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Gabanna001:
Its an inbuilt gene, have never seen any man that will not admire other women, even if u marry the most beautiful or most endowed woman in the world

Admiring other women or ladies is never a sin, or offence, it becomes offence when you make a move, this is 7years in marriage with my beautiful wife, I can't the number of times have seen beautiful women and ladies which I admired, but my commitment and faithfulness to my wife would never allow me to think of going after those ladies and women. Especially if you genuinely love your wife, cheating on her would seems difficult, especially when you have the fear of God. May God help all men o

handbagss:
Its just an excuse for infidelity.

We have many good men out there.

Once a woman calls any man good, she meant a Simp man

That's just an unfaithful man's way of making his philandering look normal. It's akin to a woman who holds the notion that women are hypergamous in nature, which is simply a selfish/greedy woman's way of making her greed look normal.

The above points summarily show that we human beings are insatiable; we are all susceptible to the vices, but with grit, some don't yield to them.

stan4b:
YES, we are polygamous in nature.

DEAL WITH IT!!!!!

How many totos can you fvck in a day compared to how many dicks a woman can receive in an hour? Polygamy belongs to the woman.

b0rn2fuck:
Everything that has to do with male, even male fowl run after female fowl, the best way to steal a male dog is through female dog, ekuke , buy a female goat, you have set up traps for male goats in your area, even ram no carry last


Everything that has to do with male generally including human being

Lolzzz.... your comment don throw me off oh 😂😂

Men does not make themselves to produce millions of spam daily, nature does.

Men does not make themselves to have the capacity of having millions of children, nature does.

You can talk about accountability, but you can't disclaim facts.

The question you should ask is whether it is naturally possible for a man to have multiple children with several men within a short period or not. If it is possible, then men are polygamous in nature.

I am in support for holding people accountable, but not in for twisting facts.

Being responsible is a choice, it doesn't stop the reality.

Zooposki:
How many totos can you fvck in a day compared to how many dicks a woman can receive in an hour? Polygamy belongs to the woman.

How many men can a woman have children for in a year, and how many women can a man have with?

RightToReject:
That's just an unfaithful man's way of making his philandering look normal. It's akin to a woman who holds the notion that women are hypergamous in nature, which is simply a selfish/greedy woman's way of making her greed look normal.

The above points summarily show that we human beings are insatiable; we are all susceptible to the vices, but with grit, some don't yield to them.

Anything that is naturally possible is factual.

Women are nurturing, it is factual and natural. Women not wanting to be seen that way does not disclaim the fact. Because even when they do, they still cling to their children along the way.

Men are polygamous, it is natural. A single man can father multiple children with different women within a short time. It is factual and natural, not his power.

Being accountable and responsible is a personal choice. That you're responsible and accountable does not automatically stop the fact.

Doubleoo:
Anything that is naturally possible is factual.

Women are nurturing, it is factual and natural. Women not wanting to be seen that way does not disclaim the fact. Because even when they do, they still cling to their children along the way.

Men are polygamous, it is natural. A single man father multiple women within a short time. It is factual and natural, not his power.

Being accountable and responsible is a personal choice. That you're responsible and accountable does not automatically stop the fact.

Unfortunately, you haven't said anything sensible.

RightToReject:
Unfortunately, you haven't said anything sensible.

Oh, i can see. school na scam.

Both sexes fool around. The culture then didn't allow women express their desire to be with many men. Nowadays as woke mentality is the norm in the western world, you see women openly doing it. But the crazy part of this polygamy issue is most men throughout history didn't engage in it. Even in today's modern society, most men stick to one wife. But those stories don't make headlines cause they are boring. People use the actions of the few to judge the many. The only thing stopping Nigerian women from hiding their secret lovers is because our culture doesn't tolerate women doing things like that. The fact we have a thing called DNA test should answer your question and tell you it's a human thing and not a man thing.

All living organisms are polygamous in nature including women.
Even your wife is secretly straffing another man, na u no know
Same way a man feels he wants to change toto, same way women feel they should at least hump on another dikkk.
Know this and know peace
A young lady will have at least 6 boyfriends that she is managing before marriage and after marriage wills till keep some illicit relationships besides her husband. Is that not polygamy?
The difference is that women can not finance polygamy, if by any means they have the financial muscle and societal approval to have many husbands, they will also do like men.
Both men and women are polygamous.

