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There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:16pm On Aug 22
It pains me alot when I see men misbehaving over a woman.

That girl playing hard to get for you is clearly not interested in you. The Same girl will gladly give in to another guy within few hours of the guy meeting her!

Understand this, women give in easily to guys they considered highly attractive and are sexually drained to. No games, no stories, no talking stage trash whatsoever, they just show up at his place when he asks them to, esp the first time.

A woman who doesn't like you will give you lots of rules and regulations, such as taking her out to a date, doing talking stages with her etc! It a clear sign she's not interested in you.

If you know how easy women makes it for the guys they like, you won't waste your time texting, calling and chasing a woman who's clearly not interested in you.

Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Kaa4(m): 5:25pm On Aug 22
Tru tàlk. Youre correct. Men to learn to be rejected and look elsewhere
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by morikee: 5:33pm On Aug 22
Yeah you're correct there is nothing like that
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Fiscus105(m):
Goo0dHardDick:
It pains me alot when I see men misbehaving over a woman.

That girl playing hard to get for you is clearly not interested in you. The Same girl will gladly give in to another guy within few hours of the guy meeting her!

Understand this, women give in easily to guys they considered highly attractive and are sexually drained to. No games, no stories, no talking stage trash whatsoever, they just show up at his place when he asks them to, esp the first time.

A woman who doesn't like you will give you lots of rules and regulations, such as taking her out to a date, doing talking stages with her etc! It a clear sign she's not interested in you.

If you know how easy women makes it for the guys they like, you won't waste your time texting, calling and chasing a woman who's clearly not interested in you.
It doesn't pain you, for always wailing and lamenting on woman's matter?
Why getting HBP for issue you claim not to be important to you?

The time you are supposed to be using to upgrade yourself, you busy using it to think about woman matters, you will learn your lesson in hard way at evening.
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by lightwind(m): 5:35pm On Aug 22
Please help me and educate me on this matter abeg
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Wotowotoman: 5:35pm On Aug 22
Goo0dHardDick:
It pains me alot when I see men misbehaving over a woman.

That girl playing hard to get for you is clearly not interested in you. The Same girl will gladly give in to another guy within few hours of the guy meeting her!

Understand this, women give in easily to guys they considered highly attractive and are sexually drained to. No games, no stories, no talking stage trash whatsoever, they just show up at his place when he asks them to, esp the first time.

A woman who doesn't like you will give you lots of rules and regulations, such as taking her out to a date, doing talking stages with her etc! It a clear sign she's not interested in you.

If you know how easy women makes it for the guys they like, you won't waste your time texting, calling and chasing a woman who's clearly not interested in you.
This Ogbeni 👆go dey soapy well well embarassed
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by GloriousGbola: 5:36pm On Aug 22
Fiscus105:
It doesn't pain you, always wailing and lamenting on woman's matter?
..

Because he is not attractive to women

QED
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Nobody: 5:36pm On Aug 22
The rules suddenly warp when they fall.
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Adeling(m): 5:36pm On Aug 22
Who cares what they're playing?
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Hedonisco: 5:37pm On Aug 22
Tinubulation still allow una worry about women shenanigans?

That said, even though the core of your argument is correct, there is a word called 'nuance'. These things are nuanced. It is never strictly black or white, or 1+1=2.

The key rule in the game is that there are no rules. But if I would choose only one rule, it would be 'don't give a Bleep' (emotional detachment and unthinking self-confidence). That's all it takes to enjoy the game for what it is.

Either way, a cultured guy cannot afford to be a simp.
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by LIVINGICONREBOR: 5:37pm On Aug 22
E be like say the great tinubulation neva reach your side. 🥱🥱
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Btruth: 5:37pm On Aug 22
....likewise men too. Most men are not too cheap for a lady to date too. Especially the professionals like us. We see them as toys. 😁😁😁
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by algomachine: 5:37pm On Aug 22
I don’t think so!

A woman can madly be in love with you and still play hard to get, the ones you explained are girls interested in money. A man that really loves a woman would be hesitant to move in sexually or initiate physical contact cos of the strong feelings.
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:37pm On Aug 22
Fiscus105:
It doesn't pain you, always wailing and lamenting on woman's matter? Why getting HPB for issue you claim not to be important to you.

