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Every married woman has one man she loves more than her husband.

I know many of you will argue, but it's just the truth. If you give women the chance to marry more than one man, many of them will marry more than four men..
Sometimes, women idealize other men, creating unrealistic expectations..

A married woman once told me that she didn't marry her husband because he was her spec.
She married him because he is caring, family orientated and rich. But in looks, body structure and other things that personal, he's not her spec.

As a man, it's important to have in mind that you cannot tick all her boxes when it comes to the qualities she wants in a man.

If her boxes are 10 and you tick 5 or 6, she will consider you. But that doesn't stop her from admiring other men who possesses the other options you did not possess..
At that point, they will wish the man is her husband and if care is not taken, cheating is likely to occur.

If culture permits women, many of them will marry more than 4 men.
Women are more polygamous in nature than men and that's why they cheat the most, but the society is not ready for this conversation..

No matter how much your claim to love you, there's another man she still loves and wishes he was her husband/boyfriend.

And if that man she loves happens to be her Boss or her colleague at her workplace or even someone within her reach, there's nothing that would stop her from cheating on you with that man.

So, the earlier you understand that there's another man your woman loves, the better for you..

Have it in mind that you can NEVER tick all the boxes of a woman and those boxes you did not tick, there's another man out there who would tick it..

My sermon always sounds like a joke to some men but it's to whom it may concern..

I don't want to say much again but before I close the sermon, let me leave you with a Rongai proverb that says, "A woman who pushes her husband to try brand-new bedroom techniques is cheating."

It's a human thing - not women only.
You can say it's the animal trait in us to desire variety.

When society was civilizing, exclusivity of sexual partners made monogamy look like a good idea.

But the truth is, our kinks and desires change, but disciplining that love for variety is why society frowns on promiscuity in men and women.

But, the bigger truth is, no one man or woman can COMPLETELY fulfill the:
1. Financial Need
2. Emotional Need
3. Attention and Care Need
4. Sexual Need
5. Fetish and Fantasy Needs
6. Naughtiness Needs

...of another person. So, when a man or woman settles down with another human, it's all about SCALE OF PREFERENCE.

So yeah, admiration will exist outside your partner. But the question is DO YOU DISRESPECT YOUR PARTNER ENOUGH to go outside and act on those illegal desires?

Take this bitter truth in human relationships, a married woman opened up to me about her marriage and what she is passing through with her husband.

She said if not for her kids, she is done with her husband.

You're right a lot of married women marry because of society pressure and time is not on there side. Most married women don't enjoy sex with there husband. My ex girlfriend is married she keeps telling me how much she missed how I FK her I smoke marijuana most times to knack her watin no good. Her current husband is the religious type that doesn't think about MouthAction talkless of going multiple rounds always. I have to delete her number to avoid unnecessary drama. I've spoilt her so much that only a street oriented niggas can give her what I gave her. That's why I keep telling men that are not spoilt to marry virgin don't look at beauty I believe that girl will cheat on him with time. Sex is like good food to an exposed woman. A woman that has tasted good DK cannot stay with a weak man. If you like carry her go Switzerland and Dubai she will still crave for that good DK.

Speak for the women in your lives please.
While people (men and women) settle sometimes it is not enough to say every married person settled for who's available and not who they really desire.

This generalisation no make sense.

Women want every better man. So there is no end of better man that a woman will not want. And there are always better men than the last better man she wanted.

A husband is just the former better man that she got. but she still wants all the better man out there. After all these passes Chioma will still look for a better man.

Women have no end of wanting anything

Proserpina:
Speak for the women in your lives please.
While people (men and women) settle sometimes it is not enough to say every married person settled for who's available and not who they really desire.

This generalisation no make sense.

See lies!
You think we do not see how you react when a better man shows up?

Yes, you took the better man available at that time but you people are always looking for the better man whom you must take. You only remain with your husbands because the better man does not want you or does not want to marry you. And your plan of sexxing him into being hooked to you may not work. That is why you remain with the man you married.

But if and when you are sure that your plan of hooking the better man shall work, you will dump your husband and run and marry the new better man

Dtruthspeaker:
See lies!
You think we do not see how you react when a better man shows up?

Yes, you took the better man available at that time but you people are always looking for the better man whom you must take. You only remain with your husbands because the better man does not want you or does not want to marry you. And your plan of sexxing him into being hooked to you may not work. That is why you remain with the man you married.

But if and when you are sure that your plan of hooking the better man shall work, you will dump your husband and run and marry the new better man

You mistake me for the directionless unfaithful and gambling women in your life.

I owe you no justification neither explanation but I will tell you this, your reality isn't mine.

Bye.

Husbands are just for life-security and atleast to have respect/leverage in the social world, and most importantly children.

Your husband or marriage may not bring that exact happiness you are wishing for.
Definitely some other men behind the scenes may be the one giving you that joy you crave for.

