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WHEN YOU SEE WOMEN FOR WHO THEY ARE.

The more you know women, the harder it gets to love them, not because you hate them but the illusion fades. You no longer see the angel, you see the beast hidden behind the facade of a pretty face and a nice body, you see the manipulation, the performance, the self preservation and survival tactics driven by hypergamy and the lies.
You see that they love nobody but themselves, that they will abandon a man who loves them for a man who provides for them even though he treats them like trash.
Their words mean nothing, their loyalty is conditional, their god is money, their fealty is to whosoever can pay their bills and solve their financial problems.
This is not hate. It's clarity. Once you see it, you cannot unsee it.

If you love them, you won't understand them and if you understand them, you won't Love them.

Hmmmm...Eve's eyes were "opened" first, yet, she gave Adam of the fruit to eat even after knowing the consequences. She couldn't even say let me keep this man from this problem. Therefore, as it was in the beginning, so is now.
Young man, be careful!

"The level of entitlement Nigerian women possess needs to be studied. I was going through my DMs one time and saw a message from one girl saying she likes my content and would like to start creating content, but she didn't have a ring light.

She then asked if I could help her with it. I asked how much the ring light cost, and she said ₦55k. I sent her the money.

After that, we didn't talk for a while. One day, she messaged me again and said, "Please, I need your help now." I asked her what happened, and she replied, "Please, can you borrow me ₦300k now?"

I was like, "₦300k? I don't think I can borrow you such an amount. You're a student, you don't work. How are you going to pay it back?" She said she was going to pay me back in three months' time.

Three months' time for ₦300k? I told her I couldn't lend her that amount, but I could give her ₦100k, and she could sort out the rest herself.

The next thing she said was, "No, it has to be ₦300k." I told her I didn't have ₦300k to lend her, besides I can't be chasing someone around Nigeria because of money. I advised her to find someone else who could lend her ₦300k.

She said, "Later." I said, "Okay." Then she came back again and said I should just give her the ₦100k like that.

I told her, "I'm not giving you again. The grace for the ₦100k has gone." She replied, "Don't worry." The next thing this girl did was bl0ck me.

How do you want to borrow money someone and still have the mind to bl0ck him? Imagine if I had actually lent her the money and later asked for it back, that is how she would have just blocked me. Some of you, the level of entitlement you have is ins@ne..."

- Man recounts how a lady he supported with ₦55k blocked him after he declined her request for a ₦300k loan.

essentialone:
"The level of entitlement Nigerian women possess needs to be studied. I was going through my DMs one time and saw a message from one girl saying she likes my content and would like to start creating content, but she didn't have a ring light.

She then asked if I could help her with it. I asked how much the ring light cost, and she said ₦55k. I sent her the money.

After that, we didn't talk for a while. One day, she messaged me again and said, "Please, I need your help now." I asked her what happened, and she replied, "Please, can you borrow me ₦300k now?"

I was like, "₦300k? I don't think I can borrow you such an amount. You're a student, you don't work. How are you going to pay it back?" She said she was going to pay me back in three months' time.

Three months' time for ₦300k? I told her I couldn't lend her that amount, but I could give her ₦100k, and she could sort out the rest herself.

The next thing she said was, "No, it has to be ₦300k." I told her I didn't have ₦300k to lend her, besides I can't be chasing someone around Nigeria because of money. I advised her to find someone else who could lend her ₦300k.

She said, "Later." I said, "Okay." Then she came back again and said I should just give her the ₦100k like that.

I told her, "I'm not giving you again. The grace for the ₦100k has gone." She replied, "Don't worry." The next thing this girl did was bl0ck me.

How do you want to borrow money someone and still have the mind to bl0ck him? Imagine if I had actually lent her the money and later asked for it back, that is how she would have just blocked me. Some of you, the level of entitlement you have is ins@ne..."

- Man recounts how a lady he supported with ₦55k blocked him after he declined her request for a ₦300k loan.

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Good for him, if his siblings or guy friend ask for such help he won't do anything.
Maybe, he thought after helping her there might be a chance to hit the honeywell?

Nigerian women don't have entitled mentality, it is the men that are useless because of many them don't even look back when they want to send money to the opposite gender but since their life they never send one dime to their fellow men...
I once ended my relationship some few years ago because the girl refuse to appreciate me after I sent her 10k instead was complaining this and that, I say ontop my own money I laboured for...

I don't see anything special about women and I don't know why men are killing theirselves over them because of kpekus another is probably f*cling for free or maybe she is the one begging him...

If you think you doing me favour by dating me then I will also let you know I I'm also doing you a favor by dating you... You dey craze no.

Odebayo4010:
WHEN YOU SEE WOMEN FOR WHO THEY ARE.

The more you know women, the harder it gets to love them, not because you hate them but the illusion fades. You no longer see the angel, you see the beast hidden behind the facade of a pretty face and a nice body, you see the manipulation, the performance, the self preservation and survival tactics driven by hypergamy and the lies.
You see that they love nobody but themselves, that they will abandon a man who loves them for a man who provides for them even though he treats them like trash.
Their words mean nothing, their loyalty is conditional, their god is money, their fealty is to whosoever can pay their bills and solve their financial problems.
This is not hate. It's clarity. Once you see it, you cannot unsee it.

