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Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by rockyh(m): 6:45pm On Jul 07
Goo0dHardDick:
There's nothing like time is going for a man. A woman should be the one saying that because biologically time isn't on her side.

Change your mindset. There's no such thing as time is going for a man.
keep pretending to yourself that as a man you have all the time until you get to 50 years and still changing baby diapers for your kids while your mates are gearing up for grand babies
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by CorrectionFLuid: 6:50pm On Jul 07
Goo0dHardDick:
There's nothing like time is going for a man. A woman should be the one saying that because biologically time isn't on her side.

Change your mindset. There's no such thing as time is going for a man.
Some people still want to raise their kids for as long as they can. What do I mean... No one knows their time of death. If someone was destined to die by 60, and started having kids at 35, would have 25 years with his first child, than someone who started having kids by 45.

The dad is very important in the life of a son.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Babatunjo(op): 6:59pm On Jul 07
Fiscus105:
You guys would be talking as if everyone will be rich.

You that have fixed yourself, did your account read six figures?

Some people started hustling from their teenagers until 50s, yet nothing tangible comes out. Because they are not rich, does that stop them not to have feelings for woman that they attracted to?

I think you start advising people not to eat again until they fix themselves oo
I didn't say every man will become rich.

I said every man owes himself the discipline to get on a path with real prospects, before making romance a priority.

Skip that process if you want, but don't be surprised when nature hands you the consequences.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Gkay1(m):
What about when you thought you have fix it and challenges of life creep in and take u to square 1. What will you do
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Entanglement: 7:17pm On Jul 07
Anabosee:
There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going
time keh! undecided
You get toto neh!!? undecided

Time is only applicable to women not men!
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Ifexibe(m): 7:19pm On Jul 07
"Women just are. Men must become." - Rational Male

"In fact to be a “Man” has become synonymous with living up to a feminine imperative that’s cleverly disguised as masculine Honor. It’s not that women created Honor, but rather that they’ve recreated it to serve their purpose." - Book 1, RM
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Maj196(m): 7:27pm On Jul 07
Abeg make someone explain to me wetin be pocket t0t0
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Usmanovic95(m): 7:27pm On Jul 07
Goo0dHardDick:
There's nothing like time is going for a man. A woman should be the one saying that because biologically time isn't on her side.

Change your mindset. There's no such thing as time is going for a man.
Baba no wan dey go PTA meeting at the age of 60 na.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Helpout12345: 7:28pm On Jul 07
But a woman that has not fixed her life can be in a romance bahuh

This is why women use you people head like mumu.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Didi2d(m): 7:30pm On Jul 07
Yes o
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by autoez: 7:35pm On Jul 07
So when i and sorted my life, I should now start wasting my resources on romance. If woman no like me poor, she should not ever near me rich
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by FX(m): 7:44pm On Jul 07
But girls with less than 2k in their Opay account should be allowed to go into relationships where they'll be begging up and down like orphans. De play.
YoungLionken:
Don't just take this as a piece of advice, but as a serious warning! Without you leveling up, your woman go turn relationship/marriage to drama! Hypergamy is real!!

Who told you she's deaf, disrespectful or stubborn undecided? It is because of your level (how she perceive you), that's why she's deaf and don't listen! Wait until she meets her favourite man (celebrity, rich man, etc), her obedience comes out immediately without struggle..

Baba hustle o, because it is better for you to disappoint a woman than for her to disappoint you...
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by AfDapone: 8:21pm On Jul 07
QuinQ:
Quite dumb advice from an inexperienced person.
Sometimes romance is exactly what will fix your life or help you achieve your destiny.
Many times what you can't achieve by yourself you can achieve when there is a partner around even if they're not directly helping
You'll love gambling.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by slipperyanus07: 8:30pm On Jul 07
QuinQ:
Quite dumb advice from an inexperienced person.
Sometimes romance is exactly what will fix your life or help you achieve your destiny.
Many times what you can't achieve by yourself you can achieve when there is a partner around even if they're not directly helping
when you a simp speaking you will know 🤦😮‍💨 shame on you
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Duplex90: 8:41pm On Jul 07
Absolutely true!! It's not an insult in anyway but U will have peace and a chance to make your life better. These women are ruthless especially if you have no money. Am a big boy, own my house and a benz yet I'm not settling down not even in 5yrs time.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by AfDapone: 8:51pm On Jul 07
QuinQ:
Itbis NOT simp speaking, neither is it gambling. It is experience. God is not stupid. He have it so men and women balance each other. Mention one very wealthy man who got wealthy totally single and totally focused on business
I'm concerned about today's young women. If you manage to get a glimpse of what goes on in their head as far as relationship is concerned you'll wonder if it makes sense again to marry. Even the ones that grew up under good parental guiding.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Elzazzi: 9:09pm On Jul 07
Anabosee:
There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going
Find woman give belle.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by femi4: 9:20pm On Jul 07
Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?
You dont need wealth

