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mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.
Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

PART of ME , tells u not to eat ANY PART OF MEAL in her HOUSE HOLD.

DID u DISENGANGE before he ENGAGED? if not na INCONJUCTION the matter go be, SINCE SHE SHARED HER 2 HOMMIES with u before, u can AT LEAST SHARE the MAN together, one GOOD TURN DESREVES another... this is jus a CASE of OLD BANNY and OLD HOMMIES
remember to CHEESE on wedding day photo 📸

mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

you should be pray for mercy for yourself. John 4:17-18
[17]“I have no husband,” she replied. Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband.
[18]The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.”

Tell him.

mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

Bluntguy:
I think it's high time you yourself started thinking of settling down.

You think say to settle down na beans. Na when you won settle down you go know say wife no Dey again. My guy wey won marry since two years now no fit see good girl marry. Hmm

All these thing wey you dey write, na jumbo. The truth be say, as you see the girl you remember the knacking, e come be you like say you for knack the girl again.

Mind your business og

make u face front

mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

mind your business, the same happened to me and I mind my business today they have 4 kids together and are very happy.

Oya go fight your friend because of woman, if she love u she won't agree with ur friend

Mind your business!

you re just jealous she is attractive and ur old time friend is getting married to her, when you slept with her did you pay her, as you think she is into runs, u no get work

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okezuoemmanue:
Na jealous dey worry u sey u lost a sweet banny to ur guy. Move on jorry. That woman u will later marry, once she isn't virgin, don't u know na another man are her

It's not in your place to judge her, as a man like you move on, the guy knows what she saw in her that made him make decisions to marry her, someone might be flirty during singleness doesn't mean she will be during marriage.. just move on with your life

You are jealous. They are happy. It is not your business. Shift very far. Jealousy.

Zooposki:
Men believe they cause women to depreciate in value, thats why they dont want women that have a high body count. They know other men are of no value.

Meanwhile its the opposite for women. Thats why men hail other men the more women they sleep with, cos they believe women give them more value.

whats your count

Killermamba:
mind your business, the same happened to me and I mind my business today they have 4 kids together and are very happy.

why you no marry am

mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

Every human being on this earth have a past life even your girlfriend.

Allow her to get married

chudez0147:
You think say to settle down na beans. Na when you won settle down you go know say wife no Dey again. My guy wey won marry since two years now no fit see good girl marry. Hmm

how do i avoid marrying a hookup girl? Advice me

Nah sombody go marry you self, face your front, and let the man enjoy his new bride

mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

So what? Every garden tool get owner. If I were you, I would tell my friend except he's not really my friend then I will continue from where we stopped until he puts a ring on it... Seriously save a friend by coming out clean and don't add spice just let him know you had her at some point and how things were that made you take off. Some guys are not like us, they are very nice guys and her past never matters. So tell him and let him decide. And most of those guys like him will reveal everything to her so just be ready to have a new enemy in her. Either ways let the truth out.

josielewa:
BRO, JUST MIND YOUR BUSINESS. YOU DONT KNOW THE LEVEL OF LOVETHEY HAVE FOR EACH OTHER. DONT BE THE GUY TO POUR SAND INSIDE THE GIRLS GARRI. JUST MOVE ON, LET THEM BE. IF ANYTHING COMES BETWEEN THEM FROM THE INFORMATION YOU ARE ABOUT TO SPILL, THAT GIRL WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU BECAUSE ITS NOT EASY FOR A LADY TO FIND A WILLING GUY WHO IS READY TO MARRY.

