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Your ability to walk away is your greatest negotiating tool in any relationship.

The moment a woman or anyone knows you cannot leave, they know they can treat you however they choose. You have handed them power over you and they will use it. Not necessarily out of malice.

Simply because the option is there.

This applies to relationships.
To marriage.
To friendships.
To business.

A man who tolerates everything out of fear of being alone is not loyal.
He is desperate and desperation is the most unattractive quality a man can carry.

Walk away from what does not respect you. Not in anger.
Not in drama.
Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

The man who can leave anything is the man everyone fights to keep.

marcusverum:
Your ability to walk away is your greatest negotiating tool in any relationship.

The moment a woman or anyone knows you cannot leave, they know they can treat you however they choose. You have handed them power over you and they will use it. Not necessarily out of malice.

Simply because the option is there.

This applies to relationships.
To marriage.
To friendships.
To business.

A man who tolerates everything out of fear of being alone is not loyal.
He is desperate and desperation is the most unattractive quality a man can carry.

Walk away from what does not respect you. Not in anger.
Not in drama.
Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

The man who can leave anything is the man everyone fights to keep.

...ok.so o u sayin when chick givvvvvus puccccccci..we shod walk away..corrrrect?
Are u ok sir!!!(no oofencse)

marcusverum:
Your ability to walk away is your greatest negotiating tool in any relationship.

The moment a woman or anyone knows you cannot leave, they know they can treat you however they choose. You have handed them power over you and they will use it. Not necessarily out of malice.

Simply because the option is there.

This applies to relationships.
To marriage.
To friendships.
To business.

A man who tolerates everything out of fear of being alone is not loyal.
He is desperate and desperation is the most unattractive quality a man can carry.

Walk away from what does not respect you. Not in anger.
Not in drama.
Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

The man who can leave anything is the man everyone fights to keep.

Self respect comes to play, never allow disrespect from anyone without walking away.

It's called self respect!!!!!!!!

A man that lacks it is a ram or goat to women forever and always be disregard by men

MrCork:
...ok.so o u sayin when chick givvvvvus puccccccci..we shod walk away..corrrrect?
Are u ok sir!!!(no oofencse)

Wereyy
How old are you sir(no offensce)?

Chief… omohhh I couldn’t agree less.

I have an experience about this, sadly … these situations can drain a man if he refuses to leave .

You are not even going to hear peem from me.

One major thing I have been focusing on this year is true peace of mind and so far, glory be to God

Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

This applies to both genders, a woman who cannot walk away from a bad relationship will also be exploited or taken advantage of

marcusverum:
Your ability to walk away is your greatest negotiating tool in any relationship.

The moment a woman or anyone knows you cannot leave, they know they can treat you however they choose. You have handed them power over you and they will use it. Not necessarily out of malice.

Simply because the option is there.

This applies to relationships.
To marriage.
To friendships.
To business.

A man who tolerates everything out of fear of being alone is not loyal.
He is desperate and desperation is the most unattractive quality a man can carry.

Walk away from what does not respect you. Not in anger.
Not in drama.
Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

The man who can leave anything is the man everyone fights to keep.

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Do you know that your walk away may destroy your future, walking away from marriage will surely affect the future of your children and your children is your is your future. Walk away when you secure your future. I stand to be corrected sir.

This is the content of the year.

It goes both ways, but I do agree women tend to manipulate...if you love your kids, they will do their best to take them away or use them to keep getting what they want. At the end, you grow old and you may still be alone with kids believing Mom is the Best. God help us men o. If you are going through a lot and want someone to speak with objectively, send me a message at idagbaempowermentfoundation@gmail.com

marcusverum:
Your ability to walk away is your greatest negotiating tool in any relationship.

The moment a woman or anyone knows you cannot leave, they know they can treat you however they choose. You have handed them power over you and they will use it. Not necessarily out of malice.

Simply because the option is there.

This applies to relationships.
To marriage.
To friendships.
To business.

A man who tolerates everything out of fear of being alone is not loyal.
He is desperate and desperation is the most unattractive quality a man can carry.

Walk away from what does not respect you. Not in anger.
Not in drama.
Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

The man who can leave anything is the man everyone fights to keep.

marcusverum:
Your ability to walk away is your greatest negotiating tool in any relationship.

The moment a woman or anyone knows you cannot leave, they know they can treat you however they choose. You have handed them power over you and they will use it. Not necessarily out of malice.

Simply because the option is there.

This applies to relationships.
To marriage.
To friendships.
To business.

A man who tolerates everything out of fear of being alone is not loyal.
He is desperate and desperation is the most unattractive quality a man can carry.

Walk away from what does not respect you. Not in anger.
Not in drama.
Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

The man who can leave anything is the man everyone fights to keep.

Very much on point, bruv!!

However, some men are not weak but too kind to a fault... mainly out of pity and not out of desperation.