Cum4me:
You're right a lot of married women marry because of society pressure and time is not on there side. Most married women don't enjoy sex with there husband. My ex girlfriend is married she keeps telling me how much she missed how I FK her I smoke marijuana most times to knack her watin no good. Her current husband is the religious type that doesn't think about MouthAction talkless of going multiple rounds always. I have to delete her number to avoid unnecessary drama. I've spoilt her so much that only a street oriented niggas can give her what I gave her. That's why I keep telling men that are not spoilt to marry virgin don't look at beauty I believe that girl will cheat on him with time. Sex is like good food to an exposed woman. A woman that has tasted good DK cannot stay with a weak man. If you like carry her go Switzerland and Dubai she will still crave for that good DK.

This is not True. Women enjoy every type of sex just like men however the difference is that while men believe in faithfulness and try to be faithful, women, on the other hand are hooked to fresh sex j(ust like men too) so they sneak out to have it. And they know to sneak to people whom you don't expect she would go to which is your father in law, your brother, cousin, uncle and a neighbour whom you think and say "is not like that". That is where she goes to get her satisfaction from as she knows that you are watching her in the places she expects you to watch eg bosses at work, big and better colleagues in the office, better neighbour etc.

So, it is because she used to high power of new sex with someone that she has never had sex with is why it looks like women do not enjoy sex with their husbands. No, this is not True. They truly enjoyed sex with their husbands only that like men they too are looking for the new fresh high sex that new people bring which was the reason why never wanted to marry in the first place and why they agree with men that marriage is a trap.

Proserpina:
You mistake me for the directionless unfaithful and gambling women in your life.

I owe you no justification neither explanation but I will tell you this, your reality isn't mine.

Bye.

Gurl, there too many ways to catch a liar,
If truly you are different from the women people see and sexx everyday , you won't have made this comment.

kelechi50:
Take this bitter truth in human relationships, a married woman opened up to me about her marriage and what she is passing through with her husband.

She said if not for her kids, she is done with her husband.

Women are never satisfied with anything in this world. Same also they can never be satisfied with their husbands. There is always a better man outside their marriage that they always want. So forget the true lies she is telling you.

Number 1 she misses the power of fresh new sex that is why to your surprise, she will sexx you, even though you are single or younger than her or married, or older than her.

Women love fresh new sexx and they want it regularly as they used to have it before marriage. Hence when they have not yet had it, they start behaving one kind complaining about everything and their husband.

That is why women would been very very happy if polyandry was allowed and that is why they love marrying men who they know must sleep around and do not like men who carry monogamy for head

Love800:
Husbands are just for life-security and atleast to have respect/leverage in the social world, and most importantly children.

Your husband or marriage may not bring that exact happiness you are wishing for.
Definitely some other men behind the scenes may be the one giving you that joy you crave for.

Women want EVERY better man. So, there are always many "other men" under the bed that she always wants to have.

Stephen0mozzy:
It's a human thing - not women only.
You can say it's the animal trait in us to desire variety.

When society was civilizing, exclusivity of sexual partners made monogamy look like a good idea.

But the truth is, our kinks and desires change, but disciplining that love for variety is why society frowns on promiscuity in men and women.

But, the bigger truth is, no one man or woman can COMPLETELY fulfill the:
1. Financial Need
2. Emotional Need
3. Attention and Care Need
4. Sexual Need
5. Fetish and Fantasy Needs
6. Naughtiness Needs

...of another person. So, when a man or woman settles down with another human, it's all about SCALE OF PREFERENCE.

So yeah, admiration will exist outside your partner. But the question is DO YOU DISRESPECT YOUR PARTNER ENOUGH to go outside and act on those illegal desires?

I think animals are more faithful than humans. So, it is an untrained greed and pagan behaviourial thing.

If people were not trained to hate stealing,killing, lying, they would have been normal like fornication and unfaithfulness.

I am not sure we are ready for this conversation

Same is applicable to the men

Infact our own be say na everyday we dey see them

Make the op dey play

giftson102:
Every married woman has one man she loves more than her husband.

I know many of you will argue, but it's just the truth. If you give women the chance to marry more than one man, many of them will marry more than four men..
Sometimes, women idealize other men, creating unrealistic expectations..

A married woman once told me that she didn't marry her husband because he was her spec.
She married him because he is caring, family orientated and rich. But in looks, body structure and other things that personal, he's not her spec.

As a man, it's important to have in mind that you cannot tick all her boxes when it comes to the qualities she wants in a man.

If her boxes are 10 and you tick 5 or 6, she will consider you. But that doesn't stop her from admiring other men who possesses the other options you did not possess..
At that point, they will wish the man is her husband and if care is not taken, cheating is likely to occur.

If culture permits women, many of them will marry more than 4 men.
Women are more polygamous in nature than men and that's why they cheat the most, but the society is not ready for this conversation..

