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Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:41pm On Jul 10
dauntless15:
So na to cater for needs of a woman your own make money preaching center on, until your life doesn't revolve around seeking the validation of a woman you ain't a prize as well.
You know what I will keep telling most of you guys. You are just deceiving yourself if you think the money you're working for is not for women.
Except you have made a vow to finally cut any ties with women in this life which you and I know is impossible, then I will agree you're hustling your money for yourself and not for them.
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But as far you abhor companionship, to make love and have sex, to have a family and all. My friend you're working for women or a woman.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Lovelife433(m): 3:41pm On Jul 10
This is for the men that think they can buy love their money.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:42pm On Jul 10
udemzyudex:
Rubbish post, very nonsensical post.

So you're making money because of the opposite sex huh?
Yes that's what we men partially are doing, if you don't know, know it now.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:46pm On Jul 10
omooba969:
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So your aim of making money is so you can control the opposite sex?

Warped mentality...lol cheesy
omooba969, in as much as it hurts to say it. But that's the truth in this part of the world we are in.
Do you have any power to control anybody be it man or woman if you don't have money?
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:48pm On Jul 10
judewrites:
Any relationship that is mostly based on "what can you offer me?" Is parasitic and cannot be true love.

Unfortunately, most relationships, even marriages are based on this in Nigeria, due to the bad economy.

It should be 50_50%

Women give men a break!
Where are you going to find true love now without money
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:50pm On Jul 10
omooba969:
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How much money is actually sufficient?

Asides money, what else can a man showcase?

Where is the place of self worth?
Who dash monkey banana broke man self worth.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 3:53pm On Jul 10
Demonic01:
Take a chill pill bro, he aint far from the truth, being financially buoyant will guarantee you the privilege to have so many versatile options of women. Of course, as a wise man, you'd ought to choose the right one.

Wether you are a rich simp or a Rich Alpha, You are still the prize regardless. Everybody will not understand the psychology of women because of how they were raised and indoctrinated during their respective childhood.

You can't have versatile options of women as a man, if you are still broke. There is no woman on earth that don't have the tendency to exploit their men one way or the other, Even the most submissive women still do, Even the ones that claimed to have stayed and help build their men still do, so there's no single woman that won't have the tendency to exploit you as a man. Understanding the psychology of women entails that you learn to accept some financial requests from your woman and still decline some.

You ought to understand that if you must give, give what you can afford to loose, also expect the worst to happen in the future. You don't avoid problems, you expect problems, so that when it finally comes, you deal with it like it never happened and move on quietly.

There is no relationship/marriage/friendship that is not transactional, it is all a clash of interests where both parties have their given expectations on each other.

Men still remain the prize no matter any class (Simp or alpha) they find themselves. It up to the man to live with his choices and actions.

In the society, A rich Simp still has more values and worth than a broke alpha that believes he knows his worth, what worth does he have? A broke account balance? The broke alpha can only come online to preach red pills and still crawl out offline to live with his realities.

From my own understanding, the OP was not talking about putting money on the table when he's first meeting a woman, you misunderstood him. It is not all about having a simpish mindset, it is all about being financially buoyant and confident to live and stand with principles as a man.
May God bless you for everything you said here, cus you 100% said my mind.
Nothing to add nothing to subtract
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 4:08pm On Jul 10
DickenClarq:
No wahala

I am patiently waiting for you my Boss.




May God bless you
Bless you too.
Now to your initial post.
Those women married to rich men but still somehow find themselves f*cking their gatemen, drivers, garderners and all are not doing so bcus they like it or love those guys more than their husbands.
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Most of them, their rich husbands provides the financial and material things but lack the emotional and feelings aspect. To a woman, this two ought to go hand in hand. Infact it's that emotional and feelings they need most, the financial and material things is the oil that is oiling the emotional aspect.
So they're not f*cking those low grades guys bcus they honestly like it, it's just that they have to satisfy that emotion and feelings their husbands are denying them.
I hope I made a point here
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by haajhi(m): 4:08pm On Jul 10
How old are you? Sorry to ask. No offence, but you're way ahead of your age. What a wise fellow. Nice one.
DickenClarq:
Dude can you stop all this already?

