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Iambro:
if you tell this guy say na mumu he be he go still argue with you

Na the matter be that

Same guy fit don get over 100k from someone before op send his miserable 15k sef. He expected the angel to be worshipping him..

15k is not enough for breakfast na. You can do better
How 'tùsh' is the babe sef?

Stephen0mozzy:
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You wan impress her na. You dash girl wey nor be your babe money without her asking. Of course she'll "act" like 15k is not a big deal to her.

Let's try something. Send your guy 5k, say make e take guide. Your guy go regard you like say na million.... You know why, him know say na from your heart.

But the ingrateful girl knows/feels you wan off paent. Yo gast send #150k for dinner.

You sent her ₦15,000 for breakfast and all you got was 'good morning thanks.'

You're not concerned about her gratitude. You're concerned about her interest. If she was excited, you'd feel validated. The dry reply tells you she's not into you at least not the way you hoped.
'I'm not asking her out' but you sent 15k. Men don't send 15k to women they don't want. You're lying to yourself. You wanted a reaction. You wanted her to see you as generous, valuable, maybe even a potential partner. You got nothing back.Yoruba culture expects proper gratitude. Yes. A Yoruba girl raised well would say "Ẹ ṣé gan" or "Thank you so much, God bless you." A dry "thanks" is cold. But here's the thing.She doesn't owe you a performance. She gave you what she felt. And what she felt was "okay, thanks." You're looking for reciprocity from someone you claim you're not pursuing. You sent money to a girl you're not dating, expecting a certain level of appreciation. That's not generosity. That's transactional giving disguised as kindness.

If you're not asking her out, you shouldn't be sending 15k. If you are interested, stop pretending you're not and make your intentions clear. Either way, her dry reply told you everything. Believe it.Stop sending money to women who don't match your energy. Send it to your mother instead.

Hezzyluv:
15k just like that for an ungrateful creature? I fit bet u, that thanks no come out from her heart.

The "thanks" is even rude..a complete "thank you" shows more gratitude.

Stephen0mozzy:
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You wan impress her na. You dash girl wey nor be your babe money without her asking. Of course she'll "act" like 15k is not a big deal to her.

Let's try something. Send your guy 5k, say make e take guide. Your guy go regard you like say na million.... You know why, him know say na from your heart.

But the ingrateful girl knows/feels you wan off paent. Yo gast send #150k for dinner.

dey mind the mumu. E don see wetin e dey find na. Next time he should make it 30k. Maybe she go prostrate for am. Even girl wey dem dey date dem no dey send am 15k for breakfast. Such a dull human being

Father Christmas, mugu.

Merry100:
Actually, "Good morning thanks" sounds too brief. That said, don't immediately conclude that she is ungrateful. Some people are naturally very brief over text, so her response alone doesn't necessarily tell you everything about how she felt.

Personally, I appreciate thoughtful gestures, whether they involve money or not. The last thing I am is an entitled person. If it were just a friend, I would genuinely appreciate the gesture, no matter how small the amount was.

But if it were my boyfriend, that would be a completely different situation. I'm an overthinker, so it would honestly be better for him not to send me money at all, or just send me airtime worth that amount, because a bf sending 15,000 naira directly into my account would have me wondering and overthinking everything. My expression of gratitude would probably just be mere formality because I would be too busy wondering what exactly prompted the transfer 😂. Unless he had a history of sending me meaningful amounts as gifts, I would definitely overthink it.

If I can remember correctly, I was still a minor when my first bank account was opened. From my first account to all the other accounts I have, I can't remember a time when a guy, whether a friend or a boyfriend, sent 15,000 naira into my account as a gift.

you're a woman. God bless you for this. Btw I love how you write. How can I write like this? Your grammar is well structured. Gimme tips abeg

Everybody cannot be wise

You expect her to put an ad on a billboard in lekki cause you gave her money..You want her to give thanksgiving in church cos you gave her money?..You no fit help your fellow man but you want her to shine your shoe ba,OZWOR..

Plentydreams:
I am not saying it's wrong,but if you are a Yoruba you will understand that is not a true appreciation

you said you are not asking her out. The same you is not cool the way she said only thanks.
Let me ask. What was exactly ur intention giving her dt money? wat kind of response do you want to hear from her or how do you want her to say it?

Or you label her appreciation as incomplete because she didn't follow it up wit the usual sycophant prayer and appreciation we are use to hearing. "Thank you for yesterday" we enter the third day, she repeats it again. "Thank for for day before yesterday"

when we give and we get disturbed because we dint hear the kind of response frm the receiver. Then such giving is not frm the heart.