Jamine01:
The statement "men are polygamous by nature" is often used in discussions about relationships. While there are biological and evolutionary arguments about human mating behavior, some men misuse this belief as an excuse for cheating.

Infidelity is ultimately a choice, not an unavoidable instinct. Many faithful men experience attraction to other people but still choose to honor their commitments. Being attracted to someone outside a relationship is natural; acting on that attraction without a partner's consent is a decision.

Some men use the "polygamous by nature" argument to avoid accountability. When caught cheating, they may claim that their behavior is simply part of being male rather than acknowledging the hurt caused by breaking trust. This shifts responsibility away from their actions and onto biology.

In the end, "men are polygamous by nature" may explain certain desires, but it does not excuse dishonesty. Character is measured not by what we desire, but by how we choose to act on those desires.

Men are polygamous in nature, that is a fact

It is also a fact that men have a choice

Both things can be true.

Inbuilt gene?
Biologically proven? Nah
Admiration is natural then what happens after admiration is totally a choice and you are 100 percent responsible for it

Gabanna001:
Its an inbuilt gene, have never seen any man that will not admire other women, even if u marry the most beautiful or most endowed woman in the world

LIFE GOES ON

Doubleoo:
Anything that is naturally possible is factual.

Women are nurturing, it is factual and natural. Women not wanting to be seen that way does not disclaim the fact. Because even when they do, they still cling to their children along the way.

Men are polygamous, it is natural. A single man father multiple women within a short time. It is factual and natural, not his power.

Being accountable and responsible is a personal choice. That you're responsible and accountable does not automatically stop the fact.

It's that simple

Another example:

Men are violent in nature

But men have a choice of when and whom to exhibit such violence on.

Both things are true.

Lol, obviously you're the one attaching religion to this
Most takes when viewed or trying to justify religiously sounds absurd hope you know

TheStoriesOfMan:
Let me ask you a question, religion involved.

I believe you are a Christian,judging from your comment.

Let's tilt this topic religiously: if you glorify yourself as a monogamous man, would you say the same to a friend or a brother who is a Muslim? How you you express your opinion without offending him or feeling odd?

I'm curious.

It's a fact, men no dey too stay one place, after mapping the whole world, dem move to space, after 3g network dem move to 4g and to 5g.... I pity women that thinks they can 'own' a man.

The fact remains, both the two gender are polygamous in nature, we are only suppressing our innate nature, because of society expectations coupled with the role model for kids and people around us.

When you are having sex with same partner over and over, the spark and feelings must reduce, if not totally extinguish. That's what they called "diminishing marginal returns".

Nah
This is the exactly reason most ppl not only men can be proud to call themselves nonchalant, we think kindness is weakness

Goo0dHardDick:
Once a woman calls any man good, she meant a Simp man

I don't want to believe you're putting yourself head to head with a goat ,lol

b0rn2fuck:
Everything that has to do with male, even male fowl run after female fowl, the best way to steal a male dog is through female dog, ekuke , buy a female goat, you have set up traps for male goats in your area, even ram no carry last


Everything that has to do with male generally including human being

Sunkab:
Admiring other women or ladies is never a sin, or offence, it becomes offence when you make a move, this is 7years in marriage with my beautiful wife, I can't the number of times have seen beautiful women and ladies which I admired, but my commitment and faithfulness to my wife would never allow me to think of going after those ladies and women. Especially if you genuinely love your wife, cheating on her would seems difficult, especially when you have the fear of God. May God help all men o

Thank you bro... It's not easy for men, even we as married men but the fear of God and love of our wife.

