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Rapmoney:
We live in a part of the world where it seems to be a taboo for a lady to buy something for her man. Many Nigerian girls are raised right from birth with that mentality that giving is a one-sided thing. The popular notion is that men are givers, while women are receivers. What a warped way of thinking!

The first time I showed a friend a pair of Moccasin shoes my girl bought for me, he was shocked literally. He confessed to me that I was lucky. That since he started dating, no woman has ever bought him even 100 Naira MTN recharge card. I laughed because I know this is same thing so many young men are facing out there. Men in this part of the world are seen as 'sole providers'. They are to provide financial support, security, guidance, protection, etc. They should not expect to receive anything in return, and they must never complain.

Each time this issue is raised, some folks would tell you that it depends on the type of women you are relating with. My brother, let me tell you the basic truth. This mentality cuts across ladies from all backgrounds. Not only junction girls aka kparo-kparo. Even those who are in the banks, legal profession, and other corporate entities think likewise. Their 10 million Naira is exclusively theirs, but your lean 50k is for both of you.

The percentage of ladies who can comfortably give their partners tangible stuffs is very small. They exist but the percentage is like a bucket of water from a mighty ocean. As a young man, just pray that you find such women because the majority you see are nothing but hungry vultures.

If you are dating a girl and you are gifting her things, but she has never given you anything after 6 months, leave her. Na kparo-kparo package be that.

As a man, what has a lady bought for you before?

If you are dating a girl and you are gifting her things, but she has never given you anything after 6 months, leave her. Na kparo-kparo package be that.

boxers mainly,the shirt, she sold it to me

Ps5

Condom

MEGAWATCH:
A car on my birthday, but...... Hmmm!


Come and see wahala afterwards.


I have to sell it for my peace of mind.


😂😂😂

Ha! Woman

Tomilola bought Lagos number plate for my first car. And so many other things but the number plate was most cherished and memorable.

Unfortunately, we didn't end up as a couple due to genotype issue.

Tomi, thank you for all you did. You are indeed rare gem.

There is this girl I know; we are kind of close. We could have dated, though, but I turned the idea down for some reasons. We still remain friends, and even as just friends, she has sent money to me multiple times (especially during my birthday or if she hears that i am broke), bought perfume and creams for me. paid for the food we had when we went out multiple times.

Ahmed0336:
Singlet and boxers.
She wan turn me to cultural dancer

I don receive this one from two different girlfriends. That gender no dey try at all.

Fiscus105:
My then girlfriend, who is now my wife, bought "uncomfortable things" clothes , foot wears among others for me, while we were dating.

Since we started dating up till now, she has made it her duty, to buy my singlet, shots, shaving sticks, toothpaste .
Every good things I have done in my life, including car, I do keep the money in her account.


For people who always lamenting about women, I will advise you to change your own character and possibly change people you mingle with.

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You leave your account and car (whatever that means) with her but you felt compelled to dish out that condescending advice in your last paragraph just because of the singlet and toothpaste you receive?

This life sef.

Not gonna lie, I have been damn lucky. They bought me soooo much

Yogurt after sex

Ladies have bailed me out of problems, so much I can't count.

Honestly, there are a lot of good women. If you keep attracting the bad ones, check your mind.

Gotocourt:
If you are dating a girl and you are gifting her things, but she has never given you anything after 6 months, leave her. Na kparo-kparo package be that.

Do you include twotwo as part of the "anything"?

Rapmoney:
We live in a part of the world where it seems to be a taboo for a lady to buy something for her man. Many Nigerian girls are raised right from birth with that mentality that giving is a one-sided thing. The popular notion is that men are givers, while women are receivers. What a warped way of thinking!

The first time I showed a friend a pair of Moccasin shoes my girl bought for me, he was shocked literally. He confessed to me that I was lucky. That since he started dating, no woman has ever bought him even 100 Naira MTN recharge card. I laughed because I know this is same thing so many young men are facing out there. Men in this part of the world are seen as 'sole providers'. They are to provide financial support, security, guidance, protection, etc. They should not expect to receive anything in return, and they must never complain.

Each time this issue is raised, some folks would tell you that it depends on the type of women you are relating with. My brother, let me tell you the basic truth. This mentality cuts across ladies from all backgrounds. Not only junction girls aka kparo-kparo. Even those who are in the banks, legal profession, and other corporate entities think likewise. Their 10 million Naira is exclusively theirs, but your lean 50k is for both of you.

The percentage of ladies who can comfortably give their partners tangible stuffs is very small. They exist but the percentage is like a bucket of water from a mighty ocean. As a young man, just pray that you find such women because the majority you see are nothing but hungry vultures.

If you are dating a girl and you are gifting her things, but she has never given you anything after 6 months, leave her. Na kparo-kparo package be that.

As a man, what has a lady bought for you before?

You're very lucky if I give you twotwo and that's more than enough.

My last ex paid for my PS5. Ex wife bought me flight tickets to different countries. A female friend got me a woofer for my car, she bought it for her bf but the guy window so she got angry. One paid for a 1200 euros fine I got. These are the most expensive gifts from women😁😁

If woman never give you, make your fellow man give you. This life no hard.

