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Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Goo0dHardDick(op): 8:51pm On Aug 25
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 9:00pm On Aug 25
Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what you have benefited from all your relationships with women.

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:10pm On Aug 25
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
WTF is they benefit sex? The woman benefitted graphic design and firewood I guess? A man doesn't benefit sex! The woman does!!

What is you spend yourselves?

U make your hair, nail and face for yourself and yourself alone. How's that the man's business? Imagine a man telling you he is cutting his hair, brushing his teeth and cutting his fingernails as a way of making it seem like he's doing that for you? How logical does that sound to you? Those are what is expected of any sane human to do!

Period pain and pregnancy are both natural and expected for every woman to undergo. How's that what a man benefit from?

How's your period pain a man's business? What does pregnancy has to do with the question on the post? Even animal do give birth because it is natural.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Eba50: 9:23pm On Aug 25
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
hanty, ur d.pix isnt sightly.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Flets: 10:57pm On Aug 25
The average man gets only sex from Nigerian women, which is also enjoyed by the woman.

If checked critically, there is nothing for men in relationships apart from kids from procreation.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by muyico(m): 10:58pm On Aug 25
Job opportunities
Links
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Gbadugbakun(m): 10:58pm On Aug 25
Nothing o, my brother absolutely nothing.

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by SixSeven: 10:58pm On Aug 25
Drama. Women are attracted to drama so you are part of the movie.

Don't you know why they act films with their toys and dolls as girlshuh

Which one do you like?
Romance
Action
Comedy
Thriller
Horror
Adult
Kids
Family

CHOOSE your own

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Mattswaggz: 10:59pm On Aug 25
Absolutely nothing tho some will say "pussy" because they don't understand how good the other gender is at manipulation and gaslighting. grin grin grin.

In this country especially....
-they're as good as dating orphans/almajiri
-they can hardly help you grow in your career
-zero emotional support..they think that cheap thing in-between their legs is all it takes to offer emotional support. grin.
-Zero sense of appreciation
-Zero sense of loyalty....you can be keeling yourself for them and when you can't keep up due to certain circumstances they'll port without thinking twice or remembering all you've been doing for them.
-zero financial support.

Anyways, those still doing relationship na their wahala be that.....we team singles don't face all the problem/pressures that comes with dating those almajiris.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by olumaxi(m): 10:59pm On Aug 25
Kpekus......opueh...... pussycat........ Jerusalem
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Mattswaggz: 11:00pm On Aug 25
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
Meaning relationship in just some form of Ashawo business to you or what?.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Gabanna001(m): 11:01pm On Aug 25
Men benefit only S*X
Nothing more, just s€x
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by JimD(m): 11:01pm On Aug 25
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
You literally made his point: Sex. Sex is the only thing women offer. And in fact, men do all the work. Companionship is abstract. Dog can be man's companion. Status has to do with money. There are so many married men with zero status because their pockets are empty.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by EdiskyHarry: 11:01pm On Aug 25
Men always discussing about women.
Nawa oo

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Rapmoney(m): 11:01pm On Aug 25
The percentage of young men who benefit from relationships in Nigeria is not up to 1%. Na die many of them dey. They are just forcing themselves to be in a relationship.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by techWriter001: 11:02pm On Aug 25
Oh, so simply lovely. Let's see, what fantastic benefits does a man have to offer?
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by 2special(m): 11:03pm On Aug 25
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
You see how human being dey think.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by NaijaCover(m): 11:03pm On Aug 25
As For Me, Way Be, MR BLOGGER, Since my mama born me, till today, I never gain anything from women, apart from SADNESS.

That's Why, when it comes to Blogging Business in nigeria, Mr Blogger is the KING of Bad News, Because I dey expose EVIL THINGS.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by zenburster: 11:04pm On Aug 25
Apart from kpekus, the average Nigerian woman has nothing else to offer.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by cr7lomo:
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
We also go to hair salon for our hair , period is human nature for women... sex, u can use condoms or preventive pills ... all u mentioned...u have them already...
For men, we have to make the money to be able to relate with a woman ...and making money is very very very hard... some die while trying to make it
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by tunize(m): 11:05pm On Aug 25
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
like this you just made sense? '' silence is golden''
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Hezmatosky210: 11:05pm On Aug 25
The problem here is that you try to quantify everything. There are some chilling and quality moments women gives to their men that are not quantifiable. I mean that are priceless. Even nine hundred billion dollars can't buy them. Only that we too dey forget things sad
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by tunize(m): 11:06pm On Aug 25
Gabanna001:
Men benefit only S*X
Nothing more, just s€x
sex is not a benefit for either sex
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Maj196(m): 11:07pm On Aug 25
Nothing, even the s*x na you go still do most of the work. Suffer head men everywhere
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by reverendfather: 11:08pm On Aug 25
You gain absolutely nothing. I don't advice anyone get into relationships these days carelessly
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Bayoonanuga: 11:10pm On Aug 25
Avoid Nigeria broke women for your peace of mind
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by jubrilELsudan: 11:11pm On Aug 25
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WÀRM KÙKÚÑÁSÉ

SWEET FORK

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by tonididdy(m): 11:12pm On Aug 25
If expenses na benefit well you can make that number
1
To
10 on the list
Number 11 I nor go lie (I get dream tea spec, she came with it without any plus or minus 👌) I benefit that one.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by millhouse: 11:12pm On Aug 25
Nothing to write home about
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Thewrath:
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
At bolded,but that is all women want/need from a man,that also explains why a woman can meet a man today and marry tomorrow!

Women also enjoy sex,even more….they just like to pretend because research has shown that they masturbate more….besides,sex is the only thing they can offer to the man.

Woman marry who they can or whoever is ready.
Men marry who Dey love.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by imustsaymymindo: 11:16pm On Aug 25
Women and men are different. There can never be an equal exchange of value as what each gender thinks is valuable is subjective to that difference.

You benefit whatever you regard as beneficial. If you didn't think nothing was beneficial, then why stay in any form of relationship with a woman in the first place?

There is a reason why friends is benefit is named friend with *benefits*.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by faceland: 11:18pm On Aug 25
The mental stability of not battling konji.

Absolutely nothing else (so far).
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