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I’m not dead yet” – Man reacts after girlfriend begged another man for money, restricts phone usage

A Nigerian man has sparked reactions online after opening up about the reason behind the crisis in his relationship and his eventual breakup with his girlfriend.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), he claimed he became angry after discovering that his girlfriend allegedly begged another man for money despite the fact that he was still in her life.

In his words, he said: “My baby texted and begged another man for money when I’m not dead. I was so frustrated and got angry, and due to my anger, I slapped her,” he said.

The man revealed that his girlfriend threatened to end the relationship after the incident, adding that he has now accepted the breakup and is trying to heal emotionally.

He further disclosed that he began restricting her activities, including who she could call or text, due to trust issues in the relationship.

“Now I’m restricting my baby from doing a lot of things. She can’t call anybody, she can’t text anybody. Though I’m broke, I actually have the money,” he added.

His statement has generated mixed reactions online, with many social media users criticising his actions, while others debated issues of trust, control, and finances in relationships.

The viral confession continues to trend online as Nigerians share differing opinions on the controversial relationship story.

“My baby is crying because of what she did and what I did. She asked another guy for money, and I got frustrated. I lost control and hit her too hard. She said she wants to break up, but she has to let me heal first”

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— Vampz (@Hybrid_Ola) May 28, 2026

Dear Parents show your children what love is at home. This applies to both male and female child.

Thank you.

Proserpina:
Dear Parents show your children what love is at home. This applies to both male and female child.

Thank you.

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She wouldn't have beg another man money if you are providing for her. If you are dating a girl that comes from a poor background try and take care of her to avoid situations like this.

what is the Time in Uganda right now?

Diamond098454:
If you are dating a girl that comes from a poor background try and take care of her to avoid situations like this.

Senior Advocate of Poor Hoes don drop quote.

Na love she dey find abi na day care she want?

Gbadugbakun:
Are you a male or female?
Your profile didn't indicate

I'm both

Hahaha all of the above
Hi and how was your day?

AllBlack:
Senior Advocate of Poor Hoes don drop quote.

Na love she dey find abi na day care she want?

How do you men end up with trash for girlfriends

This is super story, a life of staphs and followwww


Anything for social media likes and trends

The central problem: personalizing community property!
Operating delusion: :My baby!"

The problem of men is low self esteem, I can't go about monitoring another human being, giving my self unnecessary pressure to keep a girl ....that stupidity..build yourself with fear of God ,when u get ready for marriage...God will lead u to your soul mate ...indeed jesus said in the world u will have many troubles ...and u get yourself into all these senseless troubles when u refuse to concentrate on building a legacy knowing we have little time here on earth...now u broke up ...what's your gain ...After the wasted years in a difficult relationship..chai God protects my boys from been foolish with their time.. the worse u don't have money and u open eye enter relationship with a begger ...omo

You are vey wuked somborri

AllBlack:
Senior Advocate of Poor Hoes don drop quote.

Na love she dey find abi na day care she want?

Tales by moonlight
All this yeye guh sha

Stop dealing with poor and needy folks, if you don't want to be like them.

Why can’t she beg her parents

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Rule of Thumb: When your Nigerian gf asks you for money, give her 25%. She will get the remaining 75% from her other anonymous boyfriends.

Thanks for your attention to this matter.

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Marry naw. You go see am tire
Your wife go tell you say na old-school mate or church member, pastor, she may even tell you pup and plain that he's her former lover but married now., wetin you wan do?

What kind of childish story is this?

The op...
The guy..
The girl...
The mod wey bring am com front page.

Al of una..

Gerarahia

Your mate is talking about wife n kids, you are here fooling yourself..

Every 24/7..dey fear women

So In his mind he thinks that's his baby he doesn't know what time it is yet.

Stories of GenZ babes and guys

Proserpina:
I'm both

You better run with your anus ooo. That guy¿

toggin


waiting for your comment

Diamond098454:
She wouldn't have beg another man money if you are providing for her. If you are dating a girl that comes from a poor background try and take care of her to avoid situations like this.

What aboutbher father? Is he not alive? Why is she not begging her fellow women for money? What she did is invitation to cheating. And i believe she didnt ask the boyfriend or her father because the reason for that money is stupid and only a boy that want to fvck her by all means would give her the money

Bless you! Leave the woman wrapper alone.

AllBlack:
Senior Advocate of Poor Hoes don drop quote.

Na love she dey find abi na day care she want?

Dude got me laughing personalizing public property
Such is life

Wow... ....like seriously? You can talk........hmmm guys don't dash money for free hmmm

Amaggedon:
What aboutbher father? Is he not alive? Why is she not begging her fellow women for money? What she did is invitation to cheating. And i believe she didnt ask the boyfriend or her father because the reason for that money is stupid and only a boy that want to fvck her by all means would give her the money

How are these people comfortable posting shit like this online, Dem no get relatives wey fit come across this shit? The mugu shouting MY BABY MY BABY go soon learn, he wants to privatize a public property, na so the thing easy?

Seems like
I dey see domestic violence