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Please as a man don't force a date or don't fight to resurrect a woman's feelings for you

For me I'm not going for my spec anymore but that one girl who's overly obsessed and in love with me

Toolegit123:
You're so right my brother. The thing jux tire me. But how guyman wan take see wife marry now?

I have one too now, but people are telling me she's too young because of age difference. As she's not bothered about that and I'm not too, then it's their problem. Girl wey I asked if she fit wish for anything now what will she wish for, she said she will wish for plenty money, then she shocked me by saying even if she will have to work very hard for it. She's just too matured for her age.

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Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately,so I decided it was high time i tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess,it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady,a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week,we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date,I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left,I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward,I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then,what actually buried the whole thing was that,even after everything,I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place,you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first,I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise,she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty

So single guys in the house,have anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?

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Na you tell the girl say you no wise from your first act of paying her tfare... Woman wey really send you nor dey demand those things from you or even give room for you to do am. It doesn't show you're caring, rather it shows you're unwise. That's why she treated you that way throughout the date. And you still went ahead to add more insults by contacting her again. Are you a slave? No sense of self worth or dignity. You lost your honor and she did the right thing any smart girl will do with an unwise man. You got the exact treatment you deserved from her. Rubbish!

Toolegit123:
. You're lucky bro, to have found a responsible woman. These days,it's almost becoming more or less like a Herculean task to find a woman who's responsible to tick all the boxes of a healthy relationship.

No one ticks all the boxes, that na childish fantasy. Know yourself first as a man and build yourself, not just material but in every aspect. If you like get money wey long make you no get sense or self respect you will always see rubbish in their hands and will always be used. The same girl when dey do you like trash dey crawl for another guy when fit no even get half of wetin you get. Know yourself

kiddaz:
No one ticks all the boxes, that na childish fantasy. Know yourself first as a man and build yourself, not just material but in every aspect. If you like get money wey long make you no get sense or self respect you will always see rubbish in their hands and will always be used. The same girl when dey do you like trash dey crawl for another guy when fit no even get half of wetin you get. Know yourself

. Thank you very much bro.

kiddaz:
No one ticks all the boxes, that na childish fantasy. Know yourself first as a man and build yourself, not just material but in every aspect. If you like get money wey long make you no get sense or self respect you will always see rubbish in their hands and will always be used. The same girl when dey do you like trash dey crawl for another guy when fit no even get half of wetin you get. Know yourself

Well said. 👍💯

In the past, I blamed these little internet keyboard warriors for being unnecessarily insensitive to women. But now that I know better, I no longer blame them.

Many people, especially women in societies where dependence is encouraged, end up living in the shadow of who they truly are because they are not aligned with their true identity and purpose. Many are unaware that building your life entirely on dependence on others can become a thief of purpose.

Ladies, whatever truly belongs to you; whether earned through your purpose or received from others; doesn't have to come with shame, humiliation, or the loss of your dignity. It can in fact come with honour.

Even that beggar you see by the roadside is not necessarily living in poverty simply because he was born poor. He remains in that condition because he has not yet discovered his true identity and purpose. The moment he aligns with that purpose, the garment of poverty will be torn away.

Have you ever wondered why love seems to thrive in many developed countries? In those countries, some women even marry average or unemployed men, and many of these marriages still work to some extent, at least while they last. But in many African societies, relationships often feel more broken. Many women feel men are villains, and many men feel women are villains. So much confusion.

There is a deeper reason behind this, and it is not even about the marriage rules or the economy. I can't break everything down right now, but my advice to everyone is to become aware of who you are.

I used to think the world was created unfairly and that not everyone would be able to live peacefully or in abundance, or even provide for their basic needs. But I discovered I was wrong. The mystery of life is that there is sufficient provision for everyone. We are not each other's enemies. Poverty in Africa has a hidden source. Africans need to wake up and break free.

Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?

so you never see 23 years lady

BigYash:
Na that date una take dey spoil the girls. Keep copying oyibo in Africa setting.

Girl when go get head ,you can spot it from phone conversation already.

Exactly!

Bittersweetnig:
na so everywhere oh, if you try 20, 18 of them na the same, the remaining two will get one weird attitude

😂 😂 😂 😂
Hahahahaha

Hahahahaha


Omo

See wetin APC cause for Nigeria

Chei


How many wan take dey do naw?!!

I am genuinely confused, what part of this story about the behaviour of some of our Nigerian women ìs surprising?

The woman owns a saloon and you send transportation money to her on the first date, let me guess she didn't pay for her food and even took some snacks home.

Nothing interesting in the story jàre. We wey sabi don sabi finish.

