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Fuckyoumod:
Why won't follow him when you are hungry and he fed you free of charge?

So buying food for a girl in a restaurant is sex. You are a potential rapist.
I am a guy and I am saying it. You are a potential rapist.
You will rape any girl that sets foot in your house within 5 minutes.
You bought the food and took her to the restaurant out of your own volition.
She did not force you.
Mr rape rape

Why take her out before you take her home?Where is the sense in that arrangement?Bring her home instead,if she no gree come house,leave her. It's that simple. Instead going through that kind of arrangement,pay a hookup gal and knack ...saves you time,stress, money,too many grammar. Na mumu still dey take woman on a date.

Expecting a girl to sleep with u because u bought her food is satanic idea.

So how will u as a guy feel if u hear your sister is bonking any guy that buys food for her. Her body count will break the metre.

Make we guys they reason small small. If u can't afford to buy food for a girl u looking to date, then u have no business thinking of sex or having a partner.

Instead u should go and double your hustle.

He was looking for olosho and was going on dates? Olosho doeant need dates, if he wants olosho he knows where to find them and he can say how much he wants to pay.

Going on dates is only for people trying to build friendships or relationships not 1 nite stands or spending the night with u after a date. Mumu boy

If most guys tell ladies that all they want is sex, they will die a virgin.


Read again.

Samantha125:
Why would a guy wants a girl to follow him to his house after their first date in the first place?

Please did you pass English in high school? 🤔

No, I didn't.

Wotowotoman:
Please did you pass English in high school? 🤔

Samantha125:
No, I didn't.

No wonder

Hahaha if you don't clarify and let her know your intentions before any date night, you will probably just learn the hard way, after spending like 30k , the babe will chop and tell you she just want to be casual friends .
Then you will go home and start thinking of things you would have done with that 30k lolz

Sonnobax15:

Going on a date with a banny who doesn't even know what she wants . [b]Some will even be busy with their phones all through the date, [/b]date that's supposed to be a time for both of use to get to know each other . Why can't we just go to a cool environment,and talk things out, instead of going out on a date that'll still lead to nothing las las

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Talking stage is very important to ascertain compatibility. Pull a stop loss on emotions if the chemistry is not there.

Beyond that, if the two are interesting enough to go on a date, a man who spends must be rewarded.

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Oyindamolah:
I think you've touched on something important that often gets lost in these conversations.

A date should not be viewed as a financial transaction where one person pays and the other is expected to provide sex as compensation. Human relationships simply do not work that way.

One of the challenges many people face in modern dating is confusing access with entitlement. Spending money on someone may demonstrate interest, generosity, or effort, but it does not create an obligation. Attraction cannot be purchased, and genuine desire cannot be negotiated through receipts.

I also agree that many men would benefit from learning to recognize genuine interest rather than assuming that every interaction with a woman is automatically progressing toward intimacy. A woman can enjoy your company, appreciate a meal, and still decide you're not the right person for her. That's not necessarily exploitation; sometimes it's simply incompatibility.

At the same time, women should also be mindful of giving mixed signals or accepting repeated invitations from people they know they have absolutely no interest in. Respect and consideration should go both ways.

The healthiest approach is for both parties to enter a date with realistic expectations. You're there to see if there's a connection, not to guarantee an outcome.

Ironically, people often become more attractive when they stop approaching every interaction with the pressure of "Where will this lead?" and instead focus on getting to know the person in front of them.

Dating works best when it's driven by curiosity, honesty, and mutual interest—not by a sense of entitlement from either side.

A good date should leave both people with more clarity, not with the feeling that someone owes the other something.

chatgpt boy

Samantha125:
Why would a guy wants a girl to follow him to his house after their first date in the first place?

why should a girl expect a guy to pay for the drink and food on the first date many ladies are just pros...... In disguise

jaxxy:
He was looking for olosho and was going on dates? Olosho doeant need dates, if he wants olosho he knows where to find them and he can say how much he wants to pay.

Going on dates is only for people trying to build friendships or relationships not 1 nite stands or spending the night with u after a date. Mumu boy

YES but if its a date it must not b thr man spending, it must not be where minet would b spent, we can seat in a garden and get to kno each other, that's y I no dey reason una when una jam una match

deebrain:
In other words, if it's a prostitute you want to take out on a date, do your due diligence and go for quality. There are many available in Allen.

