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Poll: How do I proceed?

Pay a oloshe and practice with her before getting married 23% (24 votes)
Don't do oloshe, Look for a girlfriend and explore with her 76% (77 votes)
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Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Gboss247(m): 10:13pm On Jun 25
spiceadole:
42 is a young man.
At 70 ,a man can marry a 20 year old woman.. so chill
At 70, heis age mates are grandfathers waiting to become great grandfathers.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by jaxxy(m): 10:55pm On Jun 25
Sex education needs to br taught properly at home and school or else adolescents will keep stubling in sex like an experiment.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by correctguy101(m): 11:17pm On Jun 25
Samantha125:
Do you have any better suggestions?🤔🤔🤔 Because clearly his one arm struggle won't help in this situation and I'm sure his arm has struggled enough throughout the years.

And don't tell me he must experiment with those ladies of the night.
I like the way you use words. One arm struggle indeed 🤣🤣🤣

Didn't he mention he finally got himself a girl? He should simply start from there.

Plus I'm one who believes one is not taught that. He should have ideas already at this age and maybe continue to learn on the job Biko..

Lwkmd 🤣🤣
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by IMPARTIAL: 11:58pm On Jun 25
Stupid question. No...carry hookup girl!
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Caseless: 2:07am On Jun 26
lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
Get along with her and tell her you'd like to have a deeper moment with her - to entrench the connection.

Don't start with Olosho. Don't tell her you're a virgin. Use protection.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Kingson28: 2:16am On Jun 26
[quote author=lovediehatelive post=139789802]Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.


[You are NOT a true born again Christian. If you're you would not be thinking of having sinful premarital sex with any lady/woman. Give your life to Jesus Christ. Then, go and marry.]
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by wjxavier(m): 3:47am On Jun 26
Sad you’re asking this question. But anyway.

You’re a pastors son. You know a little Bible.

I have one question.

Who taught Adam to kpensh?

Did he have hookup?

Don’t corrupt your destiny man.

You’ve lasted this long. It will bless your home.

Wait and get married.

Don’t be a fool.

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Ishilove: 3:59am On Jun 26
Duke007:
My brother, don't throw away something you have faithfully preserved for over four decades because of pressure from people. At almost 45, it would be a tragic mistake to exchange your convictions for a few moments of pleasure just to feel accepted.

The Bible says, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world." — 4:4. You don't have to bow to peer pressure or worldly expectations.

Also remember, "Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him." — 2:15.

Your purity is not a burden; it is a testimony. Don't let ungodly counsel destroy what God has helped you keep. If marriage is your desire, pray, trust God, and pursue an honourable relationship. There is no need to "practice" with a prostitute or hookup partner. Sex is not an achievement to prove yourself; it is a gift God designed for marriage.

I got married as a virgin, and my wife was also a virgin. We learned together, and our marriage has been fulfilling. Experience is not what makes a marriage successful—love, commitment, patience, and God's grace do.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." — 3:5–6.

Stay faithful. Hold on to your convictions. God's way always brings lasting peace, and in His time, you will never regret waiting.
The only comment that has made sense so far. Godly wisdom
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by olamakinde(m): 5:09am On Jun 26
Amotolongbo:
You could try out with some holes at home.
Tiger blade has 3 holes, with just one tiger blade, that’s a 4-sum.
werey ni e
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by koladata(m): 5:20am On Jun 26
Let the girl know who you are, tell her your story, tell her you are a novice and she would have to guide you.

If you did not tell her all these, you might not even get an erection when you try to have sex with her due to anxiety.

But when you tell her your story, don't make it sound like a sad, put a touch of fun and laughter to it, you didn't do anything bad, you did the normal thing by keeping yourself till you found the right person. Unfortunately, we leave in a society where bad thing becomes the right thing and good thing becomes the bad thing .

All the men criticizing you here would do anything to marry a virgin, they want to eat their cake and have it. If all men are like you, every men would marry a virgin. So no need to feel bad about yourself bro. Just open up to your new girlfriend and that will make it easy for you .


lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by ogbevireo(m): 5:26am On Jun 26
If you have waited this long then just get married to someone you love and both of you start the experience together.

It is an exciting experience, most things that are new are going to feel that way. However, it is not worth going to olosho. It is not worth doing it outside marriage especially for someone who had been on the right path.

Also, the excitement usually fades after ejaculation especially for guys.

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by sonofthunder: 6:10am On Jun 26
Omoawoke:
I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons
Did you read the op at all or are you simply judgemental?
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Tzar(m): 6:40am On Jun 26
You are a man with complex issues, scared to death about rejection and underperformance.
lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Jumbojax(m): 8:58am On Jun 26
Omoawoke:
I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons
This rhetoric is dumb guy.

