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Wotowotoman:
Kalulu44 Abeg wetin be the jagbajantis wey this Ogbeni write for here 👆

You keep proving my point about the wedding cultures being simping. Nigerian men always run to "law is nonsense"

And none of you are debating any of it. You are just using the male population deflection tactics. You know have not got a leg to stand on. Its hilarious.

If you are PAYING traditional fees and giving traditional thanks to the family of woman YOU KNOW has not lived a traditional life for a single day. It is still simping. Just cultural simping.

You are still paying to access whats yours.
If that woman respected you at all then she would not expect you to pay for her past choices.

Which state does Os charge 15k? in this Tinubu APC economy?

People! You are forgetting.

Women are gatekeepers of sex.
Men are the gatekeepers of marriage, provision, protection.

Families are the gatekeepers of nothing, you are paying them for nothing because they have nothing to offer.

If no man asks THE WOMAN for marriage then she is not getting married. In 2026 men do not need marriage.

So put your money where your mouth is and explain how it is not culturally accepted simping.

lindqvistbergst:
People! You are forgetting.

Women are gatekeepers of sex.
Men are the gatekeepers of marriage, provision, protection.

Families are the gatekeepers of nothing, you are paying them for nothing because they have nothing to offer.

If no man asks THE WOMAN for marriage then she is not getting married. In 2026 men do not need marriage.

So put your money where your mouth is and explain how it is not culturally accepted simping.

no be you wan hack nairaland the other day



Seun mynd44 Dominique he’s back

Amovingman:
no be you wan hack nairaland the other day



Seun mynd44 Dominique he’s back

Whos back?

Amovingman:
no be you wan hack nairaland the other day



Seun mynd44 Dominique he’s back

Check my posts. Ive called out the mods for this same accusation. And they clearly know im not who you think I am.

Amovingman:
no be you wan hack nairaland the other day



Seun mynd44 Dominique he’s back

Literally me old china. I listed 30+ mods into a topic. Nothing was done because im not him.

lindqvistbergst:
Literally me old china. I listed 30+ mods into a topic. Nothing was done because im not him.

Norwegian right

Amovingman:
Norwegian right

Norwegian-British. Thats how daft this accusation is. My posting style is the complete opposite to him ive been making my own videos and posting them on YouTube then here. Not 1 other person on this forum has done that.

lindqvistbergst:
Norwegian-British. Thats how daft this accusation is. My posting style is the complete opposite to him ive been making my own videos and posting them on YouTube then here. Not 1 other person on this forum has done that.

send your YouTube channel link

Amovingman:
send your YouTube channel link

Go through my topics. Its that easy. Im not marching to your beat.

Amovingman:
send your YouTube channel link

Silly man. Ive even explained how I do it. In detail.

Google docs to write a script.
Then give that script to NotebookLM.
Then write in the prompt box EXACTLY how to follow that script so its 100% me, my words and my argument.

All on a crap back up phone and getting better results than people computers because I understand its not AI it's a large language model. Basically a digital Chinese Room.

lindqvistbergst:
I was not implying it.
I was not being coy about it.
Its exactly what I said and I said it from port Harcourt in your country.

And Nigerian women do not bill us before a first date. When we ask them out they want to make a good impression on the European. And you do buy relationships here. Literally. You even buy marriages from families that legally have no business selling them. Legally speaking you can just take the woman and marry her not even meeting the family thats my entire point . Families have NO LEGAL RIGHTS OVER ADULTS. You can vote and shag before marriage so why on earth do you believe that suddenly at marriage time that its a legal requirement to buy permission from a family. The only people that have rights are 2 in the relationship. You have successfully monetised entire relationships in every form.
Walk into any city or town or village and you constantly hear the local men offering cash for some gash.

Women billing men isn't restricted to Nigeria alone except you love to lie to yourself and it's not a general thing as there are crooked women so are there crooked men, this depends on who you meet and who's asking or initiating the date or whatever you want to call it.
Same way you have simps the world over and unwise men who buy relationships too.

