Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man - Romance - Nairaland
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| Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by ChildOfDoom(op): 3:12pm On Jun 04 |
I know there are other vices like betting, drinking, drugs, cultism etc. but I believe womanizing has a strong effect. Since I started uncontrolled intimacy in 2022, it has been from one problem to another. The desire to please women for example, leads me to lots of problems. I engage in betting with people's money for example, to see if I can double it to please women's demands. Not to forget all sorts of infections we tackle. God help us 22 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by NDSMELODY(m): 3:19pm On Jun 04 |
Can a man ever please a woman ??...... I don't think so. 59 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by helinues: 7:19am On Jun 05 |
Without sex, how many of your body cells do you think die in every mins? Now add sex to it, apart from the releasing cells during intimacy, recovery of each cell after sex normally takes time. Sex itself is a process which means you need to be psychologically prepare for it. Your cells, your thoughts all wasted just for one intimacy 7 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Lastpharoah33: 7:26am On Jun 05 |
Was wondering if you're dead or something, So, what's keeping you going in all of these? 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by FitCorper: 8:12am On Jun 05 |
Lastpharoah33:You think so much evil, I pity the lady that ends up with you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Lastpharoah33: 9:30am On Jun 05 |
FitCorper:Nah, the joke flew over your head, mate. You new to NL or something? You don't/haven't known about the op and his unending tragedies? 21 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Gbadugbakun(m): 9:48am On Jun 05 |
Don't spam the forum by advertising in the wrong places or posting the same content many times. 2 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Gotocourt: 9:50am On Jun 05 |
ChildOfDoom:The desire to please women for example, leads me to lots of problems. Betting is a killer  1 Like |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by socoharley: 9:52am On Jun 05 |
True! Staying away from women and sex takes you to a point of emotional freedom and financial stability.....I put women away since last year march and I always seem to have money everytime. 21 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Shedrack777: 9:54am On Jun 05 |
Me na konji dey disturb me now. Abeg, any clean woman wey fit help me should DM moi 1 Like |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by motymop: 9:55am On Jun 05 |
excess intimacy is always the downfall of poor men because it is expensive 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by dreamworld: 9:55am On Jun 05 |
you need money thats all |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by gentlekeny(m): 9:56am On Jun 05 |
Only you... Infection Womenizing Gambling What then is left of you? If you continue in the path, in 3 years time infection will damage your penis/kidney, render you impotent and you'll be battling with your life while gambling will empty your pockets and even turn you into a debtor and all those women you're pleasing will look at you like a stup!d mugu. By the way, who will stick to a poor frustrated gambler with STD? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by DeltaBachelor(m): 9:57am On Jun 05 |
You don’t seem ready to stop. WHEN YOU ARE READY,NO ONE WILL EVEN CONVINCE YOO TOO. I just pray it is not too late by then 1 Like |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by AlabiKILLER2023: 9:57am On Jun 05 |
ChildOfDoom:I do all the above But I have not accounted any problem God doesn't help anybody Senseless religion shenanigans |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Tenses: 9:58am On Jun 05 |
How you people spend to keep a woman beats me. Even my wife I didn't spend on her while we were courting. Many of these your women have a boy they sponsor with you people money. 6 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by free2ryhme: 9:58am On Jun 05 |
ChildOfDoom:is this the only thing you lots in this generation engage in |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by AlabiKILLER2023: 9:59am On Jun 05 |
Gotocourt:Mrbanks is still alive Betting doesn't kill anybody Foolishness kills 2 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Food4Thought: 10:01am On Jun 05 |
Bro you are on your own. Trying to please a woman is like trying to wake a dead,buried and decomposing body. 7 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Seeplusplus: 10:07am On Jun 05 |
Omo This Monika still de nairaland? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:07am On Jun 05 |
There’s nothing like “you like sex too much” Don’t let anyone sex shame you. Find someone who loves it just like you do and enjoy your life. 7 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 10:11am On Jun 05 |
OP must be Obavoh's twin brother.   Make I no dey doke my wifey every morning sake of wetin? Try marry make you dey experience refreshing, body-calming intimacy. 1 Like |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Kaido: 10:11am On Jun 05 |
Ayam coming...make I copy something wey I keep for my note, paste am for men wey wan grow. Oya see am below 👇👇👇 Every Man Who Sleeps Around Is Playing Russian Roulette With His Soul. You are not just weak. You are reckless. And reckless men do not build legacies. They dismantle them, one bed at a time. Nobody told you the truth, so here it is raw and uncut. Sex is not recreation. It is not a hobby. It is not proof of manhood. It is one of the most spiritually loaded acts a human being can perform. And most of you are doing it with strangers like it is sport. That ends today. 1. SEX IS A SPIRITUAL TRANSACTION, NOT JUST A PHYSICAL ONE Every person carries invisible weight. Trauma. Generational curses. Unresolved darkness. Open wounds they never healed. When you sleep with a woman, you do not just touch her body. You make contact with everything she is carrying. Her depression. Her bitterness. Her soul ties from the men before you. Her spiritual pollution. You walk away thinking you won something. You won nothing. You imported chaos into your spirit and called it pleasure. 