Oga Calm down,
It's just their natural traits nothing personal.
Like you said, understanding brings about clarity

I heard it, saw it, lived it, regretted it, survived it and now, I preach it.
Women are users so using them back is not being wicked or being selfish, it's just a necessary reaction to an action.

What can of appreciation are you talking about? Because she have been appreciating you before you try or manage send that 10k

Kemical23:
Nigerian women don't have entitled mentality, it is the men that are useless because of many them don't even look back when they want to send money to the opposite gender but since their life they never send one dime to their fellow men...
I once ended my relationship some few years ago because the girl refuse to appreciate me after I sent her 10k instead was complaining this and that, I say ontop my own money I laboured for...

I don't see anything special about women and I don't know why men are killing theirselves over them because of kpekus another is probably f*cling for free or maybe she is the one begging him...

If you think you doing me favour by dating me then I will also let you know I I'm also doing you a favor by dating you... You dey craze no.

LordIsaac:
Hmmmm...Eve's eyes were "opened" first, yet, she gave Adam of the fruit to eat even after knowing the consequences. She couldn't even say let me keep this man from this problem. Therefore, as it was in the beginning, so is now.
Young man, be careful!

Knowledge is not immediate, it's gradually.
But come to think of it what if she didn't give Adam the fruit, we'll be doomed

Do your best and leave the rest to God

Diamond098454:
What can of appreciation are you talking about? Because she have been appreciating you before you try or manage send that 10k

I don deal with your type before so are just a minor

Hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kemical23:
I don deal with your type before so are just a minor

The problem is not with the women, it's with you whimps who idolize the pretty face and curvy body. A woman is just a woman like a man is just a man nothing extra to it. Just because she's easy on the eyes and got some remarkable genes, doesn't make her extra terrestrial or a super human. Make una try wake up this second half of 2026 abeg and reason better things wey go help for front

I have noticed that men are always very kind to ladies even when sex isn't involved. Ladies on the other hand are always selfish with their decisions and even finances.

The more kind a man is, the easier it is for a lady to break you. There is nothing wrong in being calculative with your decision and financial literacy.

Money doesn't fall from trees, neither does opportunities fall from trees. Hold your money tightly, use it to get what you want. Don't let anyone gaslight you that you are manipulative or not a cheerful giver

For all you said is right, but still they act within thier natural survival instinct.

They hardly compromise their standards in matters of relationships and marriage. But modern men are being thought every time to compromise his.

When you understand women, instead of hatin on them, develop an abundance mindset and be quick to discard anyone who don't follow your way. Never sell your commitment cheaply for any woman.

Know that manipulation is her survival instinct and make sure you lead her to positive manipulations

essentialone:
"The level of entitlement Nigerian women possess needs to be studied. I was going through my DMs one time and saw a message from one girl saying she likes my content and would like to start creating content, but she didn't have a ring light.

She then asked if I could help her with it. I asked how much the ring light cost, and she said ₦55k. I sent her the money.

After that, we didn't talk for a while. One day, she messaged me again and said, "Please, I need your help now." I asked her what happened, and she replied, "Please, can you borrow me ₦300k now?"

I was like, "₦300k? I don't think I can borrow you such an amount. You're a student, you don't work. How are you going to pay it back?" She said she was going to pay me back in three months' time.

Three months' time for ₦300k? I told her I couldn't lend her that amount, but I could give her ₦100k, and she could sort out the rest herself.

The next thing she said was, "No, it has to be ₦300k." I told her I didn't have ₦300k to lend her, besides I can't be chasing someone around Nigeria because of money. I advised her to find someone else who could lend her ₦300k.

She said, "Later." I said, "Okay." Then she came back again and said I should just give her the ₦100k like that.

I told her, "I'm not giving you again. The grace for the ₦100k has gone." She replied, "Don't worry." The next thing this girl did was bl0ck me.

How do you want to borrow money someone and still have the mind to bl0ck him? Imagine if I had actually lent her the money and later asked for it back, that is how she would have just blocked me. Some of you, the level of entitlement you have is ins@ne..."

- Man recounts how a lady he supported with ₦55k blocked him after he declined her request for a ₦300k loan.

From experience I have come to the conclusion that gals doesn't worth any form of favor from men. They will end up seeing u as mugu

Makavelli001:
From experience I have come to the conclusion that gals doesn't worth any form of favor from men. They will end up seeing u as mugu

You are 100% correct.

essentialone is right. Once you stop giving women favours, you start seeing wetin dey happen.

For city, women go ask you for ring light and ₦300k loan. For village, the same women dey carry water, pound yam, and sleep with any boy wey fit fill dem up, no be because dem love am, na survival.

The moment you stop idolizing the face, you go see say na just body and instinct wey dey drive everything.