Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! - Romance (2)

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by dauntless15(m): 2:52pm On Jul 10

So na to cater for needs of a woman your own make money preaching center on, until your life doesn't revolve around seeking the validation of a woman you ain't a prize as well.

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by udemzyudex(m): 2:53pm On Jul 10

Rubbish post, very nonsensical post.

So you're making money because of the opposite sex huh?

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Nackzy: 2:57pm On Jul 10

Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!

Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!

Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!

OP Dbull.. I am not totally agreeing with you on this and I won't also totally disagree with you... A men is the price is different aspect.. A Man is the price because he can Marry many wives at once, a man is the price because he will forever remain the head of the house no matter what poor or not.. there are things that will be done in a community or society and that man will be needed and you can't replace that with anything... But to add beauty to it a man is more of a price when he has money.. but also remember there are still rich vegetable men out there... So life indeed is a mystery

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Fiscus105(m): 3:01pm On Jul 10*

Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!

Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!

Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!

So many of them not only broke, but also not good looking, yet, they want women to be frolicking them. Gragra! I'm alpha male! Alpha male in ur papa house; is it alpha male that wants to buy cream, clothes, house rent, phone, pay bills etc?

If I toast "once" and she doesn't accept , I move on asap, as if the girl send his broke a$$.

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by JoeEeL(m): 3:04pm On Jul 10

Kazim88:
His goal in life is to 'cater for a woman '.

Good luck to him.

Thanks

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Empresa: 3:04pm On Jul 10

It is only in Nigeria that a man must work his fingers to the bone to take care of a woman and the woman simply think because she is woman she doesnt have to support the man.

Come to the west or ask your relatives who live abroad, people share bills and move on with their lives because of the society they found themselves in.

I have said it once and will say it again, Nigeria needs a reset, from its foundation to the mentality of the citizens.

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by omooba969(m): 3:04pm On Jul 10

Iamdbull:
Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

.
So your aim of making money is so you can control the opposite sex?

Warped mentality...lol cheesy

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Omalicious1: 3:08pm On Jul 10

Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!

Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!

Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!

If she's keeping money and providing for her before dating you then that's hookup disguised as a relationship. Women make rules for the men they don't love but move mountains for the men they love.

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Iamdbull(op): 3:11pm On Jul 10

Fiscus105:
So many of them not only broke, but also not good looking, yet, they want women to be frolicking them.

If I toast one and doesn't agree , I move on, as if the girl send him.

My brother let them continue with the deception

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by omooba969(m): 3:13pm On Jul 10

dominique:
Tell that to Baba ijesha. Broke, jobless, ex-convict child molester and he's married to a wealthy designer. His fellow men have said they're the prize, who are we to argue?

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Men are indeed the PRIZE.

Gentle reminder, WE BUILT THE WORLD ! wink

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:14pm On Jul 10

Sonnobax15:

Okay we've heard you our Nairaland A-list rapper

But let it be known that I'm hustling today just to make my life better. Not because of I want to be the prize for any lady to come and sow from where she didn't reap . Imagine having this kind of mentality in this 21st century . No wonder Seun warned all his mods never to push any of your songs to the frontpage back then

Sonnobax15 my guy, believe it or not. All what we men are working for are for women. I know it hurts to say it. But that's the truth.
If you hustle all you money finish, who will you spend majority on, women.
While will you spend it on them, cus you need them.
Why do you need them, bcus of kids.
Except you have zero your mind not have s*x again nor have kids which you and I know is impossible

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Didi2d(m): 3:15pm On Jul 10

So, when I eventually make the money, how do I treat those that didn't see me as price when I was broke?

You made point make I no lie

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by 99thEnemy(m): 3:15pm On Jul 10

OlaOfLagos:

When a man defines his entire worth by his wallet, he often attracts transactional relationships. If the money disappears, the attraction disappears.

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by omooba969(m): 3:15pm On Jul 10

JoeEeL:
I stopped reading after the bolded. You can already judge the level of the poster's IQ.

Lol

, he's as funny as his rap music. grin

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by JoeEeL(m): 3:18pm On Jul 10

omooba969:
Lol , he's as funny as his rap music.

Hehe

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by judewrites: 3:19pm On Jul 10

Any relationship that is mostly based on "what can you offer me?" Is parasitic and cannot be true love.

Unfortunately, most relationships, even marriages are based on this in Nigeria, due to the bad economy.

It should be 50_50%

Women give men a break!

