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Money helps. Nobody is arguing that.

But what many women are actually looking for is a man they can't push around.

Watch am.

They'll make one random demand, change their mind, create one small wahala. Most times, it's not even planned. They're just like that.

The moment you start abandoning your own plans just to keep her happy, attraction begins to drop. You think you're being sweet. She just starts feeling you're too easy to move.

That's why you'll see one guy that's not rich, not particularly handsome, yet women still rate him. Guy is calm, clean, has boundaries, says "No" when he means it, and isn't desperate to impress anybody.

The confidence usually comes before the money. And that same confidence often helps him make the money eventually.

No be by shouting "I'm the man." No be by being toxic or overspending either.

Just have your own life. Your own standards. Your own purpose. Don't bend every time because you're scared she'll vex.

Money is a bonus.

Backbone is the main thing.

Women just want a guy that is rich so they can brag to their friends that they're dating or that they have a rich successful guy in their lives.

They dare not bill him because they know he'll walk away, and other girls are waiting with open arms to receive him. Na poor broke man Dem dey bill because they have nothing to lose

Women don't even know what they want, that's the honest truth.

Zonefree:
Women don't even know what they want, that's the honest truth.

I won't say women don't know what they want. I'd say much of what drives attraction is subconscious. Emotional safety, confidence, a man who isn't easily pushed around, and healthy boundaries are things many women feel before they can even describe with words. That's why what they say they want doesn't always perfectly capture what's actually driving their attraction.

Goo0dHardDick:
Women just want a guy that is rich so they can brag to their friends that they're dating or that they have a rich successful guy in their lives.

They dare not bill him because they know he'll walk away, and other girls are waiting with open arms to receive him. Na poor broke man Dem dey bill because they have nothing to lose

If it was just money, every rich man would have women genuinely attracted to him.
Women want a man with money, not money itself.

Babatunjo:
If it was just money, every rich man would have women genuinely attracted to him.
Women want a man with money, not money itself.

Read my comment carefully. Your money isn't what attracts her. How you make her feel is what matters Most to her.

Goo0dHardDick:
Read my comment carefully. Your money isn't what attracts her. How you make her feel is what matters Most to her.

I agree 💯

I laff,they are very intentional being, they know exactly what they want.
Money sex
Good looks
When they can't get it all they settle for their best less and safe options.
Don't ever think they are confused, that how u guys get played

Una just de whine yaselfs....

byinks:
Una just de whine yaselfs....

We no dey whine. We dey compare notes. 😂

Babatunjo:
Money helps. Nobody is arguing that.

But what many women are actually looking for is a man they can't push around.

Watch am.

They'll make one random demand, change their mind, create one small wahala. Most times, it's not even planned. They're just like that.

The moment you start abandoning your own plans just to keep her happy, attraction begins to drop. You think you're being sweet. She just starts feeling you're too easy to move.

That's why you'll see one guy that's not rich, not particularly handsome, yet women still rate him. Guy is calm, clean, has boundaries, says "No" when he means it, and isn't desperate to impress anybody.

The confidence usually comes before the money. And that same confidence often helps him make the money eventually.

No be by shouting "I'm the man." No be by being toxic or overspending either.

Just have your own life. Your own standards. Your own purpose. Don't bend every time because you're scared she'll vex.

Money is a bonus.

Backbone is the main thing.

Gbamsolutely!
You are 💯 right

adaxme:
I laff,they are very intentional being, they know exactly what they want.
Money sex
Good looks
When they can't get it all they settle for their best less and safe options.
Don't ever think they are confused, that how u guys get played

This right here is the undiluted truth. For instance, I have a cousin that is very handsome and tall, although not so rich but okay. You need to see the way women throw themselves at him, the same women that will be forming hard to get for me and some other men. They make it so easy for him. Even one youth corper posted to our office secretly followed this guy home to get some action, just a few days after I introduced her to him. It was after the guy wouldn't commit that she started trying to deceive herself not knowing say I know wetin sup. As you said, when they can't get what they want, they settle for their best less and safe option.

Lmaooo i laugh in Chinese

No guide you hear take am playy..

You go hear whennnn!


80% of the marital crisis i keep hearing nowadays is because of $$$$$.

If you over guide brahh, Nigerian women go fear you like military general.

Talmbout you no need money, you think say na sweet mouth go save you.