The time you are supposed to be using to upgrade yourself, you busy using it to think about woman matter, you will learn your lesson in hard way at evening.
That's the sole purpose why I'm on nl. Just as same way Geh geh is on Facebook and Tiktok educating men on women's psychology that's how it is with me here too.

You should have known already by now that's the reason why I'm here
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by ThinkSmarter: 5:41pm On Aug 22
Not absolutely true.
Women do make their diligence before agreeing to date a man.
They use the time of playing hard to study your person, future prospects and all other behavioral and biological analysis.
They use the time to confirm your genuineness.
Yes, few will not play hard if they are already into you.
Just like most ladies will oblige sexual advances on the first date.
I'm talking out of experience.
Though, there's always a hint that it may come out positive from the start.
Some will even start reaching out when you have given up on the chase.
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Hezzyluv: 5:41pm On Aug 22
No be person wey chop belleful get power to dey toast woman up and down? undecided
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by SmartMaster001: 5:41pm On Aug 22
If you ignore the signs from her you will see wonder.
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by DaGC(m):
There is still fun in the chase dude😉. It only brings issues when it's overplayed (duration). That is when it becomes childish and a waste of precious time.😮‍💨
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:42pm On Aug 22
Wotowotoman:
This Ogbeni 👆go dey soapy well well embarassed
Check my threads. Na every week girls dey come my house Come sleep. Today is weekend and One is coming over tonight. Meanwhile I'm rejecting another one's call right now because I'm tired of her!
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:45pm On Aug 22
Fiscus105:
It doesn't pain you, always wailing and lamenting on woman's matter? Why getting HPB for issue you claim not to be important to you.

The time you are supposed to be using to upgrade yourself, you busy using it to think about woman matter, you will learn your lesson in hard way at evening.
You should be more concerned about upgrading yourself because I am already upgraded my brother. It's just like telling Geh geh to upgrade himself, lol. Person wey rich pass you? Lol.

I'm richer than you and extremely more upgraded than you by far bro and no cap at all.
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Wotowotoman: 5:45pm On Aug 22
Goo0dHardDick:
Check my threads. Na every week girls dey come my house Come sleep. Today is weekend and One is coming over tonight. Meanwhile I'm rejecting another one's call right now because I'm tired of her!
In your dreams. Ba? Na so o grin
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by nonny1212: 5:45pm On Aug 22
She Simply No Send Your Papa Feelings
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by chudez0147(m): 5:46pm On Aug 22
Who still Dey waste time for girl wey Dey misbehave call am hard to get?

Only simp does that .
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:47pm On Aug 22
Btruth:
....likewise men too. Most men are not too cheap for a lady to date too. Especially the professionals like us. We see them as toys. 😁😁😁
A man must make himself very difficult for women to reach let alone date!
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:47pm On Aug 22
Wotowotoman:
In your dreams. Ba? Na so o grin
Are you so low value? Your self esteem is astonishing!

Learn game my brother! Learn game and you'll be running away from girls because they go surround you
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by SixSeven:
Women naturally play hard to get because what she has or once had was rare. I'm sorry but not sorry, women, what men want in you is your virginity. Let's stop deceiving ourselves. Women knew that and they drummed it into their heads and told them not to give it away cheaply. Even fathers of daughters know. It's not to reduce your whole worth to sex alone but you need to understand this power you have got. It's what makes men go crazy. Some men will behave themselves only to hit that thing. Men don't care about how much you have or who you are.


Men are hunters, they know what is rare, that's why there's value in that thing. Men went to wars for that pussycat they came out from. Stop deceiving yourself. At the base level, we are still animals. This is biology at play and men know it too. Men are not dumb, there is a reason why after sleeping with all the street girls, they want to settle for a virgin. Don't be a dog in their game if you get sense
SixSeven:
Standards are high and it takes years of discipline to maintain the. Most boys just want to hit it and move on and we know this ever since girls entered puberty. Only parents and girls with brothers can relate to this. When you see the adults some people become, you will then understand what they mean by raising up a child to become a proper adult. I am talking about a good girl here. Good girls are not easy to raise and a lot of men are not serious with their lives. Ask men out there who have children and you'll understand what I mean. The way they raise their girl child, they are not raising her for one guy who is NFA to come and spoil her life.


