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How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 8:34pm On Jun 10
How can a man become sexier to women?

1. Law of Separation

A desperate man is not attractive. Women detect

neediness from miles away. The man who can walk

away without a second thought when necessary is

preferred. Distance is not coldness, but power. The

man who can detach from an emotional bond

understands the rules of the game.

2. Physical Discipline

Your body is your billboard.

Lift weights, eat healthy, move with confidence.

Women sense your discipline before you even open your mouth.

Fitness is an indicator of self-esteem and mastery.

3. Presence of Command

A deep tone of voice, constant eye contact, unhurried movements.

This is male attractiveness.

You don't need to speak loudly to dominate a room.

Presence is always more important than sound.


4. Control your emotions

Anger suits children.

Cool-headedness suits men.

A person who can feel their emotions but does not succumb to them radiates stability.

In a world full of chaos, this is something irresistible.

5. Unbreakable Standards

A person without standards is invisible.

Express what you want, live accordingly, and refuse to give in under pressure.

Women respect the man who never belittles himself.

6. Zırhtır Style

Clothes don't make the person, but they highlight them even more.

A carefully selected and clean appearance shows that I respect myself and expect respect.

Style is a silent seduction.

7. Attention Deficit

Don't spread your interest around like candy for everyone.

The man who makes women earn it exponentially raises his own value.

Scarcity is attractive.
Excess interest is weakness.

8. Speak Little, Say Much

Every word must carry weight. Excessive chatter kills the mystery.

Precision and silence awaken curiosity. Curiosity is the oxygen of attraction.

9. Audacia Original

Renounce trying to please everyone. Be polarizing if necessary.

When women feel your raw and masculine energy in your natural and authentic state, they fall in love with you.

There is nothing sexier than a man who is not afraid to be himself.

#Copied
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Stephen0mozzy: 8:57pm On Jun 10
Depending on your part of the world:

But there's nothing sexier than a man who has a fat wallet, a stable source of income, smells nice, walks majestically, heads up, shoulders high and doesn't really give a rat's ass about women and running after everything under skirts(promiscuous).

He carries himself like he was personally chiseled by Zeus on a Sunday morning in Mount Olympus
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Wealthyonos(m): 9:02pm On Jun 10
Just make money and the women will be the ones trying to make themselves attractive to you.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 11:54pm On Jun 10
Stephen0mozzy:
Depending on your part of the world:

But there's nothing sexier than a man who has a fat wallet, a stable source of income, smells nice, walks majestically, heads up, shoulders high and doesn't really give a rat's ass about women and running after everything under skirts(promiscuous).

He carries himself like he was personally chiseled by Zeus on a Sunday morning in Mount Olympus
The problem we have as Nigerians, we don’t read to understand, we only read to argue so as to look smart. My post is talking about how to carry yourself as a man, self & Physical discipline, unbreakable standards, style & originality which your fat wallet cannot buy. No one disputes the fact that it is good to have money, we always attach everything to money, we worship money a lot. The fat wallet is a resources anyone can have when you work hard for it compared to unbreakable standards, self discipline, style, originality etc. Have you heard about the phrase “Money Miss Road”? In as much as it is good to have money, it is also good to work on yourself as a man regardless….
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 12:07am On Jun 11
Wealthyonos:
Just make money and the women will be the ones trying to make themselves attractive to you.
This is always our saying “just make money and the women will be the ones blah blah blah…” lol.

It is good to make money no doubt but my write up is not talking about money, it is all about self development and adding value to one’s life as a man. T for thanks
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Wealthyonos(m): 1:10am On Jun 11
OlaOfLagos:
This is always our saying “just make money and the women will be the ones blah blah blah…” lol.

It is good to make money no doubt but my write up is not talking about money, it is all about self development and adding value to one’s life as a man. T for thanks
Since you're not open to regular opinions, why did you ask? Cos it shows you already have your answer Mr self developer
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by UniQue84: 2:36am On Jun 11
OlaOfLagos:
How can a man become sexier to women?

1. Law of Separation

A desperate man is not attractive. Women detect

neediness from miles away. The man who can walk

away without a second thought when necessary is

preferred. Distance is not coldness, but power. The

man who can detach from an emotional bond

understands the rules of the game.

2. Physical Discipline

Your body is your billboard.

Lift weights, eat healthy, move with confidence.

Women sense your discipline before you even open your mouth.

Fitness is an indicator of self-esteem and mastery.

3. Presence of Command

A deep tone of voice, constant eye contact, unhurried movements.

This is male attractiveness.

You don't need to speak loudly to dominate a room.

Presence is always more important than sound.


4. Control your emotions

Anger suits children.

Cool-headedness suits men.

A person who can feel their emotions but does not succumb to them radiates stability.

In a world full of chaos, this is something irresistible.

