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So basically you're admitting to the fact that you guys are also a confused gender, you neither want women to speak up nor be silent... Nothing we do can ever please you guys because you don't know what you want.

And no woman would ever speak to a respectful man in a disrespectful tone, NEVER!!! Learn to respect yourself by respecting others before you can start feeling entitled to their respect.

Bahamas95:
A woman can express herself without sounding disrespectful. Men generally prefer that to having a woman remain completely silent. Complete silence is another form of disrespect.
Disrespect can be sensed from a person’s tone.

I once dated a girl who would remain completely silent whenever she was angry. I asked her sister why she behaved that way, and she said that was simply her nature. You could offend her without even knowing it, and she wouldn’t say anything. Instead, she would start isolating herself.

Guess what? I broke up with her.
I don’t want a situation where a resentful woman would slit my throat in my sleep one day.

Bluntemperor:
GBAM!!!
You men think say Una wise,
oya, answer our lady question ,above ❓.
Sebi,when you de point one finger against someone,the other Four remain Fingers is also pointing against you 🤑.
Life 🧬 -is give and take!

No mind them

QuinQ:
Read what you wrote. Makes no sense

it does make sense.men have talked their own if women talk their own we will also read and learn.we can’t be men and women at the same time.

Oma39:
Abeg explain better the difference between sex and lovemaking

You can have sex without making love

But you can make make love without having sex

highchief1:
it does make sense.men have talked their own if women talk their own we will also read and learn.we can’t be men and women at the same time.

Read what you wrote earlier and tell me how it says this

Sonnobax15:

...,,na female dragons wey dey disguise as babes full everywhere

Well there are still some good cookies ☺️

QuinQ:
OP are you ok at all?
Just like you men, we women also hate all these things. Every human being

Men have spoken
Oya the other gender talk one thing women hate

Lets all kuku divorce and seperate.

Men go their way.
women go their way..

Make nobody meet or toast anybody..

robosky02:
Don't get it twisted

A man does not tolerate a loud disrespectful woman


But if he see a calm composed woman he can do anything for her and leave the loud woman

Absolutely on point

Mckandre:
You're among the minority. Men generally value respect very highly; that's why respect and reputation are the foundation of street credibility.

I didn't not say i don't value respect i just said getting it from my wife is not the kind of respect i value and so through tantrums if i thinks she is not giving me the respect i should know i have. I expect respect from the street if I earn it.

Demanding respect from your wife is like demanding respect from yourself. Of what value is such respect?

Minority which is synonymous to scarcity and uniqueness is what earns most respect. Because i have the courage to turn down what most men crave earns me respect.

What the silence means is that when a women stop questioning some things like why are u late or where are u or maybe are u coming back early and all of a sudden the woman stop then the relationship don remain 2mb and of course that is different from when a man will say a word and the woman will reply with 10 words

Samantha125:
So let me get this straight, men hate it when we talk back, challenge them, and would do anything for their peace of mind, yet a silence of a woman naturally scares them to an extent that they can do anything to find out what went wrong after expecting us to stay silent and not challenge them? Make that make sense to me.

Yet we're considered as the the confused gender...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

QuinQ:
Read what you wrote earlier and tell me how it says this

bros leave me na.if u no understand me or I no understand make we leave am.i no get power

Generalisation...some are not true

Samantha125:
So let me get this straight, men hate it when we talk back, challenge them, and would do anything for their peace of mind, yet a silence of a woman naturally scares them to an extent that they can do anything to find out what went wrong after expecting us to stay silent and not challenge them? Make that make sense to me.

Yet we're considered as the the confused gender...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

You are mixing it up. That silence is not when the man is talking. The silence is independent on its own. Let me put it this way. No quarrel, no argument but a woman comes back from work greet the husband, he responded eat. The woman eat. Everybody goes to bed. Same is repeated two to three consecutive days. This is what OP meant

Solofresh2:
Women aren't confused. You just don't want to admit you understand exactly what we mean. You'd rather play dumb than take accountability

Who do you want them to support if not "them"
Na you get time to dey quote her.

But you said you value your peace of mind and don't want women nagging at you with all those questions because it's disrespectful.

What do guys exactly want from us?

ufine200:
What the silence means is that when a women stop questioning some things like why are u late or where are u or maybe are u coming back early and all of a sudden the woman stop then the relationship don remain 2mb and of course that is different from when a man will say a word and the woman will reply with 10 words

If you don't want your wife expressing herself to you, then what's the use of still holding conversations with you?

stormborn28:
You are mixing it up. That silence is not when the man is talking. The silence is independent on its own. Let me put it this way. No quarrel, no argument but a woman comes back from work greet the husband, he responded eat. The woman eat. Everybody goes to bed. Same is repeated two to three consecutive days. This is what OP meant

ufine200:
What the silence means is that when a women stop questioning some things like why are u late or where are u or maybe are u coming back early and all of a sudden the woman stop then the relationship don remain 2mb and of course that is different from when a man will say a word and the woman will reply with 10 words

I have even explain to her. I never knew someone could give another angle to it. 👍

Samantha125:
If you don't want your wife expressing herself to you, then what's the use of still holding conversations with you?

