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Nkechi blessing just stated on her instagram post that you can’t continue covering up for a man you are feeding, it will won’t work


See her statement below

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Once these particular genders knows they earn more than you... gbam! You're automatically lazy.
Very unsatisfied creatures

Nigerian women are a reflection of the number of the weak men we have in Nigeria.

What she just wrote is very common in marriage. At one point in the marriage the woman would have more than the man.

Also Theres something common among modern women they are impulsive and impatient. They have this “talent” of scouting for men that have certain appealing qualities. These men look like they are well put together in life. Young, attractive and look rich.

Among These men are long term planners that are currently passing through bad season. With patience from both parties he will pick up and take good care of his family. and among these men are scammers and gigolos.

Nkechi Blessing met the planner but isn’t patient enough. Because most times women like these are impatient and want to have things immediately.

In her mind “time is going time is going. Plenty guys full outside. Make i begin look for another one before time go finish!.” Naso she go do till she enter 40.

Watch the guy 3 years later na Nkechi Blessing go do MC for him big wedding.

A matured experienced and honest lady will be a good judge of character and nor superficial attributes......their are many men out there that just needs a little uplifting for them to achieve their goals while sone arent lazy but they just lack opportunities......the mistake many ladies make is when you negate the fact that he is still the man and you start to superimpose your character,choices,ideas and realities,you often disrespect and disregard his opinion just because you feel you are the one catering for him.......no man will be happy in that relationship, he will only see it as a means to an end and turn on his survival mode while looking for the quickest opportunity to run.

There so many women who have done far more than you can ever do for any man,Nkechi!! and they're still enjoying their marriages till tomorrow.....u do pass toyin aimakhu or that lawani lady,the fashion designer,bez the musician is married to current oba ladoja's daughter and they are still very happily married.....ebuka,the big brother guy married into wealth when he was a nobody,Mr eazee married into a far more richer otedola family and they are all doing great.....there are so many one can point to but as a woman you need to look out for inate qualities that makes a man and not those glam and gram things you are always looking @.

Lithiumite:
A matured experienced and honest lady will be a good judge of character and nor superficial attributes......their are many men out there that just needs a little uplifting for them to achieve their goals while sone arent lazy but they just lack opportunities......the mistake many ladies make is when you negate the fact that he is still the man and you start to superimpose your character,choices,ideas and realities,you often disrespect and disregard his opinion, no man will be happy in that relationship, he will only see it as a means to an end and turn on his survival mode while looking for the quickest opportunity to run.

Gbam‼️‼️‼️

Nigerian guyz too are not ready to settle for less. You see woman coming from 🇺🇸 🇬🇧 and also 🌎 around the world to pick our men


So na there make you sit down with your money. You will know better when you ageing

Afriifa:
Nigerian women are a reflection of the number of the weak men we have in Nigeria.

Gbam!

IamAtAnger:
Once these particular genders knows they earn more than you... gbam! You're automatically lazy.
Very unsatisfied creatures

Na wa ooo and the way this country Dey things no come stable

That's why as a man, when you're rich, enjoy life fully (Spend your money on yourself - travel, meet foreign women and enjoy). Don't let any woman/wife drain you and use you as a workhorse to solve all her family problems.

These women, once they are richer than their husbands, they suddenly see him as lazy and prideful. You should kiss their feet to show humility as their husband.

In all your wishes on earth, never wish to be at the mercy of any woman. If you do, oga you go see shege. That gender wicked ooooooo . If you see how they treat their maids, you go understand wetin I dey talk.
Honestly, na only men dey love genuinely. A PHD or MSC holder will marry a woman wey no even finish secondary school but if na a woman get Masters degree, she won't even want to marry a man wey no get Masters degree, let alone OND. When I said, "only your mother loves you unconditionally", a man countered me and said, "your mother doesn't love you unconditionally, she only loves you because you're her son".
Dear men if to say virginity na big criteria for men, most of these women won't marry us as non-virgins. But now they want us to marry them as non-virgins (leftovers) and some are even still against DNA test.


What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Especially when you get the feeding money from another man using your body!

I thought EFCC arrested this woman for her breast cancer scam, what's she still doing on Social media?

She is indirectly referring to Uche Ogbodo's husband

Women are not capable of loving......reason there are so many misandrists...women will never sacrifice for a man...only if her personal gains is involved....unlike men that will not love but still do for u

Lalami3232:
In all your wishes on earth, never wish to be at the mercy of any woman. If you do, oga you go see shege. That gender wicked ooooooo . If you see how they treat their maids, you go understand wetin I dey talk.
Honestly, na only men dey love genuinely. A PHD or MSC holder will marry a woman wey no even finish secondary school but if na a woman get Masters degree, she won't even want to marry a man wey no get Masters degree, let alone OND. When I said, "only your mother loves you unconditionally", a man countered me and said, "your mother doesn't love you unconditionally, she only loves you because you're her son".
Dear men if to say virginity na big criteria for men, most of these women won't marry us as non-virgins. But now they want us to marry them as non-virgins (leftovers) and some are even still against DNA test.


What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

This is absolute fact ... women dont compromise their standards...but they always expect men to and if men try to speak up, they gaslight and manipulate it .... if a man demands a virgin , they say " wasnt it a man that took the virginity of the lady thats not a virgin...or they say , u as a man isnt a virgin".... but these same women will demand for a well to do man... but will not consider a broke man , that another woman finished his money ... will not marry a broke man even as they themselves are broke....women never have humanity or humility in them...

Gbadugbakun:
I thought EFCC arrested this woman for her breast cancer scam, what's she still doing on Social media?

