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One thing that makes men suffer unnecessarily in dating is scarcity mindset.

One girl ghosts you, blocks you, rejects you or starts giving mixed signals and suddenly she becomes "the one that got away."

My brother, look around. 😂

There is no shortage of women.

Young guy, older guy. Rich, average, still building. Introvert, extrovert. Different looks, tribes, lifestyles. There are women who will genuinely like your particular package.

Doesn't mean every woman will want you. That's not the point.

The point is that one woman's rejection doesn't make her scarce.

That's why you don't need to chase an ex, resurrect an old rejection or hold desperately to a current woman who isn't aligning with you.

She chose another direction? Respect it.

You chose another direction? Keep moving.

And if she comes back after you've levelled up, you don't need that old validation ('win her back') anymore.

The moment you genuinely understand that there are other women you can meet, appreciate, and be liked by, one particular woman loses the power to destabilise you.

No bitterness. You can even wish her well.



Abundance doesn't mean every woman is available to you.

It means no single woman has to be your last opportunity.

You are actually wrong. There is a perpetual shortage of the childbearing-age women that men want (especially ones ready and willing to have sex), and there will always be.
Take a 20-year-old girl, all men from 17 to 70 want to bleep her, including married ones!

Compare the number of men from 17 to 77 to the number of women from 18 to 45 or 50 who are not pregnant, nursing, menstruating, married, or celibate!

QuinQQ:
You are actually wrong. There is a perpetual shortage of the childbearing-age women that men want who are ready and willing to have sex, and there will always be.
Take a 20-year-old girl, all men from 17 to 70 want to bleep her, including married ones!

Compare the number of men from 17 to 77 to the number of women from 18 to 45 or 50 who are not pregnant, nursing, menstruating, married, or celibate!

If that 20 yr old doesn't want you, she still isn't your last opportunity. 😂

I know fit, fresh men in their late 30s and early 40s genuinely dating women 23/24/25. Normal relationships, no hookups.

The point isn't that every woman is available to you. It's that no particular woman is your last opportunity.

Normal Normal Not far from the truth

Men plenty too

I didn't celebrate my birthday but gifts i got from your gender hmmmmm is alarming.

It's not really gender something............
I can't stop smiling

Diamond098454:
Men plenty too

I didn't celebrate my birthday but gifts i got from your gender hmmmmm is alarming.

It's not really gender something............
I can't stop smiling

Men plenty to nack you not to marry or keep you.

Also be aware that we have far more women than men.

If not that some of my gender are yet to realise who they are. Why should a man be begging a woman for relationship?

Men are meant to be polygamy in nature. Women are the ones that supposed to hustle to keep a man for relationship or for themselves alone and make things work out not the other way round.

Women naturally get tired of men that shows too much value to them.

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As a man, know your value and observe women fall for you easily.

What's your body count

Diamond098454:
Men plenty too

I didn't celebrate my birthday but gifts i got from your gender hmmmmm is alarming.

It's not really gender something............
I can't stop smiling

People need to change the mentality of the only one? How can a guy or girl be the only one out of the billions in the world

Diamond098454:
Men plenty too

I didn't celebrate my birthday but gifts i got from your gender hmmmmm is alarming.

It's not really gender something............
I can't stop smiling

Waoh....

Diamond098454:
Men plenty too

I didn't celebrate my birthday but gifts i got from your gender hmmmmm is alarming.

It's not really gender something............
I can't stop smiling

Men don't just dish out gifts like that. There is usually something in exchange for the gift.. it can be immediate, or later on..


Just like one lady was saying on x yesterday. She said the late cultist guy who they kpai in osun was her big bro in school. That in her first year,the guy saved her from cultists who wanted to assault her. That the guy became her big bro after then. He visited her in hostel,even gave her money,and did all sort for her. A cultist,and just like that

Sometimes some of your gender don't think before they make statements, or do things.

Una no even sabi lie.

You think so?

Bendeco2020:
Men plenty to nack you not to marry or keep you.

Also be aware that we have far more women than men.

If not that some of my gender are yet to realise who they are. Why should a man be begging a woman for relationship?

Men are meant to be polygamy in nature. Women are the ones that supposed to hustle to keep a man for relationship or for themselves alone and make things work out not the other way round.

Women naturally get tired of men that shows too much value to them.

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As a man, know your value and observe women fall for you easily.