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My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Preciousjewel01: 11:54am On May 03
There's a friend of mine who doesn't get enough attention from her man in her relationship. she's always complained but he gives her same excuse "he's hustling". This time things went outta hand,after series of complaint he gave her the most savage replies. Telling her " oh,you're an ingrate, you're mad, since its attention you want, you have lots of wooers, you can chat them up when I'm offline to keep you company, go and look for your Mr perfect". It ended that way, the guy asked for a break up. My friend came running to me explaining that she only complained that he's not giving her attention. But yet its break up he wants. I told my girl,this guy doesn't deserve you. or are you blind? There are things a guy can and cannot say to his loved ones even when angry. Forget the guy.

my girl didn't listen. she came to me again saying they've settled. That he's apologised.
how did he apologise? by saying "oya,I'll send you money in the morning" pls isn't that insult? But no,my girl was smiling when she received the msg. she also said, he wants to get her a new phone that's why he's been acting that way. Tried explaining to her that self respect isn't pride. Did I advice my friend wrongly ? she sees me like I hate her rn.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 12:14pm On May 03
There's always a constant tension between forces trying to hold a relationship together and forces trying to tear the couple apart.

Op which of the forces do you belong?

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by SeekerofTruth1: 12:16pm On May 03
Preciousjewel01:
There's a friend of mine who doesn't get enough attention from her man in her relationship. she's always complained but he gives her same excuse "he's hustling". This time things went outta hand,after series of complaint he gave her the most savage replies. Telling her " oh,you're an ingrate, you're mad, since its attention you want, you have lots of wooers, you can chat them up when I'm offline to keep you company, go and look for your Mr perfect". It ended that way, the guy asked for a break up. My friend came running to me explaining that she only complained that he's not giving her attention. But yet its break up he wants. I told my girl,this guy doesn't deserve you. or are you blind? There are things a guy can and cannot say to his loved ones even when angry. Forget the guy.

my girl didn't listen. she came to me again saying they've settled. That he's apologised.
how did he apologise? by saying "oya,I'll send you money in the morning" pls isn't that insult? But no,my girl was smiling when she received the msg. she also said, he wants to get her a new phone that's why he's been acting that way. Tried explaining to her that self respect isn't pride. Did I advice my friend wrongly ? she sees me like I hate her rn.

Your Friend is Like every other Average Nigerian Girl, Useless!

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by falcon01: 12:20pm On May 03
SeekerofTruth1:


Your Friend is Like every other Average Nigerian Girl, Useless!
grin

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Beckysexy(f): 12:25pm On May 03
@OP, can you connect me with the guy ?
I need to help them and settle this fight.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Daniiel: 12:30pm On May 03
I wish her the very best

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Stenewiser: 1:37pm On May 03
@op, make them watch you carefully, you're up to something.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Karlifate: 1:50pm On May 03
kiss cheesy cheesy

Your body go rest io (kuro nbe)
Papa tell pikin io (ehh)
Your body go rest io
Your body go rest io (ehh)
Dem come go confess io (so nu)
Your head go correct io (da nu)
You nor go forget io
Shey you get the concept


Dem no dey tell person Ja ara Ja ara
You go learn your own lesson Ja ara Ja ara
Everybody keep on searching Ja ara Ja ara
For miraculous blessings Ja ara Ja ara Ja ara

grin cheesy cheesy


**Just singing out loud.**

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Michelle55: 2:15pm On May 03
Beckysexy:
@OP, can you connect me with the guy ?
I need to help them and settle this fight.
Settle or collect ya own share from the guy? My sister tell us the truth, we know as e dey go grin

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Michelle55: 2:21pm On May 03
Op, it's best you leave this friend of yours to learn her mistakes the hard way, she's currently blinded by her love for money and other materials things which means anything you are saying to her now is bullshiit and wouldn't work.

Some mistakes are best experienced, by the time the guy degenerate to slaps and punching from shouting at her, sense fit locate her but if not... E consign am.

You sef mind ya business before she go tag you enemy of progress, dem no dey put mouth for couple's fight. When she tire for the guy matter, she go rest.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by theophorus(m): 2:29pm On May 03
We must realise that We may note be able to have it all in the Short-run but on the Long-run we can have them all. She has a Man that's ready to give her material things but there is no time for Attention.
She should understand that the guy trying to utilize Time for More financial resources now that the opportunity is here. If she knows she cant compliment the Guy she should please let Him go.

