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Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Johnnoah11st(op): 5:38pm On Jun 01
Guys, I wan ask a serious question.

A friend introduced me to this girl some weeks ago and the first thing he told me was, "Bro, this one na church girl."

As I got to know her, everything seemed to confirm it. Very modest dressing, not flashy, not materialistic, calm, respectful. She doesn't even wear earrings. The kind of girl that will make you feel maybe there are still good girls out there.

I won't lie, I let my guard down a bit.

But something in me kept saying something wasn't adding up. I've been around for years. I've met different kinds of women. My discernment just kept telling me that all was not what it seemed.

So out of curiosity, I decided to test something.

I got another number and created a completely different identity. Within 24 hours of chatting, this same "church girl" was already willing to meet a random man for 50k, 2 rounds plus BJ.

At that point I just sat down and started laughing.

This experience made me realize that in today's world, dressing decent doesn't automatically mean character. Going to church doesn't automatically mean character. Looking innocent doesn't automatically mean character.

The funny thing is that if I had told anybody before this happened, they would have sworn for her.

My question is this:

How do you even vet people properly these days?

And honestly, do we still have genuinely decent girls out there, or has everybody simply become very good at packaging?

Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by LexFlex10: 5:56pm On Jun 01
You dey use person future wife play gambling undecided

Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Sonnobax15(m): 6:32pm On Jun 01
lipsrsealed
No decent banny out there bro.

They're all on "survival of the fittest mode" since the very first minute Tinubu removed subsidyangry

Like I do tell guys,that if your extinct is telling you that your woman is cheating, there's 90% fact that she's truly cheating.

Church girl wey dey bend d0ggy angry
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by BrightAhiah99: 6:51pm On Jun 01
Decent statistics of girls in Nigeria is plunging to 3%
No morales, no privacy or shame
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Diamond098454(f): 7:01pm On Jun 01
I'm a decent girl

That you go about chasing random girls doesn't mean all the girls are like that.

Where you normally go depends the type of person (s) you will meet
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by BUTTERMILKSUGAR(m):
Look! you are just disturbing yourself.
People will always do what they want with their bodies and it's not your business to dictate to them how to use their body since you are neither their mother or father.

It's obvious she has her reason. She's after solving her problems or she's probably leading you on to send transport or actually engage in sex with you.

Perhaps you're hunting for free sex and stuned she wants to get paid...
You are the one looking for a good girl, did she tell you she's looking for a good guy?
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Namaster: 7:27pm On Jun 01
Some people think hoes are CONFINED to brothels.

Reality:

If you're looking for prostitutes, go to a CHURCH.
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Johnnoah11st(op): 7:34pm On Jun 01
BUTTERMILKSUGAR:
Look! you are just disturbing yourself.
People will always do what they want with their bodies and it's not your business to dictate to them how to use their body since you are neither their mother or father.

It's obvious she has her reason. She's after solving her problems or she's probably leading you on to send transport or actually engage in sex with you.

Perhaps your hunting for free sex and stunted she wants to get paid...
You are the one looking for a good girl, did she tell you she's looking for a good guy?
bro Na this sense u dey use cross road?
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by PulaPower: 7:42pm On Jun 01
Imagine the way you’re chatting with a hooker..

Somethings are not just for all guys..
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by agentarcher(m): 8:46pm On Jun 01
There are decent girls in Nigeria, but their doings won't let you notice them. Don't lie you want a bad banny. That bad sexy banny you want can't be decent. Some decent girls don't even have the selling points guys now look for. But they get married easily. You don't hear about them cause they don't drag their issues online, they don't dress to impress the public, they have a small circle of friends, they put their families and relationships first.
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Greattom: 8:48pm On Jun 01
You ended up typing rubbish
BUTTERMILKSUGAR:
Look! you are just disturbing yourself.
People will always do what they want with their bodies and it's not your business to dictate to them how to use their body since you are neither their mother or father.

It's obvious she has her reason. She's after solving her problems or she's probably leading you on to send transport or actually engage in sex with you.

Perhaps your hunting for free sex and stunted she wants to get paid...
You are the one looking for a good girl, did she tell you she's looking for a good guy?
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Tenrack: 9:45pm On Jun 01
Diamond098454:
I'm a decent girl

That you go about chasing random girls doesn't mean all the girls are like that.

Where you normally go depends the type of person (s) you will meet
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm angry
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by gutss(m): 9:58pm On Jun 01
She’s Single And Still Looking For An “Intentional Man” – Here’s Why Men Keep Walking Away

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D4uc3s5-03I
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Nairalander248: 5:44am On Jun 02
Okay noted...

Now let's talk about your sisters and your daughter, how do you want others to check if they are decent?

They will drop evidence here too... Don't worry they will hide the numbers too cheesy

Johnnoah11st:
Guys, I wan ask a serious question.

A friend introduced me to this girl some weeks ago and the first thing he told me was, "Bro, this one na church girl."

As I got to know her, everything seemed to confirm it. Very modest dressing, not flashy, not materialistic, calm, respectful. She doesn't even wear earrings. The kind of girl that will make you feel maybe there are still good girls out there.

I won't lie, I let my guard down a bit.

But something in me kept saying something wasn't adding up. I've been around for years. I've met different kinds of women. My discernment just kept telling me that all was not what it seemed.

So out of curiosity, I decided to test something.

I got another number and created a completely different identity. Within 24 hours of chatting, this same "church girl" was already willing to meet a random man for 50k, 2 rounds plus BJ.

At that point I just sat down and started laughing.

This experience made me realize that in today's world, dressing decent doesn't automatically mean character. Going to church doesn't automatically mean character. Looking innocent doesn't automatically mean character.

