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wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

Another man has been giving her some material stuff and she does not want to share it with you, just buy her freshly cooked goat head with juice or meat pie with ice cream, just keep surprising her for two weeks and three days, trust me she will continue loving you like never before.

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

You're a weak man who's yet to understand women.

A woman will fight for your attention if you ain't giving it to her. Your Attention as a man is the most important thing you have and not even your money, the moment you give her that 100% attention, oga she'll feel bored and disappear. She'll withdraw gradually and your attention will begin to irritate her.

Dude it's human psychology. People do not value what they can get or who they can get easily. Not giving a woman your attention instantly makes you a very scares, rare and high value because in her subconscious mind she'll wondering why can't she access you easily whenever she wants. That's when she starts chasing after you.

Withdraw your attention oga

Mom

Sonnobax15:

Young man,leave that banny alone and move on with your life. Focus on your goals and that ought to be your most important thing in life right now.

As for her, she's long gone bro. I mean that's how bannies are wired. You'll just be surprised to discover that someone whom you guys used to vibe so well, can just suddenly change and be behaving like a witch without any reason at all

I've had my own taste of their witchcraft. That's why anything wey concern relationship for now dey increase my anger issues 😡

See the fact is women love Love and would always have a man they expect that love from, either a man that loves them back or a man they love who doesn't, any woman or girl that just switched attitude without any prior quarrels definitely has another guy in the picture period.

Sharap there..You wey your mama still dey give soup without meat...100k na beans....Dey decieve yourself.no go settle with your mama first make she dey add one meat for your soup...Spits

amancalledgodd:
Pls try to get her
Women are really scarce and needs to be treated well. I put my babe on monthly salary 100k and this june is her birthday.
I have an upcoming surprise for her.
Make i no talk much she dey here dey read. Spoil your woman o

Diamond098454:
I'm good dear
Thank you.
9 plates?hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣 wow..........

Don't worry we will split the bills.

You don’t exist in her mind anymore, why do you want her to exist in yours? Match her energy and find another. When she tries to return, you have the power to accept or reject her. I know you will come to bother us again when she tries her luck.

No need for that.

professore:


Don't worry we will split the bills.

amancalledgodd:
Literal terms
It means im a good guy
Whats is good is good
What is bad is bad.
If you vex me i can increase the money to 500k monthly

ahh no vex o

If she said leave me alone. Leave her alone

Diamond098454:
No need for that.

Are you sure?

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

I think you have to find out what the problem is, if she tells you, use that to work on yourself

After you get to know the reason for her withdrawal, you may reconcile with her or you move on