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I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?

Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?

I am laughing at my family relative who relocated to my city, and was lucky enough to find a girl who works and they have been talking back and forth. The boy in question does not have a job oo but love don dey shark am i just dey look am dey smile. He dey talk say his girlfriend is always buying things when comming to see him bla bla bla. Na until he enter system body go tell am.


As men, it is imperative we fix our lives financially before we add any responsibilites to our lives. Cos the life of a family man na so so bills. Your hairline go first receeed amongst other noticable changes.

Where is he writing that once a man start making money, the next thing na woman


Abi you still forget that is not everybody that will have money

There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going

Anabosee:
There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going

There's nothing like time is going for a man. A woman should be the one saying that because biologically time isn't on her side.

Change your mindset. There's no such thing as time is going for a man.

The best advice every hustling single man shouldn't take for granted.

And even when you're done fixing your life, please don't settle for less.

Anabosee:
There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going

Which spec are you waiting for?

Beauty fades. Personalities change. If she's of good character and can build a home with you, don't let endless "specs" keep you single.

TRUE EMBRACE THE PAIN OF MOVING FOWARD AND ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS , YOUR LIFE CAN CHANGE IN SIX MONTHS

Anabosee:
There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going

Of your spec you say, it means you have women but not spec.
Do better abeg

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?








Is they any path for wealth in APC regime.

Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?

Quite dumb advice from an inexperienced person.
Sometimes romance is exactly what will fix your life or help you achieve your destiny.
Many times what you can't achieve by yourself you can achieve when there is a partner around even if they're not directly helping

Don't just take this as a piece of advice, but as a serious warning! Without you leveling up, your woman go turn relationship/marriage to drama! Hypergamy is real!!

Who told you she's deaf, disrespectful or stubborn ? It is because of your level (how she perceive you), that's why she's deaf and don't listen! Wait until she meets her favourite man (celebrity, rich man, etc), her obedience comes out immediately without struggle..

Baba hustle o, because it is better for you to disappoint a woman than for her to disappoint you...

Just get lamba for mouth. they'll leave once they're tired.

This is a true counsel.
There is no business between struggling,poverty and romance.

Finance lubricates romance,while poverty knocks the engine that drives it.

Always follow Mr eazi footsteps by marrying billionaire daughter to avoid rubbish

Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?

You hustle to get rich and end up getting marrying to Nigeria broke women

Nigeria men no dey ever learn

A very very sound advice

tiswell:
This is a true counsel.
There is no business between struggling,poverty and romance.

Finance lubricates romance,while poverty knocks the engine that drives it.

Boss na God go bless you for me.

And when you fix your life you can have as many as you want….
The way Society punishes men for being Poor is undesirable

But girls with less than 2k in their Opay account should be allowed to go into relationships where they'll be begging up and down like orphans. De play.

Simply the truth. No lies detected.

You guys would be talking as if everyone will be rich.

You that have fixed yourself, did your account read six figures?

Some people started hustling from their teenagers until 50s, yet nothing tangible comes out. Because they are not rich, does that stop them not to have feelings for woman that they attracted to?

I think you start advising people not to eat again until they fix themselves oo

IF I NOW FIX MY FINANCE YOU NOW EXCEPT ME TO STAY WITH ONE WOMAN (COMMODITY) FOREVER NO.

I WILL GO FOR AS MANY AS I CAN AFFORD

NONSENSE THREAD

IF ONLY FRAUDULENT POST LIKE THIS XAN ALSO ENCOURAGE WOMEN TO MAKE MONEY AS WELL OR IS COVER GENDER BASED?

You think say na by that one...if Mr easy tell you wetin him wife dey show am,you fit no believe.

Amovingman:
Always follow Mr eazi footsteps by marrying billionaire daughter to avoid rubbish

Anabosee:
There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going

Have you considered that maybe you're gay or asexual

Op the best advice should be to never take women seriously...not when you are struggling and not when you have made money. Doing romance when you have money will only attract fakeee gals and leeeeches. Make money for yourself,not because you wanna impress beeches.

Ths one is mentally unstable

He said he's looking for his spec! That's so hilarious when several specs full ground and many of them with container load of trouble... 😂 😂 😂.... probably his spec is yet to be born....He would definitely wait for centuries..
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Babatunjo:
Which spec are you waiting for?

Beauty fades. Personalities change. If she's of good character and can build a home with you, don't let endless "specs" keep you single.

Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?

if you are a man do not listen to this...

Inflation will make your money lose value...