Both parties are putting their resources together

All you need is emotional n financial intelligence
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by pinkygurl(f): 9:22pm On Jul 07
lols
teenty more chaaracters needed
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Goo0dHardDick: 9:50pm On Jul 07
CorrectionFLuid:
Some people still want to raise their kids for as long as they can. What do I mean... No one knows their time of death. If someone was destined to die by 60, and started having kids at 35, would have 25 years with his first child, than someone who started having kids by 45.

The dad is very important in the life of a son.
You don't need marriage to do any of this you wrote. Almost all my friends have kids already without marriage and I'm planning on joining the queue shortly.

Baba give birth to children and enjoy your life. U don't need marriage to do that
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Goo0dHardDick: 9:51pm On Jul 07
Usmanovic95:
Baba no wan dey go PTA meeting at the age of 60 na.
You don't need marriage to do that my brother. Give birth to your kids and train them. Men dey wey get children without anything called marriage. I'm following the path already
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Goo0dHardDick: 9:53pm On Jul 07
rockyh:
keep pretending to yourself that as a man you have all the time until you get to 50 years and still changing baby diapers for your kids while your mates are gearing up for grand babies
Do you know if I already have kids without anything called marriage? Omo. I don't know how you sissy men reason and think.

Dude you can have your kids now without anything called marriage. Give birth to ur kids now and enjoy your life at 50. Which one is Time is going?
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Nefort: 10:09pm On Jul 07
Goo0dHardDick:
There's nothing like time is going for a man. A woman should be the one saying that because biologically time isn't on her side.

Change your mindset. There's no such thing as time is going for a man.
You are deceiving yourself. You will hit 90 years old and still be claiming time is not going for a man. Time goes for both men and women.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by narite: 10:40pm On Jul 07
Fiscus105:
You guys would be talking as if everyone will be rich.

You that have fixed yourself, did your account read six figures?

Some people started hustling from their teenagers until 50s, yet nothing tangible comes out. Because they are not rich, does that stop them not to have feelings for woman that they attracted to?

I think you start advising people not to eat again until they fix themselves oo
LOL....If you want to marry bro, go get married.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by jaxxy(m): 11:41pm On Jul 07
Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?
If u chase relationships that are all about money and survival then yes i agree with u but if u go for relationships that add mutual value and money or survival is not not the focal point then u are completely wrong!

Relationships are not all the typical nigerian transactional way. undecided
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by emmyN(m): 11:44pm On Jul 07
Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?
Share this advice with immature boys who have resigned to a responsibility of "provider" simply because they came to this world with a p*nis.

The responsibility to cater to the financial demands of a relationship is not saddled on men alone. The earlier you understood this, the better.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by GUNITGuy: 2:26am On Jul 08
Trash as usual
So u expext me to get wealthy just for one woman....
Most men loose interest in women after the first sex encounter particularly when you have money....Then the women would become clingy like kilode gaan
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by GUNITGuy: 2:34am On Jul 08
AfDapone:
I'm concerned about today's young women. If you manage to get a glimpse of what goes on in their head as far as relationship is concerned you'll wonder if it makes sense again to marry. Even the ones that grew up under good parental guiding.
Am telling you alot of leaders don't know what's going on in the minds of so many young women of this age ....We've never seen a generation of clever, selfish and manipulative set of women in the history of mankind as we have now ....Like they do it without conscientce and mentor other women to do same...
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by TossTos(m): 2:47am On Jul 08
Men , we should work on our lives o.. even if you can't do all you wanted atleast try above average then look for a woman who truly knows what she wanted and she had discovered herself then you guys go for premarital counsel ... We can't get everything we want fully in life ..
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Edusouls(m): 3:19am On Jul 08
dododawa1:
Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?








Is they any path for wealth in APC regime.
dont mind him people think coming online to write stories and motivational notes is the same as life..
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