I also think you should encourage Her to get a Job or invest her excess time in productive ventures Or She should look for People like her who will give Her attention.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by MJBOLT: 4:33pm On May 03
but why is the op jealous undecided you too look for a man that will be giving you money na undecided

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by mmadu4: 4:39pm On May 03
your friend is useless and a time waster.. for me time is money . if i have a girlfriend that want my attention and also want money and material things from me then it wont work . . a responsible girl will be busy with her own life and be hard working instead she is trying to tie the guy down in the name of relationship . the guy is a real nigga . tell your friend to get busy with her life and be productive . and stop depending on a man for your daily bread . it aint cool makes you look cheap and none respected .

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Truvel(m): 4:41pm On May 03
Preciousjewel01:
There's a friend of mine who doesn't get enough attention from her man in her relationship. she's always complained but he gives her same excuse "he's hustling". This time things went outta hand,after series of complaint he gave her the most savage replies. Telling her " oh,you're an ingrate, you're mad, since its attention you want, you have lots of wooers, you can chat them up when I'm offline to keep you company, go and look for your Mr perfect". It ended that way, the guy asked for a break up. My friend came running to me explaining that she only complained that he's not giving her attention. But yet its break up he wants. I told my girl,this guy doesn't deserve you. or are you blind? There are things a guy can and cannot say to his loved ones even when angry. Forget the guy.

my girl didn't listen. she came to me again saying they've settled. That he's apologised.
how did he apologise? by saying "oya,I'll send you money in the morning" pls isn't that insult? But no,my girl was smiling when she received the msg. she also said, he wants to get her a new phone that's why he's been acting that way. Tried explaining to her that self respect isn't pride. Did I advice my friend wrongly ? she sees me like I hate her rn.
Op, Leave D Poor Guy Alone. Ur Friend Own Self Too Much. Dis Is What Idleness Can Cause. Na Which Kind Attention She Dey Find? Someone Is Huzzling To Make Ends Meet, Anoda Person Is Busy Pestering Him With Irrelevant Attention. Abeg Free D Guy.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by duduade: 4:48pm On May 03
Abeg concentrate on your own

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Yeyeboi05(m): 12:45pm On May 04
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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by slawormiir: 12:46pm On May 04
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Seniorwriter(m): 12:46pm On May 04
Haven seen the word "HER"...what comes to mind is FUTURE IS FEMALE! wink
Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by GboyegaD(m): 12:46pm On May 04
Hmmm...were you not told not to interfere in people's relationships for if you do, you have denigrated yourself? Take this as a learning point and allow adults make their decisions. You could hint but do not advice.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by tobtap: 12:46pm On May 04
heyaaa
Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by bolaayenimo: 12:46pm On May 04
E be like say you yaself no get job. If you have better things to do, na relationship matter you go dey settle?

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by KingZaddy(m): 12:46pm On May 04
...

You that posted this is the bigger mumu...


Your mumu friend is wiser than you, and you are a terrible advicer...


I am yet to see girls give reasonable advice to a fellow girl...


You could have just kept quiet on the issue because it wasn't a serious issues for you to intervene....


Women love attention but will be quick to leave you if you have no money, how can a man give you full attention and still earn money?

The guy is a man in control of his relationship, your friend is ungrateful as he said,, I hope she changes.

Attention can never be enough... The more she struggles for more of his attention the more she is hooked to him.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Kennyfancy(m): 12:46pm On May 04
Ok
Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Alejobs: 12:46pm On May 04
grin poverty has robbed many of their self worth and respect. powerbank for laptop, over ten hours guaranteed and twenty hours possible. Increase your productivity and work when you like. Don't get mistaken for a Yahoo boy because of your generator noise

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by kponkedenge(m): 12:46pm On May 04
OP your own case is different.... From your description, it seems your friend is still a child.

I have a close friend that earns very well and drives a flashy car, takes care of his gf very very well.... he recently hacked his gf's WhatsApp account and was reading her messages....he said he felt like dying after seeing her chats.

I told him money can't keep a girl because you don't even know what she wants in the first place....

May God grant us a good spouse that won't send us to our grave early on with stress.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Goldbw122: 12:46pm On May 04
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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by kolnel: 12:46pm On May 04
what's your concern with someone else's business?
go find a job.

relationships are very technical and personal, some people will only learn from their personal mistakes.
Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by ThreeBlackBird: 12:47pm On May 04
We know people like you. You don't have a working relationship and you keep pokenosing in your friends' own, serving as the perfect adviser and looking out to ruining what used to be a working relationship.

If the guy is broke, you shame him. If he's chasing money and giving less attention, you'll blame him. How do you even have so much information about how they settled their disagreement?

Until you find a man, keep the relationship and probably get married, you're in no place at all to advise your friend on her relationship, especially when it's not a violent one.

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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by Sharpproox: 12:47pm On May 04
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Re: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by TalkTalkTwins(m): 12:48pm On May 04
sad

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