MIND YOUR BUSINESS. IF I WERE YOU, I WILL MIND MY BUSINESS AND REDUCE MY VISIT TO MY FRIEND. YOU DONT LOVE HOW MUCH LOVE THEY HAVE FOR EACH OTHER, YOU DONT KNOW IF THEY ALREADY HAD THE HEART2HEART TALK. JUST LET THE 2 LOVEBIRDS BE AS FAR AS SHE IS NO LONGER LIVING THAT LIFE

If the person that proposed was your brother, will you type this? If yes, then it's fine. If no, then you are part of the problem we have in this society

Carot:
how do i avoid marrying a hookup girl? Advice me

Lol so you are in love with a hookup girl? How? Like you will marry any girl just be prepared for the consequences cos even if she repainted and found God and Jesus her sins are wiped off and she will make heaven but the consequences of her actions cannot be overwritten. Nature is never partial

intruder15:
If the person that proposed was your brother, will you type this? If yes, then it's fine. If no, then you are part of the problem we have in this society

No mind that one. They are the reason we are where we are today. A rotten society. He doesn't eve have any business he's minding

YES, I WILL. WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE, I DONT INTERFARE. THE ONLY THING I TELL INTENDING COUPLES IS IF THEY KNOW EACH OTHER WELL, I.E..THEY DONE A SECRET BACKGROUND CHECK ON THEMSELVES.

intruder15:
If the person that proposed was your brother, will you type this? If yes, then it's fine. If no, then you are part of the problem we have in this society

josielewa:
YES, I WILL. WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE, I DONT INTERFARE. THE ONLY THING I TELL INTENDING COUPLES IS IF THEY KNOW EACH OTHER WELL, I.E..THEY DONE A SECRET BACKGROUND CHECK ON THEMSELVES.

From your mouth to God's ears. So shall it be in your family and lineage.

If you tell him and he replies "don't worry, I already know" how would you feel?
If you won't feel a thing then go ahead and tell him but if it will make u feel somehow, then don't tell. Thanks u

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mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

WHATEVER, WHAT WIL BE WILL BE. YOU TAKE THINGS TOO PERSONAL, EVEN THE O.P IS NOT THIS DEAD SERIOUS. THIS TOPIC FROM THE OP IS BECAUSE THE O.P KNOWS THE GIRL IN QUESTION. WHAT IF O.P DOESNT KNOW THE GIRL, WHAT IF THE GIRL IS EVEN UPRIGHT THEN END UP CHANGING IN MARRIAGE. FINDING A MAN OR A WOMAN FOR MARRIAGE IS A 50/50 CHANCE. YOU MIGHT THINK YOU VE FOUND THE ONE, ONLY TO REGRET IT LATER EVEN AFTER DOING BACKGROUND CHECKS. LOOK AT THE TRENDING CASE OF JUDY AUSTIN WHO LEFT HER FIRST HUSBAND WHO WAS RESPONSIBLE FOR HER, PAYED FOR HER EDUCATION, MARRIED HER, HAD 2 KIDS IN THE MARRIAGE ONLY TO END UP WITH THAT ACTOR SHE WAS FANTASIZING ABOUT ON T.V. ITS A CRAZY WORLD.

I WILL ALWAYS LET 2 LOVERS BE. THEY ARE ADULTS AND THEY SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE FOR SEEKING KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE PERSON THEIR WOULD BE PARTNER IS.

intruder15:
From your mouth to God's ears. So shall it be in your family and lineage.

Everybody is telling him to mind his business, but at the same time, if the guy about to marry that girl were your brother, would you still tell him to mind his own business? People can be very wicked in Nigeria. Guy if you care about that guy, spill.

LETS CHANGE THE SCENARIO NOW. IF THAT GIRL WERE TO BE YOUR SISTER WHO WANTS TO SETTLE DOWN, WILL YOU TELL YOUR INTENDING INLAWS ABOUT YOUR SISTER FLAWS OR SEXCAPADES, EVEN IF YOU ARE CLOSE TO YOUR INTENDING INLAW LIKE A FRIEND.

victorv12:
Everybody is telling him to mind his business, but at the same time, if the guy about to marry that girl were your brother, would you still tell him to mind his own business? People can be very wicked in Nigeria. Guy if you care about that guy, spill.

APP aproko people party
Guy try make u settle down
Even ashawo self dey marry
Even if u lash her self na her life and your nigga saw wat u couldn't see

kiddaz:
Lol so you are in love with a hookup girl? How? Like you will marry any girl just be prepared for the consequences cos even if she repainted and found God and Jesus her sins are wiped off and she will make heaven but the consequences of her actions cannot be overwritten. Nature is never partial

i don't want to fall inside the trap. What if she's doing it codedly