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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by obynokoko: 2:03pm On Jun 04

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

Bro leave her and move.she has seen another man and you will be wasting your time trying to bring her back

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by obynokoko: 2:07pm On Jun 04

amancalledgodd:
Pls try to get her
Women are really scarce and needs to be treated well. I put my babe on monthly salary 100k and this june is her birthday.
I have an upcoming surprise for her.
Make i no talk much she dey here dey read. Spoil your woman o

Who told you that women are scare.you are a simp bro

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by amancalledgodd: 2:18pm On Jun 04

Okoroemekah:
how much do you put your parents and your siblings .I will be ashamed to say something like this and you even sound proud of doing so.simp.wait till that money stop coming and she will just leave you for the next victim

She gives me amazing sex once every week
(Friday night) Money wey i dey waste for club pass 1 meter o per night o.

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by TheGreat99(m): 2:47pm On Jun 04

Should we tell him huh

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Harddiskng(m): 2:50pm On Jun 04

amancalledgodd:
The 100k sef is because she is denying me kpekus if i fit get access to dey knack like 3 times in a week na 500k monthly.

Gbam! All men should be like you. Na real man you be grin

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by InvertedHammer: 3:09pm On Jun 04

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

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I like the idea of asking if you should let her go when she has already left you. Apparently the fountain of delusion never runs dry.

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by professore(m): 3:18pm On Jun 04

According to my knowledge,

Firslty: Let the sleeping dog lie, move on for real.

Reason: You have tried your best. Also, opportunities may be passing you by, if you are still hoping.

Secondly: Don't do anything that will lead to quarrel or fight, since there is no fight between you.

Reason: Women are complex, she may still come back to her senses and return to you.

If this happens, weather you accept her or reject her, you are right. BUT, make sure you do your analysis of the situation well before accepting or rejecting her.

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by professore(m): 3:25pm On Jun 04

Diamond098454:
Indeed women are very important

I know you haven't eaten all day. Anyways , move on and let her focus on her studies.

Please where is my pepper soup, because I am missing you all day long and you caused it.

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by tollyboy5(m): 3:38pm On Jun 04

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

Because of appointment you get angry.
Husband material -100. over Red Flag.
Grow up please.

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by jaxxy(m): 5:09pm On Jun 04

amancalledgodd:
Pls try to get her
Women are really scarce and needs to be treated well. I put my babe on monthly salary 100k and this june is her birthday.
I have an upcoming surprise for her.
Make i no talk much she dey here dey read. Spoil your woman o

U can spoil ur woman to thy kingdom come and she will still cheat on u. She wont leave u she will only cheat on u. My point is its not all about spoiling a daughter of eve, make sure she has sense 1st.

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by gulfer: 5:25pm On Jun 04

Bro, think of women like a shadow: if you chase them, they run away. But if you walk away, they follow you. Try giving her some space and watch how fast she text you back cool

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by femi4: 5:44pm On Jun 04

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

last last...na everybody go chop breakfast

Its now time to say bye bye. Someone else is getting her attention. Thats the risk with dating school girls

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by amancalledgodd: 6:04pm On Jun 04

michoim:
Woman wrapper. Na your type women go take do sacrifice or Aso-Ebi🤣

So make i dollow my fellow man

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Gwam: 6:15pm On Jun 04

Most men don't understand that, A guy should never let his Alpha guard down...

MEN ARE THE PRICE!

You can walk of to tens of girls everyday & toast them, but she has to wait and hope to be toasted.

if you fail to sort level for a girlfriend, she's definitely gonna sort levels for you.

Best wey to get her back is 'ignore her' plus toast her friend or her close neighbor.

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Chris225: 6:17pm On Jun 04

Leave her and move on

No woman is worth your stress

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by streetsoldier1(m): 6:34pm On Jun 04

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

Children are not suppose to date... Anyways listen go gehgeh advise

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Diamond098454(f): 7:05pm On Jun 04

Smiles smiles
Hi...................
Where have you been?
Have was your day? How many plate of pepper soup can you finish?

professore:
Please where is my pepper soup, because I am missing you all day long and you caused it.