NELLIEO:
last last na verminnel go 🔪kill you. Don't go and get urself occupied

Ahahahahaahahahhaaha

This Rapmoney bros don see shege for women's hands o.

Chai! Take am easy bros. I can understand as I've been there too, but that's life for men.

No too vex

I have never received any meaningful gift from a girl before. 😂 I don’t know if na bad luck or wetin, but na always me dey spend.
My last relationship na the worst. This girl na banker, and she dey do very well financially. But make I tell you, you no fit chop that girl money. 😂
Sometimes, I go even conduct small experiment. I’ll call her and say, “Babe, abeg fit you assist me with 5k? I go transfer am back.”
Even when I know say salary don enter since morning, she’ll start giving me financial report:
“Babe, I have this payment to make… I sent money to my family… I have transport… I need to sort this and that…”
At some point, I go just say, “Okay, no problem.” 😂
But when na my own turn, na different mathematics.
“Babe, I need this.” “Babe, let’s go out.” “Babe, buy this for me.” “Babe, I’m hungry.”
Before I know wetin dey happen, I don become boyfriend, ATM, POS and logistics company all at once. 😂😂
The funny thing be say, I no even mind spending on somebody I love. But sometimes, you just want to see that person voluntarily say, “Baby, I got you today.”
Even if na 2k shawarma and drink, the gesture alone fit make man happy. 😂
Because relationship no suppose be “your money is our money, but my money is my money.” 😭
Sometimes, na not the money you dey look for. You just want to know whether the person you’re spending on can also think about you when opportunity presents itself.
But me sef, I don learn. 😂 Love is sweet, but make sure you’re not the only one supplying the sugar.

Stephen0mozzy:
Brooooo! Moccasin? She's a keeper mehn!

Story story... I'm sure he dumped her for a girl who hasn't given him an handkerchief before.
Men take women who spend on them for granted too much... They interpret it as desperation

A car and she's my wife today.

Smartphone, perfume, textbook, shirts, sweater, diary and foodstuff. My ex sponsored my ECOWAS Passport fee, paid my accomodation, hotel fee, travel fee, etc.
I have only met really nice ladies, until this one. 🌝

My wife don buy plenty stuffs for me.

Infact, na she buy the sandal wey I put on today.

spiceadole:
Story story... I'm sure he dumped her for a girl who hasn't given him an handkerchief before.
Men take women who spend on them for granted too much... They interpret it as desperation

Well, for an assumption, using the word "I'm sure" is a lie abi.

By the way, if you're a good woman, then patiently only accept a good man. Good men appreciate kindness.

Israel5:
Smartphone, perfume, textbook, shirts, sweater, diary and foodstuff. My ex sponsored my ECOWAS Passport fee, paid my accomodation, hotel fee, travel fee, etc.
I have only met really nice ladies, until this one. 🌝

😝 As you nor gree do right by the nice ones, maybe naim make ancestors arrange this wicked one for you

Rapmoney:
We live in a part of the world where it seems to be a taboo for a lady to buy something for her man. Many Nigerian girls are raised right from birth with that mentality that giving is a one-sided thing. The popular notion is that men are givers, while women are receivers. What a warped way of thinking!

The first time I showed a friend a pair of Moccasin shoes my girl bought for me, he was shocked literally. He confessed to me that I was lucky. That since he started dating, no woman has ever bought him even 100 Naira MTN recharge card. I laughed because I know this is same thing so many young men are facing out there. Men in this part of the world are seen as 'sole providers'. They are to provide financial support, security, guidance, protection, etc. They should not expect to receive anything in return, and they must never complain.

Each time this issue is raised, some folks would tell you that it depends on the type of women you are relating with. My brother, let me tell you the basic truth. This mentality cuts across ladies from all backgrounds. Not only junction girls aka kparo-kparo. Even those who are in the banks, legal profession, and other corporate entities think likewise. Their 10 million Naira is exclusively theirs, but your lean 50k is for both of you.

The percentage of ladies who can comfortably give their partners tangible stuffs is very small. They exist but the percentage is like a bucket of water from a mighty ocean. As a young man, just pray that you find such women because the majority you see are nothing but hungry vultures.

If you are dating a girl and you are gifting her things, but she has never given you anything after 6 months, leave her. Na kparo-kparo package be that.

As a man, what has a lady bought for you before?

Choke, my wife, started gifting me things during our dating stage, before I got her stuffs. Basically am not the buying thinhs type of guy, I prefer sending money. But my wife has done the sending and buying of gift for me before I sent her 1kobo. God bless you Tricia

1. A meal at a high class restaurant.

2. Call credit multiple times. She was a love struck teenager while I was a young adult.

Source: My cousin.

Original4u:
Ahahahahaahahahhaaha

No be small 🤣

Before I got married.

My ladies bought lots of things ( footwears , wrist watches, Colognes ,clothes, Cd player stereo etc

One bought me a Yamaha keyboard, music stand , she know how I love musical instruments. Still friends till date. She is married too.

I think some ladies still do. But the numbers has dropped.... 7 outta 10 are oloshos ... Na to dey collect mode dem dey now.