Manhood no be knacks abeg gi, Manhood na responsibilty

Op na Man you be, forget these wankers

You wan tell me say Isaac Newton failed manhood.

You wan tell me say Jesus failed humanity

Toto don confine you, you no know any other reason for life again
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Cheeryfeet: 9:01am On Jun 26
lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
Bro you are a prize. What you have is priceless. Guard it diligently. Don't throw it away for anything. Don't mind all these sons of jezebel trying to make you feel bad. They are from hell believe me. Even some of them don't know they are from hell. Find a woman you love and marry her and enjoy your sex. You will always have that testimony and I can assure you those that once mocked you will envy you. But you need to be bold, study, attend relationship seminars, go for pre marital classes before you wed. Study relationship books. It will help you a lot
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Problemssolver: 9:26am On Jun 26
Mr church boy, are you really a child of God. Why worry yourself about practicing how to have sex. My advice is keep yourself holy to your God, get married and the rest of the story will be history.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by VaginaAcademic: 9:27am On Jun 26
Hold iron swear say you no soapy ... My brother in Christ that one counts as sex too grin
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by laraveltest: 10:18am On Jun 26
I feel like you are putting the cart before the horse. I feel like your main issue is a communication one. You need to open up about your sexual strength to your woman because it's not something you can hide. Make you no go kill yourself one day. Simply tell her you are doing it for the first time. Everyone was once a novice.

Aside sex, not being open or trying to hide your deficiency in a relationship will affect you on a long run. Oga if na 1min you fit do, no kill yourself do am then improve on your sexual strength. And if you can't satisfy a woman it best you look for the one you can satisfy.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Mrexcell(m): 12:51pm On Jun 26
Omoawoke:
I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons
What a wrong mindset so u mean reverend fathers, popes, unmarried rich pastors like the one in imo state that claimed to still be a virgin at over forty years have all failed humanity?
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by olaseni95(m): 1:30pm On Jun 26
At 45 you don’t know what you fi*king want to do with your life omo!
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by manitobor(m): 2:19pm On Jun 26
kiddaz:
Whaaat huh
Omor the semen go don turn agidi be that... If you mistake knack any girl she will take in that very minute and she go confirm am shocked
As if he's not been masturbating and spilling his semen all over the place. 🤨
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by eteba(m): 2:54pm On Jun 26
You are a disappointment to your preeek, it is crying for justice as we speak.

You had just one job as a man, and you failed.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by kiddaz: 3:05pm On Jun 26
manitobor:
As if he's not been masturbating and spilling his semen all over the place. 🤨
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Sensiblerealist(m): 3:13pm On Jun 26
Agidi keh!
Wet dreams dey nah
E fit get experience with soapy too. He didn't specify


kiddaz:
Whaaat huh
Omor the semen go don turn agidi be that... If you mistake knack any girl she will take in that very minute and she go confirm am shocked
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Breaker001: 3:26pm On Jun 26
If you know the spiritual implication and potency of this feat you have done, and the possibilities that lies ahead of you, you would treat anybody who wants you to break your virginity unlawfully as an enemy; talk less of wasting in on a harlot.
I envy you, my brother but it seems you don't know what you have 😎

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Oceanjagaban: 8:49pm On Jun 27
lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
the Day you finally kpansh , you go shout well well o...enough thick thick youghurt
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by Okoroemekah: 3:04pm On Jun 28
lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.
This is wild.how I wish I can believe this.no masturbation or kpekus for 42yrs.my God how I wish I can see the video of your cum,it will be like the opening of kanji dam,this is crazy
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by lindqvistbergst(m): 1:10pm On Aug 26
Now im confused as to Why no one gave him the obvious human advice? Are you truly not the humble and respectful nationality you claim to be?

Women are human and very very understanding if you treat them correctly and with respect. He could have just been honest and told a single female friend. In situations like this when single 9 times out 10 they will just let you.

Just be honest me old china.
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by StillDtruth: 1:31pm On Aug 26
Okoroemekah:
This is wild.how I wish I can believe this.no masturbation or kpekus for 42yrs.my God how I wish I can see the video of your cum,it will be like the opening of kanji dam,this is crazy
He didn't say he did not masturbate
Re: Here's Why I Didn't Have Sex Till 42 Years by StillDtruth: 1:33pm On Aug 26
Breaker001:
If you know the spiritual implication and potency of this feat you have done, and the possibilities that lies ahead of you, you would treat anybody who wants you to break your virginity unlawfully as an enemy; talk less of wasting in on a harlot.
I envy you, my brother but it seems you don't know what you have 😎
Very Correct!

But if you don't tell him, he won't know
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