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Poor Little Boys every where.

meobizy:
Funny how I was able to understand everything despite your lack of full stops.

You did the right thing. Find someone else. In my experience, she’ll try to reconnect at the end of this year or the end of next year. Very annoying creatures. If you continue searching, you’ll laugh off her effort and enjoy life.

Free nacks, now he don spoil everything with vex.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

You're a very slow guy. Trust me being the side guy is better than being the main guy. Main guys eat disrespect and cheating norms. With side guys, females are more relaxed and sexually open. You wan be main boyfriend ba? Ask main boyfriends wetin thier eye dey see. She is trying to tell you she wants you without the commitment of relationships. Women are more sexually vibrant in forbidden or hidden love. You don't know girls and shege dey wait for you for front. Who told you that you can ever personalise a woman. They don't even know what they want. She fit dey with the guy cos na simp wey dey pay bills. Dey play.

indigenous234:
Men are becoming boys and boys becoming babies nowadays. Who hear as you dey talk go think say you be wan just marry the girl asap. If you’re a good baller, you’d have known She told you to wait your potential turn. If you’re not a baller at all, you probably just lost a potentially good friend. Either way, you lost out.

No be everyone need woman to survive, we're not all womanizers thank you.

Bendeco02:
Nothing like potential

You don't know what the guy is looking for.

Not everyone is hunting for toto.

Maybe the guy want serious relationship.

Some of you should think for once before dropping comments.

Do you also know the girl motive?

Do you know if the girl just have the intention to use him financially?

she asked for outing, that very Sunday, it's like I go drop screenshots, you wan go outting with besty but boyfriend dey, make it make sense.

420Explorer:
You're a very slow guy. Trust me being the side guy is better than being the main guy. Main guys eat disrespect and cheating norms. With side guys, females are more relaxed and sexually open. You wan be main boyfriend ba? Ask main boyfriends wetin thier eye dey see. She is trying to tell you she wants you without the commitment of relationships. Women are more sexually vibrant in forbidden or hidden love. You don't know girls and shege dey wait for you for front. Who told you that you can ever personalise a woman. They don't even know what they want. She fit dey with the guy cos na simp wey dey pay bills. Dey play.

Our priority differs, you that is a fast guy this is all you can ever offer, being okay as the side piece na honor to simps so not surprised.

profmallor:
So what if she has lied to you that she was not in a relationship but was chopping both of you or more people, would you have preferred that?... that girl was honest with you, that's a rare trait among ladies these days. I'd teach you what to do next time. It's bad advice, but I'd give it anyway. Being a backup comes with some subtle advantages, you get to know more of the real her while not having to take on any responsibility whatsoever, cause you, as she mentioned, are not the main man. And if the relation breaks as they often do, you may be getting the pudding for free, as i said, it's bad advice . Don't live with the belief that you will always be a woman's first choice, regardless of your status; most married men are not the first choice to their spouses either. The important thing is to live your life and aspire to be the best you can be.

Your level of low self esteem is amazing, so I should be okay being the side piece like person wey no get an atom of respect for his dignity, who raised you like that bro, value yourself more.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

bros, u Eff-up sef.. if I were u, I would agree to be bestie.. bestir don’t pay bills, and can still get to chop kpekus. And it doesn’t mean that you won’t go after another girl since she’s not yours. See now, u lost communication and other things that could come with it.

To be bestie sweet oh.. she’d just be bringing everything her boyfriend does to you, you’d be the listening one, and the one who would eventually benefit. Next time don’t throw away that kind of opportunity. Men no dey loose for bestie matter, except the ones wey no sharp.

L1TTLE:
she asked for outing, that very Sunday, it's like I go drop screenshots, you wan go outting with besty but boyfriend dey, make it make sense.

that kind outing, na Una too go sort the bills. Bros, Walahi, na something seeet you throwey so.. if chance still dey, I fo advice u reconnect.

elmagnifico411:
that kind outing, na Una too go sort the bills. Bros, Walahi, na something seeet you throwey so.. if chance still dey, I fo advice u reconnect.

She go chop like glutton that day because she knows it's a one time thing that won't happen again, I ain't falling for that trap, she's got nothing to offer pass the towtow wey mumu boys dey glorify like breath of life.

elmagnifico411:
bros, u Eff-up sef.. if I were u, I would agree to be bestie.. bestir don’t pay bills, and can still get to chop kpekus. And it doesn’t mean that you won’t go after another girl since she’s not yours. See now, u lost communication and other things that could come with it.

To be bestie sweet oh.. she’d just be bringing everything her boyfriend does to you, you’d be the listening one, and the one who would eventually benefit. Next time don’t throw away that kind of opportunity. Men no dey loose for bestie matter, except the ones wey no sharp.

I don dey already get sub me na and little requests from her already you dey talk, even an outing she asked for that very week, no be everyone value towtow, me I no send am even if it's laced with gold.

Ok, I wish you all the best in your surviving. Regards. Gehgeh

L1TTLE:
No be everyone need woman to survive, we're not all womanizers thank you.

L1TTLE:
Tell her what again? She don already place me in besty position which i vehemently refused, no time to waste again, we're not in the 20s, and I'm not one of these guys who'd rather be your friend than loose you entirely, make she dey go, i no want any bestie.