As for the bold we Africans a deeply rooted in culture and traditions and we value these respectfully unlike where you come from where you can just marry a girl without the consent of her family or even having the dignity to know the family you're marrying into. And apart from Africa other countries and cultures do that too, except of course yours (wherever that is) you can just marry her anywhere anytime and start raising kids and starting a family together without the parents or her family being aware. It must be something. You probably also don't respect family ties and are definitely not closely knit according to your submission. Animals in the wild even recognize family talk more a superior human being, supposedly higher than wild animals. And again monetization of relationships isn't akin to Nigerians or Africans alone you are either living in self deceit or you must be on some cave. It's everywhere all over social media, entertainment, news and what not from women who make divorce big businesses to those who onydate men that can bankroll their lifestyle.

Yes there's some poor families who see marrying off their daughters as a means to ending their poverty and this isn't a general issue like you love to paint it. You just so happen to fall into one of them or maybe someone you know...So top whining and spamming every thread with your boring tales that doesn't count for nothing.

Amovingman:
send your YouTube channel link

Silly Silly men. Here ones I already posted here.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_M0-IltW_ZE?si=lM82ACUfrkdAFGkn

kiddaz:
Women billing men isn't restricted to Nigeria alone except you love to lie to yourself and it's not a general thing as there are crooked women so are there crooked men, this depends on who you meet and who's asking or initiating the date or whatever you want to call it.
Same way you have simps the world over and unwise men who buy relationships too.

As for the bold we Africans a deeply rooted in culture and traditions and we value these respectfully unlike where you come from where you can just marry a girl without the consent of her family or even having the dignity to know the family you're marrying into. And apart from Africa other countries and cultures do that too, except of course yours (wherever that is) you can just marry her anywhere anytime and start raising kids and starting a family together without the parents or her family being aware. It must be something. You probably also don't respect family ties and are definitely not closely knit according to your submission. Animals in the wild even recognize family talk more a superior human being, supposedly higher than wild animals. And again monetization of relationships isn't akin to Nigerians or Africans alone you are either living in self deceit or you must be on some cave. It's everywhere all over social media, entertainment, news and what not from women who make divorce big businesses to those who onydate men that can bankroll their lifestyle.

Yes there's some poor families who see marrying off their daughters as a means to ending their poverty and this isn't a general issue like you love to paint it. You just so happen to fall into one of them or maybe someone you know...So top whining and spamming every thread with your boring tales that doesn't count for nothing.

No. You are not. Africans do not behave the same as Nigerians. Even other Africans are fed up with it.

A single mother before marriage is not traditional.
A woman that sold sex is not traditional.
A woman that went from relationship to relationship before marriage is not traditional.
The sexual assault and child molestation epidemic here is not traditional.
Go read the anthropological records. Go to universities in your own country and hear own academics say its not tradition. Even your own government made laws to stop you doing it that you just ignore and one more example. Even the tiv king directly says its not tradition. Even igbo kings directly say its greed from the kinsmen and extended family. Then there is prostration in yoruba. It was never public humiliation! It was done once and the father immediately lifted the man and hugged him there was no pointing and screaming beg harder. It was all a transaction for virginity and lineage guarantee without that all the family was given were half boiled yams and worse.

You do not even know your own history and its strange that a white man has to tell you because you are too lazy to research it and parrot what you were told as kids.
Lie to yourself all want. It just proves no humility and no respect for yourselves or anyone else.

kiddaz:
Women billing men isn't restricted to Nigeria alone except you love to lie to yourself and it's not a general thing as there are crooked women so are there crooked men, this depends on who you meet and who's asking or initiating the date or whatever you want to call it.
Same way you have simps the world over and unwise men who buy relationships too.

As for the bold we Africans a deeply rooted in culture and traditions and we value these respectfully unlike where you come from where you can just marry a girl without the consent of her family or even having the dignity to know the family you're marrying into. And apart from Africa other countries and cultures do that too, except of course yours (wherever that is) you can just marry her anywhere anytime and start raising kids and starting a family together without the parents or her family being aware. It must be something. You probably also don't respect family ties and are definitely not closely knit according to your submission. Animals in the wild even recognize family talk more a superior human being, supposedly higher than wild animals. And again monetization of relationships isn't akin to Nigerians or Africans alone you are either living in self deceit or you must be on some cave. It's everywhere all over social media, entertainment, news and what not from women who make divorce big businesses to those who onydate men that can bankroll their lifestyle.

