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Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Food4Thought: 7:32pm On Jul 01
Which serious man has her time with those nonsense in her nose and ears.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Akioyib0: 7:32pm On Jul 01
Aging is a natural process that you cannot avoid
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by lagonovo: 7:33pm On Jul 01
Most guys are no longer able to feed extra mouth especially someone with zero contribution to their life journey.
If you are not a liability serious guys will show up.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Hhh4444: 7:34pm On Jul 01
Attention is currency my brother. Spend it wisely
Goo0dHardDick:
Attention from men is a woman's oxygen.

To punish a woman, just withdraw your attention and watch her ego destroy! As a man, be ruthless and stingy with your Attention

This one is looking for men she'll use to boost her fragile ego so she can brag to her friends that there are lots of simps on her Dm begging to have her. Men are wiser now
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Josywhyte: 7:36pm On Jul 01
All the while they were "chyking" you, you didn't give consent to any nor stop to hear what they had to say. Now they don't have your time you're complaining. They don't also have time for senseless bannies like you who feels any guy that says "excuse me, can I talk to you" is not a boyfriend or husband material. Yeye dey smell
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Iran2025: 7:36pm On Jul 01
Sister please don't lament. Tinubu is the problem.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Smitaro100(m): 7:36pm On Jul 01
Men are wiser now, even inside the make up I still dey find the fine girl tho..😏
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by kimjessey2019: 7:39pm On Jul 01
Nowadays I just admire women from afar .
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Maj196(m): 7:39pm On Jul 01
Who dey deceive am say she fine
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Zoftels: 7:41pm On Jul 01
"the way they used to" shows you can't keep a jewel and that means you don't deserve more.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Segzy19: 7:41pm On Jul 01
Market don dey finish for your store be that niyen.....
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by chatinent: 7:43pm On Jul 01
Make I leave daily bread dey pursue daily problem?
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Hhh4444: 7:46pm On Jul 01
You are a wise man. Thanks for this point.
Jman06:
This is the reality most women face. At the prime of their youths, they're always hot and command men's attentions. Some of them would reject and even insult their male toasters and admirers at this point. They usually think that they have all the time on earth and would be attractive forever, forgetting that age is one thing that is not in favour of women. So, from the ages of 16 to 23 when they're in high demand, the majority of them would be so unserious with men until they hit the age of 30 when old age has drastically drained their beauty and sexual appeal, then they'll start disturbing God with prayers and fasting for a husband.
Wise girls take advantage of their youthful allure and hook their husbands early enough while the f00/ish ones and the so called feminists would keep wasting away until they have no more saps left in them.

Honestly, if I have daughters, I'll encourage them to get married from the age range of 16 to 23. Even if they are not done with schooling, I'll sponsor their educations from their husbands' houses.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by socoharley: 7:46pm On Jul 01
SixSeven:
You will enjoy this if you never heard about it. Have you heard of Universe 25?

The Universe 25 mouse experiment explains why finding a good man feels impossible today. In that famous study, scientists gave mice a perfect world with unlimited food, water, and safety. However, this lack of struggle and extreme overcrowding completely destroyed their society. Today, modern digital dating has created a similar trap, causing a complete breakdown between men and women.

First, dating apps create an illusion of infinite choices, much like the endless resources in the mouse experiment. When mice had too many options, they stopped forming real bonds and grew stressed. Similarly, when humans scroll through endless profiles, people become disposable. This digital abundance causes choice fatigue, leading to superficial conversations, quick ghosting, and a marketplace where the quiet traits of a good partner are completely overlooked.

Second, the experiment led to the rise of "The Beautiful Ones" - male mice that completely gave up on fighting, mating, or interacting. They withdrew into isolated corners just to eat, sleep, and groom themselves. Today, millions of stable, kind men have become the human version of these mice. After facing constant rejection from dating algorithms, they have quietly checked out of the dating market. They have retreated into their own worlds, focusing strictly on their careers, gym routines, and solo hobbies. They are still out there, but they are invisible because they stopped pursuing.

Finally, when the male mice stopped acting like partners, the female mice isolated themselves too, causing the entire colony to go extinct. In the modern world, because online courtship has died, both men and women have retreated to their separate corners. To break this cycle, the search must move off the screen. High-quality men who have withdrawn from apps can only be found in real- world spaces that require effort, such as local hobby classes, sports leagues, or volunteer groups. They are just as tired of the digital noise, waiting to meet someone in real life.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7634228804281552158

What are the lessons for men and women?

