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Poll: Will you let a sick lady come over to your house for a sleep over?

Yes 6% (13 votes)
No, my house is not a hospital 93% (202 votes)
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Before You Invite A Lady Over by CLOUDRepublic(op):
There are questions you need to ask a lady before you invite her over or agree for her to pass the night at your place. Even if your house was a hotel, receptionist will take your information before you can check-in.

She owes you an answer about her current health status.
Ask her if she has eaten, so that she doesn't find your next question absurd. Ask her if she's fine health wise.

Don't feel like you don't want to bruise her ego or make her angry. She owes you an answer about her health if she intends to visit your place.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by AllBlack: 7:45am On Jul 14
CLOUDRepublic:
There are questions you need to ask a lady before you invite her over or agree for her to pass the night at your place. Even if your house was an hotel, receptionist will take your information before you can check-in.

She owes you an answer about her current health status.
Ask her if she has eaten, so that she doesn't find your next question absurd. Ask her if she's fine health wise.

Don't feel like you don't want to bruise her ego or make her angry. She owes you an answer about her health if she intends to visit your place.
Why do you guys keep using AN right before a word that starts with H?
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by CLOUDRepublic(op): 7:52am On Jul 14
AllBlack:
Why do you guys keep using AN right before a word that starts with H?
The choice between "a" and "an" depends on the sound that starts the following word, not the actual letter.
Although, that up there is just a typographical error. Good you called my attention to it
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by Baronthecelebri(m): 8:13am On Jul 14
You're right about that one
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by AllBlack:
CLOUDRepublic:
The choice between "a" and "an" depends on the sound that starts the following word, not the actual letter.
You should have quietly and humbly taken the correction but see how you wrote this garbage with so much confidence because of empty vessel level pride. This is how people like you wear suit and tie and mislead people especially in public places like this.

What school did you attend to learn such? Did any of your teachers even bother to teach you about VOWEL SOUNDS & CONSONANT SOUNDS or were they busy selling egusi in class? What was your score in JAMB (ENGLISH alone)?

I dey correct you and you dey try TEACH me? Telling me NOT THE ACTUAL LETTER? Please, what sound does the letter make?

Show me where it has become valid to use AN right before a word starts with H as regards places; I dare you.

Typo? You deliberately added N to A and you want to tell me about Typo? I have been typing on keys (Typewriter) before keyboards came into existence and I know a Typo when I see one. Look at the the distance between A and N then shamelessly mention Typo again.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by Samantha125(f): 9:33am On Jul 14
Shots fired...🤣🤣🤣... Why are you this brutal? You've now chased the op away from his thread...🤣🤣🤣

It's not his fault that his English is not Englishing, this language never loved us...🤣🤣🤣
AllBlack:
You should have quietly and humbly taken the correction but see how you wrote this garbage with so much confidence because of empty vessel level pride. This is how people like you wear suit and tie and mislead people especially in public places like this.

What school did you attend to learn such? Did any of your teachers even bother to teach you about VOWEL SOUNDS & CONSONANT SOUNDS or were they busy selling egusi in class? What was your score in JAMB (ENGLISH alone)?

I dey correct you and you dey try TEACH me? Telling me NOT THE ACTUAL LETTER? Please, what sound does the letter make?

Show me where it has become valid to use AN right before a word starts with H; I dare you.

Typo? You deliberately added N to A and you want to tell me about Typo? I have been typing on keys (Typewriter) before keyboards came into existence and I know a Typo when I see one. Look at the the distance between A and N then shamelessly mention Typo again.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by stunnert(m): 9:39am On Jul 14
He's a funny lad, he totally derailed from the topic and gave the op a proper tongue lashing grin grin
Samantha125:
Shots fired...🤣🤣🤣... Why are you this brutal? You've now chased the op away from his thread...🤣🤣🤣

It's not his fault that his English is not Englishing, this language never loved us...🤣🤣🤣
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by MartinsOla38(m): 10:13am On Jul 14
Well, let's just talk about articles then... A, an and the. Let's talk about the rules guiding them, let's talk about the exceptions to the rules. Let's ask ourselves, is it always about the letters beginning a word or the sound beginning the word?
What happens to the word "University"? What type of article is supposed to come before it between 'a' and 'an' and why?
Let's learn English language under this post.
I give you the floor...
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by Samantha125(f): 10:25am On Jul 14
I know that my English is not perfect, but may this type of tongue lashing never locate me...🤣🤣🤣
stunnert:
He's a funny lad, he totally derailed from the topic and gave the op a proper tongue lashing grin grin
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by notaveragejoe: 10:45am On Jul 14
AllBlack:
You should have quietly and humbly taken the correction but see how you wrote this garbage with so much confidence because of empty vessel level pride. This is how people like you wear suit and tie and mislead people especially in public places like this.

