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Stephen0mozzy:
You've slated your wedding for August/September, so means you guys have dated for atleast more than 3months?

It's just another 3months before you legally start having sex. Why the rush?

And you see that thing called Alpja Male bulshyte, it's the religion of sad males who do not have a mind of their own to think for themselves.

uyams:
Please 🙏 nairalanders I need advice
When we started talking newly, she told me she was a virgin, during the cause of our intimate chat's,she said she has never had sex but was abused by a youth copper attached to her secondary school.I didnt buy the story but I had to play along.

I want to marry her by August/September, .But my problem is she said no sex till after marriage,we involve in deep romance and even go fully unclad but she wont allow penetration, I threatened it would be an issue for us but she doesnt care, who has experienced such? , how do I handle this?
Is she playing a good girl card for me while living another version elsewhere? I dont know anything about her apart from the one she show's me and told me?

I have been exposed to many alpha male teaching online's that I I'm confused weather I should apply here all play along and wait till after our wedding

Note: I have bent many rule's including marrying a Non-virgine and marrying outside my hometown just for her, why can't she reciprocate

uyams:
I understand, just that I feel like she doesnt have a reason for being this mean to me

uyams:
I understand, just that I feel like she doesnt have a reason for being this mean to me, she is generous to me and do thing's for me cheerfully

WatchYourSix:
Shes just playing good girl card/script with you…... and I can tell u for free that women dont uphold rules and regulation for men they are really crazy about …. So baba.. that card is a smoke screen

Telling you another guy/ex is somewhere spreading the leg would be a fallacy, but baba, thats what happens more than 90% of the time when a sexually active woman says to another serious guy she doesn’t want sex until marriage…

Just open ur eyes shaa…. If a woman is trying to play good girl card… then shes likely covering something she doesnt want you to see

Jman06:
This is not always true!
When it comes to the issue of sex before marriage, ladies are always very careful (especially those from decent homes with good upbringing). Being a single mom in this time and age is not funny! There's a lot of stigma attached to being a single mom due to pregnancy out of wedlock.

uyams:
Please 🙏 nairalanders I need advice
When we started talking newly, she told me she was a virgin, during the cause of our intimate chat's,she said she has never had sex but was abused by a youth copper attached to her secondary school.I didnt buy the story but I had to play along.

I want to marry her by August/September, .But my problem is she said no sex till after marriage,we involve in deep romance and even go fully unclad but she wont allow penetration, I threatened it would be an issue for us but she doesnt care, who has experienced such? , how do I handle this?
Is she playing a good girl card for me while living another version elsewhere? I dont know anything about her apart from the one she show's me and told me?

I have been exposed to many alpha male teaching online's that I I'm confused weather I should apply here all play along and wait till after our wedding

Note: I have bent many rule's including marrying a Non-virgine and marrying outside my hometown just for her, why can't she reciprocate

brain54:
How old are both of you...?


You guys romance and even go fully naked. I'm sighting maybe not a fully red flag there... maybe a pink flag.

I don't really have a problem with no sex before marriage if that's your thing. But the circumstances matter... no go marry woman wey dey frigid or sexually incompatible with you o... because that's the flag whatever color it is that I am spotting.


Flag na flag o!

uyams:
Please 🙏 nairalanders I need advice
When we started talking newly, she told me she was a virgin, during the cause of our intimate chat's,she said she has never had sex but was abused by a youth copper attached to her secondary school.I didnt buy the story but I had to play along.

I want to marry her by August/September, .But my problem is she said no sex till after marriage,we involve in deep romance and even go fully unclad but she wont allow penetration, I threatened it would be an issue for us but she doesnt care, who has experienced such? , how do I handle this?
Is she playing a good girl card for me while living another version elsewhere? I dont know anything about her apart from the one she show's me and told me?

I have been exposed to many alpha male teaching online's that I I'm confused weather I should apply here all play along and wait till after our wedding

Note: I have bent many rule's including marrying a Non-virgine and marrying outside my hometown just for her, why can't she reciprocate

uyams:
Please 🙏 nairalanders I need advice
When we started talking newly, she told me she was a virgin, during the cause of our intimate chat's,she said she has never had sex but was abused by a youth copper attached to her secondary school.I didnt buy the story but I had to play along.

