For how long can you stay in a relationship without having sex

As long as it takes to tie the nuptial knot.

how can i do dat

Most importantly u need God's grace. U can do all things thru Christ who strengthens u.
Secondly u need to respect urself n' this very much includes ur body. . .
. . .U really sure u got time for a sermon?

bolarge plz tell him every joh i agree with u

Bolarge had said it all. always keep the word of Hebrew 13: 4 as your watchword if u are a believe.
if u have sex as a single u disappoint 3 person.
1. God- because he has given u sufficient grace to keep urself
2.Your partner & friend- your partner: he will lose confidence in u, friends :they trust and believe in u.
3.yourself- because u fail the very self promise.
U have the self -will ability to say no even if ur partner demand. if he/she really love u , he will wait.
SEX IS NEVER FOR SINGLE

what's this? challenge to a contest? and why would u stay off?

@ topic : i believe there is only "i don't want to" , not at all "I can't", therefore the period is indeterminable if u ask me.

In as much as I want to agree with you that the body should be kept holy and that God has given you sufficient grace to keep yourself, I doubt very much if you will be disappointing your friends and spouse if you had sex before marriage.

I do not think that its always the case that if someone really loves you, that he would always wait for you where you keep saying no to him.

As you know love is like a flame, it requires heat to ignite it and fuel to sustain it. So it may be true that you meet and fall in love with an individual. You talk together, share your dreams together - these are things that could sustain love, but if one party requires, and is denied of physical gratification, frustration sets in. He / she  does not want to go out, because that would be cheating, he starts wondering why you keep refusing him, that is called complaining. Eventually he does one of the two: (i) breaks up or (ii) gets a secret lover.  Now I don't think you would want any of these.

My advice here is that if a guy is at the verge of dating a girl, these things should somehow me made clearly. If they say birds of same feather flock together, then a girl / guy that is SO NOT into having sex should make the guy / babe know her opinions about these things. It saves the world a lot of grief.

nduleme i think you didn't really get the question; so baby face pls correct me if i'm wrong!

i think she ment how long can a person take a break, not wait for the other one to be ready. for example, if you were to travel abroad for a year, will u be able to stay faithful to your lover? something like that,

@white Nkem: What I believe Baby face meant is how long will one stay in a new relationship BEFORE demanding sex, but in my opinion, I think the initial contributors were derailing and I supposed it would be best to respond to what they were saying.

From what bolarge and lizzy said, its never, until after marriage. But am thinking it is wrong to have a sweeping response like that, I think first of all a relationship is between two individuals and as such how long they would stay before making love, if they would (before marriage) is entirely up to them.

I thus suggested that it would be best that before a real relationhip commences, sexual active individual should ensure they are dating their kind.

white`Nkem:

what's this? challenge to a contest? and why would u stay off?

@ topic : i believe there is only "i don't want to" , not at all "I can't", therefore the period is indeterminable if u ask me.

no be challenge. u fit dey yansh as u like. nobody go disturb u but u no need to come dey challenge those wey want keep demself tidy in life.

@oyin
u totally didn't get my point and see me as the bad guy here; i was just making a comment to clear things from my point of view; wasn't attacking anyone so back off if u don't get it!!

who said that SEX is not meant for singles like u$me well 4get that and say that u neva said so, well wanna post me back here is my id jamzy1 so u're free like a cripples leg