5. Unbreakable Standards

A person without standards is invisible.

Express what you want, live accordingly, and refuse to give in under pressure.

Women respect the man who never belittles himself.

6. Zırhtır Style

Clothes don't make the person, but they highlight them even more.

A carefully selected and clean appearance shows that I respect myself and expect respect.

Style is a silent seduction.

7. Attention Deficit

Don't spread your interest around like candy for everyone.

The man who makes women earn it exponentially raises his own value.

Scarcity is attractive.
Excess interest is weakness.

8. Speak Little, Say Much

Every word must carry weight. Excessive chatter kills the mystery.

Precision and silence awaken curiosity. Curiosity is the oxygen of attraction.

9. Audacia Original

Renounce trying to please everyone. Be polarizing if necessary.

When women feel your raw and masculine energy in your natural and authentic state, they fall in love with you.

There is nothing sexier than a man who is not afraid to be himself.

#Copied
what you spilled here are raw deep facts many toil with...money is good am not underplaying that fact especially for the "just make money crew gang"..I have seen guyz that have money without the above especially style..style in dressing, style in doings to name but few.


My take while making money learn these things along you need them to navigate life just as the CPU is important other peripherals are also important .
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Stephen0mozzy: 6:04am On Jun 11
OlaOfLagos:
The problem we have as Nigerians, we don’t read to understand, we only read to argue so as to look smart. My post is talking about how to carry yourself as a man, self & Physical discipline, unbreakable standards, style & originality which your fat wallet cannot buy. No one disputes the fact that it is good to have money, we always attach everything to money, we worship money a lot. The fat wallet is a resources anyone can have when you work hard for it compared to unbreakable standards, self discipline, style, originality etc. Have you heard about the phrase “Money Miss Road”? In as much as it is good to have money, it is also good to work on yourself as a man regardless….
See who is commenting for argument sake now. Apart from the fat wallet which I added, can't you see that the other points i stated aligns with what you said?

Good luck carrying your self with class when you're broke, in debt and hungry.

As someone has said up there. You're looking for agreement, not conversations.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 7:12am On Jun 11
Stephen0mozzy:
See who is commenting for argument sake now. Apart from the fat wallet which I added, can't you see that the other points i stated aligns with what you said?

Good luck carrying your self with class when you're broke, in debt and hungry.

As someone has said up there. You're looking for agreement, not conversations.
I’m not arguing with you Mr. Money (not Asake) like i said, my post is not talking about MONEY, it is for SELF-DEVELOPMENT. We Nigerians worship money a lot, we can’t have a 1 minute discussion or little argument without involving money. Now look at the other commenter also talking about money saying “Make money and women will be the be coming” blah blah blah…You see what I mean by saying, Nigerians are Money worshipers. No one is saying don’t make money as you’re making money, don’t forget to pay attention to yourself aswell and don’t be a “MONEY MISS ROAD GUY“
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 7:24am On Jun 11
UniQue84:
what you spilled here are raw deep facts many toil with...money is good am not underplaying that fact especially for the "just make money crew gang"..I have seen guyz that have money without the above especially style..style in dressing, style in doings to name but few.


[b]My take while making money learn these things along you need them to navigate life just as the CPU is important other peripherals are also important[\b]
Thank you sir, exactly what I was explaining to the first commenter. If you have money and you don’t have what it takes to carry yourself you’re nothing but a joke. With all the money portable has, Zlatan still told him money does not fit him and that is the fact😂
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 7:36am On Jun 11
Wealthyonos:
Since you're not open to regular opinions, why did you ask? Cos it shows you already have your answer Mr self developer
I never asked for your opinion neither did I asked a question. I only listed what it takes for a man to be attractive to a woman. But trust Nigerians, we love to involve money in every conversation that is why some of you are empty handed
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Wealthyonos(m): 8:37am On Jun 11
OlaOfLagos:
I never asked for your opinion neither did I asked a question. I only listed what it takes for a man to be attractive to a woman. But trust Nigerians, we love to involve money in every conversation that is why some of you are empty handed
Miu miu like u. You didn't ask a question but the title is carrying a question mark, and the thread is open to comments. Wise up
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 9:26am On Jun 11
Wealthyonos:
Miu miu like u. You didn't ask a question but the title is carrying a question mark, and the thread is open to comments. Wise up
Lols😂 I knew insult was the next thing. The title is carrying a question mark and the answers are there for you to see. Instead of you to learn, you are here just to prove one unnecessary point. Ok ooo! You’ve made your point. The thread is only open to reasonable and positive comments not Dümb comments like yours…
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by kpankpangolo: 9:34am On Jun 11
You children spend every waking hour thinking about women. Tufia! No wonder many of you have been here since 2007 without any positive change to your condition.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Samantha125(f): 9:38am On Jun 11
Are you referring to your husband?
Stephen0mozzy:
Depending on your part of the world:

But there's nothing sexier than a man who has a fat wallet, a stable source of income, smells nice, walks majestically, heads up, shoulders high and doesn't really give a rat's ass about women and running after everything under skirts(promiscuous).