It's well o

My Papa told me that his Papa told him that my ancestors had concubines, and we are bonafide descendants of our fathers

chidiokay:
whatever you smoke please change your dealer, These your ideology now where does it originate from .. did we just kum out Noah ark n we are tryin to populate the world ... therefore women need to bear more children from more men to creat enough DNAs

1. Many times here we've said, Women are emotional beings,, emotion needs to be invest in one place, its not someting you can share around .. hence a woman can fvck/date 10 guys but will only love one
2. There are more consequences to women sleeping around, Nobody values a LovePeddler not her family, not the man she love,not even her children
please for a proper take in ... imagine your mother his a LovePeddler n your father is a LovePeddler ...which one hurt you the most . let the truth hit it
3 if its Money women to her rich, The fact there examples of Men that have two, five wives under obe roof and they are all living depicts Men have leverage womrn don't

if women are the actual ones with doing ... the world have existed for more than a 1000 years ... why are women not having two or more under one roof if they are the polygamist

A man can sleep with five wives in one week nd All will be pregnant carrying his DNA Buh should a Woman sleep with 5 husband in one week she can only get pregnant for one man, wait one year befire she ccan tajke in again ...

its an unnecessary arguement, since creation men maried two or more wives ...na sarah lead her maid to Abram's bed.

They are talking about innate nature, you turn it to consequences.

Are there not consequences for men that sleeping around?

All your epistles above, are ideologies your forefathers used to suppressed female gender, claiming patriarchy.

stan4b:
YES, we are polygamous in nature.

DEAL WITH IT!!!!!

Yes.. Polygamous men are impregnating other men's girlfriends and wives.

immortalcrown:
Going by nature, women are the ones that should be considered polygamous.

An average man has no need to bed many women but an average woman has the need to bed many men.

The thing is, humans invented wrong philosophies that misinterpret nature. Some of the philosophies favour women and are unfair to men. Some of the philosophies favour men and are unfair to women.

I am not supporting any form of sexual immorality. But let us face the reality. An average woman can satisfy up to 80% of the men that sleep with her. But an average man cannot satisfy up to 80% of the women that sleep with him. A man that sleeps with 10 different women will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 10 occasions. A man that sleeps with only one woman 20 times will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 20 occasions. But a woman that sleeps with 10 men will likely not reach orgasm up to 5 times out of those 10 times. A woman that sleeps with only one man for 20 times may not reach orgasm up to 10 times with him. Now, tell me the gender that naturally has the reason or need to keep sleeping around in search of satisfaction.

But like I said earlier, the world accepts and lives according to false ideologies. The claim that men are the ones that are polygamous in nature is widely accepted the same way the world believes that mothers make more sacrifices for children than fathers do. Whoever gets up to explain that men are not the ones polygamous in nature will be persecuted the same way anybody that says that fathers make more sacrifices than mothers will be persecuted. So, trying to debunk a false narrative that people have lived with over time is suicidal in today's world.

A man that cannot satisfy his wife in bed will be sleeping around in the game of men being polygamous and everyone will act cool about it. A man that labours day and night to feed his family will grow old to suffer while the children are shouting "I will make mama proud" and everyone is cool about it. In conclusion, life is not balanced for any gender, and this is because we operate with ideologies built on emotions and sentiments.

You just wrote gabbage all in a desperate need to sound intelligent and grace front page

chidiokay:
whatever you smoke please change your dealer, These your ideology now where does it originate from .. did we just kum out Noah ark n we are tryin to populate the world ... therefore women need to bear more children from more men to creat enough DNAs

1. Many times here we've said, Women are emotional beings,, emotion needs to be invest in one place, its not someting you can share around .. hence a woman can fvck/date 10 guys but will only love one
2. There are more consequences to women sleeping around, Nobody values a LovePeddler not her family, not the man she love,not even her children
please for a proper take in ... imagine your mother his a LovePeddler n your father is a LovePeddler ...which one hurt you the most . let the truth hit it
3 if its Money women to her rich, The fact there examples of Men that have two, five wives under obe roof and they are all living depicts Men have leverage womrn don't

if women are the actual ones with doing ... the world have existed for more than a 1000 years ... why are women not having two or more under one roof if they are the polygamist

A man can sleep with five wives in one week nd All will be pregnant carrying his DNA Buh should a Woman sleep with 5 husband in one week she can only get pregnant for one man, wait one year befire she ccan tajke in again ...

its an unnecessary arguement, since creation men maried two or more wives ...na sarah lead her maid to Abram's bed.

I love your rebuttal, very well articulated. Thank you for wiping that guy with Oraimo cord

The only reason women don't orgasm is because of O. S.

Because O S she has to ride men she does not like and men she would never have allowed to touch her, so how can she orgasm?