The way people today treat sex, her standards cannot be much higher than before. Read the comments of the boys here on NL. After spoiling the life of another man's daughter, they still want a pure woman to marry. You even see them talking about single moms as used and condemn. They don't take them seriously. Why? Because another man has been there before. If a man gets an olosho pregnant, they insult him for wifing a community borehole wey other men de take enjoy themsleves. Can you see how they reason? I don't need to argue with them but read between the lines. Premarital sex is not good for you ladies. Life doesn't judge the man the way it judges women when it comes to sex. We are not equal. Do not be deceived. Your value is in your virginity. Check out the meaning of the word

noun. a person who has never had sexual intercourse. an unmarried girl or woman.

The only thing that is worth the effort for men is the unconqured woman and he has to pay the price for it. If he has you cheap without doing the rituals, you go ask what are we now tire. Una think say all those traditions are for fun shey? Check history and all societies, why did they preserve the women so much until marriage? It's not even about religion now. Women are the second creators of earth, if them mine that place anyhow, na disaster. Mine am well and all the gold and diamond go flow well.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7644699735466544397


Edit: even women who are secondary virgins, serious men are carefully listening to you on how you see sex. If they see you are easy to get into, you make them doubt whether they can have you at home without problems. Men know what they are doing, don't mind them. That your bottom is the goal and we know. Ignore our double standards.



https://www.tiktok.com/video/7203755082138209582

Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Praktikals(m): 5:49pm On Aug 22
Goo0dHardDick:
It pains me alot when I see men misbehaving over a woman.

That girl playing hard to get for you is clearly not interested in you. The Same girl will gladly give in to another guy within few hours of the guy meeting her!

Understand this, women give in easily to guys they considered highly attractive and are sexually drained to. No games, no stories, no talking stage trash whatsoever, they just show up at his place when he asks them to, esp the first time.

A woman who doesn't like you will give you lots of rules and regulations, such as taking her out to a date, doing talking stages with her etc! It a clear sign she's not interested in you.

If you know how easy women makes it for the guys they like, you won't waste your time texting, calling and chasing a woman who's clearly not interested in you.
This happened to me in the year 2004. I chased a girl for about 3 years but even to hold her hand na luck. Then she started working in her dad's filing station as a fuel pump attendant. A random guy came there, bought fuel, got her number and banged her the same day. Then he started telling everybody that that girl is cheap. The thing put me in severe heart pain
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by AguluLiar: 5:50pm On Aug 22
LIVINGICONREBOR:
E be like say the great tinubulation neva reach your side. 🥱🥱
It's because you don't have a job.

Go and work otherwise, more tribulations await you in the near future
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:51pm On Aug 22
SixSeven:
Women naturally play hard to get because what she has or once had was rare. I'm sorry but not sorry, women, what men want in you is your virginity. Let's stop deceiving ourselves. Women knew that and they drummed it into their heads and told them not to give it away cheaply. Even fathers of daughters know. It's not to reduce your whole worth to sex alone but you need to understand this power you have got. It's what makes men go crazy. Some men will behave themselves only to hit that thing. Men don't care about how much you have or who you are. Men are hunters, they know what is rare, that's why there's value in that thing.
Women knows exactly this thing you just wrote. Because men are so desperate and eager to have it, women will rather trade it for money!
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by gigabyte13: 5:53pm On Aug 22
She no like you , she no like you be that
If you spend billions on her
She go still go Bleep the guy she like even if he is treating her like trash..........
Na so one girl , go see me dey hug me like say l be her fellow girl carry all her frontage dey run me for chest but if her man hold her for hand, she go quick remove the hand.
Them no dey buy love
Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by SixSeven: 5:54pm On Aug 22
Goo0dHardDick:
Women knows exactly this thing you just wrote. Because men are so desperate and eager to have it, women will rather trade it for money!
Yes, this was written in the Manipulated Man

Re: There's Nothing Like Playing Hard To Get by stan4b(m): 5:55pm On Aug 22
This is becoming stale abeg.
How many times will I hear this.
Yet, some mumu guys, instead for them to add value to their lives, na woman them go carry for head.
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