What school did you attend to learn such? Did any of your teachers even bother to teach you about VOWEL SOUNDS & CONSONANT SOUNDS or were they busy selling egusi in class? What was your score in JAMB (ENGLISH alone)?

I dey correct you and you dey try TEACH me? Telling me NOT THE ACTUAL LETTER? Please, what sound does the letter make?

Show me where it has become valid to use AN right before a word starts with H; I dare you.

Typo? You deliberately added N to A and you want to tell me about Typo? I have been typing on keys (Typewriter) before keyboards came into existence and I know a Typo when I see one. Look at the the distance between A and N then shamelessly mention Typo again.
The rule is based on pronunciation, not just the first letter. That’s why we say an hour, an honest person, and an heir, because the h is silent and the words begin with a vowel sound. Likewise, we say a university and a European country because they begin with the consonant “y” sound.
This isn’t my personal rule it’s standard English grammar the op is correct
The claim “Show me where it has become valid to use an before a word that starts with H” is incorrect. English has allowed this for centuries whenever the H is silent. It’s not a new rule or a matter of opinion.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by notaveragejoe: 10:48am On Jul 14
Samantha125:
Shots fired...🤣🤣🤣... Why are you this brutal? You've now chased the op away from his thread...🤣🤣🤣

It's not his fault that his English is not Englishing, this language never loved us...🤣🤣🤣
He didn’t fire any shots. The op was trying to educate him and he’s typing insults that was uncalled for . Funny how you’d applaud that
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by AllBlack: 10:53am On Jul 14
notaveragejoe:
“Show me where it has become valid to use an before a word that starts with H” is incorrect. .
Context.
Now show me where AN is used for a word that describes a place.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by Samantha125(f): 11:14am On Jul 14
I didn't applaud anything... Like I said, English never loved us...🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️
notaveragejoe:
He didn’t fire any shots. The op was trying to educate him and he’s typing insults that was uncalled for . Funny how you’d applaud that
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by Dzzzz: 11:24am On Jul 14
AllBlack:
You should have quietly and humbly taken the correction but see how you wrote this garbage with so much confidence because of empty vessel level pride. This is how people like you wear suit and tie and mislead people especially in public places like this.

What school did you attend to learn such? Did any of your teachers even bother to teach you about VOWEL SOUNDS & CONSONANT SOUNDS or were they busy selling egusi in class? What was your score in JAMB (ENGLISH alone)?

I dey correct you and you dey try TEACH me? Telling me NOT THE ACTUAL LETTER? Please, what sound does the letter make?

Show me where it has become valid to use AN right before a word starts with H as regards places; I dare you.

Typo? You deliberately added N to A and you want to tell me about Typo? I have been typing on keys (Typewriter) before keyboards came into existence and I know a Typo when I see one. Look at the the distance between A and N then shamelessly mention Typo again.
who stole your biscuit eh?
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by voortrekker966: 1:16pm On Jul 14
AllBlack:
Why do you guys keep using AN right before a word that starts with H?
It's actually correct. Hotel is pronounced with the 'h' silent. Same as 'honest'.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by voortrekker966: 1:17pm On Jul 14
CLOUDRepublic:
The choice between "a" and "an" depends on the sound that starts the following word, not the actual letter.
Although, that up there is just a typographical error. Good you called my attention to it
You were correct. No need to apologise.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by frugal(m): 1:22pm On Jul 14
Are we just going to ignore the article?
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by SeeWahala: 1:41pm On Jul 14
voortrekker966:
It's actually correct. Hotel is pronounced with the 'h' silent. Same as 'honest'.
There is nothing like 'AN' Hotel oooo, please let's not teach our kids nonsense
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by BItt: 2:06pm On Jul 14
AllBlack:
What school did you attend to learn such? Did any of your teachers even bother to teach you about VOWEL SOUNDS & CONSONANT SOUNDS or were they busy selling egusi in class?
All the mumbojumbo bomboooclart dialect you are yapping.
Isn't this what the Op is trying to educate you on?
Or you just want attention and derail the thread

CLOUDRepublic:
The choice between "a" and "an" depends on the sound that starts the following word, not the actual letter
Read and understand what the op said about sound
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by AllBlack: 2:14pm On Jul 14
voortrekker966:
It's actually correct. Hotel is pronounced with the 'h' silent. Same as 'honest'.
Hotel /hoʊˈtɛl/

H is silent in Hotel.... Really? Thanks for the information. Please print it out and share to all your household.