Yes there's some poor families who see marrying off their daughters as a means to ending their poverty and this isn't a general issue like you love to paint it. You just so happen to fall into one of them or maybe someone you know...So top whining and spamming every thread with your boring tales that doesn't count for nothing.

"Yes there's some poor families who see marrying off their daughters as a means to ending their poverty and this isn't a general issue like you love to paint it. You just so happen to fall into one of them or maybe someone you know...So top whining and spamming every thread with your boring tales that doesn't count for nothing."

Thanks me old china. You just admitted its a sale. Most of the population is below the poverty line. And not once did I say all. Except in 1 topic about dating sites in Nigeria. 😁

lindqvistbergst:
No. You are not. Africans do not behave the same as Nigerians. Even other Africans are fed up with it.

A single mother before marriage is not traditional.
A woman that sold sex is not traditional.
A woman that went from relationship to relationship before marriage is not traditional.
The sexual assault and child molestation epidemic here is not traditional .
Go read the anthropological records. Go to universities in your own country and hear own academics say its not tradition. Even your own government made laws to stop you doing it that you just ignore and one more example. Even the tiv king directly says its not tradition. Even igbo kings directly say its greed from the kinsmen and extended family. Then there is prostration in yoruba. It was never public humiliation! It was done once and the father immediately lifted the man and hugged him there was no pointing and screaming beg harder. It was all a transaction for virginity and lineage guarantee without that all the family was given were half boiled yams and worse.

You do not even know your own history and its strange that a white man has to tell you because you are too lazy to research it and parrot what you were told as kids.
Lie to yourself all want. It just proves no humility and no respect for yourselves or anyone else.

Ahh I see. You unintelligently avoided and refused to acknowledge the exposure of your fake claims and lies about just marry a girl without the consent of her family or has the family suddenly become important in the set-up? Lol I know your type. Throw in bogus claims and deviate from the original argument 🤣🤣🤣
When did I mention those were traditional. You're either slow or just mischievous and deliberately mentioning what I didn't to make the argument senseless and extensive which I don't have the time for. I argue intelligently to reveal and learn also and never to prove an senseless points like you're obviously trying to do here. So save it for your kind as I will not entertain your bs here anymore.
And since you're obviously too ignorant to know that:

A single mother before marriage is obtainable the world over
A woman that sold sex is obtainable the world over
A woman that went from relationship to relationship before marriage is obtainable the world over.
The sexual assault and child molestation is obtainable the world over?

I will gladly decline any further arguments with youas it's now obvious that your intent is to insult and downplay the Nigerian traditional system without a single knowledge of it. Because if you're even arguing that those situations are or are not tradition then something is wrong with your reasoning. As everyone who is fully informed about current ideas, knows that these things are even more prevalent in western cultures than here in Nigeria. So you should learn before coming online to make a mockery of yourself while avoiding the important points and initial arguments instead of trying to create more baseless arguments to extend the thread. You can go back from wherever you came from and never mention me again as it's now obvious you're not okay

Ii

lindqvistbergst:
"Yes there's some poor families who see marrying off their daughters as a means to ending their poverty and this isn't a general issue like you love to paint it. You just so happen to fall into one of them or maybe someone you know...So top whining and spamming every thread with your boring tales that doesn't count for nothing."

Thanks me old china. You just admitted its a sale. Most of the population is below the poverty line. And not once did I say all. Except in 1 topic about dating sites in Nigeria. 😁

I know I promised to not engage you again but even if there's poor people "living below poverty line", some still have dignity. Not all poor families are kin on selling off their daughters. You are the most narrow minded individual I have ever come across anywhere on and offline.

kiddaz:
Ahh I see. You unintelligently avoided and refused to acknowledge the exposure of your fake claims and lies about just marry a girl without the consent of her family or has the family suddenly become important in the set-up? Lol I know your type. Throw in bogus claims and deviate from the original argument 🤣🤣🤣
When did I mention those were traditional. You're either slow or just mischievous and deliberately mentioning what I didn't to make the argument senseless and extensive which I don't have the time for. I argue intelligently to reveal and learn also and never to prove an senseless points like you're obviously trying to do here. So save it for your kind as I will not entertain your bs here anymore.
And since you're obviously too ignorant to know that:

A single mother before marriage is obtainable the world over
A woman that sold sex is obtainable the world over
A woman that went from relationship to relationship before marriage is obtainable the world over.
The sexual assault and child molestation is obtainable the world over?