The person you're referring to is Blessing CEO this one is Nkechi Blessing, they're two different people

If you have to settle with a woman who earns more than you, make sure to control her money. You might think it's not possible but I tell you, it's very easy.
Take over her account or better still, have all her money paid into your account and dictate how it's spent. Drive her car, make decisions for her. Be the boss, don't shy away because you're broke. Be confident.

She'd have a whole lot of respect for you and feel safe with your tenacious and confident leadership. I call this pseudohypergamy. Been there, done that

Lithiumite:
A matured experienced and honest lady will be a good judge of character and nor superficial attributes......their are many men out there that just needs a little uplifting for them to achieve their goals while sone arent lazy but they just lack opportunities......the mistake many ladies make is when you negate the fact that he is still the man and you start to superimpose your character,choices,ideas and realities,you often disrespect and disregard his opinion just because you feel you are the one catering for him.......no man will be happy in that relationship, he will only see it as a means to an end and turn on his survival mode while looking for the quickest opportunity to run.

There so many women who have done far more than you can ever do for any man,Nkechi!! and they're still enjoying their marriages till tomorrow.....u do pass toyin aimakhu or that lawani lady,the fashion designer,bez the musician is married to current oba ladoja's daughter and they are still very happily married.....ebuka,the big brother guy married into wealth when he was a nobody,Mr eazee married into a far more richer otedola family and they are all doing great.....there are so many one can point to but as a woman you need to look out for inate qualities that makes a man and not those glam and gram things you are always looking @.

But examples you are making is not correlate with what she said, while she said man that is not bringing anything to the table, you are giving examples of women who earns more than husband.

Any man who is not bringing anything, not small o, but nothing. There's 99% the marriage will scatter.

Before it scatters, the man will see whole lots of shits from his wife and to talk is problem.

I know a lady whose husband not working for sometimes now, for more than a year she doesn't allow the man to sex her, while she is sleeping around carelessly.

She is even bringing man home, whenever husband travels outside the town.

ReluctantAdult:
If you have to settle with a woman who earns more than you, make sure to control her money. You might think it's not possible but I tell you, it's very easy.
Take over her account or better still, have all her money paid into your account and dictate how it's spent. Drive her car, make decisions for her. Be the boss, don't shy away because you're broke. Be confident.

She'd have a whole lot of respect for you and feel safe with your tenacious and confident leadership. I call this pseudohypergamy. Been there, done that

It can only be possible for cultured, submissive and wife who really wants her marriage to be successful, anything less than that, forget. You can only force horse to the stream, you cannot force it to drink.

Toying Aimaku as example, having seen enough wotowoto in previous marriage and relationships, she now determined and forcebly humbled herself, that is why marriage is going on well for now, and for Funke Akindele who is not ready, the result is in public space.

Fiscus105:
But examples you are making is not correlate with what she said, while she said man that is not bringing anything to the table, you are giving examples of women who earns more than husband.

Any man who is not bringing anything, not small o, but nothing. There's 99% the marriage will scatter.

Before it scatters, the man will see whole lots of shit from his wife and to talk is problem.

I know a lady whose husband not working for sometimes now, for more than a year she doesn't allow the man to sex her, while she is sleeping around carelessly.

She is even bringing man home, whenever husband travel outside the town.

Except you are sticking to material things only, what do most of the married women bring ro the table other than being taken care of by their husbands......a partner brings alot to the table,a broke unemployed man will still bring physical and emotional balance to the woman,he brings security and that sense of self worth,he can be most supportive at that point so the woman can keep thriving at her endeavour.......their are many men who wouldn't mind theor woman earning more than tbey do but the problem is the woman herself, how emotionally balanced is she,how virtuous and supportive is she will she still know her place as holder of the home and not the head of it?

I know a woman who was complaining that all her husband does is pay children's school fees and rent that she covers every other thing since the man fell on bad times for over 5 years,she was so bitter that the marriage broke up just because the woman was not wanting to submit anymore.

Lithiumite:
Except you are sticking to material things only, what do most of the married women bring ro the table other than being taken care of by their husbands......a partner brings alot to the table,a broke unemployed man will still bring physical and emotional balance to the woman,he brings security and that sense of self worth,he can be most supportive at that point so the woman can keep thriving at her endeavour.......their are many men who wouldn't mind theor woman earning more than tbey do but the problem is the woman herself, how emotionally balanced is she,how virtuous and supportive is she will she still know her place as holder of the home and not the head of it?

I know a woman who was complaining that all her husband does is pay children's school fees and rent that she covers every other thing since the man fell on bad times for over 5 years,she was so bitter that the marriage broke up just because the woman was not wanting to submit anymore.

You still not stick to topic of discussion but bringing irrelevant in other to win argument.

Go back to Original story and ready carefully for proper understanding.

Bye.

Fiscus105:
You still not stick to topic of discussion but bringing irrelevant in other to win argument.

Go back to Original story and ready carefully for proper understanding.

Bye.

You are rather too fixated on making a point no matter how abstract......how can you say a partner isn't bringing anything to the table,then why are you partners.......I already told you if what you mean is material things only,then you are probably oblivious of the fact a relationship is far beyond material things there are alot that partners can do beyond that.

On a serious note, if I was shown this Nkechi Blessing Sunday NBS, I would not recognise her. All her pictures on the internet are different. Are we talking about the same person or are there many other NBSes in Nollywood?

Iamdbull:
Nkechi blessing just stated on her instagram post that you can’t continue covering up for a man you are feeding, it will won’t work


See her statement below

Cc: newsspend.com