A woman with a stick will come at a man with a gun. The man will drop the gun not to hurt the woman, yet the woman will go ahead and hit the man with the stick. And out of pity not to hurt her, the man starts running away, yet she keep chasing him with the stick to inflict as much injuries as she could muster.

My dear, most men are not weak, men are naturally kind to women and women are naturally wicked. It's not really about being lonely or getting laid.

Walk away for this hard time in Nigeria.... U walk away and u end up accepting another version worsening than the first.... Naso person go dey continue dey walk away until old age go knock door.

Toosure70:
Do you know that your walk away may destroy your future, walking away from marriage will surely affect the future of your children and your children is your is your future. Walk away when you secure your future. I stand to be corrected sir.

I somehow agree with u gbam 🤝

Who remember that Westlife song .... Am walking away

Reloadedisraelp:
Who remember that Westlife song .... Am walking away

Or Craig David you meant?

@topic People treat you the way you treat yourself

MrCork:
...ok.so o u sayin when chick givvvvvus puccccccci..we shod walk away..corrrrect?
Are u ok sir!!!(no oofencse)

Nah this sense you dey use find your daily bread?

This is my present situation brother. It's been 7 months n counting...
We have 3 kids together.. I was working .. got her a car n opened a nice shop for her... along the line things took a down turn for me.. lost d job n feeding was on her.. daily humiliation etc.. she came in one day n demanded money for food rudely I responded in a like mannner that I don't have n all hell was let loose.. abusing me on top of her voice.. I quietly picked up my bag n leg home....

It's been seven months even since.. even though I occasionally send feeding money. Sometimes when I think abt my kids I nearly go mad...but I can't help it.. I'd rather stay away than be humiliated... if god decides to bless me later ama definitely build a new home without her.

Well that's part of the challenges of life and a wrong and incompatible marriage but trust me, your children will come looking for you, blood is very pulling and strong. Make sure you work towards your success quickly and request your kids come visit some days with you. Avoid going into a new marital relationship quickly as you might fall into another toxic marriage sooner. The major goal in marriage is children and you have them already so what you need right now is focus and trust me you will look fresher and robust with peace of mind quickly. And remember, never go back into a toxic relationship out of pity otherwise it might cost you your life.

alyarmouk:
This is my present situation brother. It's been 7 months n counting...
We have 3 kids together.. I was working .. got her a car n opened a nice shop for her... along the line things took a down turn for me.. lost d job n feeding was on her.. daily humiliation etc.. she came in one day n demanded money for food rudely I responded in a like mannner that I don't have n all hell was let loose.. abusing me on top of her voice.. I quietly picked up my bag n leg home....

It's been seven months even since.. even though I occasionally send feeding money. Sometimes when I think abt my kids I nearly go mad...but I can't help it.. I'd rather stay away than be humiliated... if god decides to bless me later ama definitely build a new home without her.

This came at the right time.

Omo I was going to jonz but God sent this post my way

This is instructive, helpful and applicable not only to man but woman as well. You shouldn't be sorry for anyone to your own disadvantages.

Nonsense advice.. GenZ people advice na K-leg.. walk away when you can work things out and make life better.. Poster who be your teacher.. your teacher deserves 24 strokes of koboko

ChristianMuslim:
Nonsense advice.. GenZ people advice na K-leg.. walk away when you can work things out and make life better.. Poster who be your teacher.. your teacher deserves 24 strokes of koboko

Am not Gen z, but I agree with the post

Walk away is the key ... As a man , you're the prize, don't get played

You can work things out is how you get begging every now and then because you feel you know better.
When you are mentally and emotionally drained, picking up yourself becomes so difficult, she might get full control over you.

ChristianMuslim:
Nonsense advice.. GenZ people advice na K-leg.. walk away when you can work things out and make life better.. Poster who be your teacher.. your teacher deserves 24 strokes of koboko

My guy, most women are so unreasonable. You can't work things out with a woman who is hell-bent on pulling you down.

I was having this opinion for 12 good years, and she kept getting worse, squeezing every ounce of life and breath out of me.

That gender is mean, my brother. You can't live peacefully by being reasonable with them. Just walk away, or match their selfishness with selfishness of the same measure if you have the mental strength for it.

Very very true

Very very true

That's the situation I am in presently.... Everything was amazing when I was working and doing fine with my side business..... Suddenly, situation turned around, I lost my job and my side business couldn't even feed my family again due to the economy situation of the country.... She changed drastically that I was surprised to see the other side of her wch I never knew before. Things got tougher and Intense between us during this downtime period. She packed her things and left while in pregnancy. What do I need to do too, I left her alone for my sanity and to avoid total failure.
I am presently focusing on myself not even giving room for any downtime. In this kind of situation, nothing speaks louder for u than for u to be successful at d long run. Don't give up n Don't relent

Reloadedisraelp:
Walk away for this hard time in Nigeria.... U walk away and u end up accepting another version worsening than the first.... Naso person go dey continue dey walk away until old age go knock door.

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