So, while men like women a lot, women on the other hand only like a few selected men. But because of O.S she has pretends to like even though she does not, so in all that pain and sorrow and regret, how can she orgasm?

immortalcrown:
Going by nature, women are the ones that should be considered polygamous.

An average man has no need to bed many women but an average woman has the need to bed many men...

I am not supporting any form of sexual immorality. But let us face the reality. An average woman can satisfy up to 80% of the men that sleep with her. But an average man cannot satisfy up to 80% of the women that sleep with him. A man that sleeps with 10 different women will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 10 occasions. A man that sleeps with only one woman 20 times will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 20 occasions. But a woman that sleeps with 10 men will likely not reach orgasm up to 5 times out of those 10 times. A woman that sleeps with only one man for 20 times may not reach orgasm up to 10 times with him. Now, tell me the gender that naturally has the reason or need to keep sleeping around in search of satisfaction.

TheStoriesOfMan:
Let me ask you a question, religion involved.

I believe you are a Christian,judging from your comment.

Let's tilt this topic religiously: if you glorify yourself as a monogamous man, would you say the same to a friend or a brother who is a Muslim? How you you express your opinion without offending him or feeling odd?

I'm curious.

I do not "glorify myself" as you have put it. I just feel infidelity is too much of a hassle for me.

The above being said, Islam is a different kettle of fish.

If I talk about this to a Muslim friend, I'd better prepare to lose him as a friend, because he will certainly be offended. I won't feel odd, because it's my faith.

Funny enough, most of my Muslim friends (more than 90% of them) are monogamous, at least for now. Most have one wife.

immortalcrown:
Going by nature, women are the ones that should be considered polygamous.

An average man has no need to bed many women but an average woman has the need to bed many men.

The thing is, humans invented wrong philosophies that misinterpret nature. Some of the philosophies favour women and are unfair to men. Some of the philosophies favour men and are unfair to women.

I am not supporting any form of sexual immorality. But let us face the reality. An average woman can satisfy up to 80% of the men that sleep with her. But an average man cannot satisfy up to 80% of the women that sleep with him. A man that sleeps with 10 different women will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 10 occasions. A man that sleeps with only one woman 20 times will probably ejaculate (orgasm) on those 20 occasions. But a woman that sleeps with 10 men will likely not reach orgasm up to 5 times out of those 10 times. A woman that sleeps with only one man for 20 times may not reach orgasm up to 10 times with him. Now, tell me the gender that naturally has the reason or need to keep sleeping around in search of satisfaction.

But like I said earlier, the world accepts and lives according to false ideologies. The claim that men are the ones that are polygamous in nature is widely accepted the same way the world believes that mothers make more sacrifices for children than fathers do. Whoever gets up to explain that men are not the ones polygamous in nature will be persecuted the same way anybody that says that fathers make more sacrifices than mothers will be persecuted. So, trying to debunk a false narrative that people have lived with over time is suicidal in today's world.

A man that cannot satisfy his wife in bed will be sleeping around in the game of men being polygamous and everyone will act cool about it. A man that labours day and night to feed his family will grow old to suffer while the children are shouting "I will make mama proud" and everyone is cool about it. In conclusion, life is not balanced for any gender, and this is because we operate with ideologies built on emotions and sentiments.

As someone has rightly said, you really need to change your weed dealer.
Do you even know what "by nature" means?

Let's first start with reproduction/biology

While women have fixed number of eggs, men produce millions of sperm daily, plus a woman can only get pregnant for a single man at once, but a man can impregnate as many as possible women at once.

Let's look at sexual desires
Men are always hor-ny (technically), women have mood that vary from completely detesting sexual desires to being in the mood for it.

Let's consider emotional connection.
Men don't need any emotional connection to have sex unlike women.

There are still more reasons for "by nature" including men's health (i.e recently studies on relationship between prostate cancer and sex frequency in men). Women also have menopause where desire almost bottom out, I can keep going..

If your yardstick of judging who need more sex is orgasm, then many more women reach orgasm from self-service than sex (you can do a quick Google research to confirm this), so what would you now say about that?

Of course all the above doesn't still justify extramarital affairs from men. Both party should clearly define what they want in marriage and stick to it

Doubleoo:
How many men can a woman have children for in a year, and how many women can a man have with?

I don hear you. How many of those children can you cater for?