Uncle IamDbull, Who told you broke guys are not also the price to someone else?
Uncle IamDbull, Do you know that your wife or girlfriend can cheat on you with your house boy and Gate man even if you are Elon Musk?
Uncle IamDbull, Do you know that a lady can reject Elon Musk for a classroom teach and fill happy that she made the right choice?

They are things money can't buy RESPECT, LOVE, LOYALTY, HONESTY etc. Money can get you the fake and temporal once not the original and permanent once.

Note: a lady can give the fake once to you as her rich husband, while giving the original to her broke Ex-boyfriend or her side guy with all her heart. She can even plan with her side guy to kill you and inherit your property together.

It happened in Haiti, imagine the president wife (First Lady) planned a successful hit on her own husband (The president) with supports of her boyfriend, the hit claimed life of some members of her own family and she attended her husband funeral crying crocodile tears .

Now answer the question WHO IS THE REAL PRICE? cheesy

WE ARE SO MESSED UP IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD THAT WE ONLY FIND FULFILLMENT IN MAKING MONEY

IT IS VERY DISGUSTING!!




May God save us
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Anenehi: 4:09pm On Jul 10
PattersonHR:
How does a son of nobody graduate or not raise money for the said business.
let a skill , then turn it into a system.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by haajhi(m): 4:11pm On Jul 10
Easier said my bro. Easier said except you embrace crime as your foundation.
Anenehi:
let a skill , then turn it into a system.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 4:11pm On Jul 10
haajhi:
How old are you? Sorry to ask. No offence, but you're way ahead of your age. What a wise fellow. Nice one.
But she's also somehow wrong.
I have given her full reason why what she said happens
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by udemzyudex(m): 4:12pm On Jul 10
Kalulu44:
Yes that's what we men partially are doing, if you don't know, know it now.
Men like you sha.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Kalulu44: 4:14pm On Jul 10
udemzyudex:
Men like you sha.
Keep denying you hear.
As far as you dey f*ck, your pe*is dey raise, you must need them and you must spend.
As far as you want get kids and make family, you must spend on them.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by haajhi(m): 4:16pm On Jul 10
Bro. Go throught your wiruteup and youll see that you're on the same page with the person you quote. Bottoming is having money is not always the prize for a perfect relationship. Bless you too
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Hezmatosky210: 4:17pm On Jul 10
So what can we say about those rich men whose wives divorces or disrespect them? Person wey get home training don get am. Person wey no get, no matter wetin you do, you won't be appreciated shikina kiss
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Omoawoke(m): 4:19pm On Jul 10
That’s pure fact


80/20 rule

80% of women are chasing 20% of men
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by haajhi(m): 4:21pm On Jul 10
The bottomline is that as man gets older, we'll never fully understand what a woman wants or how to satisfy her. Being rich, poor, in the middle doesn't make you the prize cuz it's a complicated world.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by haajhi(m): 4:23pm On Jul 10
I want to raise the points you just made, but i rest my case. Youve said it all.
Hezmatosky210:
So what can we say about those rich men whose wives divorces or disrespect them? Person wey get home training don get am. Person wey no get, no matter wetin you do, you won't be appreciated shikina kiss
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Mansa6: 4:23pm On Jul 10
Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!


Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!


Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!
How old are you and what was your upbringing like?
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Mansa6: 4:27pm On Jul 10
Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!


Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!


Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!
Commot from here...all you "juveniles"..

What happened to Trillionaire,Elon Musk?What happened to him being the Prize?

Bill Gates
Dangote
Will Smith
Warren Buffett
Jeff Bezos

I will give you another 1000 centi millionaires(those ones with worths upwards of 300million dollars)..

What happened to all these multi Billionaires ,that they were cranked and humiliated by their spouses/girlfriends?

Oga ..

YOU ARE A BOY!!!!!!!
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by FashionAfrica: 4:27pm On Jul 10
Kalulu44:
All these you mentioned are by the side.
A woman cheating on a rich husband with her gateman, househelp, driver and co is not bcus she loves those domestic staffs more than her husband.
There's what we call feelings and having the time for your woman. If you deny her that, she can't sort it out somewhere else with anybody.
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Been with someone is not all about the material things you will provide. What about the emotional aspect which is very very if not important than money.
The fact that a person can cheat means that person you are with is not the prize. When you are in love with someone you will not cheat on them. You will notify them they are lacking in one regard and you will begin to find something or someone else who can fill the void. As I said Void. Void means the woman or man is just managing the situation.

