~Killz~:

How did you go about it? How does it feel to receive anonymous romantic messages, calls and gifts. . . Or to send them anonymously? Any special feeling attached to admiring someone from afar?

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pendo89:

it depends on the sender. some no matter how good must be returned to sender as fast as possible.

apocalypse:

I believe a lot of us , if not all , must have had a crush on someone at one point in our lives. I've had various crushes at different stages of my life , from primary school ( yeah you heard right ) to my uni days and with all my crushes I always dreamt of walking down the aisle with them , nowadays I don't crush anymore.

I had my first crush in Nur 2. . . i was 5! When did you stop admiring secretly?

Is a crush the same as a secret admirer? Getting confused!

Mrs, Chima:

Yes. Van Vicker doesn't know it yet.

This is serious.

~Killz~:

This is serious.

xynerise:

Yeah. I once had a crush on Ciara.  

ok. Thank God you woke up! Oya, did you admire anyone in your office or neighbor hood or Nairaland?

Back then, I always notice that if i am near the girl i admire secretly, i start to behave erratically, i start to sweat!  

slimyem:

yes,i have!
And i think everyone must have been admired secretly or have admired someone secretly at some point in their lives.
Some never come out with it and some do eventually.
Had one who came out eventually after many weird messages.

Mrs, Chima:

Abeg don't tell Oga ooo.

Dont worry. . . I promised him not to tell you his too!

Mr, Cork:

killz, bro so which girl do u have a crush on? i can hook u up!!

On Nl?

~Killz~:

I beg you, how did you make him come out?

~Killz~:

Hope he was worth it. Am passing thru this right now. . . 8 days now, and she is gunning for 2 months!

~Killz~:

Dont worry. . . I promised him not to tell you his too!

slimyem:

yes,i have!
And i think everyone must have been admired secretly or have admired someone secretly at some point in their lives.
Some never come out with it and some do eventually.
Had one who came out eventually after many weird messages.

Chimezie198:

Slimyem
am really happy for you!
After 8yrs of being single, you finally found a man.

Chimezie198:

Slimyem
am really happy for you!
After 8yrs of being single, you finally found a man.

Mr, Cork:

true talk. she finally found Mr Cork!

slimyem:

your dreams baby,you dreams!

slimyem:

your dreams baby,you dreams!

~Killz~:

I had my first crush in Nur 2. . . i was 5! When did you stop admiring secretly?

Is a crush the same as a secret admirer? Getting confused!

slimyem:

at first,yeah!
Who's the admirer,she or you?

Na she o! I admire secretly but i dont reveal myself. But she has my name and phone number. . . Damn she has a nice voice!

Mrs, Chima:

Who is this heffa? Be right back! (stomping offline)

It's a secret between me and him.

tho! don't really admire Nicki Minaj jus wanna bleep her.

With this answer, i think i can differentiate btw a crush and a secret admirer. You don't necessarily have to admire a crush. you just fantasize about meeting them or doing things to them. . . More like an infatuation. The person involved is out of your reach, you realize you cant have them so you retire into your imaginations.

Admiring someone secretly looks like a crush at first, but the possibility of a meet up is very strong. You can send physical gifts, call him or her up and still maintain anonymity. The beauty of admiring someone secretly is in the anonymous nature of the admiration. They know you like them, but they don't know you. Nicki Minaj doesn't know and doesn't care if you are alive, but here you are, dreaming of bleeping her!