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brain54:
I'm a man and personally if I block a girl I'm dating from entering my home...


It means I do not love or value her. I don't even respect her. Simple.



There is a way I would convey my feelings to her if I'm unsatisfied about her sudden appearance. They are ways to handle such... respectfully.


People think differently I agree. But if I stand at my door and prevent you from entering just know that it's time for you to move on even if I haven't told you so orally.


It's even difficult for me to threat someone I'm not dating that way!

Lekby25:
I love that guy, he is a disciplined person. That lady is very stubborn. If I'm the guy, i will end that relationship, she won't be a submissive wife

hopexter:
She’s the one disrespecting herself. For a man to be sending you away like this is because the girl comes too often unannounced and he’s tired and sick of it. Your boyfriend’s house is not your family house. This is mostly done by ladies living with their parents and siblings, you cannot visit them at theirs but they want to be at yours any free time of the day.

HenryStarlife:
This doesn’t look like a man in the first place, that’s just an unemployed misogynist.

Mandem05:
Bros you were right with your decision, if na first time offence that can be forgiven. But if either party in a relationship has expressed their opinion about unannounced visits, that opinion should be respected. In this day and age of mobile phone, communication should not be an issue.

SmartMaster001:
That's own standard. Whatever rocks his boat.
But Oga see how you dey peep for window as she dey go?? I no wan hear say you regret losing a good woman if she decides to end the relationship oo.

eagleonearth:
bros I'm on this table now with a lady I was considering getting married to. I have spent over 200k on her within about 7 months of dating her. when I was down, she could not spare me even 1k. This act made me to distance myself from her for about 4months now no communication. I am not sure that marriage will ever take place sef.

udeh3:
If you're not ready for relationship, just remain single. I don't understand the privacy issue for someone you're planning future with

This is a major red flag for me

Mariangeles:
Don't try that with a woman you're not willing to lose.

PotatoSalad:
Lol. You no fit date oyibo then.

HenryStarlife:
This doesn’t look like a man in the first place, that’s just an unemployed misogynist.

udeh3:
The Oyibo go collect my own don't and dos before we start. During my dating days, I made it straight

CaptainWest1000:
Please leave that vampire of a lady, don’t ever get married to her because if you do you won’t live long na responsibilities go Josiah you.

kiddaz:
The only thing I would have done differently is sending her back but I would definitely educate her assuming she doesn't already know I hate unannounced visits to my place. Even from my niggaz. If I can call or text you before coming to your house why can't you do the same? I never visit anyone unannounced, never. I must bell you. It's disrespectful.

GOFRONT:
Back in those dayz, it was ladies that claim right to their privacy not to be invaded even by their Boy lovers............Now the table has changed and they are now being paid in their own coin.