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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Omoawoke(m): 3:01am On Aug 26
Sweet kkpeks
Nice round soft azz
Plenty orgasmz

If you like underestimate the benefits of all these things, you will realize how life could be meaningless without them…

If you think to be in a relationship with a woman has no benefit, try to stay away from them for one year and see if you won’t lose your mental health
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by OredoPikin: 3:04am On Aug 26
Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?
my woman buys me gifts everytime
i am not sure i have even buy her once
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by DMCA: 3:07am On Aug 26
QuinQ:
You miss the point dear Yaba. Why are men saying they want DNA test to be sure the child is there's?
Why are men polygamous? Are all the holes not about the same?
u think say na point i wan make relating to wetin una d talk? cool
na werin come my heads as i see dat part of ur reply na im make me drop wetin come my head out of my own experience cool
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by ZeekrX9: 3:25am On Aug 26
Women brings status? This is NEW.
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by onatisi(m): 3:27am On Aug 26
imustsaymymindo:
So relationship isn't the culprit. It's the individual that decided not to be in a beneficial situation.
he bolded is the most potent truth , some men are having the best of their relationships because they did the right thing , set their boundries and made sure they get the best wheras majority are still following the western culture that a man has to be the only one pleasing the woman and to be at the mercy of the woman alll the time
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Taiwo20(m): 3:36am On Aug 26
As a man, nothing is truly yours. Except the food in your stomach, the cloth on your back and the water you just poured in a pot.

Every other thing could be excused
-You could be training another man's kid
-You could be housing another man's wife
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by VoiceHenshaw27(m): 3:40am On Aug 26
All you listed so far are not expenses. "Period pains" is a normal health experience that almost if not every women go through. If you are talking about companionship, Pet provide genuine companionship and emotional comfort. Moreover, if you mean romantic or intimate companionship, then a woman isn't necessarily the only possibility either.

Talking about sex, sexual pleasure is not exclusive to men. Both man and woman can enjoy sex. Even the cosmetic💄is still provided by man, woman is just a wearing makeup. Lastly, i don't understand what you mean by "tarnish our image".quote author=QuinQ post=140445753]

They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves![/quote]
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by VoiceHenshaw27(m): 3:57am On Aug 26
All you listed so far are not expenses. "Period pains" is a normal health experience that almost if not every women go through. If you are talking about companionship, Pet provide genuine companionship and emotional comfort. Moreover, if you mean romantic or intimate companionship, then a woman isn't necessarily the only possibility either.

Talking about sex, sexual pleasure is not exclusive to men. Both man and woman can enjoy sex. Even the cosmetic💄is still provided by man, woman is just a wearing makeup. Lastly, i don't understand what you mean by "tarnish our image".
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by essentialone(m): 4:00am On Aug 26
Bayoonanuga:
Avoid Nigeria broke women for your peace of mind
Until you meet a Nigerian lady who believes she is from a rich background and can insult every guy at every little impulse. Sometimes without even fully knowing the guy in question.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Kingchineme6(m): 4:23am On Aug 26
That's the reason some guys leave 9ja ladies to face their mama age from abroad, instead to kapi in poverty e better dem use them for survival... Though I don't support it but na you know wetin you wan use this information do grin grin
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Blunt99: 4:30am On Aug 26
Relationship and Marriage benefits women in any aspect you want to think of it.

Men mostly go into relationships for sex, which hopefully could lead to marriage for kids, and family.

But sex, kids, and family drain a man more, and benefit a woman more.

In conclusion, there is no relationship benefit for a man.

The benefits that some will claim is mainly out of ignorance and illusions.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by femi4: 4:32am On Aug 26
Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?
They will tell you sex, but thats mutual
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Blunt99: 4:33am On Aug 26
A more proper question would have been what is your net benefit from relationships as a man.

What have you gotten in a relationship that outweighs what you have given, as a man?

This is where the answer mostly tends to zero.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Blunt99: 4:34am On Aug 26
Flets:
The average man gets only sex from Nigerian women, which is also enjoyed by the woman.

If checked critically, there is nothing for men in relationships apart from kids from procreation.
Sex actually drains a man, and benefit a woman only.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Chemicalsolo: 4:37am On Aug 26
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!...

This is the most stupid response or comment I have ever seen in my life.
It is .kre like an APC response.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by banku: 4:43am On Aug 26
I think you made one of the best points any intelligent lady could give.

The problem for women is that time has changed. Children are no longer important in men's life as they become selfish, ingrates just waiting to inherit and if their father live too long, find ways to dispose of him.

The days women remain loyal friends and compassion are long gone. Women used to serve, flatter and care for men after the birth of children so that men can serve and care for them forever. This was why they said women were smarter!

Today, it is dumb women who claim they are smarter and opened men's EYES. Men discover that women are users. This generation call dutiful men SIMP! Got it?