That is why I said Money or status can never make a marriage work you have to give yourself also.

Just like Beauty will attract men to you but intelligence, kindness, Compassion and thoughtfulness will keep them attracted
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by FashionAfrica: 4:31pm On Jul 10
Mansa6:
Commot from here...all you "juveniles"..

What happened to Trillionaire,Elon Musk?What happened to him being the Prize?

Bill Gates
Dangote
Will Smith
Warren Buffett
Jeff Bezos

What happened to all these multi Billionaires ,that they were cranked and humiliated by their spouses/girlfriends?

Oga ..

YOU ARE A BOY!!!!!!!
Bro.... Dem for give you Award. The guy just hit N100k and he is giving out noodles and boiled eggs so he thinks he is king Kong . He hasn't seen life and is just about to start.

Let us not abandon him since he is just starting When he throws away the N100k, let us give him a shoulder to cry o.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by FashionAfrica: 4:33pm On Jul 10
Mansa6:
Commot from here...all you "juveniles"..

What happened to Trillionaire,Elon Musk?What happened to him being the Prize?

Bill Gates
Dangote
Will Smith
Warren Buffett
Jeff Bezos

I will give you another 1000 centi millionaires(those ones with worths upwards of 300million dollars)..

What happened to all these multi Billionaires ,that they were cranked and humiliated by their spouses/girlfriends?

Oga ..

YOU ARE A BOY!!!!!!!
Omo..... I have to comment to the post twice . I hope all the young men inexperienced men read your post
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by naturefellow(m): 4:34pm On Jul 10
Kalulu44:
Your self esteem is nothing without money, take that to the bank
your opinion is not bankable fact
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by omooba969(m): 4:34pm On Jul 10
Kalulu44:
omooba969, in as much as it hurts to say it. But that's the truth in this part of the world we are in.
Do you have any power to control anybody be it man or woman if you don't have money?
Why need to control a fellow human?
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by DickenClarq(f): 4:35pm On Jul 10
Kalulu44:
Bless you too.
Now to your initial post.
Those women married to rich men but still somehow find themselves f*cking their gatemen, drivers, garderners and all are not doing so bcus they like it or love those guys more than their husbands.
.
Most of them, their rich husbands provides the financial and material things but lack the emotional and feelings aspect. To a woman, this two ought to go hand in hand. Infact it's that emotional and feelings they need most, the financial and material things is the oil that is oiling the emotional aspect.
So they're not f*cking those low grades guys bcus they honestly like it, it's just that they have to satisfy that emotion and feelings their husbands are denying them.
I hope I made a point here
Well written big Boss.

I hope we here have learnt one or two from you.



God bless you sir
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by omooba969(m): 4:36pm On Jul 10
Kalulu44:
Who dash monkey banana broke man self worth.
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Suffice to say you don't understand the concept of self-worth.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by judewrites: 4:36pm On Jul 10
Kalulu44:
Where are you going to find true love now without money
What am emphasizing is that women shouldn't be parasitic, as in totally dependent on a man.

Yes money is important in any relationship, but not to the point where everything falls on the man as often seen in this environment.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by FashionAfrica: 4:37pm On Jul 10
haajhi:
The bottomline is that as man gets older, we'll never fully understand what a woman wants or how to satisfy her. Being rich, poor, in the middle doesn't make you the prize cuz it's a complicated world.
No Bros. Life is very easy. We are all on our own and people can abandon us at anytime. You are the Prize to yourself is all people should be bothered with. Or if you believe in God try to be a Prize to God. Na only God sure pass.
Re: Until You Make Money As A Man, You Are Never The Prize!! by Premiumbuy(m): 4:37pm On Jul 10
dominique:
Tell that to Baba ijesha. Broke, jobless, ex-convict child molester and he's married to a wealthy designer. His fellow men have said they're the prize, who are we to argue?
Premium Be Unto You





It's crazy how Baba Ijesha got married to a woman and not a man like himself but same women are the ones crying that he later got married. Do you need a bucket to cry harder?
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