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Josbreed:
So as you dey like dis, it is ok for your wife to go and cheat on you for like 6 to 7 years and bring 5 children from 5 different men and pin them on you when you have a healthy sperm. If you yes, you do not belong to the beotherhood.

Diamond098454:
Absolutely right🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
. First of all, I am certain you have not really researched this one. The tradition you reference there applies to a small percentage, a minority of those from the Eastern parts of Nigeria, and the primary reason for this system was to give power to the husband in deciding whether or not to accept a child born in a marriage or not. In practice, many men did not accept children who were suspected of not being theirs in the marriage. That is why in many of the same Eastern cultures, sending the woman and her children packing was also commonplace. And bear in mind, this all took place before the DNA-testing age.

2. Second, children from one's own loins were considered a wealth status, mostly by the rich, not the poor. Also, this excluded, for the most part, children who were considered bastards.

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

Peero1:
May God deliver you from who ever brainwashed you.

Guestmale:
Though it is true not only biological way a man can become a father, but such a man deserve to know and consented to it but not through unconfessed infidelity.

Oakenshield:
u dn carry belle for seun wan come give dangote all this bitches with weird thoughts

QuinQQ:
xxxxx

Climax11:
The Poster is just a foolish person to have suggested. We should be clamoring for prosecution for paternity fraud. Any woman who brings another man's child to an innocent man should be locked up and have the keys thrown away.

Kobojunkie:
. That's absolute nonsense, and I am certain you know this.

Philosopher1979:
You are just making it easy for married women to cheat and for men to get away wth secing married women. There is a lot of adultery going on right now. You are just making it easy to cover up

Ishilove:
What kind of "happy family" will thrive on paternity fraud? You are conveniently ignoring that side of the conversation.

QuinQQ:
Not at all. This is Not about adultery. This about attempting to upend a child's and family's settled life by going on a DNA fishing expedition

franchasng:
You are correct.


If you observe that after you have nurtured the child to a certain age, to me, the best thing is pretend you don't know and let the child continue to be your child instead of throwing the child away out of anger.



In the west, many families raise children they never gave birth to and they take them as their parents.

As for me that love adopting kids, I don't think I have a problem with your suggestion at all.

But jokes apart, there's elements of truth here o. Because after the love and bond with my children from pregnancy to infancy to adolescent to adult, many times we've shared love, sufferings, laughter, pains and joy together then one idiot from nowhere wants to drag me to go and do DNA, as how naw? The fact is that, I will never ever want to think whether the children are mine or not. Children wey i nurture from pregnancy till now

Ishilove:
What kind of "happy family" will thrive on paternity fraud? You are conveniently ignoring that side of the conversation.

franchasng:
You are correct.


If you observe that after you have nurtured the child to a certain age, to me, the best thing is pretend you don't know and let the child continue to be your child instead of throwing the child away out of anger.



In the west, many families raise children they never gave birth to and they take them as their parents.



As for me that love adopting kids, I don't think I have a problem with your suggestion at all.

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

igwethompson854:
Now i see why many women were messing up,, they don't no that life is spiritual, every family has an ancenceral blood line, and bringing another blood line to the family has a consequence, training a child that is not your blood is not bad but if you die, in the spirit realm you don't have a root on the earth

QuinQ:
Thak you very much. This active father below says it well:

But jokes apart, there's elements of truth here o. Because after the love and bond with my children from pregnancy to infancy to adolescent to adult, many times we've shared love, sufferings, laughter, pains and joy together then one idiot from nowhere wants to drag me to go and do DNA, as how naw? The fact is that, I will never ever want to think whether the children are mine or not. Children wey i nurture from pregnancy till now

socoharley:
I know your type very well,they say one thing and do the complete opposite....BTW,are you sterile?

joseph1832:
Shes just playing devil's advocate.

She should even ask what will make a man even decide to do DNA test for his kids, in the first instance. Isn't it because the woman have shown signs of being a liar etc.

Ishilove:
What kind of "happy family" will thrive on paternity fraud? You are conveniently ignoring that side of the conversation.

QuinQ:
Never mind me, why not focuse on pointing out how and where the thesis is wrong

joseph1832:
Who is talking about adultery?

We are talking about, lies, deceit, betrayal, fraud, emotional blackmaIl, mental and emotional breakdown. We are talking about a man, knowing if the child he is suppose to be responsible for, i biologically his. If the woman he is married, has been true to her vows.

Ignorance isn't always bliss. Infact, it isn't bliss, not in this case or any case, as long as it involves being lied to and deceived.

If a couple decided to adopt a child, and take care of that child, fine, not when the woman deceived the man into believing and taking care of a child that isn't his. That is among the highest order of wickedness. Such women can kill. So, don't be an advocatus diaboli.

GreatUniben:
If you are a man, some street girls have rub juju on your head and if you are a woman, it looks like you may have cheated!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

socoharley:
it is morally wrong in every way because you can never justify paternity fraud which is an offshoot from a deceitful partner.

QuinQ:
I'm NOT a she and I'm not playing devil's advocate at all. I'll tag you on a write-up. Just tell me how it is wrong

QuinQ:
Has it ever occurred to you that DNA hasn't existed all this time and humanity has somehow managed to survive?
You totally misunderstand. This is NOT about deceit and all that. This about govt discouraging a settled family from unwarranted DNA fishing expedition (which is human nature) because it ultimately benefits them and society nothing!

QuinQ:
But this is NOT about parternity fraud or deceitful partner. This is about Govt giving settled (likely happy) families incentive NOT to embark on unwarranted DNA fishing on their children!

Danabu:
ABSOLUTE NONSENSE! ARE YOU A FEMALE WITH INTENTIONS TO TRY PATERNITY FRAUD? YOU WILL DO WELL TO CHANGE YY MIND NOW AND REPENT.