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SHIVA001:
Na lack of communication dey cause am.
No be because say u carry woman come eatery. U go knack am that dey. Unless if she be hook up lady.

A sensible man must knack a woman in the first date. The meet up must be at his house. No sensible man takes a woman to a date. The venue should be at his house or she fck off

Well what do you expect from wretched men?

Mckandre:
Omo, when did a first date automatically become a marriage ceremony? 😅

Guys are getting desperate o. Last time I checked, first dates aren't supposed to be pressured. Just do something you're comfortable with, don't overdo things and then expect it to end in sex. If the girl isn't into hookups, all that pressure is pointless.

Who has data to watch a tale of something that did not happen? Not me

Please what the Bleep is talking stage

Don't say Nigerian men, the dude in question Bleep up big time by assuming he's going to shift your pant after spending on you. He should have ask first or communicate it well before any commitment or investment. It is called talking stage for a reason and you there to talk and get to know each other. And as a woman try dey chop 4 house and hold your Tfare, to have avoid many things... as you pay for your drive back home you die?

spiceadole:
Paying for your food is the honourable thing to do.
A man cannot buy you food without expecting to sleep with you.
It is what it is.
Pay for your food or stay in your house..you will not die.

I paid my bills in every outing with my then fiance,now husband.
Whenever I was low on funds,I decline dates or suggested places I could afford. .

Nothing is free..even your father that's feeding you today expects that you become responsible for him tomorrow.

This is the dumbest comment in this thread.
The person who invites is a host and should be the one paying for dining.

As a person, having money for emergencies is important.

IbnB:
Oga change your circle o, na hook-up you dey carry wey you think say na regular girls

I don't do hook up, I have females friends but I don't know if they do hks because it's none of my business.

I stated facts about today's dating. Taking a girl on date nowadays, the chances of she bursting it wide open for you on first date is very high, only if you call the right price or treat her to a fancy 4-star restaurant or you are loaded and good looking.

andrealallor:
This is the dumbest comment in this thread.
The person who invites is a host and should be the one paying for dining.

As a person, having money for emergencies is important.

That is what it is logically but times have changed.

Men are saying women owe them sex and they have a right to demand for sex when they pay for their food and drink.

Pay for your bill or decline the invitation and stay at home..

Call it dumb if you like,them go embarrass you tire.

ReacherSaidNoth:
I just cannot watch a video of a woman yapping, doesn't matter the topic

Same. You just know that whatever comes out of their mouth is inherently vapid. Like they're just making noises that sounds like communication.

spiceadole:
That is what it is logically but times have changed.

Men are saying women owe them sex and they have a right to demand for sex when they pay for their food and drink.

Pay for your bill or decline the invitation and stay at home..

Call it dumb if you like,them go embarrass you tire.

Times changing doesn't make any difference.

The men saying women oweunf sex bacause they spent on her are simply stewpid and badly raised and they don't define the men who were raised right. (maybe you aren't that lucky with men 🤷🏿‍♀️)

If you as a man want to meet with someone you like and don't have the means to entertain such person, simply maintain your lane and stop looking for cheap shots.

Grow the 4kup!