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Am Priceless ......Of inestimable value whether I make money or Not .,...My worth is more than all the whole money in this world put together and in the world to come ....
So Op can getat ..,.....
If any makes money to impress a woman doesn't have any self esteem ....
No wonder crime abound in Naija witj all this olodo concepts ....in sane places were men invent, Build and Construct civilization we've never imagined no body talks like this ...You won't even know they have money if they come out .....

The problem was the collapse of true culture.
Greed was driven into the minds of people and a gradual decline in moral fabric of society ensued. Poverty is weaponized to destroy the bedrock of society -- the family unit. The chaos caused feed the wicked. Any revolution will still call for murder and bloodshed because of strong immoral attachments. Can we be saved?

At this point, reduce expectations, do what you can, but live life with peace in your heart and satisfaction that you are one with the Most High. So at least your soul will experience bountiful blessings on departure from this world of strife.

Mussolini77:
Money can’t buy class bobo……you fit get money make dem still no rate you.

Please op to go to Sweden or Germany and Boast of his money they go no go even notice you ...

Kalulu44:
Lolz! I dey on leave

Quick come back to deliver those your tales.

Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!


Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!


Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!

wait for sht to hit the fan then we will revisit this statement

Iamdbull:
But it is indeed an important ingredient

in peace time which is the minority of human history

Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!


Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!


Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!

Oga, I'm not making money because of any girl. I don't know how you people turn thing to big deal.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Quick come back to deliver those your tales.

Ok sir

Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!


Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!


Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!

You lie! I know my worth and my worth is beyond money!

‎DickenClarq if truly you are a female, then well as always I believe there are still sensible women in Nigeria. The population is just 0.01% of total female population.
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‎Iamdbull please change your thoughts, cause your self esteem is shaken. So sorry for you, your thoughts speak volumes on who you are at core.
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‎Empresa you are very correct, I once had a lengthy discussion with a lady from Eswatini(a southern african country), and I just know say Nigerian women no really worth am.
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‎Kalulu44 in as much as I appreciate your opinions, all I can say is please be careful around women.
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‎There are truth to what you are writing, but there are some mindset shift that you need to have.
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‎I don't know if I'm the only man in Nigeria that knows that Nigerian women are mostly broke. The way Nigerian women dey broke ehn, e go shoke you.
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‎Now this same women will have the guts to broke shame men.
‎This is similar to the popular saying of "kettle calling pot black"
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‎One very damaged nairalander I told her real truths and I pray she learns, but I have no expectations.
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‎Many Nigerian men needs to wake up to the realization that they are on average richer and financially okay than many women, so when a Nigerian lady broke shame you, you return the energy.
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‎In summary when a man sees himself as needing money to feel loved, respected and adored, then that man's mindset is broken.
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‎Drops pen 🖊️

olioxx:
‎DickenClarq if truly you are a female, then well as always I believe there are still sensible women in Nigeria. The population is just 0.01% of total female population.
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‎Iamdbull please change your thoughts, cause your self esteem is shaken. So sorry for you, your thoughts speak volumes on who you are at core.
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‎Empresa you are very correct, I once had a lengthy discussion with a lady from Eswatini(a southern african country), and I just know say Nigerian women no really worth am.
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‎Kalulu44 in as much as I appreciate your opinions, all I can say is please be careful around women.
‎
‎There are truth to what you are writing, but there are some mindset shift that you need to have.
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‎I don't know if I'm the only man in Nigeria that knows that Nigerian women are mostly broke. The way Nigerian women dey broke ehn, e go shoke you.
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‎Now this same women will have the guts to broke shame men.
‎This is similar to the popular saying of "kettle calling pot black"
‎
‎One very damaged nairalander I told her real truths and I pray she learns, but I have no expectations.
‎
‎Many Nigerian men needs to wake up to the realization that they are on average richer and financially okay than many women, so when a Nigerian lady broke shame you, you return the energy.
‎
‎In summary when a man sees himself as needing money to feel loved, respected and adored, then that man's mindset is broken.
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‎Drops pen 🖊️

Hmmmm.... Thanks for the heads up, I understand you wholeheartedly

so make i go theft b cos of money must be made ode

Iamdbull:
I see a lot of men deceiving and lying to
themselves by calling themselves the prize
especially the broke ones, but sorry to break it
you, until you make enough money and you can
provide and cater for the needs of a woman you
can't be perceived as a nman and you might have
to bend your knees for things to work out!


Unfortunately the country we found ourselves
men have been robbed of this privilege of making enough to have control of the opposite sex.

So the question is how can we change this ? How can we make money? The only hope the country has left for young men now is yahoo, sporty, newsspend•com or doing unskilled work where one is grossly underpaid!


Mann we can't continue like this money is a must!!

Kalulu44:
And is there a way you can dodge from catering for a woman? I'm asking

I could have asked you "Cater for a Woman? as her father? "
But you won't still get it .

