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Maybe the society need to start having more values for the male child;

The economy, the ladies, African cultures that makes marriage horrible, Obsession with Religion, Pornography and Unrealistic Media contents, Terrible and Unrealistic Motivational messages, Modern consumption of dangerous chemicals we call food, modern lifestyles we think are woke.

Imagine if it were the 1800s or early 1900s, you and her would have probably be near a river bank quietly kissing and singing to each other on nature's frequency without any modern noise/distractions.

LordLicifer:
Okay, sure! I don't have the capacity to argue with you it wouldn't change YOUR OPINION or HOW YOU already feels the good thing is, i don't have to agree with your so called point.


Good luck!

😂🤣🤣 Na you create the obligation, na you still dey complain say e too heavy for your head. Na who send you work?

Best of luck to you 😂🤣

This your comment no just make sense😂. So women say they were used for their body nkor? It's even worse in western countries. Over 45% of marriageable women are predicted to be single and they are miserable about it. Men dae spend, if you are broke say so 😂. Your comment is so so ignorant

Merry100:
How I wish Nigeria was convenient to an extent like the USA, UK, Netherlands, Ireland and many other developed countries. Then you guys would have to confront your flaws instead of pushing the blame. While Nigerians are yelling, "No more love," many countries are still enjoying love. Women can experience attraction first before even knowing who he is or what he is worth because survival is not the biggest issue in their country. The economy situation of the country is simply what is enabling you guys to have excuses.

You guys would be shouting, "She played me. She used me. Look at how much I spent on her." How much have you actually spent on a lady? How many of you have used your money to actually turn a lady's life around? Or did you pick the lady from the zoo, forest or desert? 😂🤣 "I housed her. I fed her. I bought her cream." Useless things that people do even for strangers on the street.

If it is transactional love you want, why not just make your terms clear? There is no offence in it. People are doing it, and it is working even better than many normal marriages. All it needs is real money. There are many contract marriages or marriages of convenience out there, and they are working pretty well because the terms are clearly understood and each party plays their own part of the deal well.

The average Nigerian man's mentality is simply that money should create love for him, so he does the bare minimum when it comes to building a strong relationship.

If money is no longer the issue and the majority of people, both male and female, are living comfortably, what would you blame? Would you still stand a chance, or what would you be complaining about? Money is always your excuse for not finding love. Can you really stand among the many other guys and actually be loved if money is not even an issue? First, check yourself before you throw claims around. Do you deserve to be loved? Would you love yourself if you were the woman?

Money is one of the most inexpensive things. All some women ever want is safety and trust.

Love is easier to navigate in many developed countries because living is more comfortable in those countries, their men don't make excuses, they act. Nigerian men want to force "I am giving you some money, so you must love me," but things don't work that way.

Both men and women are conscious of being played. Just as your brain is telling you, "Is all she wants my money?" the woman is also asking herself, "Where do I stand with him? Does he see me as a commodity? Am I special to him, or am I just any girl he can purchase?"

Why should you be chasing someone that will bill you?

Men chased in those days when love was natural, all you needed then was to show interest in her, write her letters while she enjoys the chase by forming hard to get

These days things have changed, relationship is about money, so everyone is going transactional

las las, it is the women that will be the greatest losers!

Guys wey dey even toast customer care representative. 😂🤣 I handled customer care myself this week, and some of the things I experienced, I honestly wasn't prepared for. The moment some male customers realised say na woman dey behind the WhatsApp account, na im the whole conversation dey change direction.

I started receiving complaints about my customer service, so I decided to handle the communications myself, especially through WhatsApp.

My experience with some male customers was something else 😂🤣 Na me be customer service representative, but somehow the whole thing turn around. Instead of me asking questions, na customers dey interrogate me. 😂🤣

"What is your first name?" "How old are you?" "What state are you from?" "Send me your pictures." "If you know who I am you would be thanking your stars"

Like say na dating site or matchmaking platform I dey run. The thing shock me. 😂🤣

Imagine rude customers even claiming I am rude. I didn't know this is what customer care representatives go through.

One was like, "Do you know who you are talking to in this manner?" Just because I replied, "Hi, how may I help you?" after he messaged me with "Hi."

So I replied, "Sorry, I didn't mean to come across as rude. How may I be of assistance to you?"

He then replied, "My name is (proceeded to mention his first name) and I am from ___. What about you? What is your name and where are you from?"

I told him, "I am Miss ___, and I am based in Lagos State."

This man replied, "What state are you from?"

The thing weak. 😂🤣 In my head, I was like, "Wait a minute… what exactly is going on here?"

There were actually more serious-minded male and female customers than unserious ones. I am only brought up the naughty males for this gist 😂🤣 There were rude and naughty female customers as well. It seemed like some of them had just chopped heartbreak and needed somewhere to direct their aggression. 😂🤣

And some of the customers actually had justifiable reasons to be angry. Me too, I sometimes dey become a mad customer with customer care services when things don't go my way. 😂🤣

MERCHANDISER:
It's a trap the matrix wants to use to control us.....sex,marriage,dating etc......DETACH and you will be free😀

this is the comment I was looking to see. These vices were created by the colonial masters so the salves can have more children that will work in their plantations but times have changed.
Then again women have so much monetized relationship and sex, they have turned it to a big time business venture, who would want to risk his finances because of a so called woman.