You are a correct 💯 niggar dump her ass forever better one will soon show up no time,I like your way die and may almighty God bless you more.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

Is she fair in complexion?

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

Naso dem dey do

They always want to eat their cake and still have it

In fact, one dey tell me stop acting like stranger after she don marry. I told her, you now belong to another man, she come dey vex

femi4:
Naso dem dey do

They always want to eat their cake and still have it

In fact, one dey tell me stop acting like stranger after she don marry. I told her, you now belong to another man, she come dey vex

make she enjoy her marriage, run away and cancel all contacts with her, Jezebels.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

this is what I am currently facing, infact we just passed each other few minutes ago without greeting each other.
Women are becoming so shameless these days.
there's this lady that just packed into my compound like 7 days ago and she's all over my left, right and center forcing her bestie rubbish on me, and trying to extort me, and use all my household items eg fridge, dstv, Data sub, gas, knife, bucket, foodstuff.. all within 7days.
The funny part is she have a boyfriend who normally sneaks in 11pm at night to service the kitten, and in the morning she will run to her bestie to beg lolz.
I told her I am not interested in her bestie nonsense, and immediately she stopped talking and answering my greetings, but I don't care, I feel so much relieved now

L1TTLE:
Tell her what again? She don already place me in besty position which i vehemently refused, no time to waste again, we're not in the 20s, and I'm not one of these guys who'd rather be your friend than loose you entirely, make she dey go, i no want any bestie.

you for dey knack am on the low. If she no give u knack. Na there problem suppose dey.

BigYash:
What's all these ones even saying. Besties don't pay bills,the real boyfriend does. So she just liked you and wanted you guys to be nacking. Forget the drama around it,na so some ladies dey do. She is probably bored of the main guy,she just wan taste new joy stick. Using bastie as wooing partner,since she can't come straight.

You went and mess up. You dey fear bill,when na you suppose dey bill her. If you iron her button well,she will be collecting from main mumu boyfriend to fund you .

lie lie,women usually scan their environment looking for the nicest guy she feels will be easy to extort and depend on for her daily crucial needs,there are somethings she can't ask her serious BF, and that's were bestie comes in

People should understand that there are 2 types of besties.
There are real besties you mostly find in school settings.,
And there are criminal hungry people lurking around neighborhoods looking for nice empathetic Men they can manipulate for their own selfish survival interest.,

BigYash:
What's all these ones even saying. Besties don't pay bills,the real boyfriend does. So she just liked you and wanted you guys to be nacking. Forget the drama around it,na so some ladies dey do. She is probably bored of the main guy,she just wan taste new joy stick. Using bastie as wooing partner,since she can't come straight.

You went and mess up. You dey fear bill,when na you suppose dey bill her. If you iron her button well,she will be collecting from main mumu boyfriend to fund you .

What if her main boyfriend is broke?

franksam209:
this is what I am currently facing, infact we just passed each other few minutes ago without greeting each other.
Women are becoming so shameless these days.
there's this lady that just packed into my compound like 7 days ago and she's all over my left, right and center forcing her bestie rubbish on me, and trying to extort me, and use all my household items eg fridge, dstv, Data sub, gas, knife, bucket, foodstuff.. all within 7days.
The funny part is she have a boyfriend who normally sneaks in 11pm at night to service the kitten, and in the morning she will run to her bestie to beg lolz.
I told her I am not interested in her bestie nonsense, and immediately she stopped talking and answering my greetings, but I don't care, I feel so much relieved now

Good riddance. Na person to use she dey find, dignity won't let you beg from her so she'll be the one shamelessly making endless requests, one sided parasitic relationship, run for your life, you're existing before the devil came around and you'll exist if she's gone from your life.

arimahoseloka:
you for dey knack am on the low. If she no give u knack. Na there problem suppose dey.

Na knacking dey rule your life that's why it's all you ever think about and your life revolves around.

L1TTLE:
Our priority differs, you that is a fast guy this is all you can ever offer, being okay as the side piece na honor to simps so not surprised.

Your warped sense of entitlement over women of a failed generation is the reason we pipe all your women including thr ones you gullibly trust. Hate on your keypad.

420Explorer:
Your warped sense of entitlement over women of a failed generation is the reason we pipe all your women including thr ones you gullibly trust. Hate on your keypad.

The supposed entitlement stemmed from what exactly, how is she even beneficial, person no get anything to be entitled for, simps no dey ever reason well, you think this will get you applause, dey waste your time dey go.

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

girl love bomb you and because she no get wetin she want, she withdraw attention.

Naso dem dey do. Guy move on. E no hard pass like that

Diamond098454:
You would have told her how you feel , you want her as your girlfriend.

Telling you she's in a relationship and want you as her bestie means she wants to have a serious conversation with you.

No she's in a relationship but still needs him for when she wants outside knacking but the guy no understand that some girls are like that. A bestie knacker with no strings attached while her main boyfriend carries the load.

Hahaha hahaha hahaha
Hahaha I can't stop laughing😂😂😂

kiddaz:
No she's in a relationship but still needs him for when she wants outside knacking but the guy no understand that some girls are like that. A bestie knacker with no strings attached while her main boyfriend carries the load.