Stop the idea of taking someone's daughter on a date with intention of converting her into a prostitute for goodness sake.

Not every flexing must end up in bed.

You are talking about someone who is in the business of sex 4 food, cash, phone, 1m wig, 2m clothes etc, and you say he should not have it in mind?

spiceadole:
This is one of the reasons I always picked my bills whenever I went out with my then boyfriend, now husband.

When I wasn't buoyant enough for such outings,I declined and stayed away...and he never pushed because intention was clear from the start.

Imagine being insulted and embarrassed over food and entertainment that I could afford or avoid simply because a man paid.

Women are really going through a lot.

If i believe you Tibunu would off tomorrow.

Samantha125:
How would you know that she needs oil change when you wouldn't even know her that well?

She came out for oil change if not she would have gone to the salon.

spiceadole:
Then start shaming women with their body counts.
Imagine a woman has to sleep with every man she had a date with.. Damn!

Women have even slept with men they didn't even know the guys name.

Ballotelle:
YES but if its a date it must not b thr man spending, it must not be where minet would b spent, we can seat in a garden and get to kno each other, that's y I no dey reason una when una jam una match

Whoever asked for the date pays for it mosttimes. If the guy asks the girl out he pays and can chose where he feels confortable for him but must be acceptable by her. If the girl asks the guy out she is ideally ment to pay for the date unless the guy tells her not too.

jaxxy:
He was looking for olosho and was going on dates? Olosho doeant need dates, if he wants olosho he knows where to find them and he can say how much he wants to pay.

Going on dates is only for people trying to build friendships or relationships not 1 nite stands or spending the night with u after a date. Mumu boy

But the problem is that o.s also need/want the free food that comes from dates, so he cannot if the girl is an os.

Dtruthspeaker:
But the problem is that o.s also need/want the free food that comes from dates, so he cannot if the girl is an os.

It free food doesnt have to be a date unless u have disscused the date as part of the terms and conditions for mode payment and that is not more a date but mode of payment.

marlow1962:
Why would a lady forget her purse at home and still expect the stranger to pay for everything (even transport back home) in the first place.

I am a man and this post no make sense at all. The said lady was by her own when you fix the date and place of meeting. Nobody force the guy to tell the girl to order anything. You don't assume that she will agree to what is in your head. I wanted to go on a date with someone, but in order for me not to waste my resources I told her my intention. It's about us knowing ourselves for a possible relationship. She said that if it's about relationship, she is not interested. Then I cut off the date. State your intention from the beginning and it will save a lot of things.

Cum4me:
That's why I like broke girls. Immediately they enter your car AC thigh with many lies of what you will do for there family oga believe me they're already wet to follow home on that first date. Some go give knack for that your car that day. Just guide as a man you will understand that words that say(money over bitches)

The way you guys are comfortable in making some statement is worrisome. Like you are very happy saying all these. No principal, nothing at all. No fear of God, no dignity or integrity, no public image. Every wrong thing is all right. Even if I bad pass you you won't see me in such a conversation. Moral demands accountability and good public behaviour. Don't destroy people's life in the name of wanting to have sex. Don't tell ladies what you don't mean. If na their body you want tell them so. God is watching just know that.

ogascomax:
I am a man and this post no make sense at all. The said lady was by her own when you fix the date and place of meeting. Nobody force the guy to tell the girl to order anything. You don't assume that she will agree to what is in your head. I wanted to go on a date with someone, but in order for me not to waste my resources I told her my intention. It's about us knowing ourselves for a possible relationship. She said that if it's about relationship, she is not interested. Then I cut off the date. State your intention from the beginning and it will save a lot of things.

Must you as a man fix dates where there's something to drink or eat?

Samantha125:
Why would a guy wants a girl to follow him to his house after their first date in the first place?

Is there any reason why the first date cannot even happen at the house of the man -- if was necessary for it to take place there?

spiceadole:
This is one of the reasons I always picked my bills whenever I went out with my then boyfriend, now husband.

When I wasn't buoyant enough for such outings,I declined and stayed away...and he never pushed because intention was clear from the start.

Imagine being insulted and embarrassed over food and entertainment that I could afford or avoid simply because a man paid.

Women are really going through a lot.

Men are also going through alot, most women take advantage when it comes to dating just because majority of them have this entitlement mentality, in a civilised world, both split the bills.