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Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Lovelink1991(op): 2:33pm On Aug 14
It has been a thing of pain to the women over the neglect they are receiving from the Abuja men for not making advances on them.

According to the lady, she said that the women have done all they could to meet up to the demand of the men yet they are not toasting them.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIfEBupSMHU?si=fETwx1sro_Afzde0

Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by marlow1962(m): 3:22pm On Aug 14
Madam every man now is struggling to feed, even the ones driving Mercedes with artificial dada on their heads, talk more of the leg users.

Nobody wants to toast debits.
If they don't toast you, then you toast them.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by eepeepook(f): 5:15pm On Aug 14
Somebody is advertising market.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Lalami3232(m): 5:17pm On Aug 14
grin grin
This gender is so funny ooooooo, today dem go say marriage no be achievement, tomorrow dem go dey cry online and offline for not getting married. That aside sha, my question be say "wetin a married man dey enjoy for marriage wey me no dey enjoy?". If you look am well eeh, na single guys enjoy pass sef because that your nonvirgin partner eeeh, dem chop am tire when she was fresher and super tight cheesy. Now you don marry the leftover wey the single guy chop finish. Now back to the main topic, give me 2 reasons why I should marry? I go spend millions to marry a nonvirgin and still spend millions to do DNA test on my children because a nonvirgin can't be trusted. I have to work harder so I can provide for my nonvirgin wife, else the society will laugh at me. Again i ask yet another question, what is your nonvirgin partner giving to you that she hasn't given to her ex before? Some will say "she's carrying my child and giving me children" grin. First do DNA test before you answer this queston and for the record, that your nonvirgin partner don carry children for her ex before, just that she no born those ones.
I ask again, WETIN YOUR NONVIRGIN PARTNER DEY GIVE YOU FOR MARRIAGE WEY SHE NO GIVE HER EX?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men about DNA test nationwide.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by SamuraiXXX: 5:30pm On Aug 14
Is it an average single guy that is struggling to survive in this harsh economy that you're expecting to come toast you?
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by FriendsAndFans(m): 5:38pm On Aug 14
What's the point of running after her and at the end she's smelling like a garbage bin during sex.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Zonefree(m): 5:59pm On Aug 14
marlow1962:
Nobody wants to toast debits.

If they don't toast you, then you toast them.
End of story.

For Nairaland ladies, I'm available for toasting. I am doing 'first come first serve' promo on a 15% discount.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by PresidentMUGABE:
I saw one girl in efab recently, we decided to hangout and after eating she brought her ATM card to pay and I asked why, she said she doesn't want me to run because of billing.....

I think men need to do better, ladies are becoming increasingly ignored.



We call girls gold diggers but when your sister bring home a struggling man for marriage you frownd.....

Life is manipulation.

Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Cum4me(m): 6:38pm On Aug 14
Debit alert dey pain madam the economy situation critical grin
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by APOPTOSIS: 6:38pm On Aug 14
Rubbish 🗑🚮🗑🚮
As if she doesn't know
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by APOPTOSIS: 6:38pm On Aug 14
FriendsAndFans:
What's the point of running after her and at the end she's smelling like a garbage bin during sex.
Abeg oooooo
Naaaaa E-war you want start oooo
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by 3kay945(m): 9:10pm On Aug 14
Lalami3232:
grin grin
This gender is so funny ooooooo, today dem go say marriage no be achievement, tomorrow dem go dey cry online and offline for not getting married. That aside sha, my question be say "wetin a married man dey enjoy for marriage wey me no dey enjoy?". If you look am well eeh, na single guys enjoy pass sef because that your nonvirgin partner eeeh, dem chop am tire when she was fresher and super tight cheesy. Now you don marry the leftover wey the single guy chop finish. Now back to the main topic, give me 2 reasons why I should marry? I go spend millions to marry a nonvirgin and still spend millions to do DNA test on my children because a nonvirgin can't be trusted. I have to work harder so I can provide for my nonvirgin wife, else the society will laugh at me. Again i ask yet another question, what is your nonvirgin partner giving to you that she hasn't given to her ex before? Some will say "she's carrying my child and giving me children" grin. First do DNA test before you answer this queston and for the record, that your nonvirgin partner don carry children for her ex before, just that she no born those ones.
I ask again, WETIN YOUR NONVIRGIN PARTNER DEY GIVE YOU FOR MARRIAGE WEY SHE NO GIVE HER EX?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men about DNA test nationwide.
Oga, rest on this your case.

Lets preach love. Pls.

Non virgin has been before we were born and it will continue after us.

cool
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by FriendsAndFans(m): 10:14pm On Aug 14
APOPTOSIS:
Abeg oooooo
Naaaaa E-war you want start oooo
Its traumatic embarassed
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by ayusco85(m): 10:26pm On Aug 14
PresidentMUGABE:
I saw one girl in efab recently, we decided to hangout and after eating she brought her ATM card to pay and I asked why she said she doesn't want me to run because of billing.....

I think men need to do better, ladies are becoming increasingly ignored.
One of few things that never happened
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by galantjoe(m): 5:29am On Aug 15
Ladies want men to toast debits and liabilities with their shakala and busybody. Nobody likes to risk where probability of success is slim or where sufferness to get what he wants will outweigh it's gain.

