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"I have right to my privacy" — Man sends back girlfriend for visiting unannounced

A man has sent back his girlfriend after she arrived at his home unannounced, insisting that she should always seek permission before visiting.

The incident, which has gone viral on social media, shows the man standing at his doorway while exchanging words with the woman, who is off camera at the time of recording. The disagreement quickly escalated over her unexpected visit.

Dispute over unplanned visit
In the video, the man appeared visibly irritated as he asked the woman to return home. He reminded her that he had previously warned her not to show up without calling ahead.

“You go back, I’ve told you, you don’t come to my house uninvited. Go back. When you get home, call me and ask if I am at home and if you can come. The fact that we are dating does not mean you can just come to my house. I have the right to my privacy,” he said.

Accusations and suspicion
The woman, reacting from behind the camera’s view, questioned why she could not freely visit her boyfriend without prior notice.

She expressed frustration and accused him of possibly hiding another woman in the house.

In response, the man allowed her inside to check the house herself. She reportedly inspected different parts of the apartment but did not find anyone.

Final disagreement and departure
After the search, the woman insisted on staying, but the man refused and maintained that she must leave. He repeated his earlier position that she should always call before visiting.

The disagreement ended with the woman leaving the house after being asked to contact him properly before any future visit.

“I have the right to my privacy” — Man says as he refuses girlfriend entry for showing up unannounced pic.twitter.com/eWmUwRisjO

— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) June 11, 2026

EmmyMaestro:
"I have right to my privacy" — Man sends back girlfriend for visiting unannounced

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brain54:
I'm a man and personally if I block a girl I'm dating from entering my home...


It means I do not love or value her. I don't even respect her. Simple.



There is a way I would convey my feelings to her if I'm unsatisfied about her sudden appearance. They are ways to handle such... respectfully.


People think differently I agree. But if I stand at my door and prevent you from entering just know that it's time for you to move on even if I haven't told you so orally.


It's even difficult for me to threat someone I'm not dating that way!

decatalyst:
It may sound strange and weird, but I understand him.

I remember when I was in school, my gf then would just leave school and Come to my place, from Ede. One time I didn't let her in...I told her to just go to their home. Because I had early told her I don't like surprises.

No be me you go come put for trouble...If anything happened, nah me dem go dey ask questions.

Let me be the one to invite you, if anything goes wrong, I will take full responsibility because it was my decision.

Diamond098454:
This is disrespectful .

Even with all this red flag she will still remain in that relationship.

“I have the right to my privacy” — Man says as he refuses girlfriend entry for showing up unannounced pic.twitter.com/eWmUwRisjO

— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) June 11, 2026

starpower:
he repeatedly said, he had caution her multiple times, part of relationship is understanding boundaries. I actually think she owes him the dignity of calling him as requested.

Diamond098454:
Are you sure that's your reasons or are you hiding something from her?

SmartMaster001:
That's own standard. Whatever rocks his boat.
But Oga see how you dey peep for window as she dey go?? I no wan hear say you regret losing a good woman if she decides to end the relationship oo.

HenryStarlife:
This doesn’t look like a man in the first place, that’s just an unemployed misogynist.