Just because you have a H factor impediment doesn't mean everyone else should share in your predicament.

I know that fly must support shieet but try your best to hide how empty your head is and stop showing it about like it is the new fashion.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by AllBlack: 2:19pm On Jul 14
BItt:
Read and understand what the op said about sound
and you are here because you understand anything about this or you just want to keep yourself busy by trying to appear relevant?

okay there it is, you have got a reply.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by notaveragejoe: 3:06pm On Jul 14
AllBlack:
Context.
Now show me where AN is used for a word that describes a place.
The context doesn’t change the rule.
You are introducing a restriction that doesn’t exist in English grammar. The indefinite article depends on the sound at the beginning of the next word, regardless of whether that word is a person, place, object, or idea. Don’t you get huh
So asking me to “show a before a place” doesn’t refute my point. The grammatical rule is still based on sound, not on whether the word is the name or description of a place.
The fact that a word describes a place is irrelevant. What matters is how the next word is pronounced.
Okay let me show you for learning purpose.
an island
an oasis
an airport
an embassy
an inn

And if the place name itself begins with a silent H we can have an Hour House (if that were the official name of a place) an Honest Kitchen (if that’s the name of a restaurant
So there you have your example of using AN before a place
Will be waiting for your response if you still think
I’m wrong we are all here to learn.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by notaveragejoe: 3:11pm On Jul 14
Samantha125:
I didn't applaud anything... Like I said, English never loved us...🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️
Fair enough. English has confused native speakers for centuries too. But in this case, the grammar rule is actually clear And Mr all black should unlearn that primary and secondary school version of using A and AN
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by 190theclown: 3:30pm On Jul 14
But some Nigerians dull sha! grin grin


Nicca said 'an Hotel' grin grin grin

Go school you no gree

see your n-yash for outside now! and these one go born tomorrow

Nija is doomed
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by marlow1962(m): 3:37pm On Jul 14
Haa
Na olodo uprising we go call this one abi na "an" olodo uprising cheesy


Nigerians can banter each other, but can never banter their government and demand for change.

Well op don create interesting topic inside topic grin
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by larryking78(m): 3:40pm On Jul 14
Samantha125:
I know that my English is not perfect, but may this type of tongue lashing never locate me...🤣🤣🤣
Samantha, dont worry jare.... nothing do you.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by Samantha125(f): 4:38pm On Jul 14
It depends on the person's regional accent, the "H" in the "Hotel" word is definitely not silent where I'm from.
voortrekker966:
It's actually correct. Hotel is pronounced with the 'h' silent. Same as 'honest'.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by voortrekker966: 4:59pm On Jul 14
Samantha125:
It depends on the person's regional accent, the "H" in the "Hotel" word is definitely not silent where I'm from.
Oh, ok.

Which part of England are you from anyway?
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by 9jaBloke:
Op made a mistake in the original post which he/she has acknowledged.

Op was also right in stating that the choice between the indefinite articles 'a' and 'an' is determined by the phonetic sound of the first letter of the subsequent word, rather than the written letter itself.

English is not our language and it is constantly evolving. I did a quick research and this is what I found:

In modern English, "a hotel" is the correct and universally preferred choice because the "h" in "hotel" is fully pronounced. However, "an hotel" was once common in older, highly formal British English when the "h" was silent. This is now considered largely outdated.

In order words, while 'An Hotel' was used more in the past, it is now considered obsolete and 'A hotel' is mostly used in today's English.

Verdict: You are all correct but 'A Hotel' is more acceptable.
Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by BrickandLace(f): 6:41pm On Jul 14
Before you invite a lady over please send her for comprehensive medical check up.
I mean check that her heart lungs, brain, kidneys are functioning properly for a woman her age.

All medical history must be investigated.

Otherwise you might be the one under investigation.
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