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[A year into the relationship, the guy has been the one persuading to meet her parent, on her own end it has been excuses upon excuses and it looks like the man is so desperate, so he had to relax on the quest of meeting her parent. Along the line life happens, which the guy was figuring out things before everything fall in place again, not as if he kept her onboard wasting her time, life happens (job loss) my frd came into the relationship with pure intentions]

While I do not agree with the way she handled the breakup I think she's in her right to decide what she wants. She's the one dated for two years with very bleak agreement towards settling down. Abi how can you promise marriage next year when we are in May? That's if they had the discourse in May self.
She knows best and goodluck to her.[/quote]

A year into the relationship, the guy has been the one persuading to meet her parent, on her own end it has been excuses upon excuses and it looks like the man is so desperate, so he had to relax on the quest of meeting her parent. Along the line life happens, which the guy was figuring out things before everything fall in place again, not as if he kept her onboard wasting her time, life happens (job loss) my frd came into the relationship with pure intentions

FitCorper:
If your intentions are genuine leave her and relax your mind, they always gravitate back. But simple advice since her mom doesn’t support ur dating her just forget about the girl cos it will cause issues tomorrow.

They started together when she was 26, she is actually 28 going to 29 in months

MarkNsukkaBread:
Epic sarcasm

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

There’s nothing he can do about it, he just move on .

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

He has invested? He should withdraw his investment first. And make sure the other party is investing too.


Abi, how dem go use explain this nonsense?

AllBlack:
Jesus christ.

That girl better run for her life far from you and your friend. Such horrible writing.

I nearly ran mad reading this crap.

Better leave your friend matter and go back to night school.

nairaland English teacher take it easy

spiceadole:
Issalie.
How can your guy love a woman of 29 years that is almost an evening newspaper?
And if her mother says she should find another man, your guy should be happy because men are the prize. At 70,your guy can still marry 20 year old girl but this woman at 29 is already old and wrinkled. No man will want her at this age. Na she go lose.

He may not be among those who say ladies at certain age are evening whatever. He's obviously invested heavily in her and needs advice to navigate.

Nothing irritate me pass this word love
Your friend is suffering from oneitis. It is a mental problem when you see one woman as special forgetting they are all the same.

Proserpina:


You forgot to add "firgin" . "20 year old firgin " that's their spec on Nl

If na virgin we go allow am reach 22, tops 23

MarkNsukkaBread:
Epic sarcasm

Amebo.

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

Attimes I Dey feel like. When babe see who better pass you, the family go say you’re not spiritual enough. lol

The only person wey you sacrifice for na your wife

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted
My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

So long as the lady in question, no longer desires your friend, there isn't much he can do about it. He should respect her wishes and try to move on from it all. 😒

MarkNsukkaBread:
You're trying to marry a 57year old lady?

How old are you?

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So irs only emotional investment he has done
No financial involvement

He will wait long. He due to be over blocked

Seyzi:
My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

Do you know this question is one of the many reasons women divorce their husbands? Be very careful with a woman who doesn't know what's best for her

Run Ooooo!

Like the picture your added to the post , Game over ... The matter come be like mine when mama say she can't let her daughter to me , upon say she born one , she's at her mama house now..

Marriage is a thing of sacrifice and u may not come back alive from it.
So, it requires the family to look deep and not just the one u are seeing now

Your quoting her age gave you away..

Na you oga.. no be your friend 😀😃

But then on a serious note, I think they must have some serious concern even though you didn't see really touch on it in your post. The concerns may be your ability to take care of her.

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

Tell.your guy or yourself to move on...you are the price. I have a feeling say na you

Tell your friend to go for Thanksgiving on Sunday. He doesn't know what the Lord has done for him

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

VOLTRON...Defender of the universe! Who will hold you if you say its you?

It's always "A FRIEND OF MINE" . Shiiioooorrr

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

eepeepook:
What is new here? Na women way. I’m friends with a 57 year old divorcee who can’t make up her mind on anything. It is either “my mother,” “my pastor,” or “my friends.” If it works to your benefit, enjoy being a man and do the picking for both of you. No be you dey find relationship, friendship, marriage or what have you?

Who told you 'she can't make up her mind?'. She actually already made up her mind but e no just favour you ni.

spiceadole:
Issalie.
How can your guy love a woman of 29 years that is almost an evening newspaper?
And if her mother says she should find another man, your guy should be happy because men are the prize. At 70,your guy can still marry 20 year old girl but this woman at 29 is already old and wrinkled. No man will want her at this age. Na she go lose.

Take it easy o. Life and marriage is not all about sex and child bearing.

A woman at 29 may be getting quite old, but she can still bear 1, 2 or even 3 children.
And age refines character, hence some of them have better quality character than the younger ones.

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

You better pay attention to your parents position. All this your How can a grown up not deciding her marriage, will clear in your eyes when you enter.

spiceadole:
Where is the sarcasm? 😜
Is 29 years old woman not almost an evening newspaper?
Are men no longer the prize?
Can a 70 year old man not marry a 20 year old lady and still have children?

My brother who is 35 years old is still crying over a 33 year old woman.She broke up with him because he was fond of hitting her..So if this OLD woman didn't walk away,he would have considered marrying someone who is already post menopausal instead of going for 18 -20 years old girls.

Imagine ending a relationship at 33 ..She will die single and lonely.

You are just talking as if u are God that decides the fate of anyone by calling a human being created by God an evening newspaper women above 50yrs are still marrying and giving birth today so don't talk authoritatively like someone that knows it all.

Rule 21. Do the mods actually review topics that come on the front page. Nairaland is gradually loosing its value.

Aswear that person nor get brain. No waist time on am. Understanding far from am.

Dzzzz:
E Dey pain you..With all your education,you still don’t have the brain to decipher a message..

You nearly ran mad? Lmao. You obviously lack that part of brain when dey make person fit understand situations na you need 24/7 school. You nor Sharp

AllBlack:
Jesus christ.

That girl better run for her life far from you and your friend. Such horrible writing.

I nearly ran mad reading this crap.

Better leave your friend matter and go back to night school.

She has someone else who's promising asap marriage. Your friend should accept his L and move on. It will only hurt for a while but Las Las he go dey alright

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

spiceadole:
Where is the sarcasm? 😜
Is 29 years old woman not almost an evening newspaper?
Are men no longer the prize?
Can a 70 year old man not marry a 20 year old lady and still have children?

My brother who is 35 years old is still crying over a 33 year old woman.She broke up with him because he was fond of hitting her..So if this OLD woman didn't walk away,he would have considered marrying someone who is already post menopausal instead of going for 18 -20 years old girls.

Imagine ending a relationship at 33 ..She will die single and lonely.

Jesssu