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:20pm On Jul 10

Goo0dHardDick:
The OP is talking about transactional relationship which is termed as parasitic relationship. That isn't a relationship.

Any man that put money first when meeting a woman has successfully subscribed to being exploited.

A man is simply the prize because he knows his worth. He controls his attention and doesn't give it out carelessly. He is focus on his mission, businesses etc and doesn't spend money carelessly. He always put himself first no matter what! He doesn't worship women. He doesn't double call, double text or act desperate over a girl. He knows when a girl isn't interested in him and he respects himself enough to move on.

Dude, being the prize isn't about money at all. Haven't you seen a rich notorious Simp before? Does that means he is the prize because he is rich? Of course not! He isn't any prize because he doesn't understand women's psychology. Such men simps over women.

You're partly right and partly wrong, yes been the prize is not all about money.
But for you as a man to gather the confidence and do all what you wrote up there, you still have to be financially stable.
True or false?
.
A broke man can't dictate to anybody especially them ladies how he wants.
A broke man can't have worth that he will be showing around.
So all in all, money na still the Koko.
Money gives you confidence to carry out majority of the things you said up there.
Yes they're rich simps, those ones are follow come.

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by omooba969(m): 3:22pm On Jul 10

yemmit90:
I think op made a mistake by attaching his PRIZE to the women. Actually a man is a big prize only when he is rich or have sufficient money.

Don't let anyone deceive you, money is everything a man needed in this contemporary world.

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How much money is actually sufficient?

Asides money, what else can a man showcase?

Where is the place of self worth?

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:22pm On Jul 10

Kazim88:
His goal in life is to 'cater for a woman '.

Good luck to him.

And is there a way you can dodge from catering for a woman? I'm asking

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:23pm On Jul 10

Denko2721987:
If that's the case, I cannot make money and be the prize to one woman but many becos a society which says a man can't be valued or doesn't deserve to have a woman when he isn't financially capable, has no freaking nerve to also tell a man how many women he should be with when he finally has the money

Gbamsolutely! You're also spot on

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:25pm On Jul 10

DickenClarq:
Dude can you stop all this already?

Uncle IamDbull, Who told you broke guys are not also the price to someone else?
Uncle IamDbull, Do you know that your wife or girlfriend can cheat on you with your house boy and Gate man even if you are Elon Musk?
Uncle IamDbull, Do you know that a lady can reject Elon Musk for a classroom teach and be fill happy that she made the right choice?

They are things money can't buy RESPECT, LOVE, LOYALTY, HONESTY etc. Money can get you the fake and temporal once not the original and permanent once.

Note: a lady can give the fake once to you as her rich husband, while giving the original to her broke Ex-boyfriend or her side guy with all her heart. She can even plan with her side guy to kill you and inherit your property together.

It happened in Haiti, imagine the president wife planned a hit on her own husband with her boyfriend, the hit claimed life of some members of her family and she attended her husband funeral crying crocodile tears .

Now answer the question WHO IS THE REAL PRICE?

WE ARE SO MESSED UP IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD THAT WE ONLY FIND FULFILLMENT IN MAKING MONEY

IT IS VERY DISGUSTING!!

May God save us

Hmmmm.... I wanted to say something to this your post, but let me reserve my comment till I recollect everything I had in mind to say

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:26pm On Jul 10

yemmit90:
I think op made a mistake by attaching his PRIZE to the women. Actually a man is a big prize only when he is rich or have sufficient money.

Don't let anyone deceive you, money is everything a man needed in this contemporary world.

Gbamsolutely! If you have money, you're the prize to almost everybody both men and women

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Demonic01(m): 3:28pm On Jul 10

Take a chill pill bro, he aint far from the truth, being financially buoyant will guarantee you the privilege to have so many versatile options of women. Of course, as a wise man, you'd ought to choose the right one.

Wether you are a rich simp or a Rich Alpha, You are still the prize regardless. Everybody will not understand the psychology of women because of how they were raised and indoctrinated during their respective childhood.

You can't have versatile options of women as a man, if you are still broke. There is no woman on earth that don't have the tendency to exploit their men one way or the other, Even the most submissive women still do, Even the ones that claimed to have stayed and help build their men still do, so there's no single woman that won't have the tendency to exploit you as a man. Understanding the psychology of women entails that you learn to accept some financial requests from your woman and still decline some.