2. LUST IS THE OLDEST TRAP EVER LAID FOR MEN Lust does not just make you weak. It makes you stupid. It shuts down discernment. It kills logic. It blinds you to danger. You stop asking questions. You stop reading signals. You stop seeing the warning signs screaming in your face. You just want the body. And that is exactly when the enemy collects his payment. Not through your wallet. Through your destiny. 3. NOT EVERY WOMAN WHO WANTS YOU IS SAFE FOR YOU This is the part men refuse to hear. Some women are not just emotionally broken. They are spiritually dangerous. Carrying generations of witchcraft, soul ties, trauma bonds, and dark attachments they themselves do not fully understand. You cannot discern that with your eyes. You cannot detect it with desire. One night with the wrong woman can attach things to your life that take years to shake. Confusion. Financial drought. Spiritual stagnation. Chronic bad luck that has no logical explanation. You kept calling it bad luck. It was not luck. It was a door you opened. 4. EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP AROUND, YOU ARE LOSING MORE THAN YOU REALIZE It is not just energy you are losing. It is pieces of yourself. Your focus fragments. Your drive dulls. Your spiritual sensitivity goes dark. Your ability to lead, build, and discern begins to erode quietly. Men who sleep with everything that moves do not become powerful. They become hollow. Addicted to sensation because they have nothing deeper left to feel. 5. ONE WRONG WOMAN CAN COST YOU WHAT POVERTY NEVER COULD Poverty can be reversed. Destiny damage is another matter. Some of you are living under burdens that were never yours to carry. Cycles that do not make sense. Patterns that repeat no matter how hard you try. You picked them up in a bedroom. From someone whose spirit you had no business merging with. A few hours of pleasure. Years of unexplainable warfare. That is the trade most men never knew they were making. FINAL WORD Control your lust or your lust will eventually control everything about you. Your manhood is not proven by how many women you have had. It is proven by how much discipline you have built, how much of your destiny you have protected, and how selectively you guard your spirit. Not every woman who wants access to you deserves it. Some came to drain you. Some came to break you. Some came to attach what they are carrying to everything you are supposed to become. Stop opening doors you cannot close. Stop trading your future for moments. Stop letting your body make decisions your spirit will spend years suffering for. You were built for legacy. Stop burying it in the wrong beds. Stop leaking #Copied 15 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Kingpele(m): 10:12am On Jun 05 |
The problem here is lack of self control and focus ....u can replace it with a drive to increase your networth ...with much effort and grace ... 2 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Mathewrichard99: 10:14am On Jun 05 |
What jargon did you just spilled out here....? What cells do you release during Copulation other than sperm cells which gets always renewed thereafter. It's even healthy to release the sperm cells as often as possible to reduce the possibility of having prostate cancer and enlargement..... Effects of Prolonged Sperm Retention 1) Reduced Sperm Quality: While short-term abstinence may boost raw count, waiting more than 4 days between ejaculations generally worsens key parameters. Older sperm show decreased motility (movement) and higher oxidative stress or DNA fragmentation, which lowers overall fertility and makes conception harder. 2) Physical Discomfort: Suppressing ejaculation can cause blood congestion in the pelvic area or seminal vesicles. This can lead to temporary, painful conditions like epididymal hypertension or discomfort in the prostate. 3) Delayed Ejaculation: Consistently retaining semen over a long period can sometimes condition the body against normal release, leading to delayed or difficult ejaculation during partnered sex, which can cause relationship or fertility stress... >>>>>>One thing people don't talk about enough: "firing on" is good for your health—provided your doctor has certified that the engine, especially the heart, can still handle the workload! Regular firing on helps keep stress levels down, boosts your mood, gives the heart a decent workout, and reminds your body that retirement is still a long way off. Some even say it's one of nature's cheapest wellness programs. So, ladies and gentlemen, fire on responsibly! Wear your safety gear, avoid reckless operations, and most importantly, get yourself a trusted and morally sound partner. No need to leave the factory idle when the machinery is in perfect working condition! Remember: a moving engine is less likely to rust than one parked permanently in the garage.<<<< helinues: 6 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by shadrach77: 10:18am On Jun 05 |
When you attach too much importance to what is between a woman's legs that's what happens Focus your energy on making yourself a better person, having a decent career and being financially comfortable. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by MiamiLord: 10:21am On Jun 05 |
One thing must kill a man. Choose your own poison and thread with it carefully |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Kaborvibez: 10:23am On Jun 05 |
Mr OP,you better thank God for your LIFE...Nobody wey no get his own for body,na cloth we all dey use cover ham.....Na women own worse for KONJI matter and they also MANIZER...Sorry for that word i don't know man I just know women na WOMANIZER...Just explain make u guy understand.... So,OP you do womanizer and betting abi  While me do drug only PILLS to be precise...I do more than that before but GOD transform my life...I always praying to almighty God to remove the spirit of PILLS in my life, and i also is trying, working towards it..Out of 100 NAIRALANDERS ,70% of us have addiction like DRUGS,BETTING,SEX ADDICTION,PORN WATCHING and so on...I think am right??But they can never open their month and say it out.. PEACE OUT... 2 Likes |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by Emeka71(m): 10:24am On Jun 05 |
NDSMELODY:I strongly believe that is far better off to bone woman. |
| Re: Excess Intimacy, The Downfall Of A Man by helinues: 10:29am On Jun 05 |
Mathewrichard99:You don't know what I know |
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