The funny thing is that if I had told anybody before this happened, they would have sworn for her.

My question is this:

How do you even vet people properly these days?

And honestly, do we still have genuinely decent girls out there, or has everybody simply become very good at packaging?
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Fiscus105(m):
Johnnoah11st:
Guys, I wan ask a serious question.

A friend introduced me to this girl some weeks ago and the first thing he told me was, "Bro, this one na church girl."

As I got to know her, everything seemed to confirm it. Very modest dressing, not flashy, not materialistic, calm, respectful. She doesn't even wear earrings. The kind of girl that will make you feel maybe there are still good girls out there.

I won't lie, I let my guard down a bit.

But something in me kept saying something wasn't adding up. I've been around for years. I've met different kinds of women. My discernment just kept telling me that all was not what it seemed.

So out of curiosity, I decided to test something.

I got another number and created a completely different identity. Within 24 hours of chatting, this same "church girl" was already willing to meet a random man for 50k, 2 rounds plus BJ.

At that point I just sat down and started laughing.

This experience made me realize that in today's world, dressing decent doesn't automatically mean character. Going to church doesn't automatically mean character. Looking innocent doesn't automatically mean character.

The funny thing is that if I had told anybody before this happened, they would have sworn for her.

My question is this:

How do you even vet people properly these days?

And honestly, do we still have genuinely decent girls out there, or has everybody simply become very good at packaging?
Not until you realize both genders of your generation are not decent, and it's your gender that is turning them to monsters.

I could recollect, we used to depend "mostly on our brain" to open girls legs few years ago, but now, gen z throwing whole lots of money at girls to open legs, money you got from ritual and yahoo.

Which teenage girl you will throw #50k at, that won't open legs for you to waste your energy for 10mins? Where did you get as high as 50k to do nonsense in this economy crunch? if you yourself is decent?

You people no longer practicing love relationship anymore but transactional sex.
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by MONEY247: 6:58am On Jun 02
Diamond098454:
I'm a decent girl

That you go about chasing random girls doesn't mean all the girls are like that.

Where you normally go depends the type of person (s) you will meet
Prove it😁😁
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by ReacherSaidNoth: 7:41am On Jun 02
BUTTERMILKSUGAR:
Look! you are just disturbing yourself.
People will always do what they want with their bodies and it's not your business to dictate to them how to use their body since you are neither their mother or father.

It's obvious she has her reason. She's after solving her problems or she's probably leading you on to send transport or actually engage in sex with you.

Perhaps you're hunting for free sex and stuned she wants to get paid...
You are the one looking for a good girl, did she tell you she's looking for a good guy?
Who are the people liking this rubbish angry
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by ReacherSaidNoth: 7:44am On Jun 02
Diamond098454:
I'm a decent girl

That you go about chasing random girls doesn't mean all the girls are like that.

Where you normally go depends the type of person (s) you will meet
All women are the same, your so called good-girlhood will disappear under the right condition because modern women have no honor. What is most important to your gender is finding a man to leech off and carry your burdens, everything else is secondary.

There is no special place you can go to find a decent woman, that is nonsense talk.
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Cum4me(m): 8:27am On Jun 02
Hookup everywhere. And why will you agree for just 2 rounds for 50k. She has to work hard for the money at least 5 round until you're exhausted. No better girl again for marriage
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Diamond098454(f): 9:52am On Jun 02
I'm a decent girl and that's all.
ReacherSaidNoth:
All women are the same, your so called good-girlhood will disappear under the right condition because modern women have no honor. What is most important to your gender is finding a man to leech off and carry your burdens, everything else is secondary.

There is no special place you can go to find a decent woman, that is nonsense talk.
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Diamond098454(f): 9:52am On Jun 02
Smiles smiles smiles
MONEY247:
Prove it😁😁
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Williampisces: 10:15am On Jun 02
Diamond098454:
Smiles smiles smiles
Smiles Smiles Smiles
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Diamond098454(f): 10:17am On Jun 02
Good morning and how was your night?
Williampisces:
Smiles Smiles Smiles
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by zyzxx(m): 11:26am On Jun 02
agentarcher:
There are decent girls in Nigeria, but their doings won't let you notice them. Don't lie you want a bad banny. That bad sexy banny you want can't be decent. Some decent girls don't even have the selling points guys now look for. But they get married easily. You don't hear about them cause they don't drag their issues online, they don't dress to impress the public, they have a small circle of friends, they put their families and relationships first.
you have spoken well
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by ravensckar(m): 12:53pm On Jun 02
Finding a decent lady in Nigeria is like finding a needle in a haystack.

If I use my hand type wetin I don see for this Lagos, even the devil will do the sign of the cross.

Naija ladies no really get morals, principles or conscience; just throw money at their face and they will fall yakata.

Na before I dey rate them, now, I don see them finish. Knack no be anything for where dem they. It's all about the money. Funny enough, these ladies are the working class type that you'll think they should be able to fend for themselves.

#Picks_tooth
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Alusiizizi(m): 1:03pm On Jun 02
Namaster:
Some people think hoes are CONFINED to brothels.

Reality:

If you're looking for prostitutes, go to a CHURCH.
You'll find a lot of decent girls in the Catholic church. If you want hoes, go to Redeemed.
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Williampisces: 1:47pm On Jun 02
Diamond098454:
Good morning and how was your night?
it was good... Thanks for asking.... Bless you
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by SamuraiXXX: 2:07pm On Jun 02
Yes we still do, look well and you shall find them
Re: Do We Still Have Decent Girls In Nigeria? (Screenshot attached) by Maj196(m): 4:13pm On Jun 02
Yes, but extremely hard. They're mostly reclusive
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