You ought to understand that if you must give, give what you can afford to loose, also expect the worst to happen in the future. You don't avoid problems, you expect problems, so that when it finally comes, you deal with it like it never happened and move on quietly.

There is no relationship/marriage/friendship that is not transactional, it is all a clash of interests where both parties have their given expectations on each other.

Men still remain the prize no matter any class (Simp or alpha) they find themselves. It up to the man to live with his choices and actions.

In the society, A rich Simp still has more values and worth than a broke alpha that believes he knows his worth, what worth does he have? A broke account balance? The broke alpha can only come online to preach red pills and still crawl out offline to live with his realities.

From my own understanding, the OP was not talking about putting money on the table when he's first meeting a woman, you misunderstood him. It is not all about having a simpish mindset, it is all about being financially buoyant and confident to live and stand with principles as a man.

Goo0dHardDick:
The OP is talking about transactional relationship which is termed as parasitic relationship. That isn't a relationship.

Any man that put money first when meeting a woman has successfully subscribed to being exploited.

A man is simply the prize because he knows his worth. He controls his attention and doesn't give it out carelessly. He is focus on his mission, businesses etc and doesn't spend money carelessly. He always put himself first no matter what! He doesn't worship women. He doesn't double call, double text or act desperate over a girl. He knows when a girl isn't interested in him and he respects himself enough to move on.

Dude, being the prize isn't about money at all. Haven't you seen a rich notorious Simp before? Does that means he is the prize because he is rich? Of course not! He isn't any prize because he doesn't understand women's psychology. Such men simps over women.

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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:29pm On Jul 10

Mrexcell:
When it comes to modern nigerian ladies of these days absolutely nothing is guaranteed, you can be very rich, strong in bed, caring and a responsible family man yet ur wife can still mess you up by having affairs with a low life crazy dude.

Even at that, it's the money that attracted her to be with you in the first place.
Meaning if there was no money, she wouldn't have get a inch close to you.
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The one she loves doesn't have the money, you that she didn't like have the money. And it was that money that attracted her to you.
So you can't excuse the power of money.

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by DickenClarq(f): 3:32pm On Jul 10

Kalulu44:
Hmmmm.... I wanted to say something to this your post, but let me reserve my comment till I recollect everything I had in mind to say

No wahala

I am patiently waiting for you my Boss.

May God bless you

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Demonic01(m): 3:33pm On Jul 10

I'm glad you schooled the nigga, he thinks it is all about preaching theories and standards. A broke alpha ain't got no choice and he has no authority to command.

Financial buoyancy comes with the confidence to live like an Alpha.

Kalulu44:
You're partly right and partly wrong, yes been the prize is not all about money.
But for you as a man to gather the confidence and do all what you wrote up there, you still have to be financially stable.
True or false?
.
A broke man can't dictate to anybody especially them ladies how he wants.
A broke man can't have worth that he will be showing around.
So all in all, money na still the Koko.
Money gives you confidence to carry out majority of the things you said up there.
Yes they're rich simps, those ones are follow come.

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:34pm On Jul 10

FashionAfrica:
When Women are cheating on Billionaires with House boys and Gate men the world over and you are talking about money makes a man the prize. Your clear level of materialism makes you not see that there is no prize in Humanity. If you like have one Trillion dollars and women will look for flaws of lack of love, lack of attentiveness lack of friendship to seek for divorce. Does Kaka the footballer not have money? Was he not the perfect gentleman ?

Even his wife divorced him and said he was too perfect

All these you mentioned are by the side.
A woman cheating on a rich husband with her gateman, househelp, driver and co is not bcus she loves those domestic staffs more than her husband.
There's what we call feelings and having the time for your woman. If you deny her that, she can't sort it out somewhere else with anybody.
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Been with someone is not all about the material things you will provide. What about the emotional aspect which is very very if not important than money.

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:35pm On Jul 10

Exceed15:
U can still make that money and mumu . Womwn will only use u

Anybody wey make money and still mumu for women, that means him own mumu and simping na follow come

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:36pm On Jul 10

naturefellow:
👍🏻

Iamdbull lacks character. Money can never replace self esteem.

Your self esteem is nothing without money, take that to the bank

Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:37pm On Jul 10

Demonic01:
I'm glad you schooled the nigga, he thinks it is all about preaching theories and standards. A broke alpha ain't got no choice and he has no authority to command.

Financial buoyancy comes with the confidence to live like an Alpha.

Thank you bro, you got it.

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