READY to EAT POLITICS begun with them in GARDEN of EDEN it was MARRIAGE bfr but now "RELATIONSHIPS" are also "POVERTY ALLEVATION PROGRAMME" watch out for KIND NGO u wan RUN 80% are PARTICIPANTS ; ati je ati mu

WHEN i tell ppl by 2030, MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE will cycle 3 YEARS like LEAD IMPLEMENTER AUDIT CYCLE YEAAAR after Initial CERTIFICATION the 3 years AUDIT STAGE 2 then RECERTIFICATION

You lost me at "This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business"

Not paying attention during the date was a clear message that she's not interested in you but you kept bothering her, so she has to use billing to chase you out. Move on Buddy

Stephen0mozzy:
Dear Single Men, if you meet someone from a referral or online, and the first time you guys are having a conversation is on phone, make sure, make sure, make sure that there is some vibes from the conversation before you schedule physical date.

If e nor day when they still have a fantasy of you in their head, e nor go still dey if they meet you in person.

If you force a date with an uninterested female, and she comes she immediately assumes that you owe her compensation for her time.

Good thing I have a beautiful and great babe, mehn, me for just end up doing surrogacy for a child. I too get pride to tolerate rubbish. 🤧

me I get pride die bro

I don't take a sh:t from ladies because I don't see much they offer

8starmember:
me I get pride die bro

I don't take a sh:t from ladies because I don't see much they offer

Lol... For only ladies? Me no dey take shitz from any body at all.

And meanwhile, na them dey call am pride, it's actually Self-Worth 🙌🏾.

Man wey know himself nor dey play with rags.

[quote author=Toolegit123 post=139819323]Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?[/quote
apart from sex, majority of them have nothing to offer. if you control your lost you will see that they are useless .

She's not for you and she doesn't have any affection towards you, just let her be after all their are many fishes in the ocean. don't ever stress yourself because of a woman.

Na hookup girls full market, even if they are working Dem dey run side hookup. All na tinubu economy cause am.

Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?

she is not hungry. She just do not fancy you. If you get your own woman, she will never behave like this. Most of these nowadays women are trained criminals.

Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?

You said she has a salon. That means she could afford transport to the date venue. So why did you pay it? First issue.

Nwaokunkpara:
Please as a man don't force a date or don't fight to resurrect a woman's feelings for you

For me I'm not going for my spec anymore but that one girl who's overly obsessed and in love with me

This is it bro. A woman should love you more than you love her. If not, wahala will be inevitable.

eagleonearth:
she is not hungry. She just do not fancy you. If you get your own woman, she will never behave like this. Most of these nowadays women are trained criminals.

Trained criminals. Lol.

Na that surrogacy dey my mind, just twin boys.

Stephen0mozzy:
Dear Single Men, if you meet someone from a referral or online, and the first time you guys are having a conversation is on phone, make sure, make sure, make sure that there is some vibes from the conversation before you schedule physical date.

If e nor day when they still have a fantasy of you in their head, e nor go still dey if they meet you in person.

If you force a date with an uninterested female, and she comes she immediately assumes that you owe her compensation for her time.

Good thing I have a beautiful and great babe, mehn, me for just end up doing surrogacy for a child. I too get pride to tolerate rubbish. 🤧

eagleonearth:
she is not hungry. She just do not fancy you. If you get your own woman, she will never behave like this. Most of these nowadays women are trained criminals.

😀😀😀at trained criminals

JuanDeDios:
Trained criminals. Lol.

Same got me laughing.

Toolegit123:
You're so right my brother. The thing jux tire me. But how guyman wan take see wife marry now?

😂😂😂 Na when e don reach to settle down na you go know say to see wife you need God's grace too. As it stand so I haven't given up o but I just don't want to give thought on that anymore. Perhaps I will just work into one relationship some day. I just want to continue to build capacity and capabilities. For me wey come like good looking girl makes it harder to get a decent one. I find it uninspiring meeting a girl on the way to have a conversation.

Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?

😂😂 No matter how one day we go see our choice. Getting married to the kind of woman you wish is one of the blessings God can give you. Like you like a beautiful woman and you get that. My guy you are blessed already. Some men hand up settling with women that don't have the kind of beauty the hope for at the end.

It's experiences like this that give birth to guys who only want to date girls for x.

If you really want dates that you would enjoy, she has to love you a lot more than you like her.

Most of these girls have high expectations besides physical attractiveness. If she isn't into you, baba, leave her alone.

Na ladies dey mess up now.

Go to face-me-I-face-you houses, many single ladies without children and husband are there.

They carry their burden alone.

Ladies try and apply wisdom and get sense now I am warning you seriously