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HopeNeverDies:
Chief... You're right lol ... Harshest truth tho💔

Spending lavishly on a banny doesn't make her love you. In fact, just make sure the attraction is from here 100%

LIVINGICONREBOR:
So many loopholes in your comment. Money!! Money!! Money!!. What happens when the "money" is gone? Cos often times than not, it will happen. Nothing beats raw primal genuine attraction/desire.
When I was in the "world" those so called women of rich men, nah my abode we dey fire down.
You must build yourself in such a way money becomes just an "addendum" in the grand scheme of things.🥱🥱

Kriximpecable:
This has always been my mindset too but most times I’m scared because these women are wise you might finish spending heavily on them and they start giving you attitude and run which makes it difficult for you to Pound them. So how do you do yours so you can pipe them immediately after spending

AlabiKILLER2023:
Not everybody's looking for who to love em

Some of us just want to pipe em girls
And move on the next girl

You need money to live that kind of life style

Babatunjo:
Bro, that's exactly the point of the thread. 😂

If you're asking how much to spend so you can "pipe her immediately", you're still trying to buy with money what you should be building in yourself.

Balls and backbone cost nothing. Just knowledge, practice and self-respect.

Spend because you genuinely want to spend. If she already likes you and the attraction is mutual, you don't need to purchase the outcome.

And trust me, when she genuinely wants you too, e sweet pass the one wey you negotiate with your wallet. 😂

Babatunjo:
A lot of Nigerian men confuse spending with game.

Money. Gifts. Hair money. Fancy dates. Surprise transfers. 😂

And yes, spending can get you a woman. Let's not pretend otherwise.

But there's a difference between a woman wanting you and wanting the benefits of being with you.

She's giving you cold energy, you send money.

She's pulling away, you buy a bigger gift.

She's not excited about you, you upgrade the date.

My brother, you're not necessarily increasing attraction. You may just be increasing the benefits of keeping you around. 😂

What makes a woman genuinely want you is deeper than spending. Your backbone. Your decisiveness. Your self-respect. That subtle masculine energy of a man who wants her but doesn't lose himself because of her.

Call it spine, balls, testosterone, whatever you like.

Spend on her if you want. Romance her. Enjoy your money together. But let the attraction be there first.

Money can amplify attraction.

It can even buy access.

But you cannot negotiate genuine desire.

Omalicious1:

A wealthy woman once told me that money only attracts broken women, and a broken woman would drain and ruin you without you even knowing, and she won't be sorry about it.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
So many loopholes in your comment. Money!! Money!! Money!!. What happens when the "money" is gone? Cos often times than not, it will happen. Nothing beats raw primal genuine attraction/desire.
When I was in the "world" those so called women of rich men, nah my abode we dey fire down.
You must build yourself in such a way money becomes just an "addendum" in the grand scheme of things.🥱🥱

Babatunjo:
Bro, that's exactly the point of the thread. 😂

If you're asking how much to spend so you can "pipe her immediately", you're still trying to buy with money what you should be building in yourself.

Balls and backbone cost nothing. Just knowledge, practice and self-respect.

Spend because you genuinely want to spend. If she already likes you and the attraction is mutual, you don't need to purchase the outcome.

And trust me, when she genuinely wants you too, e sweet pass the one wey you negotiate with your wallet. 😂

Omalicious1:

A wealthy woman once told me that money only attracts broken women, and a broken woman would drain and ruin you without you even knowing, and she won't be sorry about it.

Emeka71:
But if a babe doesn't want a relationship with me before can she later change her mind?

Omalicious1:

A wealthy woman once told me that money only attracts broken women, and a broken woman would drain and ruin you without you even knowing, and she won't be sorry about it.

segcymoor:
and how many rich lady in Naija?

runningriot:
Volume it up... Women are never submissive to financial needs but emotional needs. Their impulse works with emotional intimacy than anything. They are programmed and wired to look at any man that buys them gifts and give them money to be a weakling... I am not only speaking out of experience from others but this testimony is from someone who witnessed the said situation. My female close confidant, relations, friends and even one of my ex told me that! Apparently, they are more insecure and loyal to the heart that proves they are not their priority. Take it to the bank your gifts might be repackage for another month... So know that if you give your woman money and gifts she might love you because of it and even sharing with another man however, try and see not to give her all those things and see her reaction of her true love in you.

Kolainvest:
This is for broke people who think they have money. If you have proper money and composure, without spending a dime, you would see good girls that want you like they are giving their soul to you.
They might have some crazy fantasy in their head or they might hope you’d like them after sometime so they enjoy your lifestyle with you. Even though you haven’t promised anything, they give it all for moments with your person.

GenFunction:
I swr bro
No be child’s o
Naija ways

Gotocourt:
Just pretend to be responsible and be piping her on the low with a touch of i love you

Nuzo1:
No need to tell a girl you love her if you don’t.

It’s cowardly and a weak approach.

sylve11:
This is funny.

AlabiKILLER2023:
You sounds like a jew man


As a guy wey dey get am clear in this Tinubu economy

You can pipe 10 girls a day if you like

What I mean is after spending for girls and they disappear . Some of them come with that scam mindset of getting your money and run so what tactics do you use? Take for instance you just met a girl today and asking her out and she accept immediately after 3 days she bill you and you send money to her after sending such huge amount to her she disappear what will you do? Or is there a way you do it so you won’t spend for her to disappear?


It's not debatable
Women hardly fend for them selves
They depend on men