He carries himself like he was personally chiseled by Zeus on a Sunday morning in Mount Olympus
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Stephen0mozzy: 10:04am On Jun 11
Samantha125:
Are you referring to your husband?
I'm referring to me.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by OlaOfLagos(op): 10:05am On Jun 11
kpankpangolo:
You children spend every waking hour thinking about women. Tufia! No wonder many of you have been here since 2007 without any positive change to your condition.
Who put you for your condition? Why are you früstrated? Please channel your energy to your EmíloCORN. As for me, I am doing very GREAT. T for thanks
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Samantha125(f): 10:27am On Jun 11
Then you're just being biased... You have to be a woman in order to speak from a woman's perspective.

It's just that most of your ladies don't like participating in these type of threads, they're afraid of your insults.
Stephen0mozzy:
I'm referring to me.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Stephen0mozzy: 10:29am On Jun 11
Samantha125:
Then you're just being biased... You have to be a woman in order to speak from a woman's perspective.

It's just that most of your ladies don't like participating in these type of threads, they're afraid of your insults.
This is like saying a Male Doctor cannot be a Gynaecologist just because he doesn't have a womb or female you know.

There's such a thing as experiential knowledge, and societal commonsense.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Samantha125(f): 10:46am On Jun 11
Male gynecologists don't go around analysing the female anatomy based on their male anatomy, so you can't compare the two.

Can't you guys just give your women a chance of speak for themselves for once?
Stephen0mozzy:
This is like saying a Male Doctor cannot be a Gynaecologist just because he doesn't have a womb or female you know.

There's such a thing as experiential knowledge, and societal commonsense.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by kpankpangolo: 1:53pm On Jun 11
Zero evidence.

OlaOfLagos:
Who put you for your condition? Why are you früstrated? Please channel your energy to your EmíloCORN. As for me, I am doing very GREAT. T for thanks
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Cum4me(m): 3:43pm On Jun 11
Useless post again. Oga Na money be real man woman will be the one composing themselves for you when you get the block. grin
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by EmperorIsaac(m): 4:13pm On Jun 11
And for what... grin
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Bendeco02: 6:39am On Jun 12
OlaOfLagos:
How can a man become sexier to women?

1. Law of Separation

A desperate man is not attractive. Women detect

neediness from miles away. The man who can walk

away without a second thought when necessary is

preferred. Distance is not coldness, but power. The

man who can detach from an emotional bond

understands the rules of the game.

2. Physical Discipline

Your body is your billboard.

Lift weights, eat healthy, move with confidence.

Women sense your discipline before you even open your mouth.

Fitness is an indicator of self-esteem and mastery.

3. Presence of Command

A deep tone of voice, constant eye contact, unhurried movements.

This is male attractiveness.

You don't need to speak loudly to dominate a room.

Presence is always more important than sound.


4. Control your emotions

Anger suits children.

Cool-headedness suits men.

A person who can feel their emotions but does not succumb to them radiates stability.

In a world full of chaos, this is something irresistible.

5. Unbreakable Standards

A person without standards is invisible.

Express what you want, live accordingly, and refuse to give in under pressure.

Women respect the man who never belittles himself.

6. Zırhtır Style

Clothes don't make the person, but they highlight them even more.

A carefully selected and clean appearance shows that I respect myself and expect respect.

Style is a silent seduction.

7. Attention Deficit

Don't spread your interest around like candy for everyone.

The man who makes women earn it exponentially raises his own value.

Scarcity is attractive.
Excess interest is weakness.

8. Speak Little, Say Much

Every word must carry weight. Excessive chatter kills the mystery.

Precision and silence awaken curiosity. Curiosity is the oxygen of attraction.

9. Audacia Original

Renounce trying to please everyone. Be polarizing if necessary.

When women feel your raw and masculine energy in your natural and authentic state, they fall in love with you.

There is nothing sexier than a man who is not afraid to be himself.

#Copied
Most of you knows what women want and the kind of men that attract them but if you still check you may not have a babe or girls rushing you. grin

Most of what you said is good qualities that men desire to have but some women don't still send it.

Most women rate men first via their status before any other thing.

Like you have to be something. Have a nice job or good business before they start checking other aspect.

Some poor guys have all these qualities but yet women don't even give them chance.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by Zanzibar1: 8:12am On Jun 12
By eating good food most especially protein and fruits.
Re: How Can A Man Become Sexier To Women? by kiddaz: 2:09pm On Jun 12
Zanzibar1:
By eating good food most especially protein and fruits.

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