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Since everybody on Nairaland has become a professional on women’s affairs. Let me hear your opinions regarding such case.

She asks, I come up with excuses. She says “okay” then asks a fortnight later. I come up with excuses again. She keeps at it without shame until I gift her once. She goes silent for a month then returns demanding more.

She doesn’t laugh at my jokes. She doesn’t encourage intellectual discussions and she doesn’t feel the need to return financial favours. At this point, I’m the one literally entertaining both of us despite being the breadwinner of a non-physical relationship. In fact, this one na friendship at this point.

Nairaland, should I risk cutting her off?

Livingiconrebor, yes, this is a Ugandan tale. Come and engage.

How can you cut somebody that doesn't even have anything to do with you in the first place OFF?

It's very obvious that she doesn't rate you at all.

Don't stop giving her, that money flows to alot of people

Fact. I’m still blinded by lust.

Sonnobax15:

How can you cut somebody that doesn't even have anything to do with you in the first place OFF?

It's very obvious that she doesn't rate you at all.

Sonnobax15:

How can you cut somebody that doesn't even have anything to do with you in the first place OFF?

It's very obvious that she doesn't rate you at all.

I don't give out accolades anyhow. But you Sir, what's your address? You deserve 4 containers of accolades for this statement.

OP you're dating yourself.

Why doesn’t she block me? It makes no sense. If I’m not important to her, why not be honest about it?

Stephen0mozzy:
I don't give out accolades anyhow. But you Sir, what's your address? You deserve 4 containers of accolades for this statement.

OP you're dating yourself.

Just get her trunk and into your trunk . oya go and spread your holy water.

meobizy:
Why doesn’t she block me? It makes no sense. If I’m not important to her, why not be honest about it?

Na now I confirm true true say you na real mumu man. I be want give you better advice on how to go about this until I saw this your funny comment. It shows you are too naive. You want swear say you no know the reason why she no want tell you? Abi if na you be her you go block your source of income. I no dey ever pity for mumu men like una because the signs are always there but una choose to ignore them believing you can impress her to love you with time. Na una type dey spoil all this girls for us. No be me go tell you to move before you move.

Some men still mümü in 2026. Do you need anyone to tell you that you’re just an ATM machine? Or you haven’t been seeing or listening to geh geh and the likes?

Well since you’re not sure of what to do, I will advice you to keep sending her money and don’t cut her off.

meobizy:
Why doesn’t she block me? It makes no sense. If I’m not important to her, why not be honest about it?

So you're expecting her to give you the self-respect that you ought to give yourself?

Why don't you block her? Do you believe that you don't deserve better?

If sillyness was a person

I sent money only once. She has begged up to twelve times. I don’t understand why she still continues. I would’ve long tired. At this point, it seems she should give up on her own because I won’t block her.

OlaOfLagos:
Some men still mümü in 2026. Do you need anyone to tell you that you’re just an ATM machine? Or you haven’t been seeing or listening to geh geh and the likes?

Well since you’re not sure of what to do, I will advice you to keep sending her money and don’t cut her off.

Soon. The thought is creeping up in my mind.

Stephen0mozzy:
Why don't you block her? Do you believe that you don't deserve better?

meobizy:
Since everybody on Nairaland has become a professional on women’s affairs. Let me hear your opinions regarding such case.

She asks, I come up with excuses. She says “okay” then asks a fortnight later. I come up with excuses again. She keeps at it without shame until I gift her once. She goes silent for a month then returns demanding more.

She doesn’t laugh at my jokes. She doesn’t encourage intellectual discussions and she doesn’t feel the need to return financial favours. At this point, I’m the one literally entertaining both of us despite being the breadwinner of a non-physical relationship. In fact, this one na friendship at this point.

Nairaland, should I risk cutting her off?

Livingiconrebor, yes, this is a Ugandan tale. Come and engage.

Lemme sing for you,
Paw Paw Ode! 🎵🎼🎶
Paw Paw Ode!!🎵🎶🎼
Paw Paw Ode!!🎵🎵🎶

The friendship is not mutual. As in she no like you back. You're a pest

meobizy:
I sent money only once. She has begged up to twelve times. I don’t understand why she still continues. I would’ve long tired. At this point, it seems she should give up on her own because I won’t block her.

You be bad man oh

Person ask you money 12 times, she succeed once. Man, you killing it.

…but she hasn’t blocked me.

Whois:
The friendship is not mutual. As in she no like you back. You're a pest