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Nicoddemus(m): 7:40pm On Jun 04

amancalledgodd:
Pls try to get her
Women are really scarce and needs to be treated well. I put my babe on monthly salary 100k and this june is her birthday.
I have an upcoming surprise for her.
Make i no talk much she dey here dey read. Spoil your woman o

I feel like crying for this generation of sisi men. You're telling us to spoil your woman asin to become a simp like you huh

. That foolishness will not stop you from chopping breakfast at the right time angry

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by amancalledgodd: 7:45pm On Jun 04

Nicoddemus:
N

I feel like crying for this generation of sisi men. You're telling us to spoil your woman asin to become a simp like you . That foolishness will not stop you from chopping breakfast at the right time

Imagine when i go club i spend average of 1m just on friday.
My 3 month babe since i met her she hold me down i no dey club again.

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by LIVINGICONREBOR: 7:46pm On Jun 04

Nicoddemus:
N

I feel like crying for this generation of sisi men. You're telling us to spoil your woman asin to become a simp like you . That foolishness will not stop you from chopping breakfast at the right time

Don't take dat boy serious. He is also sonofgod1990. If you examine closely, dat dude is actually languishing in penury. Person wey neva see 2 square meal chop go get 100k to give babe?

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Nicoddemus(m): 7:48pm On Jun 04

Tenrack:
I second this. Spoil your woman make another man no snatch am. A word is enough for a fool.

You guys are the reason why these ladies lose their respect and senses

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Nicoddemus(m): 7:55pm On Jun 04

amancalledgodd:
Imagine when i go club i spend average of 1m just on friday.
My 3 month babe since i met her she hold me down i no dey club again.

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by amancalledgodd: 7:57pm On Jun 04

Nicoddemus:

So im increasing it to 500k monthly
Once she agress to 3x sex in a week

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Nicoddemus(m): 7:59pm On Jun 04

amancalledgodd:
So im increasing it to 500k monthly
Once she agress to 3x sex in a week

It's obvious you're beyond redemption. Wetin you de work tongue

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by professore(m): 8:51pm On Jun 04

Diamond098454:
Smiles smiles
Hi...................
Where have you been?
Have was your day? How many plate of pepper soup can you finish?

I have been up and doing, and online too, posting. My day was fine thanks and yours?

Well, I won't eat too much pepper soup plates, if you buy ten plates for me, I will clear 9 out of it, because I don't eat much.

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Ganjafama(m): 8:56pm On Jun 04

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

Another guy - probably richer than you is already shining her congo. Let her be , just try and double your hustle.

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Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by maasoap(m): 9:35pm On Jun 04

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

Some of us had been in the spot where you are currently at, lol. She's most likely fallen for another guy and there is little to nothing you can do at this point to change her mind. She can only come back to you probably if and when she's betrayed by her new dude and realise that she has taken the real love for granted. Sorry, you will get over her. Just leave her alone, stop disturbing her and yourself

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by maasoap(m): 9:40pm On Jun 04

brain54:
She has probably already spotted a red flag from far. Na only her dey and know her mind but this suggests you are probably the aggressive type to abuse a woman either physically or emotionally. It might not have happened already but the tendencies might be there for her to notice.

As for your question when a woman leaves just like that without explanation and insists nothing is wrong... it's best just to let her go. Forget her and move on!

Laughing. Just extra information to let readers know what he thinks might be the only reason she stop communicating, something insignificant! And you used that harmless information to deduce that Op might be aggressive type who abuse woman physically or emotionally. May you be healed

I mean, who doesn't get angry every now and then? Does that mean once you are angry over something, you will automatically become aggressive and abusive? Hehe!

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Tenrack: 9:48pm On Jun 04

Nicoddemus:
You guys are the reason why these ladies lose their respect and senses

You must not be conversant with the term "sarcasm"

Re: After A Serious Commitment Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Trying To Get Her by Diamond098454(f): 9:53pm On Jun 04

I'm good dear
Thank you.
9 plates?hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣 wow..........

professore:
I have been up and doing, and online too, posting. My day was fine thanks and yours?

Well, I won't eat too much pepper soup plates, if you buy ten plates for me, I will clear 9 out of it, because I don't eat much.

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