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“I’m 41, single and searching” – Lady offers ₦10 million reward to any man who marries her

A Nigerian woman has stirred reactions online after publicly announcing that she is searching for a husband, promising to reward the man who eventually marries her with ₦10 million.

In a video shared on X (formerly Twitter), the 41-year-old said she is still single, attractive and open to finding love, urging interested men not to hesitate to approach her.

“I’m finding a husband. I’m a 41-year-old woman. If you see me and you find me interesting, toast me. If you see me and you find me attractive, toast me. I am single and searching,” she said.

The woman also described herself as wealthy, well-connected and financially stable, insisting that she has not “expired” and is still ready for marriage.

She encouraged any man who believes he is compatible with her to send her a message and begin the process of wooing her.

“I am wealthy, I am rich. I am well-connected. If you’re a man and you think you can do this with me, come to my DM and woo me. I’m going to accept you,” she added.

She further revealed that after their wedding had been properly consummated, she would gift her husband ₦10 million as a token of appreciation for marrying her.

The lady concluded by inviting interested men to post their pictures in the comment section so she could choose from them, adding that time waits for no one.

Her unusual marriage proposal has since generated mixed reactions across social media, with many Nigerians sharing their opinions on her offer.

“I’m a 41-year-old woman, if you find me attractive ask me out. I need a husband” —Woman says. pic.twitter.com/YJoN2p7HYH

— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) July 16, 2026

Nairaland guys over to una

Everything na content now...some naija youths no go use sense....

So this girl na 41years...but her brain is 14 years na

How come she is just realizing men are scarce When we told them to accept polygamy they will insult us.

My pastor say " there's a man for every woman "

41 is probably her football age

Una never see anything yet

When you were busy dribbling serious suitors during your youthful years,you thought you were gonna be a maradona forever .

Btw,I pray she finds her own man, probably the one God didn't make in a similar image of mine cuz I'll never be in support of it

Okkk naww

Zero creativity in the Nigerian Creator space. This one go successfully get high followers by clowning about now and una go tag am "celebrity".

#OlodoUprising

You never ready. Try again at 51 years old...

Bloody content creator.

SixSeven:
I posted a video in my last comment. One of the reasons I don't bother arguing with women and don't give a damn about whether they think my comment is pandering or not is because with time, women eventually find out the truth. Time is a beautiful patient bride for men but an ugly tortuous truth for women. I need to copyright that. Women also don't like being told the truth, so keep telling them beautiful lies if you want to make them happy.

What happens to these women is that they have to settle. It was never a competition but the system does not favor men initially, it beats them but once you clock 30, things start to change. Men who learned from the beatings will start to look good while women who didn't know time changes yesterday will wake up to the reality of a new dawn. This is why the world always tried to raise the girl child more than the boy child because men can make many mistakes and still recover. A woman's recovery is usually hard if she makes mistakes, so man overtime knew this and wanted to raise her because they knew the future isn't nice, it can be harsh.

It's often too late before women realize in their 40s that the select few men they want are either married or not interested in them because of their age. They are then susceptible to fork boys/men and younger men who are still discovering themselves and not emotionally/financially mature for them. Women know themselves, that's why it's usually difficult for mothers to accept their sons marrying an old woman say 25 yo man vs 40 yo woman. The women know themselves. Women wake up one day later in life to see they are not as beautiful as they thought and newer editions have come out. Attention has gone to the beautyful ones who are born and trending.

A man is never ugly... Buchi Emecheta

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7553103102446931231

Elon Musk and these tech bros should demonetize their platforms or monopause it for the time.

What is ur body counts if I may consider u

You can marry her

She's no longer a banny and won't bill you in any way

Sonnobax15:

41 is probably her football age

Una never see anything yet

When you were busy dribbling serious suitors during your youthful years,you thought you were gonna be a maradona forever .

Btw,I pray she finds her own man, probably the one God didn't make in a similar image of mine cuz I'll never be in support of it

If they see you, they will find you interesting ( trust me).

Where have you been all this while that they have not been seeing you abi the men in your place are not seeing you.

Oh them de see ojuju calaba.

Getta

This one be like who get 500k for account? Y

Seems like she wanna trend
Skits content creator

I taught they said they dont need men

More like she is finding a house-boy not a husband.

Say she is well "connected"...So she personally know Wike/Seyi.

No you are 23 , if they tell some of this girls that one day they will beg for man to marry them they no go grr

Where are the Ijaws" I suggest this is going to suit guys over there, I been spending overall 3years with set people.....Bro what I learnt from is definitely different they don't take women for a trash neither be satisfied..they had adopted my co nice rit there

Her mates dey offer 50mil. She is not ready yet.

She maybe looking for husband but that not her real age

And some men will slide into her Dm not realising she shooting content. Does this one look like somebody that have 10million Naira and this girl never pass thirties

I am sure most of us read the story before this one for that young girl who was 16 and had multiple partners

Women control access the abunna while men control commitment to women

Most women, during that useful age play around and become objects that men pass around because they open their legs to everything tom, dick and harry.

Some claim the are after money and would only go for high value men when they themselves are just an average jane.

After playing around and wasting time, boom 40 comes knocking and they become desperate

At this age, when you say that you have 10 million to give a man, that would most times attract people are there to use and dump you because of your money

U get 10million and u no go ur village go find the hungry men there marry one person ..even some martie dmenngo follow u for that amount leave their wives ..u dey wine urself

Any woman who's truly searching knows how to get one.

It's either she's not ready to give up on something. Else, women can get married easily, remaining in marriage is what cannot be guaranteed.

rickpat:
Everything na content now...some naija youths no go use sense....

So this girl na 41years...but her brain is 14 years na

Red flag
Run Run Run fast oh

Any available man for sale in the house? 😄
The offer is still open!

madridguy:
How come she is just realizing men are scarce When we told them to accept polygamy they will insult us.

My pastor say " there's a man for every woman "

Men are not scarce bruv. Committed men are scarce. F#,ckboys full everywhere.

Na content abeg

Wetin do her wey she go dey use money buy husband?