QuinQ:
Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by bluefilm: 4:44am On Aug 26
Goo0dHardDick:
WTF is they benefit sex? The woman benefitted graphic design and firewood I guess? A man doesn't benefit sex! The woman does!!

What is you spend yourselves?

U make your hair, nail and face for yourself and yourself alone. How's that the man's business? Imagine a man telling you he is cutting his hair, brushing his teeth and cutting his fingernails as a way of making it seem like he's doing that for you? How logical does that sound to you? Those are what is expected of any sane human to do!

Period pain and pregnancy are both natural and expected for every woman to undergo. How's that what a man benefit from?

How's your period pain a man's business? What does pregnancy has to do with the question on the post? Even animal do give birth because it is natural.
Arguing with women is totally pointless and a complete waste of time!

Unless that is what you like to "benefit" from them
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by mirrael68(m): 4:49am On Aug 26
Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?
Go get married to a woman and each of you will live for the other. That is, share your lives together as one- joys, pains, challenges of life, successes of life etc are better processed when shared with your spouse. that was God's plan. Anything outside of that plan is a waste of yourselves and time.
Thank you
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Blunt99: 4:50am On Aug 26
shortgun:
We used to benefit from each other until women started competing with men angry
There has never been any benefit even before now.

Before, men were highly tolerant and overlooked their efforts and contributions in a relationship because of their women loyalty and respect for them.

Now that women have started competing and proving to be equals,

Men started getting conscious of their roles and nonprofit efforts in a relationship.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by geladinho1(m): 4:57am On Aug 26
Nothing at all just everyday funds and sex
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Blunt99: 5:05am On Aug 26
So much for the sex that men enjoy or benefit.

Even men who say they benefit sex don't know they lose more at intercourse and ejaculation.

It is all illusions for the men.

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by naijapikin2(m): 5:13am On Aug 26
MATURITY

THAT'S WHAT I HAVE BENEFITED FROM WOMAN.

THANKS LADIES.. I'M NOW WIDE EYED😎😎😎😎😎
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by SmartPolician:
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
I'm ashamed of the person who dropped this comment. This is exactly why men say that women have fi-sh brains.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by RaptorX: 5:40am On Aug 26
Men benefits from the toto, which is why you approach the woman in the first place.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by cr7lomo: 5:42am On Aug 26
QuinQ:
Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!
In the same animal kingdom...do u see lions hunt for food to give the lioness to feed b4 she allows him to mate... or do u see any female animal fight the male animal for mating with another female ....
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Stephen0mozzy: 6:02am On Aug 26
QuinQ:
OK, why is it said men are polygamous by nature?
Why do you do DNA tests
Wetin be this na 😂😂

For one, I must commend you for being very mature in your response to the guys who are trying to drag you. Lol.

But you're setting yourself up for more drags with these new responses, abi you dey like the attention ni?

Secondly, that man is polygamous in nature doesn't mean that the civilization he now lives in allows him to have sex with all women randomly without consequence. OP's point was that if a man desires to have sex, he usually has to get it in exchange for what he toiled for - his resources - while the woman only gives her consent, for both of them to have their reproductive organs touch each other.

Mind you, both of them enjoy this session.

You earlier compared Humans to animals in the wild, that world ended with the Neanderthal.

Lastly, men want to do DNA, because most women can't even give fidelity to one partner, and the man do not want to be responsible for an offspring thay they did not father. It only says something about the irresponsibility of women, not the man.
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by epainos: 6:11am On Aug 26
Approaching 300M population, yet, its all about sex, procreation, & the demand for relationship dominance. Poverty has a way of making you look like a person who should be worshipped. Before your eyes clear, it has eaten deep to stage 4 poverty-cancer. The rest is hospice strategy to only make you just feel like a human. That is when you resigned to going on TV to beg for money, even people would just pity you & dash you small change, churches give you some tokens too.

Continue....keep promoting threads like this. Una go all collect from poverty. E go reward you well. Dont start promoting threads that will make these ones tap into innovative skills. Keep pushing skills to make that your third leg raise above wetin go flat am finally. Poverty will flatten it for you. Dont worry. Continue!!!
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by occfx:
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
Una too dey selfish... You no benefit the same sex, companionship, status (see my man) etc? Without spending shishi?
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Gotocourt: 6:20am On Aug 26
Bad character, Gonorrhea, scabies angry
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Gotocourt: 6:26am On Aug 26
ZeekrX9:
Women brings status? This is NEW.
Women and fantasy,very anyhow thinking angry
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by begge: 6:30am On Aug 26
Nothing
Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by ogascomax: 6:30am On Aug 26
QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!
Of all things you could think your cost the weakest argument. How is dating you improve any man's status? At my age if a woman had not gotten married nor have a serious man she will be ashamed in a social gathering. Men are wired differently. I don't think you can contribute any meaningful thing in a man's life.
What do you think you can contribute to a man's life that you think he is struggling to do for himself. That is the difference between a smart and an intelligent woman from an ordinary woman.
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