just pointing it out, not saying that she isn't doing well for herself. Not that.

Anyways, no right-thinking man would and should give her the time of day. For the stunt she's pulling online for clout and short-lived fame. You know naija, we will soon forget her in a few weeks time. By then, she'd have garnered a few thousand followers who just want to now begin to monitor her life and see how she turns out. Not a good way to ruin your previously enjoyed peaceful and private life. These people will ridicule her at any given chance they get.
Men will slid into the DM to take advantage of her vulnerability and try to bed her without the intention of marrying her. Some men will even go to the extent of tempting her with cash for " xex " and it will work! 500k and the thick thighs will swing open like the gates of the busiest Model public school in Nigeria.
She will gain but she will also loose. Self-respect, dignity, see-finish will surmount, if she isn't lucky , she might end up with an unanticipated STD from one of the many fine guys who she allowed to dive in raw on the premise that he looked too fine and fresh to be HIV or STD rdden. 🤣

These and more are the probabilities. She signed up for it when she made that video public.

All the luck she'll be needing, I wish for her to get. Her types are on this same nairaland choosing to rather perish in silence for the next 20 years owing to pride and a false sense of self-worth. Even with body counts in excess of 100 men. They are still deluded that they have " standards "

My 2 cents. It's lengthy? Eh, not my problem if you can't read. Voice note isn't a feature here, so, read!