No matter how much your claim to love you, there's another man she still loves and wishes he was her husband/boyfriend.

And if that man she loves happens to be her Boss or her colleague at her workplace or even someone within her reach, there's nothing that would stop her from cheating on you with that man.

So, the earlier you understand that there's another man your woman loves, the better for you..

Have it in mind that you can NEVER tick all the boxes of a woman and those boxes you did not tick, there's another man out there who would tick it..

My sermon always sounds like a joke to some men but it's to whom it may concern..

I don't want to say much again but before I close the sermon, let me leave you with a Rongai proverb that says, "A woman who pushes her husband to try brand-new bedroom techniques is cheating."

Same for MEN too

That is why MARRIAGE is a scam!

know many of you will argue, but it's just the truth. If you give women the chance to marry more than one man, many of them will marry more than

i am the one, the great chike
we go dey give them back to back
if their husbands makes them angry

THe way nairalanders demonise people of the opposite sex on this site, sometimes I wonder why many of them bother with relationships.

It's like many of you guys here misunderstand what love is. Love is not physical love, or lusting after someone, or loving someone because na ideal person. The hard cold reality is that there is no ideal person in this world. The person that a woman or a man idolizes has a lot of imperfections that would turn them off

Infact there are many women and men that have hooked up with their ideal person, only to be dissapointed as time goes on.

And all that hooey about man having 4 ideal women or woman having four ideal men or more. Oya , marry all of them, you go see how living in a house with mulitple people go bring out the worst in them self....

What is love? The OP and many people here are mistaking admiration for love. Love is, when you see that person at their worst and yet you want to be with them regardless.

I am not saying you should marry some manipulative person o. But all these posts on this site are really annoying me, because I have seen reality and it is not like nairaland abeg.

If your girlfriend or boyfriend has dumped you, abeg, no go on line dey yap nansense....move the eff on. It is life. HUMANS WILL LET YOU DOWN. Can you move on after being let down, and can you stop waiting for perfect somebody....unless you want to wait till the year 2390 ad, when people would be able to get their perfect partner by typing in some code into some computer that would synthesize some perfect human from some strands of DNA so that una no go complain again.!

SO u dey BELIEVE that G£ND£R in first place? they are MOVED by SIGHT! that's their HEART (EYES)

they LOVE WHAT THEY SEE, so you are correct, once they KNOW A MAN FINANCIALLY BETTER than their HUBS

Every? Dey whine yourself , faulty generalization .

The fact that something arouses your mind doesn’t make it true

giftson102:
Every married woman has one man she loves more than her husband.

I know many of you will argue, but it's just the truth. If you give women the chance to marry more than one man, many of them will marry more than four men..
Sometimes, women idealize other men, creating unrealistic expectations..

A married woman once told me that she didn't marry her husband because he was her spec.
She married him because he is caring, family orientated and rich. But in looks, body structure and other things that personal, he's not her spec.

As a man, it's important to have in mind that you cannot tick all her boxes when it comes to the qualities she wants in a man.

If her boxes are 10 and you tick 5 or 6, she will consider you. But that doesn't stop her from admiring other men who possesses the other options you did not possess..
At that point, they will wish the man is her husband and if care is not taken, cheating is likely to occur.

If culture permits women, many of them will marry more than 4 men.
Women are more polygamous in nature than men and that's why they cheat the most, but the society is not ready for this conversation..

No matter how much your claim to love you, there's another man she still loves and wishes he was her husband/boyfriend.

And if that man she loves happens to be her Boss or her colleague at her workplace or even someone within her reach, there's nothing that would stop her from cheating on you with that man.

So, the earlier you understand that there's another man your woman loves, the better for you..

Have it in mind that you can NEVER tick all the boxes of a woman and those boxes you did not tick, there's another man out there who would tick it..

My sermon always sounds like a joke to some men but it's to whom it may concern..

I don't want to say much again but before I close the sermon, let me leave you with a Rongai proverb that says, "A woman who pushes her husband to try brand-new bedroom techniques is cheating."

Dont always generalize..

Not ALL women love someone more than their husband.

Peace.

What if the woman had no one she's dating for a long time or she has never dated at all u were her first and married her too

Well this makes what the lamani guy on here preach about marrying only a virgin true

If you like go put your head in one basket as a man ..


The girls of nowadays have prostitute demons in them..

When they were delivering their mother's of those days, you will see reactions on the alter but miracle and deliverance nor dey again.. All we have is only miracle and wealth making machine

He's entitled to his opinion.

Sweeping generalisation.

Many women are very happy with their husband, and vice versa.

Make una de joke...me my own be say, be submissive and loyal....

You should be sued for saying every marry married woman, just say every married women in your family

The right phrase should be "some women" and not every woman. Don't judge others with your failed marriage

The sentence started with the wrong word . Next time you are suppose to use most women instead of every women . Using every means that all of them but even fingers are not equal