Except ur tying to pass a msg to the gal dt "I am the one dt is helping ur life. If I didn't send you dt money, you for die". so greet me multiple times anytym we chat or see.

Hi

Plentydreams:
Then it's ok

I totally understand you. I'm Yoruba too, trust me when I say you feeling the way you feel about her is just the mood you are when you received her message. That same message may invoke a feeling if her being grateful enough if you received it in a better mood. Your feeling of her not being grateful or grateful enough is valid though. But I would not advise you to expect thanks from people you receive from, so when you receive thanks both your feelings will light up and still receive from the universe because whatever you gives out has a way of coming back to you and when they don't show gratitude your feelings won't darken much.

here to decode an average tinubu supporter's phycology, this one is a total knockoff reason why I don't argue with them in any capacity nor any topic including politics. Mumv

If na me beg you 15k now you go remember say na Tinubu be president

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

stop sending money to girls

Solofresh2:
You sent her ₦15,000 for breakfast and all you got was 'good morning thanks.'

You're not concerned about her gratitude. You're concerned about her interest. If she was excited, you'd feel validated. The dry reply tells you she's not into you at least not the way you hoped.
'I'm not asking her out' but you sent 15k. Men don't send 15k to women they don't want. You're lying to yourself. You wanted a reaction. You wanted her to see you as generous, valuable, maybe even a potential partner. You got nothing back.Yoruba culture expects proper gratitude. Yes. A Yoruba girl raised well would say "Ẹ ṣé gan" or "Thank you so much, God bless you." A dry "thanks" is cold. But here's the thing.She doesn't owe you a performance. She gave you what she felt. And what she felt was "okay, thanks." You're looking for reciprocity from someone you claim you're not pursuing. You sent money to a girl you're not dating, expecting a certain level of appreciation. That's not generosity. That's transactional giving disguised as kindness.

If you're not asking her out, you shouldn't be sending 15k. If you are interested, stop pretending you're not and make your intentions clear. Either way, her dry reply told you everything. Believe it.Stop sending money to women who don't match your energy. Send it to your mother instead.

u dy advise simp...save your advise...people like this guy go lock up if I'm guy need funds..smh

Since your whole friendship, has she ever done the same?

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

If I tell you everything wey dey my mind dem go ban me.


You need to have your brains checked ASAP.

"thanks" is a word of gratitude. I think what you want from her is not just gratitude, but "worship". Unfortunately, she may not see a gift of 15k as deserving of worship. I don't see it too,though.

duro4chang:
I am Yoruba but I don't know what else she should do. Even for Baba God an only thank you we say nau

Come in stop gaslighting this guy.

There are nuances around human communication. You can infer sincere gratitude from the ornamentation...for example,

Ah ah, thanks a lot o; Thank you, I appreciate this; thanks bros, you do well; all indicate effort has been put into the appreciation which, in human communication shows that the effort put into the gift is appreciated.

And don't for one second decieve yourself that it is every thanks offered to God that is received. Go and ask Cain.

She supposed write essay for you because of #15k abi
If na you fellow guy ask you for #2k, you go say, you no get........
So why you dey tell us, maybe we call her ingrates abi....
Thunder fire you there

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

avoid poor people they always have a terrible mentality.make una try Dey date rich kids they hardly need anything from you and anything you do for them is highly appreciated.its not about the girl even ur poor relatives hardly appreciate.Thats just one thing common with poor people

McLizbae:
"thanks" is a word of gratitude. I think what you want from her is not just gratitude, but "worship". Unfortunately, she may not see a gift of 15k as deserving of worship. I don't see it too,though.

thanks is a low effort expression of gratitude and you know it. If I pay for something and you give me my change, I may say thanks or thank you even though it's my right. It's the barest minimum. The ingrate didn't even bother to punctuate her message.

Plenty dreams don see many dreams 😂. Baba she said thank you wetin you want, make she kneel down snap send give you😂.

I think he wants "so much" to be added.

brain54:
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She said thanks. What were you expecting her to roll on the floor?


When last did you gift your father money randomly for breakfast- without him asking?


Not that I'm asking her out as if it's not the same direction you are headed. Person follow highway another follow ikoro for bush path both arrive at final destination... same thing.




SMY (Shake my yansh)


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Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

Your simping is astonishing!

I double dare you to pick any guy here and send him 15k let's see! Ur time starts now!