Ghtgh:
This your comment no just make sense😂. So women say they were used for their body nkor? It's even worse in western countries. Over 45% of marriageable women are predicted to be single and they are miserable about it. Men dae spend, if you are broke say so 😂. Your comment is so so ignorant

He woke up on the wrong side of the bed, picked one unrelated point and started arguing with himself.

And guys would still not agree that they are the confused gender. Okay, come and bail your gender by explaining to me exactly wetin e dey talk 😂🤣

To be frank, those customer care representatives dey try.. imagine a lady weh just chop breakfast and decides to use the services of the said company without success.

Omo..the customer care rep go hear am that day, all the anger and aggression would be transferred to him/her with a touch of insults here and their.

More reason why you'll have be emotionally intelligent to succeed as a customer rep, if not, you won't last 24hrs on the job.

For the toasting aspect, that one na normal thing for any female facing role. Be it sales rep, bank tellers... etc. men go surely shoot their shot.

So how did you handle the guy "HR guy" I mean the one who was interviewing you? Hope you sha revolved his complaint after all the "do you know who I'm" 😂😂

Merry100:
Guys wey dey even toast customer care representative. 😂🤣 I handled customer care myself this week, and some of the things I experienced, I honestly wasn't prepared for. The moment some male customers realised say na woman dey behind the WhatsApp account, na im the whole conversation dey change direction.

I started receiving complaints about my customer service, so I decided to handle the communications myself, especially through WhatsApp.

My experience with some male customers was something else 😂🤣 Na me be customer service representative, but somehow the whole thing turn around. Instead of me asking questions, na customers dey interrogate me. 😂🤣

"What is your first name?" "How old are you?" "What state are you from?" "Send me your pictures." "If you know who I am you would be thanking your stars"

Like say na dating site or matchmaking platform I dey run. The thing shock me. 😂🤣

Imagine rude customers even claiming I am rude. I didn't know this is what customer care representatives go through.

One was like, "Do you know who you are talking to in this manner?" Just because I replied, "Hi, how may I help you?" after he messaged me with "Hi."

So I replied, "Sorry, I didn't mean to come across as rude. How may I be of assistance to you?"

He then replied, "My name is (proceeded to mention his first name) and I am from ___. What about you? What is your name and where are you from?"

I told him, "I am Miss ___, and I am based in Lagos State."

This man replied, "What state are you from?"

The thing weak. 😂🤣 In my head, I was like, "Wait a minute… what exactly is going on here?"

There were actually more serious-minded male and female customers than unserious ones. I am only brought up the naughty males for this gist 😂🤣 There were rude and naughty female customers as well. It seemed like some of them had just chopped heartbreak and needed somewhere to direct their aggression. 😂🤣

And some of the customers actually had justifiable reasons to be angry. Me too, I sometimes dey become a mad customer with customer care services when things don't go my way. 😂🤣

dmgr:
To be frank, those customer care representatives dey try.. imagine a lady weh just chop breakfast and decides to use the services of the said company without success.

Omo..the customer care rep go hear am that day, all the anger and aggression would be transferred to him/her with a touch of insults here and their.

More reason why you'll have be emotionally intelligent to succeed as a customer rep, if not, you won't last 24hrs on the job.

For the toasting aspect, that one na normal thing for any female facing role. Be it sales rep, bank tellers... etc. men go surely shoot their shot.

So how did you handle the guy "HR guy" I mean the one who was interviewing you? Hope you sha revolved his complaint after all the "do you know who I'm" 😂😂

😂🤣 You don already give am HR position. I am yet to know what his complaint was. He went from "Hi" to asking for my name and state. I just ignored the part where he asked again what state I was from and replied, "Sir, please, this is customer service... what exactly do you need help with?"

He sounded like he was interviewing you for the role of a potential girlfriend, hence I named him the HR guy.

Deep down, we'll know what he needed help with, and it isn't related to any challenge he was facing.using any of your product/services.

Good that you remained professional without sounding rude..

Merry100:
😂🤣 You don already give am HR position. I am yet to know what his complaint was. He went from "Hi" to asking for my name and state. I just ignored the part where he asked again what state I was from and replied, "Sir, please, this is customer service... what exactly do you need help with?"

LordIsaac:
Why should any human chase being billed?

Hahahaha this is the most powerful statement I read today

Solofresh2:
It is well with women o—until the men who truly learned stop chasing entirely. Then it's panic and 'where are the good men?'

Nawooo na everything you use AI to write 😭

promiseblinks:
The economy changes the dynamics of the game. It has to do with profit and loss because of the economy. If I go into this what do I get and where is it leading to

Kindly share more on this at your convenience. For the benefit of those open to learning and gaining knowledge, especially regarding the impact of the economy in the dating landscape of today. Not many are aware of economic influence in dating. That's where your knowledge comes in.