I want to marry her by August/September, .But my problem is she said no sex till after marriage,we involve in deep romance and even go fully unclad but she wont allow penetration, I threatened it would be an issue for us but she doesnt care, who has experienced such? , how do I handle this?
Is she playing a good girl card for me while living another version elsewhere? I dont know anything about her apart from the one she show's me and told me?

I have been exposed to many alpha male teaching online's that I I'm confused weather I should apply here all play along and wait till after our wedding

Note: I have bent many rule's including marrying a Non-virgine and marrying outside my hometown just for her, why can't she reciprocate

uyams:
Please 🙏 nairalanders I need advice
When we started talking newly, she told me she was a virgin, during the cause of our intimate chat's,she said she has never had sex but was abused by a youth copper attached to her secondary school.I didnt buy the story but I had to play along.

I want to marry her by August/September, .But my problem is she said no sex till after marriage,we involve in deep romance and even go fully unclad but she wont allow penetration, I threatened it would be an issue for us but she doesnt care, who has experienced such? , how do I handle this?
Is she playing a good girl card for me while living another version elsewhere? I dont know anything about her apart from the one she show's me and told me?

I have been exposed to many alpha male teaching online's that I I'm confused weather I should apply here all play along and wait till after our wedding

Note: I have bent many rule's including marrying a Non-virgine and marrying outside my hometown just for her, why can't she reciprocate

23jerryking:
It is well, mine I only met her recently, let's say about 5 months now. But we started dating officially about 2 months ago. She didn't tell me she was a virgin, she only told me that she made a mistake in her former relationship. Normally she doesn't keep anything about herself from me. She broke up with the guy due to the fact that he was no longer showing affections and always unavailable emotionally. But here's my fear, I've never been with anyone. I'm a virgin guy(if there's anything like that). And now we've agreed not to have sex till we're married, but now I'm beginning to ask myself if I made the right call. Is it supposed to be this complicated? Honestly I don't know how to advise you, given that I'm also in the same boat. But I'll simply tell you to do what your heart is at peace with. Do you really love her? If you do then just relax, but be sure there's nothing she's keeping away from you.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Young man, don't play yourself. Except she is a virgin(proven) then you can let having sex until marriage slide. Asides that forget it.

23jerryking:
It is well, mine I only met her recently, let's say about 5 months now. But we started dating officially about 2 months ago. She didn't tell me she was a virgin, she only told me that she made a mistake in her former relationship. Normally she doesn't keep anything about herself from me. She broke up with the guy due to the fact that he was no longer showing affections and always unavailable emotionally. But here's my fear, I've never been with anyone. I'm a virgin guy(if there's anything like that). And now we've agreed not to have sex till we're married, but now I'm beginning to ask myself if I made the right call. Is it supposed to be this complicated? Honestly I don't know how to advise you, given that I'm also in the same boat. But I'll simply tell you to do what your heart is at peace with. Do you really love her? If you do then just relax, but be sure there's nothing she's keeping away from you.

uyams:
Please 🙏 nairalanders I need advice
When we started talking newly, she told me she was a virgin, during the cause of our intimate chat's,she said she has never had sex but was abused by a youth copper attached to her secondary school.I didnt buy the story but I had to play along.

I want to marry her by August/September, .But my problem is she said no sex till after marriage,we involve in deep romance and even go fully unclad but she wont allow penetration, I threatened it would be an issue for us but she doesnt care, who has experienced such? , how do I handle this?
Is she playing a good girl card for me while living another version elsewhere? I dont know anything about her apart from the one she show's me and told me?

I have been exposed to many alpha male teaching online's that I I'm confused weather I should apply here all play along and wait till after our wedding

Note: I have bent many rule's including marrying a Non-virgine and marrying outside my hometown just for her, why can't she reciprocate

HopeNeverDies:
Lmao… I’m almost 30yo. One thing I’m certain of over the years in relationship scene is that “ Ladies only give Conditions to someone they don’t Love “

Forget bout being unclad together lol… if a girl is giving you conditions in a relationship, she’s most likely doesn’t rate you.