No body said the woman should not hold conversation. The OP is taking it from the angle of disrespect. Should I teach you how to worship God in spirit and in truth. You can discuss without disrespecting someone .you can as well do otherwise

No woman would ever disrespect a respectful man... The moment a woman starts disrespecting her husband, just know that she's endured a lot of nonsense from him to an extent that she's now reached boiling point and has lost all respect for him due to his lack of self respect.

And what is disrespect according to you?

stormborn28:
No body said the woman should not hold conversation. The OP is taking it from the angle of disrespect. Should I teach you how to worship God in spirit and in truth. You can discuss without disrespecting someone .you can as well do otherwise

Samantha125:
No woman would ever disrespect a respectful man... The moment a woman starts disrespecting her husband, just know that she's endured a lot of nonsense from him to an extent that she's now reached boiling point and has lost all respect for him due to his lack of self respect.

And what is disrespect according to you?

Do you know a man can provide all necessary duties in the house for a woman and yet she still disrespect the man. I just saw a video on Instagram yesterday about a man who just go married. Do you the wife went to meet with her ex on the wedding day to bang? I want to ask, I that respect or not. Respect is not only what you say negatively but actions as well

highchief1:
bros leave me na.if u no understand me or I no understand make we leave am.i no get power

Madam you the one quoted me and wrote something unintelligible

You can perform all necessary duties but still be disrespectful by ill treating your wife without considering her feelings.

Many men would also still be banging various women on their wedding day.

stormborn28:
Do you know a man can provide all necessary duties in the house for a woman and yet she still disrespect the man. I just saw a video on Instagram yesterday about a man who just go married. Do you the wife went to meet with her ex on the wedding day to bang? I want to ask, I that respect or not. Respect is not only what you say negatively but actions as well

Samantha125:
You can perform all necessary duties but still be disrespectful by ill treating your wife without considering her feelings.

Many men would also still be banging various women on their wedding day.

Samantha125 create your thread about facts men need to know about women. Your response now is deviating from the purpose of the thread

I'm not deviating from anything, many of you men never want to take accountability for your actions, always using women as a scapegoat.

stormborn28:
Samantha125 create your thread about facts men need to know about women. Your response now is deviating from the purpose of the thread

How true this write up is!
Kudos to Op.

Samantha125:
So let me get this straight, men hate it when we talk back, challenge them, and would do anything for their peace of mind, yet a silence of a woman naturally scares them to an extent that they can do anything to find out what went wrong after expecting us to stay silent and not challenge them? Make that make sense to me.

Yet we're considered as the the confused gender...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Hi Samantha... you really were spot on about that... that was a good catch... I hope you know this write-up is not true for all men... 5 or 7 or 10 of it might be correct but not all are correct.... Men don't love women talking back yes but, Why will the silence of a woman scare a man? Any man that knows his woman well can figure her silence out himself.

And Samantha... I have a feeling you're a very beautiful lady.

QuinQ:
Not true at all. It is because most women don't like public forum. Not proud to say it, but in real life we women gossip more about everything including men!

Here QuinQ, I really love your honesty.

You seem to be a very down-to-earth lady... And I know I've not seen you before but I'm in love with your mindset and your down-to-earth nature.... Please can we be penpals?

Samantha125:
So basically you're admitting to the fact that you guys are also a confused gender, you neither want women to speak up nor be silent... Nothing we do can ever please you guys because you don't know what you want.

And no woman would ever speak to a respectful man in a disrespectful tone, NEVER!!! Learn to respect yourself by respecting others before you can start feeling entitled to their respect.

You just like arguing for nothing......firstly, every sensible person should know that both points are different and serve different purposes/scenarios but since your agenda must agend you have decided to start arguing as usual.

NOTE:- I don't agree with some of what he said because a lot of it doesn't correspond with me.......I'd like to be with people who can express themselves in proportion to how they feel about actions I've done or words I've said than just keeping it inside provided it wouldn't lead to physical assault tho.

MisterKennedy:
Here Quin, I really love your honesty.

You seem to be a very down-to-earth lady... And I know I've not seen you before but I'm in love with your mindset and your down-to-earth nature.... Please can we be penpals?

Definitely. DMCA you see how to do things? Straight forward, not Yaba Left style!

Me too hate disrespect. I love when men are respectful.