Relationship, especially marriage is not a welfare program. Both parties have to contribute to make it work.

"Money for hand, back for ground" relationships and marriages Nigerians tedious chase is because most men have nothing to offer except "paying" and the woman have been told by society to offer nothing except her bumbom .

So the man is indirectly paying for Bumbom. She knows, we know, but he delude himself that she loves him.
If He stops paying/catering, the relationship ends.

To answer your question:
My Son cater for yourself, be better, be well dressed, speak well. Women of value will seek your relationship.
Also, don't delude yourself by dating a coded Ol0sho, request for "pay as you go" service.
And Don't date a POS girl or jobless girl and say it's love. Have some sympathy on yourself.

Kazim88:
I could have asked you "Cater for a Woman? as her father? "
But you won't still get it .

Relationship, especially marriage is not a welfare program. Both parties have to contribute to make it work.

"Money for hand, back for ground" relationships and marriages Nigerians tedious chase is because most men have nothing to offer except "paying" and the woman have been told by society to offer nothing except her bumbom .

So the man is indirectly paying for Bumbom. She knows, we know, but he delude himself that she loves him.
If He stops paying/catering, the relationship ends.

To answer your question:
My Son cater for yourself, be better, be well dressed, speak well. Women of value will seek your relationship.
Also, don't delude yourself by dating a coded Ol0sho, request for "pay as you go" service.
And Don't date a POS girl or jobless girl and say it's love. Have some sympathy on yourself.

You still don't seem to understand me.
Whether they're your girlfriend or wife, you must take care of them. This is Nigeria nay Africa and not the Western world.
Except you don't intend to marry and have a family

Nigerian girls don give am PTSD, that 'banny" word wey Sonnobax15 dey always use na coping mechanism.
Remember that banny wey e use im Keke sponsor for uni that year?

SeeWahala:
He will start blocking you if you ask him uncomfortable questions

The guy na just content creator, I harmlessly call him our 'keke-banny' guy and he gets angry all the time

Nackzy:
OP Dbull.. I am not totally agreeing with you on this and I won't also totally disagree with you... A men is the price is different aspect.. A Man is the price because he can Marry many wives at once, a man is the price because he will forever remain the head of the house no matter what poor or not.. there are things that will be done in a community or society and that man will be needed and you can't replace that with anything... But to add beauty to it a man is more of a price when he has money.. but also remember there are still rich vegetable men out there... So life indeed is a mystery

All these things you listed is not reason why Men are top tier.
A Man is the price because the world revolves round him.
The World Order; the decision making of the Governing institutions revolves around men; Wars, Technology, Procreation, Religion, Development etc..
A man being the price is that; SHE, will want someone with these qualities that will give her a soft landing in life. Being the weaker gene, she needs a stronger gene to compliment her growth. Take for example; A lady's car got spoiled on the road during a rainy day. It needed someone to go under the bonnet and fix a tube. Do you think she would do that?? She is more concerned about her face and nails and what people will say about her. She is thinking of self shame. They live a superficial life, and always need someone to compliment their flaws.
Judge for yourself how do you think the world will be with ONLY women living..
And how will it look with only Men living?

omooba969:
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Men are indeed the PRIZE.

Gentle reminder, WE BUILT THE WORLD !

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Until Simps decided to create problems by introducing Feminism and Putting women in high institutions of power.

omooba969:
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I'm glad you mentioned 'self-sufficient', but let's get one thing straight, we're not talking about someone in abject poverty but one with a modest living, one who's self-sufficient. You don't need too much to be okay - this is my submission.

My question is, does having too much of it now makes you the prize as opposed to who you are as a MAN?

Yes it does, having enough money or being self sufficient make you a prize, not only to the women but everyone in your circle. Though being self sufficient is relatives, it varies from one individual to another.it is not possible to have too much money except it happened by accident. Humans stop wanting more when they are fully satisfied with what they have, unsatisfied souls will continue to chase money till the end of their lives.

Dbull don drop am like hot akara

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OlaOfLagos:
“Until you make money as a man, you are never the prize”

The truth of this statement depends entirely on whether you are looking at society's transactional surface or the deeper reality of human relationships.

TRUE
The statement holds partial truth because the Society heavily links masculinity with financial Utility. In the modern dating marketplace, resource and security remains a top trait sought by prospective partners

FALSE
When a man defines his entire worth by his wallet, he often attracts transactional relationships. If the money disappears, the attraction disappears. A man becomes a sustainable prize when he offers a safe, stable environment that goes beyond financial support.

Brilliant...

Kalulu44:
You know what I will keep telling most of you guys. You are just deceiving yourself if you think the money you're working for is not for women.
Except you have made a vow to finally cut any ties with women in this life which you and I know is impossible, then I will agree you're hustling your money for yourself and not for them.
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But as far you abhor companionship, to make love and have sex, to have a family and all. My friend you're working for women or a woman.

