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Military on social media needed to STOP



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FOCUS on insurgent and crime general

No be only mama. Na sugar mama. Men are not afraid to approach anyone.

verminnel hope you no be soldier

Who wan chop general meat

Hahaha. Since u choose to join the military u have been programmed to end up with a fellow officer. Carry ur cross ruggedly.

I can date you but am afraid of the aftermath, you should know better.

The problem with having a military girlfriend is this: if you mistakenly beat her, break her heart or make her seriously unhappy she will arrange soldiers from the barracks to give you the beating of your life and lock you up in a military guardroom

Sonnobax15:

Are you truly single madam sojo?

Abi you dey find a civilian boyfriend wey your male military superiors go use do frog jump for the rest of him life?

o,is that the fear una no wan marry soldier girls?

Na trap, you call am na heavy beating you go collect, abi she thinks we cannot remember that guy who was brutalized at a park in Abuja after complimenting a soldier of her beauty?
Anyway fine soldier like this na snacks for Ogas at the top.

stoicgod:
She is already in position of power being a soldier. It will take a man with guts or her colleague in the Army to date her. The reason is simple, power never submit so since she is in a position of power, she will need a more powerful man to make her submit. Not too many guys is ready for that power struggle rodeo.

soldier girls shey you dey see the reason them no wan marry una.there you have your answer

Sonnobax15:

Are you truly single madam sojo?

Abi you dey find a civilian boyfriend wey your male military superiors go use do frog jump for the rest of him life?

Hahahaha, Sonnobax15 wetin be this nah. You dey make rice wey I dey this Sunday afternoon enter my nose bcus of laugh.

stoicgod:
She is already in position of power being a soldier. It will take a man with guts or her colleague in the Army to date her. The reason is simple, power never submit so since she is in a position of power, she will need a more powerful man to make her submit. Not too many guys is ready for that power struggle rodeo.

Yeah that's true. My soldier brother is married to a soldier lady

Yeye. some of you wey those senior officers
don use una toto do sungugere finish.
awon debiri popo
[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140480560]"I go remain single?" — Military lady laments as civilians fear approaching her

A military lady has expressed frustration over what she described as civilians being too afraid to approach or speak to her whenever they see her.

The military lady said she was confused by the way people interacted with her, claiming that many civilians appeared hesitant to speak to her casually.

She suggested that instead of simply greeting her or calling her by her name, people often addressed her formally as “ma” or “officer”

Military lady questions civilians’ behaviour
Sharing her thoughts, the military lady wondered whether the situation could affect her chances of finding a romantic partner.

The military lady said, “I don’t know what to talk at this point because I’m very confused. I don’t know why some Civilians will see me and be afraid to approach me and be afraid to talk to me.”

She expressed further frustration over the formal greetings she receives, saying, “Una no fit say hi mama or call me by my name. Everytime Good morning ma, Good morning ma, or officer, who be officer?”

The woman appeared to be jokingly encouraging people to feel more comfortable around her, particularly those interested in starting a relationship.

She added, “Una no fit say mama can I have your number or can you be my girlfriend? Why una dey do me like this?”

Military uniform and dating concerns spark discussion
The military lady’s comments highlight the perception of authority that can sometimes make civilians hesitant to approach people in uniform, even in ordinary social situations.

Her humorous complaint about remaining single also adds a relationship angle to the conversation, as she questioned why potential admirers appeared reluctant to express their interest.

The remarks have drawn attention for their relatable and light-hearted take on the challenges some people may face when trying to approach someone they perceive as intimidating.

The military lady did not indicate that she had identified any particular civilian responsible for the behaviour she described.

I can't be a civilian in my own matrimonial home.

Make you misbehave make i come dey fear to correct you. pic.twitter.com/PNUridE9wK

— ÓMÒÉLÉRÍNJÁRÉ (@omoelerinjare) August 28, 2026

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Me and one of my guy used to call them "Nri Ndi Oga" Oga's food.
Aunty soldier, you fine sha. But no blame civilians wey no gree approach you.
Your uniform alone carry power, and as most women we know likes power. Una go use the uniform power against the innocent civilian.
So no civilian wants una wahala. Continue to dey service your Oga them until your fellow single soldier acknowledge you, thank you.

Sorry my dear
I feel your pain

But there's no advice or anything anybody can do about it here

No manual

Na make u pray one man come approach u or u yourself go toast man

Na luck

Even civilians self never marry

56 Lienus Mba says they can date a military lady


Gbogbo Lai mohammed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😢

I care less about what she said but I am concerned that she might have a mistake of breaking the military's social media rule of not doing social media in military uniform.

They are actually cool . I dated one that’s very loyal.

They are humans too...you might even be stronger than them

Zonefree:
Nobody get time for nonsense for this country again.

😂

They need to make themselves approachable if they want civilians to show interest in them

She is the kind of lady i like. She meet my spec in terms of looks even though i haven't seen the back side so if i wasn't tired down already with my Mrs i would have searched for and end the problem for you.

Most men want a simp as wife who they can push around with their over inflated ego and when push comes to shove they only last 2minutes in one position and they fear they won't be able to do all that with you.

stoicgod:
She is already in position of power being a soldier. It will take a man with guts or her colleague in the Army to date her. The reason is simple, power never submit so since she is in a position of power, she will need a more powerful man to make her submit. Not too many guys is ready for that power struggle rodeo.

.. what about other female military ladies that.are soldiers in power but they are dating and those that are already married then how do they do it?

Why can't your fellow male military colleagues date or marry you ,.

Persin go toast you now common to miss calls you go carry squad come bundle persin go abuja HQ.

Sonnobax15:

Are you truly single madam sojo?

Abi you dey find a civilian boyfriend wey your male military superiors go use do frog jump for the rest of him life?

Which one be "madam sojo"?

Na watin she dey talk be this ohhhh 😂

Who want marry a Rottweiler for wife?

You are beautiful though but your khaki is hmmm


No soldier man want marry you?

PulaPower:
General’s meat..

Abi?! It is an open secret acknowledged by a few folks that female military personnel furk around alot!... Like ALOT!!!!! from Nigeria to the USA to Brazil to Israel to Russia to [insert name of country] .Infact,they are called "walking matteresses" in some quarters

Was having a chat with a military lady and a misunderstanding ensued.
Next thing,she is acting all aggressive as if I stole her money.
I first borrow sense block her.
We still dey talking stage and you are acting all superior and aggressive....what will happen when we are in a relationship?

Approach o , they don't bite ...

Marry you fellow soldier