The collapse of Universe 25 shows that when an environment becomes unhealthy, the behaviors of both sexes change in ways that deeply hurt each other. For modern men to break out of this cycle, they must consciously reject the temptation to substitute real life with digital escapes like excessive pornography, video games, and social media. In the experiment, the male mice withdrew because dealing with the crowded community became too stressful, choosing instead to focus entirely on themselves. Modern men are doing the exact same thing by using digital dopamine loops to replace the hard work of real-world courtship, finance, and emotional vulnerability. To fix this, men must accept the stress of potential rejection, turn off their screens, and actively practice being present, reliable, and courageous in physical social spaces. They need to realize that shielding themselves from the discomfort of the modern dating market only cements their status as modern-day "Beautiful Ones," leaving them completely isolated.

At the same time, certain modern female behaviors are directly contributing to this male withdrawal. In the final stages of Universe 25, the female mice became hyper- aggressive, isolated themselves in high nests, and rejected the males entirely, which completely broke the natural desire of the males to protect and pursue. Today, the digital culture encourages women to adopt a hyper- defensive, highly critical posture online, often labeling average male awkwardness or basic courtship attempts as toxic or predatory. When men face a digital landscape where the penalty for making a mistake is public shame or instant cancellation, they decide that the stress of trying is simply not worth the risk. By treating the entire male population as a threat or demanding a flawless, hyper-wealthy partner, women inadvertently train good, average men to stay quiet and invisible to protect their own peace.
Wow brilliant!! This is intellectually appreciated,
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Maj196(m): 7:48pm On Jul 01
socoharley:
Wow brilliant!! This is intellectually appreciated,
That's AI bro, give credit to ChatGPT
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Hungrychicken(m): 7:49pm On Jul 01
As you strong like 2014 Facebook so
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by gutss(m): 7:50pm On Jul 01
They Said “If You Can’t Afford Her, Leave”… So Men Left

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiZhuI4btDA
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by socoharley: 7:51pm On Jul 01
Maj196:
That's AI bro, give credit to ChatGPT
but he did the research so it's still kudos to him.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by APOPTOSIS: 7:53pm On Jul 01
Happens mostly when you have nothing to offer besides monthly HEAT
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Daddyk87(m): 7:56pm On Jul 01
Lol... I just dish a single mother.
We always come across each , she would frown face like she never met me before.
Inside me I would always smiling. We both know am here pillar.
Don't let me talk further!
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by FutureFocus: 7:56pm On Jul 01
With this cowbell ring on her nose? Hmm
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by yemmight(m): 7:58pm On Jul 01
You are not even fine and you still piercing nose.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by SeriouslySense(m): 7:59pm On Jul 01
What happened to her lips, which makeup is that cry. Madam the nose ring, I dont know but you are looking rugged cheesy. You are no longer looking innocent, or like a bird. embarassed
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Wickedfacts: 8:01pm On Jul 01
This girl right here is ugly and has a long mouth. Thst must be why.
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Samueltemi337(m): 8:02pm On Jul 01
APOPTOSIS:
Happens mostly when you have nothing to offer besides monthly HEAT
Good evening boss
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Joseph08(m): 8:05pm On Jul 01
Renewed Hope agenda of APC don make many men think twice before approaching a lady cheesy
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Originalsly: 8:26pm On Jul 01
Hmmm .. guess she was the village queen and now moved to the city ... but then maybe she has beauty but how can a man see it to give compliments when she buried it under make up?
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Orinechi: 8:45pm On Jul 01
Olodo uprising
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by planetx: 8:52pm On Jul 01
Maj196:
Who dey deceive am say she fine
Ho.rny men
Re: Lady Laments Decline In Male Attention, Sparks Reactions Online by Metrofox(m): 8:53pm On Jul 01
The first sign of a woman's fading glow. grin grin . You might also notice your Facebook likes dwindle exponentially, your prime is leaving and this is what the smart ones prepare for early enough ,sorry if you're the type that feeds on male validation because it gets worse. As time goes by, you become invisible- you will feel it.The gambler- you gat to know when to hold it, know when to fold it.. 🎶
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