But no be all man go marry na, wetin you dey preach? I can get a comfortable and financially stable woman as a fun partner who doesn't really need mine. So how am I hustling for a woman? Be M.O.B bro.

pigmania:
But no be all man go marry na, wetin you dey preach? I can get a comfortable and financially stable woman as a fun partner who doesn't really need mine. So how am I hustling for a woman? Be M.O.B bro.

"I can get a comfortable and financially stable woman as a fun partner"
Easier said than done, and what makes you think you'll still not spend in that fun partnership.
If you guys wants to go to Dubai, New York, UK and co to catch fun. Won't you spend?
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And I like I said in my first post, except you don't want to have anything to do with women is where your money is solely for you.
As far as you still need them, you must surely spend for them. No two ways about it especially our side of women.
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Let me tell you something that happened recently. My superior boss a woman of 53 just came back from US last week and left this week is the owner of the hotel I am working. She's single with 2 grown up children of 30 and 22yrs. And she's financially assured for life except catastrophe of life hit her which I don't pray to.
She told me and my direct boss here that she's eyeing dating men like Dangote.
So tell me why will a financially stable woman still need men like Dangote, is it not to continue collecting freebies.
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Even if you and that financial stable woman will be spending together, believe you me. You will still be the one to spend the most.

Kalulu44:
"I can get a comfortable and financially stable woman as a fun partner"
Easier said than done, and what makes you think you'll still not spend in that fun partnership.
If you guys wants to go to Dubai, New York, UK and co to catch fun. Won't you spend?
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And I like I said in my first post, except you don't want to have anything to do with women is where your money is solely for you.
As far as you still need them, you must surely spend for them. No two ways about it especially our side of women.
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Let me tell you something that happened recently. My superior boss a woman of 53 just came back from US last week and left this week is the owner of the hotel I am working. She's single with 2 grown up children of 30 and 22yrs. And she's financially assured for life except catastrophe of life hit her which I don't pray to.
She told me and my direct boss here that she's eyeing dating men like Dangote.
So tell me why will a financially stable woman still need men like Dangote, is it not to continue collecting freebies.
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Even if you and that financial stable woman will be spending together, believe you me. You will still be the one to spend the most.

Easier said than done? Lol, I've done it over and over in my lifetime, I've had women give me money multiple times, I can post a screenshot if you doubt. As for your greedy boss, it's just hypergamy at play, normal female nature. She'll still pay for the service of a professional giggollo.

pigmania:
Easier said than done? Lol, I've done it over and over in my lifetime, I've had women give me money multiple times, I can post a screenshot if you doubt. As for your greedy boss, it's just hypergamy at play, normal female nature. She'll still pay for the service of a professional giggollo.

Stop deceiving yourself, there's no man including me that haven't at one time or the other been given things from women.
That one dey, but in majority of your relationship with them you're the one that spend the most.
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As for my boss, I disagree with your calling her greedy. She's the sweetest and wonderful boss I can ever work with.
She's more than over generous with the gifts and money she splashed on us her staffs.
Having said that, where you expecting her to date broke men or boys.
As for her paying for gigolo's, that's her choice if she so wishes. After all she's no longer a teen or young woman to be looking for love.

Kalulu44:
Stop deceiving yourself, there's no man including me that haven't at one time or the other been given things from women.
That one dey, but in majority of your relationship with them you're the one that spend the most.
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As for my boss, I disagree with your calling her greedy. She's the sweetest and wonderful boss I can ever work with.
She's more than over generous with the gifts and money she splashed on us her staffs.
Having said that, where you expecting her to date broke men or boys.
As for her paying for gigolo's, that's her choice if she so wishes. After all she's no longer a teen or young woman to be looking for love.

Deceiving myself? All men ain't the same bro, just rest. I have been in relationships where the women spend most, one was even 5 years older, taking me to lounges and paying for everything. And what's wrong with a rich woman dating a broke guy and upgrading him? Men do that for ladies and it won't ever stop. Can't you see the selfish and greedy nature of an average woman? Guard your finances bro, when the chips are down, some women no really send you.

Lolz you clearly don't understand when they say men are the prize it is not about money but self-worth

A man broke at 40 still have women in line who will marry him

A woman even rich at 40 will still struggle to find a man that will settle down with it

You now see who the PRIZE IS?


Men are the prize in the sense that even when he sleeps around with women he still bag a wife

But not the same is seen for a woman

NOW U SEE THE PRIZE


A Man is the one that makes a final decision to marry a woman can either reject or not

It is not in a woman place

Men are really the PRIZE!!!


Men will cheat women will flock around him
But a woman cheat it is not seen as the same

Men are JUST the PRIZE don't fight it.


Relax and think

If a Man place he's value on the things he can provide for a Woman, then he can be easily replaced. Use this information as you want

With or without money, men are the prize.