I will gladly decline any further arguments with youas it's now obvious that your intent is to insult and downplay the Nigerian traditional system without a single knowledge of it. Because if you're even arguing that those situations are or are not tradition then something is wrong with your reasoning. As everyone who is fully informed about current ideas, knows that these things are even more prevalent in western cultures than here in Nigeria. So you should learn before coming online to make a mockery of yourself while avoiding the important points and initial arguments instead of trying to create more baseless arguments to extend the thread. You can go back from wherever you came from and never mention me again as it's now obvious you're not okay

A family demanding what they did not earn is OUTRIGHT DISRESPECT to the couple and the grooms family. Thats why ignored the silliness. All that happens is a family hands out fake permission fees from the gate. Self respect is not disrespect. Learn the difference.

And adults do not need permission.

kiddaz:
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I know I promised to not engage you again but even if there's poor people "living below poverty line", some still have dignity. Not all poor families are kin on selling off their daughters. You are the most narrow minded individual I have ever come across anywhere on and offline.

You're not engaging. You are proving you know nothing about your own culture.

Ill be clear. IF a family make the effort and give what the traditions are for "virginity and lineage guarantee" the man should shut up and do it. BUT IF THAT WOMAN was free to shag even 1 man before she was married THAT FAMILY LOST ALL RIGHT TO HARP ON ABOUT IT!

The woman this topic is about. Her family deserve the respect and payments for not "training and correcting her"

You would walk into the family house and ask permission when they never stepped in? Thats the whole foundation of the traditional process!!
Its the same for any woman and her family if even one man got to her before marriage.

Christ! The families in this country are the original p.i.m.p.s and any man that listens to this nonsense is an original s.i.m.p.

Thanks kiddaz you lost so you blocked. 😂. Embarrassing.

lindqvistbergst:
People! You are forgetting.

Women are gatekeepers of sex.
Men are the gatekeepers of marriage, provision, protection.

Families are the gatekeepers of nothing, you are paying them for nothing because they have nothing to offer.

If no man asks THE WOMAN for marriage then she is not getting married. In 2026 men do not need marriage.

So put your money where your mouth is and explain how it is not culturally accepted simping.

I understand you perfectly. Religiously speaking why will you tell me having sex before wedding is a sin while sex after isn't. When it's still the same sex, I believe it's just a social construct. If I have my way I would just carry a good girl I'm attracted to and we'll start having children and living together. We can just go visiting my relatives or hers with the children later just so they know our children and ours know them theirs as one family that we are.

fattprince:
I understand you perfectly. Religiously speaking why will you tell me having sex before wedding is a sin while sex after isn't. When it's still the same sex, I believe it's just a social construct. If I have my way I would just carry a good girl I'm attracted to and we'll start having children and living together. We can just go visiting my relatives or hers with the children later just so they know our children and ours know them theirs as one family that we are.

And another point. The quran and the bible tell you all not to do what your families do. The bible specifically tells you to obey laws and tells you not to put the culture above the religion but as a country you cherry pick whatever benefits you on whatever day. Its not about culture or religion its about greed, ego and humiliation.

Again for any man that does not understand. If a woman's family start demanding things they did not earn. They are outright disrespecting you and your family. YOU are the ones putting up with it and letting them.

Quoting the law and accurate history is not abusive grow up and stand up for yourselves and stop abusing your wives because YOU ALLOWED THEIR FAMILIES to abuse you and yours.

Wotowotoman:
Kalulu44 Abeg wetin be the jagbajantis wey this Ogbeni write for here 👆

Omoh eh! The thing tire me. Motor dey go Island and him dey go Oshodi, him just jump enter.

Wotowotoman:
So you just dey there dey observe? Then after your shift na to run go house to soapy after looking all those OS dey waka up and down abi?

See eh! Mere looking at them, the thing don tire me. You no when person wey dey cook food go don already belleful before the food done. I don see I don tire

lindqvistbergst:
Off topic? Its about prostitution and its highly documented that families are pimps here. Thats smack bang on topic.

Guy, take the jokes about my post and leave all what you're saying to those it concerns.