Instead there are already-made hookup; who are ever ready to give service.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by SIONKPO1(m): 6:39am On Aug 15
Abuja girls and it's environs are averagely useless.
Imagine a Mumu girl Wey I toast boom Gas finished,
Boom my Birthday 🎂🎊 I should buy her Sharwama.
Na so I just block and ignored here

If I have the chance to marry from another country wallahi I will leave Nigeria girls
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Usmanovic95(m): 7:37am On Aug 15
Toast girl so the next day she tell you her gas don finish?
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Belurved1(m): 10:10am On Aug 15
You better wise up and don’t fall for this. Just one little gesture, and you’re already shouting, “Men need to do better.” Don’t let her manipulate you with this kind of double standard.

PresidentMUGABE:
I saw one girl in efab recently, we decided to hangout and after eating she brought her ATM card to pay and I asked why she said she doesn't want me to run because of billing.....

I think men need to do better, ladies are becoming increasingly ignored.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by PresidentMUGABE: 10:21am On Aug 15
Belurved1:
You better wise up and don’t fall for this. Just one little gesture, and you’re already shouting, “Men need to do better.” Don’t let her manipulate you with this kind of double standard.
You guys generalize too much...
You probably didn't understand the point I am making.

So many ladies are gold diggers while many are also digging for sincere life partners.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Babinski: 11:17am On Aug 15
Lovelink1991:
It has been a thing of pain to the women over the neglect they are receiving from the Abuja men for not making advances on them.

According to the lady, she said that the women have done all they could to meet up to the demand of the men yet they are not toasting them.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIfEBupSMHU?si=fETwx1sro_Afzde0
If you are high cost, high maintenance and see yourself as a trophy, then just like Ferraris and Lamborghinis in the show room, men will only come for window shopping.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by FreeSpirited: 12:40pm On Aug 15
For this Abuja. Olosho too much. And girls are too loose. Even if they are fine, we usually just believe na dem.


So we are scared of the fact that this gal might be another olosho in one lungu/end of Abuja.....
.
So we just stare and let go. We no geh energy...
.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Eba50: 2:53pm On Aug 15
marlow1962:
Madam every man now is struggling to feed, even the ones driving Mercedes with artificial dada on their heads, talk more of the leg users.

Nobody wants to toast debits.
If they don't toast you, then you toast them.
your last 2 lines sum everything about female gender completely
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Greattom:
3kay945:
Oga, rest on this your case.

Lets preach love. Pls.

Non virgin has been before we were born and it will continue after us.

cool
He is not forcing his opinion on you ,you can continue to worship your non virgin girlfriend,it doesn't concern us here.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by williamssamuel1(m): 3:43pm On Aug 15
Men also have needs, a man who know were he is going we stay clear of women, invest in yourself, as a man, be busy fulfilling your purpose the right woman we find you.

Your future is the only option you have.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Pootle: 4:00pm On Aug 15
curved by silicones, i pour some spits
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by ARISHEM: 4:02pm On Aug 15
Alakoba. You want to add to their debts and responsibilities in this Tinubu economy.
If you like cat walk and kitten walk nothing for you.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by AnalReverse69(m): 4:02pm On Aug 15
Toasting a nigerian woman now is like inviting KIDNAPPERS INTO YOUR HOME.

Once you say hi to any nigerian woman,the next thing on her mind is how to drain you financially grin

What a Gender.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by CLOUDRepublic: 4:03pm On Aug 15
Well men are carrying too much burden already, they don't want to add emotional burden
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by Dogalmighty17: 4:08pm On Aug 15
Na this dry bone you dey call curvy? You know wetin curvy mean at all? I don ever offend you before OP? Why you make me waste data think say na better thing I wan see?
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by DMerciful(m): 4:08pm On Aug 15
Na small pikin dey worry you. If you like nor marry, nobody will convince you
Lalami3232:
grin grin
This gender is so funny ooooooo, today dem go say marriage no be achievement, tomorrow dem go dey cry online and offline for not getting married. That aside sha, my question be say "wetin a married man dey enjoy for marriage wey me no dey enjoy?". If you look am well eeh, na single guys enjoy pass sef because that your nonvirgin partner eeeh, dem chop am tire when she was fresher and super tight cheesy. Now you don marry the leftover wey the single guy chop finish. Now back to the main topic, give me 2 reasons why I should marry? I go spend millions to marry a nonvirgin and still spend millions to do DNA test on my children because a nonvirgin can't be trusted. I have to work harder so I can provide for my nonvirgin wife, else the society will laugh at me. Again i ask yet another question, what is your nonvirgin partner giving to you that she hasn't given to her ex before? Some will say "she's carrying my child and giving me children" grin. First do DNA test before you answer this queston and for the record, that your nonvirgin partner don carry children for her ex before, just that she no born those ones.
I ask again, WETIN YOUR NONVIRGIN PARTNER DEY GIVE YOU FOR MARRIAGE WEY SHE NO GIVE HER EX?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men about DNA test nationwide.
Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by 12345baba(m): 4:08pm On Aug 15
Hookup done make am easy
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